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Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by sannirules(m): 8:35pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Lamentations 3: 27 - 30 |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by asalimpo(m): 8:37pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
My candid advice would be 1) Quit your job. Y? Because, you have to learn how to give yourself (and expect others to) high respect. Continually being pummelled psychologically by insult is doing two things. It's draining your confidence and self esteem and feeding hers (it's like a sadistic high they get off on). The more you take it, the more contempt you accrue from them. Not just worth it. 2) You'll face your fears headlong instead of succumb to them. Overcoming the fear of no work will help you grow instead of being it's captive. In the end after the dust settles you'll feel better for confronting your fears and standing up for yourself. #Fear makes you pliable. That's y bosses can exact s.ex from female staff , renege on formal agreements, refuse to pay overtime, cut salaries etc and get away with it. 1 Like |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by kvngveektour(m): 8:39pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
in a couple of months,there's gonna be mass retrenchment and then someone wants quick her job... #issokay |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Splendidee(m): 8:44pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 8:50pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: Who should people who have bad male bosses blame? Men? God? The way some people reason ehn 1 Like |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:14pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer:I understand your point, there are terrible male bosses as well but such are very common with female bosses |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Jamean(f): 9:30pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Lero15:hmmm! when your bad sides outweigh your good side ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:33pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Jamean:Abi |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:39pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Iyamar:Wow, don't think I can take that |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:40pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Orlarmie:Care to share? |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:41pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
emekamigo:Aiit |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by HaneefahRN(f): 9:43pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Lolz. But seriously some female bosses ehn, u'll feel like leaving the job that same week. 1 Like |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Jamean(f): 9:49pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: babe.. I can relate totally with you. I won't say I'm currently in same shoe because I don carry her matter give God and I believe he'd sort it out. The year started with great emotional depression for me on the slightest thought of work. I had proposed April 31st as resignation date, with or without any job but my friends and mum don't even want to hear of it. I have resorted to prayers and diligence in exerting my responsibilities. I know God hears, pray my dear. This phase too will pass. but learn from it, how to treat subordinates when you are at the other end of the continuum. Good night 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:50pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
fako1: ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 9:56pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
iloveofofo:I understand, sometimes their behaviour makes one dislike them |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 9:58pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: Some could be acting like that because of insecurity but it is madness to claim that women are the problem of the world because of the actions of a woman boss. There are many awesome female bosses out there while we also have many awful male bosses. |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 10:00pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: Actually that isn't true. You are experiencing what it is called gender bais. It happens when you think a female boss/female employee (salary negotiation) is trying too hard when in reality they are not. |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 10:02pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Iyamar:Then there's no point being there, even my own case never reach like that |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 10:10pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer:Women wahala is too much, dats just a fact nobody can deny |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 10:14pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: Well, I am ![]() Why don't you become a boss and know what it feels like ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by shrimati(m): 10:14pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Iyamar:I don't believe you have a job, when you received a slap and hope God fight for you... You have to help yourself. It all depends on the premium you place for yourself anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by HaneefahRN(f): 10:21pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer: Yes, u're right. Tht part of her topic is totally uncalled for. It's all dependent on personalities, |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by glingev(m): 10:22pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
That's what the workplace is like these days 'play hard or go home' |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 10:23pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer:When I become a boss, I won't be as nasty as that ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 10:26pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: You get nasty to get the job done....they refer to you as that female boss You get the job done without the nastiness but with a direct approach.....they refer to you as that fale boss. You get the job done by acting like you are their best friend.....they refer to you as Mummy and they take for a ride if they have to |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 10:27pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
HaneefahRN:Yeah! |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 10:28pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer: ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by peacengine(m): 10:28pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
Quit for what? Don't people in your family annoy you, if you are married will your spouse not annoy you? Will your kids not annoy you one day? Keep working, learn all you can, save up, look for another job then you can quit when you have found another means of income. My 2kobo. |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by missKiffy(f): 10:31pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
daretodiffer:And who says you can't get the job done without being nasty ![]() |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: Did you read the second option? |
Re: Am Thinking Of Quitting My Job by Nobody: 10:32pm On Feb 20, 2016 |
missKiffy: Move up the ladder first, then we can talk! |
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