3rdlegxxx:
The honest truth of the matter is that only young ones who still see love anytime they see a fine girl or novices and sex starved guys won't understand OP's story; to me it's basic.

I have been jide a lot of times, had girls who had steady boyfriends but once they wanted a wild crazy time, they would come to me, the point is, there is more to a relationship than they love themselves, they look happy together, they go everywhere together, it is very possible the bf might not like sexx or romance or just see it as a once in a while thing while the girl might love cuddles, lots of romance n sexx now if she finds a guy far from her bf and her environment, who likes and gives her these things, she would constantly give her all to him anytime she is with him, I know ladies who are now married but weeks to their marriage still come around for some hot rounds of wild fun, some into marriage with a kid but once they are chanced and can get away would go to that guy as long as he is still interested, the problem here is not trust or ladies, it's basic psychology, we aren't very intelligent in Nigeria, we lie and sugarcoat things too much, we see things from the surface too much that's why I keep saying they are lots of sex starved guys who steadily pay for sexx and they are guys who have come to understand that it's all about the mind games and get to fuvck whever they want and whoever, it could be ur most trusted gfriend, it also seems a lot of the regulars here on Nairaland love to deceive themselves by forming the world is all about boyfriend and girlfriend, thinking giving her money and love is enough to satisfy any relationship or marriage, there is a lot more, there are a lot of ladies hurting and unhappy in their relationships and marriage due to, the guy not giving them enough attention, the guy not really into pleasure but just the 'selfish type of sex' and sometimes she finds a guy who understands her better,who LISTENS to her and urges her to pursue her dreams, who motivates her and understands her wild and naughty sides, they are girls who love to get kinky and try crazy things but can't tell their boyfriends or husbands cos of fear of rejection or of being looked down on or seen as dirty or given an 'Olosho' look like most guys call it on nairaland, there is a lot and girls like Dami are plenty and are many among us here on nairaland, they aren't bad per say, just misunderstood, we expect too much from them but never ready to really understand that they have needs or sometimes love a guy that can see the wild slutty side of them, help them bring out by giving them naughty, pleasure filled sexx and not judge them, but this isn't my thread I should drop my cyber pen here...

I wish i could give you a hot kiss for this. So damn right! M sure some hypocrites will deny this,bt unfortunately it is very true.

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babe don't play dumb, state your points and reasons, i am curious to hear and read from your view.

charlesikhalea:


Ogbeni, lock up, u no get wetin u wan tell me about woman..... Av worked as a stylist, I gave girls to guys, av dated.... I meet girls everyday of my life...... A woman will cheat, if u like be crazy n open...... They will leave u if they want to, the only way a woman will be comfortable with u is if u let her do what she wants, n eventually she will still leave ur ass cos u will be boring. Love fades. Everything does, in an imperfect world don't expect perfection

So true

montezz:

I wish i could give you a hot kiss for this. So damn right! M sure some hypocrites will deny this,bt unfortunately it is very true.

babe ther is no one stopping you from giving me one.... feel free to reach out

The farmers, therefore, are the founders of human civilization. this actually got me thinking, nice quote tho, the farmers?? hmmm

3rdlegxxx:


babe ther is no one stopping you from giving me one.... feel free to reach out

The farmers, therefore, are the founders of human civilization. this actually got me thinking, nice quote tho, the farmers?? hmmm

Lol...i am a farmer. I'm proud to be one.
Your points was a hit back to back lol. Wen i tell people that i can never date a man who is not my kind of crazy 'else i'll cheat on him they take me for.....u knw d rest.

montezz:

Lol...i am a farmer. I'm proud to be one.
Your points was a hit back to back lol. Wen i tell people that i can never date a man who is not my kind of crazy 'else i'll cheat on him they take me for.....u knw d rest.

trust me i know the rest, the thing is, we live in Nigeria, we are Nigerians, most of us grew up with culture and not so much psychology and exposure so thinking outside the box kind of takes effort, people just expects guys to be like this and girls to be like this, no ones thinks of deepen inside, probing past the surface to that point where understanding is the other of the day.

3rdlegxxx:


trust me i know the rest, the thing is, we live in Nigeria, we are Nigerians, most of us grew up with culture and not so much psychology and exposure so thinking outside the box kind of takes effort, people just expects guys to be like this and girls to be like this, no ones thinks of deepen inside, probing past the surface to that point where understanding is the other of the day.

Yeah. I dont decieve myself i know what i want and go straight for it.

3rdlegxxx:


babe don't play dumb, state your points and reasons, i am curious to hear and read from your view.

lol I just made one, I applauded your comment,liked and shared it too

the only thing I have to contribute is that, have it at the back of your mind that no matter how you think you are knowledgeable in women matter,there are exemptions to the rule,a certain percent of women are just not satisfiable

misspicy:

lol I just made one, I applauded your comment,liked and shared it too

the only thing I have to contribute is that, have it at the back of your mind that no matter how you think you are knowledgeable in women matter,there are exemptions to the rule,a certain percent of women are just not satisfiable

Alrite then, oblige me in these certain percentage un satisfyable urges, what is it that can't be satisfied, attention, sexx? ...

Funny enough, I keep asking what women really want in a relationship. Even married women that are comfortable in their homes still cheat, 70%of girls cheat in a relationship but that doesn't mean you shouldn't trust because not all are the same.

montezz:

Yeah. I dont decieve myself i know what i want and go straight for it.

so if you want me, it means you would come straight for me? kind of sounds scary tho

3rdlegxxx:


so if you want me, it means you would come straight for me? kind of sounds care tho

Huh

Before we move to the bottle throwing part, I must tell you a little about bunmi, then about the short scenario that led to the bottle throwing. Note, the knowledge about bunmis involvement came during and after the bottle throwing, and in different stages and different sources, but I'll tell it as it happened in real time.

bunmi was not part of the clique, she was an outsider, we know her cus she was in same department with dave and dami and I, but the boys where not close to her.
Secondly bunmi is dami's best friend, but their nature's are light years apart, dami and bunmi had been friends from secondary school.

now bunmi lived close to dave, practically they live on the same street, but the street is long.
dave used the closeness of his house with bunmi to hook dami to him during those toasting days in school.(One can see all the advantages dave had over others to hook dami).
so in a way, bunmi was friend with dave and dami , but not with the clique, therefore there is a limit to what she knows or understand, she surely did not know about dave plans to get engaged to dami.

now , during the over 4 years of dami's relationship with dave, dami had done the unthinkable, she had been confiding in her friend, seeking advice on how to handle issues with dave as she thought bunmi was more experienced about men matters.
During those times also, dami innocently revealed to bunmi how good in bed dave was, all she practically knew about s*X came through dave.
While dami was feeding bunmi these stories and seeking advice what to do next, dave , who never knew bunmi until she entered the university despite staying on the same street, was getting close to bunmi. Well the closeness was forced anyways, as dave had to drop bunmi in her house anytime he is going home and not stay in his hostel, and this happened often. It later became more frequent when dave started his masters programme.

All these while, dave thought bunmi to be his babe's friend, but we did not know bunmi was looking at dave as the boyfriend she never had.
things became worse as during the burial and few weeks after, bunmi practicaly integrated herself into daves family. She helped with the cooking and all other things, so daves sisters where grateful for her presence.

what really happened between bunmi and dave is still sketchy, the story dave gave is different from that of bunmi, but one fact is that their mouths touched, who initiated it, I dnt know, but it happened while dami was in camp.

Now dami came back from camp same day dave was having his birthday, or at least I saw her that afternoon. We did not want to go to the club for two reasons, one was because a member of the clique had an accident(a story in which you will understand why I dnt trust women), and the other reason was because dave was jobless, all the more reason why the drinks was mostly brought by the boys.

So the clique was in attendance, dami, dave younger sister and some girls where also there.
As the party was going on, bunmi came in ,wearing the shortest of the shortest of the shortest mini skirt I've ever seen with ma eyes. remember I said she is lightskinned, but her thighs were lighter. she was suprised to see dami I noticed.

about an hour later, daves sister caught bunmi holding dave in a sexual way in the kitchen and she started arguing with bunmi. dami heard the noise and when she entered the kitchen dave sister just said " wo, ore re few gba oko e", which means " see, your friend wants to snatch your husband".

dami started with bunmi, asking if it's true, bunmi was shouting ,telling dami to ask dave, dave sister was shouting that's it's true it's true, dave was shouting that everyone should cool down, the boys where shouting , asking what's going on, everybody started abusing each other, and I was thinking , hoping the boys where not as tipsy as I am, cus I can't fit to seperate fight.

dave did a bad job of settling the matter, probably cus he was guilty of part, if not all of bunmis allegations. I was able to get a few things from all the noise, bunmi claims she dating dave, and does not care what anyone thinks, that dave told her he had broken up with dami.
dave sister said she taught all bunmi said was true, as she wrongly thought dave had left dami cus he canceled the proposed engagement and dave did not give her details why.
dami was crying while she was shouting , a tactic with bunmi picked up and it became a competition of who could cry and shout the most. Most of what Dave was saying was "koribe, koribe", meaning "it's not like that, it's not like" which actually was just getting everybody angrier!

I cannot give a full discription of the situation, but if you had been in a shouting match where , emotions and alcohol are involved, you would understand.

The situation calmed down for like 10 min, dami and dave where discussing in a heated but low tone in the passage, bunmi was seated in the sitting room, while daves sister was outside.
All of a sudden, bunmi stood up , saying " mi o ni gba, okurin kan o Le lo mi ko wa lo be" meaning " no man can use me and get away with it like that". she went to where dami and dave was and told him he wanted to see him privately, this got dami angry and she told bunmi to leave them alone, bunmi refused and all of a sudden, a super fast encounter of hair grabbing, nail scratching, clothes tearing encounter ensued.


stay tuned.

The truth about life is that we leave in a very selfish world... The moment we start being selfless and start to consider and respect ur partner, cheating will become a thing of the past

montezz:

Huh

lol, i didn't read that before posting, meant it kind of sounded scary tho.... in a fun way

antispexish:
Before we move to the bottle throwing part, I must tell you a little about bunmi, then about the short scenario that led to the bottle throwing. Note, the knowledge about bunmis involvement came during and after the bottle throwing, and in different stages and different sources, but I'll tell it as it happened in real time.

bunmi was not part of the clique, she was an outsider, we know her cus she was in same department with dave and dami and I, but the boys where not close to her.
Secondly bunmi is dami's best friend, but their nature's are light years apart, dami and bunmi had been friends from secondary school.

now bunmi lived close to dave, practically they live on the same street, but the street is long.
dave used the closeness of his house with bunmi to hook dami to him during those toasting days in school.(One can see all the advantages dave had over others to hook dami).
so in a way, bunmi was friend with dave and dami , but not with the clique, therefore there is a limit to what she knows or understand, she surely did not know about dave plans to get engaged to dami.

now , during the over 4 years of dami's relationship with dave, dami had done the unthinkable, she had been confiding in her friend, seeking advice on how to handle issues with dave as she thought bunmi was more experienced about men matters.
During those times also, dami innocently revealed to bunmi how good in bed dave was, all she practically knew about s*X came through dave.
While dami was feeding bunmi these stories and seeking advice what to do next, dave , who never knew bunmi until she entered the university despite staying on the same street, was getting close to bunmi. Well the closeness was forced anyways, as dave had to drop bunmi in her house anytime he is going home and not stay in his hostel, and this happened often. It later became more frequent when dave started his masters programme.

All these while, dave thought bunmi to be his babe's friend, but we did not know bunmi was looking at dave as the boyfriend she never had.
things became worse as during the burial and few weeks after, bunmi practicaly integrated herself into daves family. She helped with the cooking and all other things, so daves sisters where grateful for her presence.

what really happened between bunmi and dave is still sketchy, the story dave gave is different from that of bunmi, but one fact is that their mouths touched, who initiated it, I dnt know, but it happened while dami was in camp.

Now dami came back from camp same day dave was having his birthday, or at least I saw her that afternoon. We did not want to go to the club for two reasons, one was because a member of the clique had an accident(a story in which you will understand why I dnt trust women), and the other reason was because dave was jobless, all the more reason why the drinks was mostly brought by the boys.

So the clique was in attendance, dami, dave younger sister and some girls where also there.
As the party was going on, bunmi came in ,wearing the shortest of the shortest of the shortest mini skirt I've ever seen with ma eyes. remember I said she is lightskinned, but her thighs were lighter. she was suprised to see dami I noticed.

about an hour later, daves sister caught bunmi holding dave in a sexual way in the kitchen and she started arguing with bunmi. dami heard the noise and when she entered the kitchen dave sister just said " wo, ore re few gba oko e", which means " see, your friend wants to snatch your husband".

dami started with bunmi, asking if it's true, bunmi was shouting ,telling dami to ask dave, dave sister was shouting that's it's true it's true, dave was shouting that everyone should cool down, the boys where shouting , asking what's going on, everybody started abusing each other, and I was thinking , hoping the boys where not as tipsy as I am, cus I can't fit to seperate fight.

dave did a bad job of settling the matter, probably cus he was guilty of part, if not all of bunmis allegations. I was able to get a few things from all the noise, bunmi claims she dating dave, and does not care what anyone thinks, that dave told her he had broken up with dami.
dave sister said she taught all bunmi said was true, as she wrongly thought dave had left dami cus he canceled the proposed engagement and dave did not give her details why.
dami was crying while she was shouting , a tactic with bunmi picked up and it became a competition of who could cry and shout the most. Most of what Dave was saying was "koribe, koribe", meaning "it's not like that, it's not like" which actually was just getting everybody angrier!

I cannot give a full discription of the situation, but if you had been in a shouting match where , emotions and alcohol are involved, you would understand.

The situation calmed down for like 10 min, dami and dave where discussing in a heated but low tone in the passage, bunmi was seated in the sitting room, while daves sister was outside.
All of a sudden, bunmi stood up , saying " mi o ni gba, okurin kan o Le lo mi ko wa lo be" meaning " no man can use me and get away with it like that". she went to where dami and dave was and told him he wanted to see him privately, this got dami angry and she told bunmi to leave them alone, bunmi refused and all of a sudden, a super fast encounter of hair grabbing, nail scratching, clothes tearing encounter ensued.


stay tuned.

Guy, Na story u dey tell us ... Story out of ur own imagination... Gerrara here , infact in Igbo, si eba puo

HateU2:
Do u knw peeps fake perfect relationship in the presence of frnds just for show off .
Do u knw wat dey facing in dir relationship indoors
Do u knw if d 'mr Dami' is not fvcking her well?
Do u knw if he's d lazy type dat comes after 2scds?
Op, stop generalizing and face ur biz.
Ladies don't just cheat, dir will always be an hidden reason for her to do what she did.

You see, one thing about relationships is that not everyone gets what he/she wishes for. Cos humans are not perfect.

The 'Mr. Dami' may even be cheating on her which she got aware of and that may have contributed to her decisions. But the question is why resort to cheating when she still intends to maintain a relationship with her boyfriend? I feel if she has any issues, she should make it known to her boyfriend or just opt out.

There is a high probability that the Dave knows about her movements, except he's a dull guy! Cos there'll always be traces, signs, red flags.

Whenever he may be ready he may make his decision. That's when her likes will be be complaining they went out with a guy for 10 years who later dumped her.

Good story.....

Loving the story already, already gone to buy my big sized popcorn and a chilled 60cl new coke to ease things up...... this is getting interesting, i knew there was more to this story

I'm passing through such a difficult moment in my life right now.I find this thread useful, although it's not like I haven't heard anything of such before or even experienced. I'm so confused, can I ever love a girl again? Or even trust.

wasak:
I'm passing through such a difficult moment in my life right now.I find this thread useful, although it's not like I haven't heard anything of such before or even experienced. I'm so confused, can I ever love a girl again? Or even trust.

Its a phase..ul get over it don't worry,itl hurt sure but ul be fine,P.s don't let the bad experience u had with one girl to affect ur future life and relationships..don't punish another girl for what ur ex did to u..goodluck

Finish this story ogbeni na

3rdlegxxx:


Dude i understand you perfectly, i happen to meet them everyday too, dated, given to friends, had wild crazy fantasies fulfilled, played mind games and observed them, i can tell you psychologically understanding them leaves you at an advantage. Remember some few points. Every girl just wants to have fun at some point, some people need to be left alone to explore and live out their fantasies, i for one understand how the mind works, i know the difference from a way a black girl in east london will act while she is 16-25 and a way a white, mixed race girl would act living in south london between the same age range, the more local and free she is, the more she does what all her peers do, the more exposed she is, depending on area she lives in and grew up the more wild and adventurous she will be but she will do it in a low key way, now notice a girl from a more local town like birmingham, cardiff all in the uk will act very differently, she would be like girls in osun, illorin while the london girls are like girls from lagos, abuja a bit more exposed to their sexual side, same way the difference between a good girl naija girl, always at home, has a boyfriend but has interests, fantasies, could like to be very naughty and want to try out more things but in a low key way, she comes online and forms like everybody else, same girl gets to 25,27 she gets more religions, cuts down on the fun, starts to cut guys off, wants to settle down and get married; she starts with the all guys are bad slogan, goes on about guys are cheats, guys are these and that while the guys too after having loads of fun straffing, wishes to settle down, some are now seeking virgins, good girls but they also come with all girls can't be trusted slogan, all girls cheat, bla, bla, bla and all that, relax guys and babes, understand yourself, let's all be open minded for a week and speak of everything we really want to do, try out without anyone being judgmental, you would learn a lot about how best to handle these situations.

Lolz funny guy, I must tell u this......this ur research will not apply on so many chicks, in this current world when we have girls turning into guys and guys doing likewise this ur doctrine holds no ground, the world is getting complicated by the day. Yesterday I read a post here of a guy falling in love with his friend's wife, I read another one on paper of how a married woman started having sex with her pastor.... The more u try to study humans the more problems u give ursef, in the end who gets a good wife or husband should just be happy.............

and that's how everything went haywire, I did not know who attacked who first, but the fight was so strong that it took about 5 mins to seperate the two of them, never knew women are so strong when it comes to fighting for there rights.
After they where seperated, bunmi had to calm down cus her mini skirt keep rising up anytime she moves vigorously. but dami will not, she kept on insisting that bunmi should leave the house. well bunmi can't leave like that, one side of her bra is loose.
bunmi refused and said if she leaves , dami leaves also, and nobody present can tell dami to leave, not even dave. Some of the boys where even making matters worse by telling dave" you see wetin you cause!",which meant they somehow believed bunmi's story. This caused another round of argument.

Some minutes later, dami , thinking(my thoughts aactually) her next move will show bunmi who really owns dave, grabs dave by the arm and was taking him to the bedroom, while telling bunmi that when she is tired, she will go to her house. bunmi blocked the same passage way where they had the first fight ,preventing them for moving, and insisting that the matter must be settled there and then.
Actually I was confused on what bunmi is fighting for, either it's to claim dave to herself or she just want revenge on dave for using her, thinking her actions will break dami's and dave relationship up(hope you guys can see how a woman's thinking can change from wanting to sleep with a guy to feeling used after the guy has slept with her, in a short period of time).
I could understand what dami was doing, despite my state of highness, she wanted to show bunmi that she still controls dave, cus they had made remarks about each others beauty and their ability to keep their man during their argument in the kitchen. dami also wanted to interogate dave to find out the truth. but she wanted to do both there and then, which was embarrassing both bunmi and dave.

as bunmi blocked dave from moving, dami and bunmi went face to face with each other, eye ball to eyeball, pointing there fingers at each others eyes but refusing to get physical. guess they where both afraid to do cus they had inflicted numerous facial injuries on each other during the first fight, and they where quite visible, more on bunmi's face cus of her skin colour.
The abuse and curses continued even after some boys got between them, then the unthinkable happened .
bunmi is a street girl, good at swear words, more knowledgeable about dami than dami was of her, and also prepared for the fight. so her words where biting harder. This enraged dami that all of a sudden she ran to the sitting room and grabbed the empty bottle of red label that I had bought for the party under the bridGe at apogbon. sensing what she wanted to do , I quickly grabbed her by the waist, then she threw the bottle at bunmi. It hit her in the side of her head but did not break untill it hit the floor. bunmi went on her knees shouting " orimi , orimi". I believe I dnt have to explain what one experiences when a bottle is being broken at a party, the sound is bone chilling. The girls invited scattered and ran in all directions, one even made a mistake and ran into the master bedroom screaming, only to run out after realising it was not the exit she ran into. she was still screaming though on her way out. The other boys too who where not part of the clique took to there heels, maybe they thought dami had killed bunmi.
All of a sudden , bunmi who was initially was holding her head with both hands , picked up a piece of the broken bottle and went for dami. dave was with bunmi in the passage at that moment, saw what is happening and tried to stop bunmi, only for us to hear yeeeeeeeeee!. This came from daves mouth as he, few seconds later, left bunmi alone. The clique, which I thought was made up of fearless boys, strong boys that will stand with you anytime, where no where to be found. Wrong!, my eyes found them, scampering for the exit.

Dami was right behind me as bunmi advanced, different thoughts was running through my head, " why be say na me dey this position!, why be say na only me no get sense to run! why be say na me go die cus two girls dey fight over one man, the fact be say I never sleep with woman for like 2 months, God go allow me enter heaven so! these questions and fifty more ran through my head in less than two seconds.
maybe bunmi thought I was going to try to stop her, she did not know I was about to pee in my pants, she decided to throw the bottle in her hand which missed by inches. she then took the flower vase on the table and threw it.


gbam! it hit dami right at the center of her head, she went to the ground without a sound. bunmi, seeing dami fall, immediately started shouting , my head, my head, and she too feel to the ground and fainted.
I stood there like a drunk Sam loco trying to understand what had just happened, I just saw the fasted and most delayed fainting moves on earth!.

hope you have seen a drunk trying to look serious , well, that's how my face looked at that moment.
What happened next?
stay tuned.

Leriebloom:

I av watched both movies. The so called girl you slept with was quite stupid (no offense), she was with a guy who even loved her enough to not disflower her and yet she still chose to cheat for reasons best known to her.Btw. God wont let me fall prey to such guys.

It happened to my best friend. He met this gal when she was a virgin before she gained admission into the university & he promised not to deflower her since he had intention of marrying her, d gal in question appeared decent & we called her virginia due to d fact she was a virgin, then suddenly when she was in her 4th year, she came to visit my guy one day & one thing led to d other & my guy discovered she had lost her virginity! She was constantly visiting my guy & despite how much he loved sex, he had to restrain himself all those times only for her to betray him!! I have a pretty gal I want to marry but every now & then I'll ask her if she has ever cheated on me & she wil say no but i'm scared!!!

charlesikhalea:


Lolz funny guy, I must tell u this......this ur research will not apply on so many chicks, in this current world when we have girls turning into guys and guys doing likewise this ur doctrine holds no ground, the world is getting complicated by the day. Yesterday I read a post here of a guy falling in love with his friend's wife, I read another one on paper of how a married woman started having sex with her pastor.... The more u try to study humans the more problems u give ursef, in the end who gets a good wife or husband should just be happy.............

My friend have you ever met a psychologist? i doubt that, we don't limit our thinking, we expect change, new happenings, we expect odd things, our thinking pattern is very different from yours, most people's thinking are limited to religious doctrines, i have the liberty of thinking outside the box and understanding that " every action is propelled by a reaction, a factor, something pushes something to happen' there is a reason behind everything, trust those cases you stated are not complex, the reason why you think a married woman having sex with her pastor or a guy falling for his friends wife is odd or weird is because you ask the wrong questions and most times you don't even bother asking at all, you just sign it off as God or Devil at work, you aren't intelligent enough to think of the "why and how" people can be complex, don't worry about them, worry about understanding how the mind works, how crazy it can be and then you might begin to understand people, married, single, heart broken, rapist, terrorist, abusive boyfriend or husband, the biafra fighters agitating for freedom to the married lady who just can't looking for sex outside, until you understand the why or how of these people then you will still see things from your point of view, limited and impossible.

Biafrarep:
It happened to my best friend. He met this gal when she was a virgin before she gained admission into the university & he promised not to deflower her since he had intention of marrying her, d gal in question appeared decent & we called her virginia due to d fact she was a virgin, then suddenly when she was in her 4th year, she came to visit my guy one day & one thing led to d other & my guy discovered she had lost her virginity! She was constantly visiting my guy & despite how much he loved sex, he had to restrain himself all those times only for her to betray him!! I have a pretty gal I want to marry but every now & then I'll ask her if she has ever cheated on me & she wil say no but i'm scared!!!

Some girls can be quite silly. And she actually believed that your bestfriend would still want her after discovering the truth. The guts of that girl. *shaking my head*.
As for the girl you want to marry,if your relationship with her is built on trust, there is no need to be scared then.

I think it goes both ways, you just have to to be sharp that's all so you won't fall mugu.

halfricanadian:
Then because of dami error every oda female shdnt be trusted if na like that we girls no go trust guy again because of jide cos i sure jide get gf and na certified player

Sorry for the intrusion but the truth is "women" these days are never satisfied,i've seen worse cases than this

1miccza:


Sorry for the intrusion but the truth is "women" these days are never satisfied,i've seen worse cases than this

ladies love to explore

1miccza:


Sorry for the intrusion but the truth is "women" these days are never satisfied,i've seen worse cases than this

ladies love to explore .

3rdlegxxx:


My friend have you ever met a psychologist? i doubt that, we don't limit our thinking, we expect change, new happenings, we expect odd things, our thinking pattern is very different from yours, most people's thinking are limited to religious doctrines, i have the liberty of thinking outside the box and understanding that " every action is propelled by a reaction, a factor, something pushes something to happen' there is a reason behind everything, trust those cases you stated are not complex, the reason why you think a married woman having sex with her pastor or a guy falling for his friends wife is odd or weird is because you ask the wrong questions and most times you don't even bother asking at all, you just sign it off as God or Devil at work, you aren't intelligent enough to think of the "why and how" people can be complex, don't worry about them, worry about understanding how the mind works, how crazy it can be and then you might begin to understand people, married, single, heart broken, rapist, terrorist, abusive boyfriend or husband, the biafra fighters agitating for freedom to the married lady who just can't looking for sex outside, until you understand the why or how of these people then you will still see things from your point of view, limited and impossible.

Lolz, this guy u too funny, the more u post the more the child that u re surfaces......I didn't mention anything about God or devil, u did that. My point about all this is simple, most humans cannot be predicted anymore, I didn't say anything was impossible either....u read my post but u lack understanding, as per the way I see things u my friend are a learner, u think outside the box? I don't even see a box, u say am not intelligent, I think u re only intelligent on Nairaland which is pretty common these days. Fake dudes claiming to be real, kids claiming to be adults trying to please every female cos they think they will be getting ass. Everyone else got my point, u kept lamenting about mind control, do u know what mind control is?! U think cos u try ur little tricks on kids u know stuffs about life?! U re just an irresponsible little boy who knows nothing about been a man.......I made my point in my first post, what ever problem u have with lack of understanding u should really fix it...