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Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
evy1:Lol. Lots of pretenders on here. The best she can do now is abortion. After all, some women here who comment, had already done abortion in the past and still get married. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
DeeTus:And she has everything you need in a woman but the only thing she did wrong was to avoid murder according to your intelligence. Tell me more about intelligence. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: at least you will be a lesson to others out there. your unclothedness belongs to your husband not your boy friend. if you abort it a million things could go wrong, from losing your life to losing your womb. so, just jejely carry the pregnancy to term and give birth. tell your parents. bear the shame, insults, ridicule and every other negativity that comes with it. hunker down and bear it m'dear, life is just about to get very tough for you. keep your head and your wit and you may still be able to make something worthwhile out of your life yet. I wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
seaga:Dont you think men have a problem, a very big one for that matter? Her mistake cannot be forgiven even when she chose the better alternative for herself and her child? Common. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by aku626(m): 10:49pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Ask God for mercy, tell God to help you And the child, By all means keep the child and you'd thank me later. Cheers |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Speechless3:How did you know she's everything a man needs in life? Forget about that. I am not interested in that. What i am utmost interested in, is solution. At worst, her man could marry her or take responsibility for his action. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
DeeTus:ok |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by davspog2(m): 10:59pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Michellla:I was believing her until she mentioned prophecy! Then I remembered have watched this movie before |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Mekzmoney(m): 11:00pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
U would hav tot of dis b4 having sex without CD..... At 21 dat ur meant to focus on ur studies. Ur there having sex.. debbysmyles:pls any lady dat knws she's gonna post such tin shud also post wen she's dating and straffing d guy as well. Tell ur parents and face d consequences. Cos if u abort d baby as ur scared now. U might loose ur life. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Goshiii: 11:00pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Or you would have asked your boyfriend to use a condom, so by now una for continue di flexing instead of you going through your current predicament. My advice to you is that take a decision for you and nobody else. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by emmaeyo: 11:03pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles: It's late to cry over spilt milk, you're 21 and at this point in time you don't need a child, abortion might be the inhumane thing to do , but it's the right option, you can ask for forgiveness after.. Most people don't understand how your life will change after this if you have that child.. You have your life to live, you made a mistake and it shouldn't ruin your life |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Goshiii: 11:04pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Any denial by your boyfriend doesn't change the fact that he is the father of your child so don't worry about that. Take a decision that you are comfortable with. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Goshiii:A condom could break during passion. Doubling it is the best thing to do. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by naijafox(m): 11:13pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Bae wait for the pregnancy to b above.8 weeks,then d $ c can be done, it will not take up to 30 minutes and u would b fine d next day,u might experience dizziness after d suction due to the use of local anesthesia and u will need someone to encourage u during the process, surgical abortion is way better and safer then medical abortion (I.e the use of misoprotol and misoprotel ) this is an emotional period for u, all those shouting "keep the baby" do u know how much for baby food, can she bear the stigma and shame, u all are saying he could be the next Obama*****u forgot that he can also be the next anini or shekau @debbysmyles @op, u alone know the kind of family u come from,hv seen senerio where parents can deny u and you will forced to marry the father who already hate u by then. You will regret keeping the baby and might hate him 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by babz510(m): 11:16pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Eh eh! All dz pple calling pregnancy a mistake sha |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Pamelayoung: 11:35pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Babies are cute |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mako007(m): 11:45pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:Hope u're a fyn gal, I ccld take the responsibilities. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by mykel25(m): 11:47pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
I know many people are only advising u based on the sanity they need to preach in public buh my dear.....if you personally don't feel comfortable keeping d child get a professional to do D&C people do it alot.....forget prophecy don't let that brings fear into your heart, d devil only take advantage of your fears.....it not yet a baby it just a clot blood.... ve so lotta female friends that did it and it just a day internal pain....giving birth to d child that ll be an icon of sadness is not ideal cuz u won't be able to kill d child later....buh if ur mind did not abort don't do it...make u no talk say na me convince u......this is a candid advise no one ll say here 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by sunsewa: 11:51pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
it will profit u to keep it and avoid aborting it,if the current ooni of ife aborted his daughter, at the age he did it,then he won't had a graduate now,also with regards to pasuma daughter he gave a car on her birthday, same with Clarence Peters the rave of the moment music video director, pls save ur live and the baby. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Strahovski1(m): 11:51pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
myners007: You know for sure... don't support what is not right. Don't try to make it seem normal like it happens to everybody. For your info I've never been involved in any abortion because I'm a responsible man. I do not mess around unlike you who assumes everyone is aborting babies at 21. To those supporting trash and to the shameless op.. know this: Abortion is bad thing.. It's not normal. You are a lady getting pregnant at 21 for a boyfriend not even a husband and coming to complain like it's not your fault... you must be a hoe. No explanation. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Olufemiolaolu(m): 11:58pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
debbysmyles:keep d preggy dont waste ur life. The shame u may face is temporary. Be wise. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Catherine29: 12:05am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Babez..there is nothing you can do about this issue except you prefer to die while aborting thereby bring pain and grieve to your family. I will suggest you tell your mum about it, yes its going to be a hard one but u have to try. The highest she would do is cry, beat u and feel disappointed. But life goes on, it has happened period. People will definitely talk as usual but don't mind them, its your mess so you gat to clean it up. The pain and shame is just for 9month and after then you become you again....For the guy,(they are always fond of running away) ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by unilagfreshest(m): 12:15am On Jan 25, 2016 |
If everyone here are saying keep it, don't abort.. Abeg where are those that have aborted? Anyway don't abort too. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Lexusgs430: 12:24am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: Do you know where he resides? If yes, simply tell your Mum and match down to his house, and tell his mum your hanky pankys, has lead to a 9 month course!!! NB: If you don't inform his parents, he would simply keep getting ladies pregnant and keep getting away with it, at the expense of this ladies womb and wellbeing!! |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by stevobabs: 12:33am On Jan 25, 2016 |
I would advise you to leave it. The Lord would provide for your need to take care of this baby. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:33am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Strahovski1: this nigga should be banned pls |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:45am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: bae, He is not threatening U. He is simply telling U of his plan B. He WILL deny It, Old friends will mock U, Church members will insult thunder & lightning out of U, Back bitters will crucify U, Hypocrites will curse U so brace for impact my dear. Its gonna be a painful ride but cheer Urself with the fact that a new Human is growing in U, Look up to the beautiful, yellow face U will see after visiting the labour room, Prepare Urself for the life of a super woman 1 Like |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:49am On Jan 25, 2016 |
debbysmyles: She will dear dats Y she is Ur mother. Ur sweet mother. but be prepared to play by Her rules ooooo if U dare swerve a bit, she will attack U like lightening |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:53am On Jan 25, 2016 |
falconey:ahn ahn, falconey is now a woman? |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by OLUJOSHINS(m): 12:55am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Dudeweedlmao: speak for Urself. |
Re: I'm Pregnant; My Boyfriend Wants Abortion by Nobody: 1:31am On Jan 25, 2016 |
They enjoy in secret and complain in public. Kontinu. Wish you quadruplets ![]() 1 Like |
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