Na salary work? Na only option 1 be the solution.

greatgod2012:
Truly, its annoying, but the only 2 options available for you are.......
1. You either ask her to go back to her ex.
OR
2. You try and improve in your bedroom games to the extent that she won't even remember she once had an ex or his existence.



My 1kobo.

Simply tell her even ur own ex waz a thuraya thuraya on bed dat she wz so good pass good sef.n dat u cnt stop thinkin abt those stylez she do giv u those days.atlis na 1 1.

Self

The best solution is to get our herbal tea and prove yourself to her.
You can make her call you those sweet names that she used to call you before.

Wetin! Send her to papa house sharp sharp

greatgod2012:
Truly, its annoying, but the only 2 options available for you are.......
1. You either ask her to go back to her ex.
OR
2. You try and improve in your bedroom games to the extent that she won't even remember she once had an ex or his existence.



My 1kobo.

Simple! Ur head dey Dia

then appreciate your wife for coming out with the truth. ask her the particular actions her ex do and improve with your own flavoring. then go ask your guys what they do and surf the net for more info. no one was born with all the knowledge. we learn

Buh some guys sha, dey would now ask you him and ur Ex who is better in bed and they expect you to say the truth

Kiish:
ehn. tell her that her kpekus is not as tight as your ex's and it smells like catfish

U don make me laff tayad

a quick one is to advice her to go back to her ex.

It's not cool atal.. I cnt imagine how sad d guy would feel

Yet some will be feeling fly, important narrating such tales

Dnt blame guys that want virgins attimes jare.

Bring in a h o o ker, to improve in your skills and she must also participate.

HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?

just make hemp tea and mix it with guinness and tell her to meet you in the bedroom. by the time you finish with her ehn ? she will smell her yansh. she will limp for 2 months straight. nonsense

HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?

if she told u something like that give her two hot slap. then ask her why u no follow am.? idiot

Kiish:
ehn. tell her that her kpekus is not as tight as your ex's and it smells like catfish

Badoo! Score line: 1-1. Lol

It is very wrong for her to compare the husband with her Ex,all the same he needs to work on himself very well, If it will warrant going for tutorials if there's any, to improve on himself to the extent she won't remember ever dating someone else

Zoharariel:
This is a quick slap in the face to everyone who doesn't know what respect is. A woman who compares you with her Ex not only belittles you, but also tears you down psychologically instead of building you up.

This is also a clear-cut indication that she will always cheat on you, and as such, dissolution of our marital union would be my utmost priority if I were in your shoes.

I feel ɗ pain.. Ƴou never marry na why

Or how many marriages you wan enter in a lifetime?

darkenedrebel:


Slap-bang!
Intelligence is not ascertained by the mass repository of knowledge one has managed to build but rather, is measured by the politic application of such knowledge.

•Being aware of the fact that the President's mouth stinks and telling him to his face is not intelligence - it's misusage of knowledge.

•Having prior knowledge that the President's mouth stinks and keeping mum about it when you eventually get to meet him is intelligence.


The woman's remarks were just a taco short of a combo platter!.

See English!!!

Women and their wahala self

There is nothing he can do. She will always compare. Imagine listening to that for 20 years. Best to divorce her and find a woman that has sense.

sukkot:
just make hemp tea and mix it with guinness and tell her to meet you in the bedroom. by the time you finish with her ehn ? she will smell her yansh. she will limp for 2 months straight. nonsense

My main Man Sukkot,

I dey bow for ground Sir, just tell me when I can stand up

I trust all is fine. This your post nearly killed me with laughter

the bit.ch is not even ashamed even after u payed for her damaged and vandalized pekus,she come dey complain,as for me enhhh I no wan hear if u love me u go take me as I be,na me do u like DAT?.

darkenedrebel:


Gratias. I dog the footsteps of Marcus Cicero - the illustrious virtuoso in oratory and rhetorics. Perhaps you can too.

And of course it can be learned. I hold no briefs for nativism.

Hardwork and an admixture of a workable model and an unwavering determination is grist to the mill of verbalizing your thoughts in a rhetoric-esque fashion.

dayum nigga. you the man nigga. do you smoke weed by any chance bruv ?

pinkpebbles:
Buh some guys sha, dey would now ask you him and ur Ex who is better in bed and they expect you to say the truth

Lol

onegig:

And what happened to effective communication skills? This is not even communication, it is out of tangent to what communication is because I see no reason where the talk of the ex applies.

Feedback that is worded poorly would never be acted on positively and this is not even feedback like you want us to believe this is more like an aggression cloaked with underhand insult. No one with an iota of self esteem whether male or female would accept this.

She would do well to go meet the ex. If he was so good and all nice, she won't be with him currently.

She just told her husband she needs him to step up his game. He can go about nursing his wounded ego and make life hard for both of them or he can step up his game. After all this is an acquired skill.

Yeah the feedback is worded poorly I imagine she was really angry when she told him her ex was so sweet and good he can talk to her about how he wants to be spoken to. I think anyone with a healthy self esteem after the sting will do the needful.

So wrong ...shows a clear lack of respect for you and an innate desire to have extra marital affairs if she has the opportunity.

LoJ:

My main Man Sukkot,

I dey bow for ground Sir, just tell me when I can stand up

I trust all is fine. This your post nearly killed me with laughter

my bros Loj, no be small matter be this sef. this gyals of nowawadys sef. no respek lolzzzzzzzz. bros i remain ever loyal

HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?

Very simple! make she fo back to the ex. now, abi? marriage no be do or die na. if her ex was 100% okay, she no go leave am. Na dat day she go pack her load! life is more than sex.

HurtgenForest:
what can you do as a man when your wife tells you that her Ex is much better than you in bed.

She says her ex who deflowered her was so good in bed?

What can be more frustrating than this for a husband?

Nonsense!
It can never even happen because I CAN'T MARRY A GIRL THAT HAVE AN EX
I like tearleather

darkenedrebel:


Slap-bang!
Intelligence is not ascertained by the mass repository of knowledge one has managed to build but rather, is measured by the politic application of such knowledge.

•Being aware of the fact that the President's mouth stinks and telling him to his face is not intelligence - it's misusage of knowledge.

•Having prior knowledge that the President's mouth stinks and keeping mum about it when you eventually get to meet him is intelligence.


The woman's remarks were just a taco short of a combo platter!.

Au contraire
Intelligence is concision.

I am not sure I can come back from such if na me sha, but since it's marriage, we have to find a way to forget he ever said that, nna eh, I'm not sure someone like me can get past it o, but why I go marry person who thinks their ex better than me to start with? Oh! Wait, we are not talking about me.


Sorry OP, this is the height of disrespect and I don't know what to say but since I must say something(yes I must) don't feel too bad, your wife is still lacking in the sense department but all hope is not lost. I think you should sternly warn her not to ever speak in that manner to you again( I'm assuming you do not do same to her), tell her to find more reasonable ways to relay her concerns and then you have to improve.

There are many tips on what to do on the net, you can try some of those after careful consideration, find the one(s) that suits you better and work at it, I'm sure in time you'll improve. If your kini is small, don't despair my bro as size is not all that matters, believe me, I should know.

Meanwhile, that your wife need some kind punishment walai, but temper justice with mercy sha, it is well with you.

Never heard that from any of the girls I have met and still doing, it's a real issue for the guy involved , don't know what to tell him.