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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Strahovski1(m): 9:25am On Jan 25, 2016 |
OLUJOSHINS: Please tell me how this is a mistake? She woke in the morning.. went to a friend house.. shamelessly had unprotected sex wth the friend.. got pregnant and wants abortion. . Tell me tell mistake there? The earlier you guys face the truth it will set you free not giving excuses for what is not. I'm not saying I'm perfect but trying to make it seem ok or sugar coat words for the op is what I'm against. Infact I'm perfect in this regard 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by octopusfreaky(f): 9:31am On Jan 25, 2016 |
chaiiii see comments oooo,,if u keep the baby your punishment is just the sin of fornication but if commit abortion mennn dat one naaa double punishment from God forget about what people will say.. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Joe4real1988(m): 10:08am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Dudeweedlmao:. Yeah i giv u credit 4 ur parentz havin u afta been married. Bt i gues u cn nt disown ur daughter ova such a mistake. Advisin her 2 abort is jst lyk tellin her 2 kill nd u tynk d consequences is gonno b on her alone................ My broda letz join handz 2 say NO 2 abortion coz nobdy knwz d branch datz gonno bear fruit |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:11am On Jan 25, 2016 |
D God who did it for me will surely locate u.. But u shld hv observed if d guy truly loved u initially or not. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by cana882(m): 10:35am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Fraih:guy wey don dump himself since run ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by bclemsnews(m): 10:37am On Jan 25, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by kliq(m): 10:49am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Keep the baby.....God bless! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by vicraven(m): 10:55am On Jan 25, 2016 |
boyfriend...dangers of premarital sex....shun...kissing...smooching...sex...pregnancy...denial...all boys are the same... THE END |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Jesus5656(m): 10:58am On Jan 25, 2016 |
The deed has been done. Just face it.. But don't forget to tell your mummy and Daddy... If you were aborted would you have had the chance of living...? I hope not.. Don't forget that Jesus died for you.. Give your life to Jesus.. God bless you |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Zane420(m): 11:02am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles:ieve that abortion just for the sake of it is morally wrong. Not just due to my catholic upbringing but also due to critical thinking and a bit of research. An embryo or foetus for me is a living organism that is still developing and should not be cruelly deprived of the right to develop,be born and experience life. It's like planting a seed,waiting a few days for it to germinate and then abruptly pulling it out of the earth and leaving it to wither. Same applies to the human foetus too and no amount of rationalization can effectively mask it's gruesome brutality. Flimsy excuses are used to murder millions of babies a year cos they are refused to be viewed as separate individuals who need to be protected. If embryos and foetuses are not living individuals why then is it called a double homicide when a pregnant woman is murdered? The only time an abortion can be considered at all is when the foetus poses a grave danger to both itself and the life of it's sustainer and there is no humanly possible way to counteract the danger. Any other excuse is rendered null and void. Preventing a pregnancy is about the easiest thing this days. From condoms to iuds straight away to plain old drugs. Abortion is and should not be an option at all due to the many repercussions involved in its administration. Abortion is murder and of the absolutely worst kind. Who murders a defenceless little baby? Talk less of something more defenceless than a little baby? Who? Please note-i am not condemning you neither am i judging you. I hope what i posted above gives you an insight and helps in shaping up your decision. Goodmorning beautiful one |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mazizitonene(m): 11:12am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Strahovski1:u nailed it bro.......even my first time, i was way younger than her, ofcourse i had a CD on, and when "it" was about coming out, the fear of pregnancy made me pull out even with a CD....and since then i've maintained that discipline.........the lady and her lover both must be sill.y and deserve to be left to their fate......very silly beings......dunno why common sense is this rare 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mazizitonene(m): 11:23am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles:madam, @21 you dont make such expensive mistakes.....your mother had always warned you, society had warned you as well, radio and tv tells you to use a condom or other contraceptives. yet you foo.lishly ignore the aforementioned, went ahead, spread those legs and got pregnant and you are complaining.....if not for one thing i would have said you should be stoned cos u literally cant handle your life even with warnings from afar. But then the deed has been done, live with it.............girls in my uni days in ur situation usually opt for abortion in the very early stages cos they feel this has the potential to ruin their lives.......well, the ball is in your court. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by MadCow1: 11:24am On Jan 25, 2016 |
OP.. Go and Abort that baby and thank me later. Keep it and risk everything.. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by MadCow1: 11:25am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Abort that Baby if you are not ready to be a Mum! Keep that baby and you would have raised the stakes a lot high. Be careful what you want. if you abort it, use a good doctor and a good hospital. Next time use contraceptives darling. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by jashar(f): 11:32am On Jan 25, 2016 |
MadCow1: Are you being sarcastic or real? Would you with good conscience tell your younger sis or daughter to do the same? Benignasweety: Please, which 'God'? And what did he do for you? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by MadCow1: 11:36am On Jan 25, 2016 |
jashar: I will drive my younger sister and daughter to the Doctor myself. Teen Pregnancy is a very dicey matter. It can derail a girls life and always has an impact on her future. My only condition for ladies considering abortion is to make sure they go to a good hospital and its done by a qualified doctor. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by jashar(f): 11:38am On Jan 25, 2016 |
MadCow1: ![]() I'd rather she have the baby and give it up for adoption. Hmmmm.... |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by MadCow1: 11:46am On Jan 25, 2016 |
jashar: Abortion is not a Mistake. Women do get abortions for various reasons. A Mother may be required to have an abortion to save her life so why cant a girl have an abortion to protect her future. If a girl is mentally ready to be a mother and fully understands the responsibilities that comes with having a baby and is ready to bear them please let her keep the baby.. If she isn't, abort it. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by gondon(m): 11:48am On Jan 25, 2016 |
HOW DO I REACH YOU?................. READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES debbysmyles: |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by cana882(m): 12:05pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Just save the child of shame from his friends and school mates. Save him/her from the fact that he should go through unnecessary hardship just because of your carelessness. In summary, abort the baby and save yourself and the child. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by CaroLyner(f): 12:12pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
ChynoBEATS:am 30 infact ![]() |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by CaroLyner(f): 12:15pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Datazone:whao.so you still remember?aight come and get it |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by berryice(f): 12:29pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
All dis pregnancy ,abortion,scared...all d time...y'all read dis every time here...but still choose to get pregnant....na wa carry your pregnancy ure not a kid anymore |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by smartigo: 12:34pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
@ debbysmyles, since your boyfriend will deny you keeping the baby but won't aborting the baby, why don't you play along to get an evidence against him. Ask him to which hospital, doctor and method for the abortion. After committing him to do all the work, then ask him the last thing left is: will he be responsible if anything happens? His response will determine how you will react to the issue on ground and know if he really worth your time. Whatever decision he takes ,either to be responsible or not, the important thing is your health, don't ever joke with it. Cheers! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by snowblaq(f): 12:37pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Most mature response iv ever heard... Decker: |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by trendyprettygir: 1:04pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Nigerian Parents killing their children since 1900 ![]() I don't think your parents will kill you though I wonder?......... when anyone posts a story about getting pregnant people start advising about condoms and pills? Hope you all know that condoms fail and pills may not work always? People use condoms that unfortunately didn't work and took pills after that failed them? Sometimes advising that people didn't use pills and condoms is sometimes odd.... please where you there with them ![]() ![]() @ Op if you are no scam, tell your mom. As for society ..... become deaf and dumb and ignore society... that is after telling your mom. Better still if your mom or dad is harsh try your brother, sister or cousin who is not. However do not let them push you into abortion. It is well.... Please in this situation i STRONGLY advise you to ignore society. And please.... avoid abortion at all cost! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Chartey(m): 8:09pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 11:51pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 5:20am On Jan 26, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Be it with condom or contraps 2me its still a no no ,I've been avoiding sex with my GF for over a year plus.... Upon all her treats n rants......Simply because I'm not ready to bare the consequences of such act... Now we are miles apart due to my un-seriousness N me i like it dat way ![]() I cant ruin our lives cos she's still a student n i Dont even have my own roof on my head Urs cant say he doesnt know the consequences of unplanned pre-marital sex cus he's not a kid I wonder why urs cant keep his jayjay off the sight of your vi-vi just this once Now that it has happened no more i love u i love.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Anyways I'd blame you too sha cos even ashawo dey give her costumer condom, so i see no reason why you lovebirds cant learn that sex must be fully planned b4 having it even though its once. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 5:35am On Jan 26, 2016 |
ogb5: Who doesnt know this b4? ogb5: But it doesnt cost up 2 a million to care for a baby ,does it? ogb5: Ehn yeah you're right tho ... ogb5: Hmm ..... But is dis the baby's fault? Why end it after having unplanned sex ,abi dem 2 no know their current situation ogb5: Hmm ..... My brother tho GOD will forgive but still i wouldn't prescribe such as a solution |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 5:46am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Gbyte: The police for my area like Rape case ehn sote dem go skin you dry ![]() Na den u go know say police dey support the beating wey presido boys dey give you ... Lol |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by ChynoBEATS: 5:58am On Jan 26, 2016 |
Gbyte: Sorry Fame pushed them to this level Thats the life of famous peeps all over the world ................ I have 2 uncles who got married upon the fact that they had an idea that their wive's already had a child .... |
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