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Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nkasiobi87(f): 4:37pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Hi everyone, after what happened in my husband church on Sunday how he embarrassed me and his worker slapping me. I decided to consult his doctor friend to talk to him ,the only reason he gave the doctor is that the mistress saved his life when he wanted to kill him self because of a woman that died years ago in his church which left him confused then(I traveled with My last child when this incident happen) and the girl telling him not to kill him self is enough that the girl love him and that from that day he swear never to leave that girl nor let the girl feel bad in any situation. He said that the girl is his life. so for me becoming pregnant is enough to make the girl feel bad so he now tries to defame me and make the girl happy.he suggested that the only solution that will bring peace to my family is me becoming friend with the said girl and serving her.and that I should beg the worker that I have forgiven him if I want him to accept me again. Now the girl in question here is rude and proud. she insult me anyhow.she laughed at me now that am going through this with my hubby. today she saw me and started laughing that she must make me leave my home with my 5kids. Now all am asking my self is how can I step so low to the extend of begging my husband mistress just for my husband to love me again. how can I befriend this witch of a girl. How can I worship this girl in my own house all to please my husband. A girl that saved my husband name with Baby m. Will that make me a peace seeker or a fool the more.will a reasonable woman do that? 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Strahovski1(m): 4:38pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
I advice you divorce the man and move on.. What legacy are you leaving for your children? especially the boys? Do not make anymore of yourself a fool. Just leave the man unless there is more to it because i dont understand 219 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by excellencyabia1: 4:42pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
can her contact be despatch so that she will be followed up. beside are you not praying about or are you just crying? God will release disgrace that will meet her. 46 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Smellymouth: 4:44pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Hhmmmmm 1 Like |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Emac34: 4:48pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
i think decker will know better 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nkasiobi87(f): 4:51pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Strahovski1:there is noting more in this, my husband hate to be challenged in any decision he makes.he an authoritarian man so all he is doing is his word to stand. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by myfantasies(f): 4:55pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Nkasiobi87:So u r saying even as a wife ur words r not important, u r being taken for granted SMH I don't pray for such 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Strahovski1(m): 4:57pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Nkasiobi87: And are you comfortable with this authority? Marriage is suppose to be a democracy not a dictatorship 70 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by cruzita(f): 5:20pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
this kind of nonsense and excessive authority from a man makes me hate some men with passion.could u imagine the nonsense? 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Michellla(f): 5:43pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
beg his mistress?? No guy is worth all that stress. 119 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by ipledge10(m): 5:46pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Michellla:even me? 4 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Michellla(f): 5:51pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
ipledge10:i think i told you one time you're an exemption 4 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by ipledge10(m): 5:55pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Michellla:I thrust you 8 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by CaroLyner(f): 6:18pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
the gospel of Jesus Christ—who was the ultimate example of the compassionate "servant leader"—does not allow men to impose leadership in an authoritarian way, nor can men view their role as "head" as part of a God- sanctioned hierarchy that places them over their wives to domineer them or to deny their rights. no husband has the biblical right to stand in his wife's way Nkasiobi87:the gospel of Jesus Christ—who was the ultimate example of the compassionate "servant leader"—does not allow men to impose leadership in an authoritarian way, nor can men view their role as "head" as part of a God-sanctioned hierarchy that places them over their wives to domineer them or to deny their rights. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by tommychow(m): 6:44pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
This is why I beg women to build their career before marriage. Now, you can't leave because you'll have nothing to take care of you and your kids. You're his slave, not his wife and he's in total control over your life. I am a man and I'm telling you men don't just change because of their wives, especially when their wives have nothing without them. Too much pride. You can only hope and pray, nothing else. Good luck. 128 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by pbs4real(m): 6:44pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
myfantasies:dnt worry i wont do that to u. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by pbs4real(m): 6:47pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Cococandy ur attention is needed here 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by tellwisdom: 6:56pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Divorce him with 5kids already?? ...Hahaha 4 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Strahovski1(m): 7:02pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
tellwisdom: The kids is a good reason to divorce. . Ok if you are in her shoes you would let your children grow up into seeing their father have have a mistress.. bully and maltreat their mother? One has to be reasonable.. it has been happening for long even before she had 5 kids. . Yet she went on to have more kids.. and still complain then there is more to it that she is not telling us. 50 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by myfantasies(f): 7:44pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
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Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nkasiobi87(f): 7:49pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
[quote author=Strahovski1 post=42412218] The kids is a good reason to divorce. . Ok if you are in her shoes you would let your children grow up into seeing their father have have a mistress.. bully and maltreat their mother? One has to be reasonable.. it has been happening for long even before she had 5 kids. . Yet she went on to have more kids.. and still complain then there is more to it that she is not telling us./quote] I said that there is nothing more to it .I have been enduring all his maltreat for a long time.you can ask all you need to know as long as you will give me a good advice. thank you. |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by pbs4real(m): 7:58pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
myfantasies:nw u knw ryt? |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by tellwisdom: 7:59pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Strahovski1: Don't mind these women of nowadays. They feel they've assumed total control simply because they had/have a baby for the man. If you no dey make your man happy, or do wetin go make am happy, Aunty Janetii, you are GONE. Shikina- Dem no dey price am 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by cococandy(f): 8:01pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
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Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by ronald4lif(m): 8:05pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Are you working or just a sit-at-home mum? If yes, get the hell out of that marriage before it cost you your life. The man is fully aware you'd never beg the mistress and it's just employing that as a means to torment and suppress you. No sane man would assume his wife will plead with his mistress. No one. The man doesn't only cheat on you but have the cojones to flaunt it on your face? That's extreme and no woman should condone such. You knew he was authoritarian but still went ahead to marry him? Why do you women always proceed to marrying someone who doesn't possess the demeanor that conforms and it's acceptable to you? You must take responsibility for marrying him. He's never the fault but you who went ahead to settle with him despite his repulsive mien. Exit that marriage before it takes your life. 69 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by misspicy(f): 8:06pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Ma,I don't even know what to say please just go and watch this movie Mr and Mrs Abah it tells a lot to oppressed women 2 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by cococandy(f): 8:07pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
So you're the one forcing yourself to be in a marriage where you're not wanted?
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Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Monalisa185(f): 8:17pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
hahaha, this lady is dulling... 1st step- befriend the so called mistress 2nd step- draw her closer 3rd step- give her otapiapia(rat poison) 4th step- be happy CASE CLOSED 58 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by pbs4real(m): 8:18pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
cococandy:hahaha Wicked! 12 Likes |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
cococandy:That last paragraph tho! Chei! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by myfantasies(f): 8:53pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
pbs4real:It's just a case of me being invited to my own wedding |
Re: Must I Befriend My Husband Mistress Before There Will Be Peace In My Home? by Swissheart(f): 9:04pm On Jan 28, 2016 |
Nawa oh... .. ..... Madam I remember talking to you about getting employed somehow.. .. your husband thinks too little of you.. . He thinks nothing good can probably come outta you, he knows you are lacking in courage, hence you have no where to go.... Nd how helpless you are. Prove him wrong!.. . Get a job! Divorce him!... .. Train your kids and be fine! 18 Likes 1 Share |
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