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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by favoredgal: 5:25pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
kaffy4bill: Hmm for me Libido is at the lowest / non existent when I'm pregnant. I just do it for doing sake - max twice a month. After my first baby that weighed 3.61kg with tears ( tho they healed pretty fast) I worried about resuming 'duty' but with the help of a lubricant it went ok tho the first two times were wierd. But as soon as the baby started sleeping well and I had help it became so good, even better than before. Averaging 5 times a week and the result I took in almost immediately Now I have two kids under two. It's harder. Now that we are getting into a routine and baby is sleeping better; my libido is rising Also Post partum depression is real. Iv suffered it with my two children. It also contributes to low libido Chai this my epistle long o In summary after child birth every woman should 1. Surround herself with family 2. Get / accept help (in any shape and form) 3. Get a lubricant ( at least for the first 2/3 times) 4. Be patient with the process. The libido won't go straight to 100; it will build up For men reading this 1. Help your wives with house chores or carrying; Playing with / feeding the baby 2. Compliment her: even though her tummy hasn't gone completely flat, tell her she is beautiful; stretch mark and all 3. Take your time with fore play 4. Be sensitive to her moods: if baby had cried all day and she has had a stressful day, sex is the last thing on her mind. Just cuddle her 5. Be patient with the process too 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 5:28pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
cococandy:Lolz more than pretty |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sweetlady4real(f): 5:34pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Season's greetings to everyone in the house. Hope we are all doing great. Congratulations to sallylove, sodiamond and sayoddy, God bless your little ones. August mamas, how body? #proudlyaugustmama 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 5:36pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Awww tatacherie: |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by proudmom38(f): 5:37pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
cococandy: Beautiful baby u got there! God bless her a bunch. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 5:49pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
proudmom38:thanks. Amen. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by luciouscookie: 6:17pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
cococandy:Awwww see her mouth just like cococandys. Congrats dear. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 6:41pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
luciouscookie:thanks 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pweetiebabe(f): 6:42pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
sayoddy:Thanks so much ma'am for giving me a birthday mate.. .. May he bring nothing but joy to you and ur household ijn |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lioha(f): 6:56pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Team April for supernatural delivery. One of us was delivered of a BBG VA 4.5kg. Even though she ported to March we are going to pay her a visit. So everyone should come out with biggy belle. See how some the waka like say dem just discharge them from autopeadic Let's go there!!!!! sodiamond I hope you have enough to feed all this biggy belle. Me I no the joke with food. Oya manage dis small gift. 1. fabmummy 2. lioha 3. Talltosyne 4. Havefaith222 5. FreddywellsNgN 6. Bez 7. Mubzay 8. Iyefulove 9. ceysaga 10. Ifyjip 11. Izzystevens 12. Mspat 13. Sodiamond BBG 14. Siscaos 15. Nice14 16. Mumtwins 17. Destinedmom 18. Dhabeatyjas 19. Dexterush 20. Suzieedee 10 Likes
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mulberry: 7:08pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
lioha: Abeg try to add my name for dis April mamas oh cos I want to port from may I no sure say I fit stay till may I don tire! |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Sharon6: Ohh really urs too was seen as one? Okk, I rest my case. Thanks for the response. Earlier, when I was told the sexes I did not ask how many placenta, I just went on to start shopping as told but last week when I was referred again I decided to ask and was told one and I became confused. Would has discussed with dr yesterday if not for my mood. God bless you. @Cococandy, you baby is a bae, so cute. Is that you beside her? You are pimplesless, fine girl without pimples. Abeg, post jor no mind the day. Posting is the koko. @Cutienik, thanks dear. Abeg, mamas discuss further this libido thingy after childbirth, am interested oo. I sit down carry pop corn dey eat dey wait for more posts on libido thingy after childbirth. My colleague and friend who had her baby in December never resume duty. I come wonder why? Pls also include how long after you started doing it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by favoredgal: 7:41pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Timeframe 5 weeks post partum for my first 6 wks for my second 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lioha(f): 7:43pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
The lord is your strength. mulberry: |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:52pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
iomoge2: Thank you. How ms, hope you are coping? The Lord is your muscle. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:56pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
favoredgal: That's pretty early oo. But as regards having people around to avoid depression, my hubby doesn't like full house. Infact he's the reason why we are both alone. Now that am looking for house help he is giving so many unmentionable excuses which me I know it's to make me forget househelp. He even said he prefer to hire a nurse who will come bath baby and go after bathing. He doesn't want families around. How will I cope now? If at all he want he is being selective, and those he want are busy people. When my aunt was around to help out in my early preggy days, he would always look for something to complain about. Atimes he will ask who cook the food, when am supposed to be on bed rest oo. Jesu jowo romilowo oooo. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by seunkeji5(f): 8:09pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
favoredgal: Pls ma what is the name of the lubricant you use |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Amhappy(f): 8:12pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
onyinyechika08: I think you should ask your doc. Was surprised when this man said I should ask him again at 30weeks. Hubby dey make sacrifice,though we do some play play to make do. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 8:16pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
onyinyechika08: Pls be careful o. I tried experimenting too when i thought the threat of miscarriage was over and i started bleeding after sex. How much more someone who has had first trimester losses. I think you should give yourself some time. I waited till 16 weeks and even after that dh was advised not to go in too deep and hard and we always give ourselves some days in between to avoid triggering anything again. Baby's life comes first before pleasure. There are also different ways of satisfying dh for the meantime without him going in. Other experienced mamas can shed more light 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by babythug(f): 8:19pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
It's amazing that its my hubby who generally has "loss of libido" during pregnancy and for months after childbirth. I'm usually keen but just not used to having to ask/reach out so I just stay in my corner! I agree though that the pressures of child care coupled with running a household can enhance a loss of desire, like hajarahbadmus said one just needs to try really hard to remain on point. I have vowed that this time round pregnancy and childbirth will not let me generally lose control of my appearance and the state of the house.. Speaking of which lemme comb my hair its been a few days 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by babythug(f): 8:23pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
mitchyy: Tell us the other different ways ma You too can shed the light now 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by babythug(f): 8:25pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
seunkeji5: I know you didn't ask me but thought to chip in. kY jelly and Vaseline are good lubricants |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyabetajos(f): 8:28pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
mitchyy: did yday n dey admitted me immediately so am still at d hosp |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyabetajos(f): 8:30pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
mumtwins: hmmn my bp yday was 138/90 bt d doc in dis hosp insisted on admitting me.may our joy nt b cut short in jesus name maam |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by babythug(f): 8:30pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
olubankemi: Some men really don't like crowd its their nature I guess. If it'll be easier on you both and for practical reasons can you stay with someone your mum, mil or someone close for a while after babies arrive? Only if it'll work oh... If not just work with the nurse. Having hired helps too can sometimes add to the stress at hand to be frank just that really many of us don't have a choice than to employ them! |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyabetajos(f): 8:45pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
sayoddy congrats dear.God bless ur son. @mitchhy present maam.we dey ohhh. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 8:45pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Iyabetajos: Oh wow. Did they say what the exact problem is? You'll be fine dear. We'll all make it to our due date and deliver safely, no matter what roadblocks we encounter on the way. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 8:49pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
babythug: Hahaha. I'm still a learner in that field. There some pros here and they know themselves |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by seunkeji5(f): 8:53pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
babythug:alrite thanks |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyabetajos(f): 8:57pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
mitchyy: amen n amen.its d protein issue n swollen feet.we r conquerors in jesus name,amen. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Haleematm(f): 9:08pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Sept mommas where are u. show up pls |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mompurity2: 9:13pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Congratz ma'am sayoddy. May ur child fill ur hrts with endless joy. |
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