Please, those of you in a serious relationship, whether married or not, endeavour and strive to always check your spouse's phone. Always. Always. Always. Have the password to all their social media accounts. There is no maturity about this, believe me. Dont let anybody tell you otherwise. If your partner refuses to give access, leave that relationship except you are willing to share the partner. I am talking from a very bitter experience. You can never know until you see for yourself.

Peace.

another trash this morning...

Bros calm down.. calm down...

I concur

if i check my babe phone... I go just faint..

If she check my whatsapp messages alone, she go just die..

Whats the point of killing ourselves?

kilokeys:
if i check my babe phone... I go just faint..

If she check my whatsapp messages alone, she go just die..

Whats the point of killing ourselves?

U re right abeg wats d need of dying over a mssg, beta ignore and enjoy ur relationship dan read and die

kilokeys:
if i check my babe phone... I go just faint..

If she check my whatsapp messages alone, she go just die..

Whats the point of killing ourselves?

Then whats the point of being in a relationship

Larryfly:



Then whats the point of being in a relationship

Emotional responsible and mature to know that you can never take a person's individuality or cage them.

They are with you cos they choose to be..

They might occasionally get bored when ur relationship is an a plateau, hang out with some other folks.

If u don't up ur game.. U lose them.. If u do.. They r urs once again

kilokeys:


Emotional responsible and mature to know that you can never take a person's individuality or cage them.

They are with you cos they choose to be..

They might occasionally get bored when ur relationship is an a plateau, hang out with some other folks.

If u don't up ur game.. U lose them.. If u do.. They r urs once again

So we should jettison the concept of fidelity in a rship.

Op learn to respect ones privacy pls.

Someone's heart has just been butchered

Pele op.


I think you are write tho


Not totally sure sha

Larryfly:


So we should jettison the concept of fidelity in a rship.

Naah.. The other way around. We should accept that minute moments of infidelity might happen. Not necessarily full blown sex. Depends on what u call "cheating".. For me, flirting is analogous to cheating, it's just on a smaller scale.

Thats forgivable.. Its normal for every human to try out something more fun.

The issue here is, if u want ur partner running into ur arms every time, then be Fun to be with.

Any guy that will get my gf's heart deserves my respect.. Cos i am Hard compete with.

When we talk about checking each other's phone we always tend to think it's just about cheating. That's wrong. There are a lot more private contents people don't want anyone to intrude or know about them.

There are the business's aspect of it, nucleus family issues, and many more classified details that could have nothing to do with cheating and don't want anyone to know about.

Like someone already said, individualism should be conserved even for married couples. One shouldn't lose their total freedom and privacy just coz they are in a relationship.

kilokeys:
if i check my babe phone... I go just faint..

If she check my whatsapp messages alone, she go just die..

Whats the point of killing ourselves?

one bottle of vodka for you....i no need BP atall

ronald4lif:
When we talk about checking each other's phone we always tend to think it's just about cheating. That's wrong. There are a lot more private contents people don't want anyone to intrude or know about them.

There are the business's aspect of it, nucleus family issues, and many more classified details that could have nothing to do with cheating and don't want anyone to know about.

Like someone already said, individualism should be conserved even for married couples. One shouldn't lose their total freedom and privacy just coz they are in a relationship.

guy, if its business privacy, understandable, not when i see something like 'you have a lovely lips, can i come and kiss' or 'babe see your waist, when will i touch it' gadaaaam! is better i stay clear from his phone

kilokeys:


Any guy that will get my gf's heart deserves my respect.. Cos i am Hard compete with.

I love this part...whaooo

People on this thread be forming as if they don't check their partners phones. Smh.

kilokeys:


Naah.. The other way around. We should accept that minute moments of infidelity might happen. Not necessarily full blown sex. Depends on what u call "cheating".. For me, flirting is analogous to cheating, it's just on a smaller scale.

Thats forgivable.. Its normal for every human to try out something more fun.

The issue here is, if u want ur partner running into ur arms every time, then be Fun to be with.

Any guy that will get my gf's heart deserves my respect.. Cos i am Hard compete with.

Lol. You think so? Dont be too confident bro, not every girl is interested in fun. If you like no dey check ur girl phone from time to time, be thinking ur fun is everything.

ronald4lif:
When we talk about checking each other's phone we always tend to think it's just about cheating. That's wrong. There are a lot more private contents people don't want anyone to intrude or know about them.

There are the business's aspect of it, nucleus family issues, and many more classified details that could have nothing to do with cheating and don't want anyone to know about.

Like someone already said, individualism should be conserved even for married couples. One shouldn't lose their total freedom and privacy just coz they are in a relationship.

My guy, your prevention of STD is from that phone. Leave business and other private issues. Its from your spouse's phone that you ld know the kind of human being you claim you love. Its from that phone you ll know if the person you gave your heart to wants your head. Guy shun all this maturity talk, be smart.

Diddyydiva:



Someone's heart has just been butchered

Pele op.


I think you are write tho


Not totally sure sha

Do you mean right?

Larryfly:


Lol. You think so? Dont be too confident bro, not every girl is interested in fun. If you like no dey check ur girl phone from time to time, be thinking ur fun is everything.

Bro I no get that time.. Or energy. I'll try putting in my quota, if it fails then so be it.

Larryfly:



My guy, your prevention of STD is from that phone. Leave business and other private issues. Its from your spouse's phone that you ld know the kind of human being you claim you love. Its from that phone you ll know if the person you gave your heart to wants your head. Guy shun all this maturity talk, be smart.

You mean you give someone else your heart to keep? Why not destroy it yourself than allow someone else to if you don't need it anymore?

midehi2:

guy, if its business privacy, understandable, not when i see something like 'you have a lovely lips, can i come and kiss' or 'babe see your waist, when will i touch it' gadaaaam! is better i stay clear from his phone

Lol. Guys will always flirt whether in a serious relationship or not. We can't do without flirting and not like we always take it serious. Ladies too flirt and a guy should understand these things too.

Please even if you search his phone and see a lady text reads "thanks for today, can't wait to be with you again, you're a darl" don't take it serious until you catch him red-handed gbenshing.

ronald4lif:


Lol. Guys will always flirt whether in a serious relationship or not. We can't do without flirting and not like we always take it serious. Ladies too flirt and a guy should understand these things too.

Please even if you search his phone and see a lady text reads "thanks for today, can't wait to be with you again, you're a darl" don't take it serious until you catch him red-handed gbenshing.

really? ok ooo