missKiffy:
This job has made me realise that truly we women are the problem of this world. I started this job on the 2nd of November last year and the Manager who happens to be a lady is everybody's problem in that office.

While working there its been one issue or the other, this lady in question is repulsive, cranky, rude, very proud, talks to people anyhow including an elderly man who happens to be the driver, never takes blame for her mistakes but never fails to magnify every other persons mistake. My mind has left the place since the day I found out that she was looking for a replacement for my position, that was late last month, I had initially decided to leave after collecting my salary for that month before I later changed my mind, as at now I don't know if she still intends to find someone else but my mind is just not there anymore, there is nobody they haven't threatened with a sack in that office, in fact a guy was once sacked just a week after he started work. It's just a small organisation with about six staffs including the boss, she's actually in a relationship with the boss and if they do decide to get married I don't even want to be there by then cos if she can be behaving like this when they are only dating i wonder how she will behave when they get married.

I know a lot of people would say it's best to leave your job only when you've gotten another place but you might not understand what's it's like when your mind is not just there anymore. What do you guys think? Do you think I should quit?
What kinda advice do u seek then since u already know solution to ur problem,follow ur heart simple.

missKiffy:
This job has made me realise that truly we women are the problem of this world. I started this job on the 2nd of November last year and the Manager who happens to be a lady is everybody's problem in that office.

While working there its been one issue or the other, this lady in question is repulsive, cranky, rude, very proud, talks to people anyhow including an elderly man who happens to be the driver, never takes blame for her mistakes but never fails to magnify every other persons mistake. My mind has left the place since the day I found out that she was looking for a replacement for my position, that was late last month, I had initially decided to leave after collecting my salary for that month before I later changed my mind, as at now I don't know if she still intends to find someone else but my mind is just not there anymore, there is nobody they haven't threatened with a sack in that office, in fact a guy was once sacked just a week after he started work. It's just a small organisation with about six staffs including the boss, she's actually in a relationship with the boss and if they do decide to get married I don't even want to be there by then cos if she can be behaving like this when they are only dating i wonder how she will behave when they get married.

I know a lot of people would say it's best to leave your job only when you've gotten another place but you might not understand what's it's like when your mind is not just there anymore. What do you guys think? Do you think I should quit?

daretodiffer:




Who should people who have bad male bosses blame? Men? God?

The way some people reason ehn

Lero15:
@ misskiffy I wouldn't advise you to quit.
Female bosses are most times weird and awkward. They nag too. Just have it in your mind that it's about the job, not emotions.
Endure. I'm sure she has some good sides. They always do.

Jamean:


hmmm! when your bad sides outweigh your good side
just sipping my tea

Iyamar:
Just manage for a while, and get another job first before u leave. My boss son even slapped me last monday and i was force to apologize to him. For doing nothing wrong. He said to me that it is his father company and i cannot do him anything. But i don't have the power to fight but My God is able. Pls manage first. Wishing you all the Best

Orlarmie:
I have the same experience

emekamigo:



To be honest with you,you don't know what it looks like without a job-don't quit till you get another one.Am talking from experience!

daretodiffer:




Who should people who have bad male bosses blame? Men? God?

The way some people reason ehn

missKiffy:

Abi

fako1:



That awkward moment this "UnknownT" happens to be the OP's boss. Before you resign, sack letter awaits you

iloveofofo:
just like wan mumu wey call hersef my supervisor. she no sabi d work yet d ekwensu wont let me be. I never knew i had mind to hate someone so much dt if dey say she is dead today i will jubiliate. She has hurt me so bad dt i do not av an atom of love for her. All i have is hate.

HaneefahRN:


Lolz. But seriously some female bosses ehn, u'll feel like leaving the job that same week.

missKiffy:

I understand your point, there are terrible male bosses as well but such are very common with female bosses

Iyamar:
lol... I just wanna manage finish My school this year commot leave them. Some people are naturally wicked. I shed tears almost everyday for the so call Work.

daretodiffer:


Some could be acting like that because of insecurity but it is madness to claim that women are the problem of the world because of the actions of a woman boss. There are many awesome female bosses out there while we also have many awful male bosses.

missKiffy:

Women wahala is too much, dats just a fact nobody can deny

Iyamar:
Just manage for a while, and get another job first before u leave. My boss son even slapped me last monday and i was force to apologize to him. For doing nothing wrong. He said to me that it is his father company and i cannot do him anything. But i don't have the power to fight but My God is able. Pls manage first. Wishing you all the Best

daretodiffer:


Some could be acting like that because of insecurity but it is madness to claim that women are the problem of the world because of the actions of a woman boss. There are many awesome female bosses out there while we also have many awful male bosses.

daretodiffer:


Well, I am

Why don't you become a boss and know what it feels like

missKiffy:

When I become a boss, I won't be as nasty as that

HaneefahRN:


Yes, u're right. Tht part of her topic is totally uncalled for. It's all dependent on personalities,

HaneefahRN:


Yes, u're right. Tht part of her topic is totally uncalled for. It's all dependent on personalities,

daretodiffer:

Yeah!

daretodiffer:


You get nasty to get the job done....they refer to you as that female boss

You get the job done without the nastiness but with a direct approach.....they refer to you as that fale boss.

You get the job done by acting like you are their best friend.....they refer to you as Mummy and they take for a ride if they have to

missKiffy:

And who says you can't get the job done without being nasty

missKiffy: