Roses1:
is ur bf cheating? babe are u sleeping? a guy can open his mouth to tell u that, and u are stil calling him ur bf! he has a girlf, and who knows if u are not his plan b in the other relationship. if u want proof, employ cheaters to catch him. case closed abeg.

bigt2:
Op, sharrrrraaaaaaappppp!
You're cheating.
Why would you portray such a scenario. If you're not dating another man, how would he propose to you? E ma gba mi ke ooooooooo.
Or are you that kind of girl who believe in fantasies and thus tests guys with silly questions
Do you expect him to say hell grovel at your feet at the slightest threat of leaving and tell you he doesn't have a plan called B If I were him, I would tell you I even have a plan up to z.
Park well

Joygalore:
So you actually brought my bro's case with you to a faceless forum for advice,huh? He must hear of this

Achorise:
you have your plan A by telling him, now he has a plan B, by replying you.Now you just fulfilled your plan C by revealing your secrets on nairaland. So get ready for plan D, cos you don't know who is reading this,.

Joygalore:
So you actually brought my bro's case with you to a faceless forum for advice,huh? He must hear of this

tyson99:
If your boyfriend is cheating on you,come and lets cheat on him too

SUPERPACK:

Two months and u will see "Chanji"

Ekakamba:
Joygalore the sister to the nigga have just read the thread

naijathings:





But you brought up the topic of WHAT IF SOMEONE ELSE APPROACH YOU FOR MARRIAGE.... and he did not cry. cos we all know that before a man talks to a girl about marriage they must have been wining and dining for some weeks (cheating if you already hava boyfriend abi ?)

so why is his own giving you heartbreak ?

or you think that your boyfriend doesn't have feelings too ?

you just realized that you are age mates and you start thinking of PLAN B which is IF SOMEONE ELSE APPROACH YOU FOR MARRIAGE but you dont want him to have a plan B.

Na ONLY YOU WAKA COME with plan abi ?[size=14pt]

maybe he was talking of the plantashun boyz album[/size]

Bbsharon:



Thanks, but the plan b girl self is a year younger than him too so I do not think is age issue.

Omotolu:
"what if someone approach me for marriage" implies that you also have "Plan B". There is no offence,if your boyfriend also has what you have. What is good for the geese is good for the gander. You caused his brilliant response. Stop being over-smart.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

repogirl:
OP, you are a student, forget all this plan A and Plan B....you are agemates, there is a high likelihood you won't marry him.

Your guy has a girlfriend in his school, accept it. He will make you feel like plan A when talking to you. Don't be surprised he has told her , you are his plan B. That's if she knows u exist sef.

Anyway, face your studies, that's more important. When you are done with school and you are ready to settle that's when plan A and B will matter.

kingsilly:


OP you and your BAE don annoy repogirl..
Berra apologize

lolaed:


There is nothing wrong with her question. She is trying to see if they have a future together. A loving Bf would reassure her and tell her Why they needed to stick together.

She is just a wise girl. Many other girls would be too shy to ask salient questions until it is too late.

martyns303:

After reading ur comment, I had to go and look at ur dp, not impressed.

kilokeys:
Maybe he has "option B"..


U r lucky.. Pple like us have exhausted the English alphabets... We are now in Greek..

I have option Sigma sef.

We r 7 billion in the world Na.. An slowpoke sef go get at least 500 pple wey go love am like that.

We all have options.. U do too.. So it's best u never bring it up in relationships.. Enjoy the moment, enjoy what u have.. When u see a better deal, move..

He will too.


_{My 5,999th post on NL} I don't wanna waste the next number abeg

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

Bbsharon:



Thanks, but the plan b girl self is a year younger than him too so I do not think is age issue.

lolaed:


There is nothing wrong with her question. She is trying to see if they have a future together. A loving Bf would reassure her and tell her Why they needed to stick together.

She is just a wise girl. Many other girls would be too shy to ask salient questions until it is too late.