Evidence1000:
Op, but it's you that was pained nau. So, why are you now advising the ladies ?

Tundeiab:
SHEY you go happy if a guy dates your sister for 3 years without any plans of marriage in view? Reason am guy!

sinaj:
I pity some girls sha

Tundeiab:
SHEY you go happy if a guy dates your sister for 3 years without any plans of marriage in view? Reason am guy!

ThuGnificenX:
Excuse me! You should ask questions first..
How productive was the 3 years? Is both parties ready for long term commitment? Are u financial ready for it?
Abi once una date reach 3 years na to go marry den suffer for the rest of your life?
Abeg

Tundeiab:


Two thing are involved guy... If you are not ready, forget about wasting people's children time. Also forget about enjoying what a married man should enjoy(sex)

AmiLaHoit:


Ask him o o.
Well, may it be unto u what u proudly did to another
#if na bad prayer, repent from ur ways

ThuGnificenX:
Sorry! We are in the 21st century and dis ladies make it available upon request... So sex is cheaper than breakfast

Tundeiab:


From experience, guys life you give birth to girl-children. Hope you won't complain when karma come calling.

discoprophet:
bro, you were dumped! If you want to catch the "gist", go through your writeup once again

Jblaiseboy:
The way you reacted showed u really didn't love her nd would have not married her if u guys dated for 10 years,...you should have even suggested abortion .

ThuGnificenX:
who is pained?
You never fall victim before?
Wait for it..

Evidence1000:


I don't mean that you are still pained. You were pained before from your explanation.
That aside, happy sunday.

ThuGnificenX:
*Clears throat *
*Grabs mic*

My long time girlfriend played a stupid prank on herself that ended our relationship.
We have been dating for 3 years before the incident and i have grown to understand her and her body, I can tell when she's on her golden week, I knew her ovulation period and also her safe period so making a mistake to get her pregnant was below 5%.
One morning a week after we spent the weekend, she called and was sounding down, I inquired more to why she was behaving the way she was and she said she missed her golden week...
She remained that way for 1 more week (we didn't see within that time) until she called me to say she was pregnant.
I played along and congratulated her of her new 9 months journey but openly told her I wasn't responsible
She snapped o and said so I want to abandon her blah blah, I don't love her, I want to dump her. All dis women melodrama sef, I ended the call
2 weeks later I received a lengthy breakup text on WhatsApp,
It's over she said, she was just testing me and I failed woefully, she loved me so much but am not showing signs to settle down
Haba! How do u test a hotblooded young man with pregnancy,? Anyway I accepted as bitter as it was, I can't keep a woman that plays such crazy unguided prank on me.


So Romancelander babes I beg all of u unless u want to find urself back in the stock market, don't ever ever ever ever ever ever try this, it's better u are pregnant than fake it for a test of love. Not every guy is ready for that now with this economic hardship.
And guys pls and pls... This are hard times, pay more attention to little details. Learn more about this women so u don't fall victim.


That's all
*drops mic*
Grabs Bible.
Off to church...

Jblaiseboy:
The way you reacted showed u really didn't love her nd would have not married her if u guys dated for 10 years,...you should have even suggested abortion .

ThuGnificenX:
y'all shouldn't make it sound like my time wasn't also wasted, why do ladies feel they are the ones been cheated most times? Who give una that right?

I don't seem to understand Nigerian men,to God,haba,they will be the one to throw jibes and insults at unmarried ladies that are of certain age,yet you are here telling us that ladies shouldn't feel cheated,in our society,a lady does not have time to play dilly dally with relationships,a 3years relationship is enough to tell where you are both heading,except for unforseen circumstances,heck,a 6 months old relationship leads to marriage most times.


PS : am not concerned about your writeup,I only have to contribute to this comment

misspicy:

I don't seem to understand Nigerian men,to God,haba,they will be the one to throw jibes and insults at unmarried ladies that are of certain age,yet you are here telling us that ladies shouldn't feel cheated,in our society,a lady does not have time to play dilly dally with relationships,a 3years relationship is enough to tell where you are both heading,except for unforseen circumstances,heck,a 6 months old relationship leads to marriage most times.


PS : am not concerned about your writeup,I only have to contribute to this comment

ThuGnificenX:

Preach preacher...
Try play such a prank and see where it lands you. Nonsense confused gender

LoL

I guess you didn't read the last paragraph, pained soul

misspicy:

LoL


I guess you didn't read the last paragraph, pained soul

ThuGnificenX:

Modified:
The duration of a date does not determine it's maturity for marriage.
Some are just 6 months to 1 year and are familiar with the periquisites to get married while some are 3 years to 10 and are still very much not ready for such.
Take for instance university couples that started dating at year one, do u expect them to get married at year 4 simply because the relationship is 4 years old?
Conditions and circumstances have a lot to do in defining the perfect time to get married misspicy.
Youths will date, you can't stop them, it's with the generation and nothing can stop it.
So why the rush? Do u want to suffer? Do u know the challenges that comes with unprepared marriages? Who will weather the storm of providing for the young couples?
The man without any reasonable source of income?
Y'all need to take a chill pill and consider the future....

obviously you got me wrong,I have not talked about the duration needed for courting/dating as a determinant for marriage,I only raised an observation about the effect of time in the life of an African/Nigerian woman in relation to dating/courting,your comment about women having no right to feel cheated after a relationship pack up is my bone of contention here.I am only pointing it out because ladies are accused of wasting the little time they had while in their youth,meanwhile most people forget to put wasted years into consideration,eg dating a man for donkey years only to end up not getting married to him and become an old maid,(like a girl always call ladies on here )

my point is,if a lady decide to feel cheated about a breakup,she shouldn't be blamed,you men and the society have left little space for such frivolities

misspicy:

obviously you got me wrong,I have not talked about the duration needed for courting/dating as a determinant for marriage,I only raised an observation about the effect of time in the life of an African/Nigerian woman in relation to dating/courting,your comment about women having no right to feel cheated after a relationship pack up is my bone of contention here.I am only pointing it out because ladies are accused of wasting the little time they had while in their youth,meanwhile most people forget to put wasted years into consideration,eg dating a man for donkey years only to end up not getting married to him and become an old maid,(like a girl always call ladies on here )

my point is,if a lady decide to feel cheated about a breakup,she shouldn't be blamed,you men and the society have left little space for such frivolities

ThuGnificenX:
*Clears throat *
*Grabs mic*

My long time girlfriend played a stupid prank on herself that ended our relationship.
We have been dating for 3 years before the incident and i have grown to understand her and her body, I can tell when she's on her golden week, I knew her ovulation period and also her safe period so making a mistake to get her pregnant was below 5%.
One morning a week after we spent the weekend, she called and was sounding down, I inquired more to why she was behaving the way she was and she said she missed her golden week...
She remained that way for 1 more week (we didn't see within that time) until she called me to say she was pregnant.
I played along and congratulated her of her new 9 months journey but openly told her I wasn't responsible
She snapped o and said so I want to abandon her blah blah, I don't love her, I want to dump her. All dis women melodrama sef, I ended the call
2 weeks later I received a lengthy breakup text on WhatsApp,
It's over she said, she was just testing me and I failed woefully, she loved me so much but am not showing signs to settle down
Haba! How do u test a hotblooded young man with pregnancy,? Anyway I accepted as bitter as it was, I can't keep a woman that plays such crazy unguided prank on me.


So Romancelander babes I beg all of u unless u want to find urself back in the stock market, don't ever ever ever ever ever ever try this, it's better u are pregnant than fake it for a test of love. Not every guy is ready for that now with this economic hardship.
And guys pls and pls... This are hard times, pay more attention to little details. Learn more about this women so u don't fall victim.


That's all
*drops mic*
Grabs Bible.
Off to church...