Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

And I love you and I want to get to know you, and Marry you.

abeeceebee:
in response to ur questions I am a woman too and my husband does not beat and later demand for sex on the same day. Secondly, that how her husband assaults her on a regular basis, after perpetrating vthis evil act he will be asking my sister to lay her back for him. Am not here to incure ur pity but I need some advice for my sis ASAP!

was the battering done to ur sister b4 or after he demanded for sex. from wat u posted it seems she first denied him of sex b4 de man battered her. I think the woman was not in de mood de man would av quitely wen outside n Bleep his life out with an olosho

NEVER DENY A MAN sex o,particularly when the thing don dey worry am,na die be that, he can kill sharp sharp, pls no matter what it may, never say say never to him.but sorry sha.

A man should know how to lure his wife to have sex no matter her mood, hitting her is wrong.

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

You are ironically saying you have slept with every men in your entire life.


You sound so much like a Novice....get experience and be with the the right person, believe me you will swallow and regret every of the word you vomited.

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

yea my sister men are useless oo very very.

D2diff:
Your own is coming to you. Blindness would be a laughinh matter with what will happen to the shes in your family... Amen!

u dey m.a.d both u and all the female in your family infact na death go follow all of ur sisters dey will d.ie b4 there husband house

I don't think a man will go that far hurting his wife becoze of sex, before a woman refused sleeping with d husband it means the already exists an unsettled issue. most women whenever the issue with their spouse d will move out to d spare bedroom so the spouse body won't touch them just to register d fact that the are upset with you, but inflicting this on ur wife is totally wrong. what happened to trying to resolve ur outstanding issues to cool her down before sex

I personally condemn such a merciless act & would for no reason justify a man to beat the wife.
Howbeit, It's not an easy thing for a man to bear being denied sex from especially the wife. Ofttimes some men spend all their life savings on marriage rites & would expect eternal loyalty from her. I know of situations where wives use denial of sex as a weapon to exploit & control their husbands. That is wicked! Yet I see such as no justification for assault from the man.
For your sister who he assaults frequently, I think she didn't look well before she leaped into such a union. It's now her cross & she have to thread the path...
I recommend she seeks the expertise of a marriage counselor. Let her pray also, for prayer changes things.
She should know learn how to use kind words to make him understand when she's not in the mood. And sometimes, she should allow him have his way even she's not in the mood. After all, love is sacrificial in nature, and that way she avoids the usual beating.
Lastly, let her get him seated & let them discuss it out. Once in a while, couples need to call a time out to iron out issues. That way she hear from his perspective & him from hers, and hopefully, they'll reach a compromise. She might be surprised at the result.
Regards

BeeBeeOoh:
As I promised myself & God that nothing will make me lay my hands on my woman, God please help the man that will lay his hands on my sister.




God Please Help Him In Jesus Name..AMEN!!

you have not really dealt much with women, you will lay ur hands on them with anger, this species knows how to drill men and push us to the wall,u think those beating their wives do so with joy? Noo it is out of their fustration and anger..once ur sister gets married my brother she now belongs to the husband and if he lay hands on her you will do nothing...

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

My Sister but all men are not the same.

he no even beat am well sef she wan go sell am market abi.she's wicked

Owliver:
my friend comon sharap there. he paid money for the puszy, bride price, wedding and all that sh-tz. even the bible that created the institution of marriage said the puszy is the property of the man after marriage. i no blame una. i pray islam conquers Nigeria so we can marry 4 each here in south. nonsense

although the man sef na ewu malu

Is that why u said I should shut up? That man may not be treating the lady right and on the other hand she can't give him the food. You can marry 10 wives if you like

Your sister own even good.my sister was beaten by her hubby when she was heavilly pregnant and due to give birth.I was very angry with the guy and was planning on attacking him.But i had to inform my mum first.You cant believe what my mum said. when they were enjoying their marriage did they call anybody.They should equally deal with their problem.My other sister was like supporting my mum that marriage is for better for worse.Anyway i later settled both of them sha but was still angry for laying his hand on my pregnant sister.

I think it is very wrong to condemn the man just because of what op wrote here. How are we sure the claims are true.

On the other hand why would a wife deny her husband her body? I am talking from the angle of a Christian cos the Holy Bible tell us what to do in that regards.

Op domestic problems are treated domestically within the family and not on nairaland, giving me the impression that you are from a useless family.

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

judge not all men with the act of a single man,

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Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

Are u a lesbian ? or are u not going to bring somebody to d world like ur parents[b]

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

Are u a lesbian ? or are u not going to bring somebody to d world like ur parents[/b]

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

Are u a lesbian ? or are u not going to bring somebody to d world like ur parents

Dear, which tribe are you guys from? IGBO?? If yes, then I can imagine how the guy must have felt after paying huge dowry fee and be refused sex.. Baby, if na me too, i go wound your sister ooo..

Josphine4good:
yes I do

can't you see her gait,them done f**k her tired or she done bang them die

menxer:


You are right.
I have been there, seen it, done it.

It was after that experience I realized the full meaning of concubine aka side chick syndrome.

Do I subscribe to the side chick/toy boy syndrome?

No one is perfect but our religious/societal norm has a one-size-fits-all when it comes to marital formatting.

I asked myself: do I have to keep changing who I date because one thing is always missing?

The side chick came to the rescue but would we accept the fact that some of our ladies may equally need such a rescue?
Where do we strike a balance?

My brother, honestly, it ain't easy. Now the idea of a sidechick is to fill up the gaps left by the main chic, but oh no all hell will be let loose if the main finds out. Oya nne, fill up the gaps yourself......... In bae's voice "is sex food?" and l'm like WTF??!!!

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

don't hate men, because not all men are women beater...

johnson232:

why did she refuse him sex?

Must it be by force? Do you know that with your legal wife, you can be charged for rape?Only animals with no brain rape. If she is having health issues, must she not say No? So she cannot say No for an answer for sex when she is not ready for that?

Must a man have his way for sex at anytime even if she is married to him?Too bad for people like you.

goodvision12:
Your sister own even good.my sister was beaten by her hubby when she was heavilly pregnant and due to give birth.I was very angry with the guy and was planning on attacking him.But i had to inform my mum first.You cant believe what my mum said. when they were enjoying their marriage did they call anybody.They should equally deal with their problem.My other sister was like supporting my mum that marriage is for better for worse.Anyway i later settled both of them sha but was still angry for laying his hand on my pregnant sister.

God forbid though but next time when you have to shoot, shoot, dont talk.-Tuco (The good, the bad and the ugly)

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

.you hate men?oh no wonder you hate your father with passion...

AngelAhnie:
Is that why u said I should shut up? That man may not be treating the lady right and on the other hand she can't give him the food. You can marry 10 wives if you like

yes oh that why. you ladies can annoy seriously. dont you know seks is a psychological relief drug against worries and stress. i guess the man could be the bread winner, dude probably need some relief damn he paid for that for christ sake. i dont support his actions but you need not be selfish in a union called marriage. its dangerous.

I will put the blame on the lady, Why will she refuse her husband, even boy friends & girlfriends don't do that. If she is sick, she could have lay in hospital, case close the husband will not ask of anything. or is she in Period regime?. Pls... Leave Ur sister with her husband. It is an advise by the way.

The man was too cruel to his own wife, he should 've persuaded her the men way not kpokporing,
As for the women in the house, the 1st thing that came to the man mind will be extramarital affairs on the part of the wife if not, its natural the puna is serviced regularly to avoid" Conjility
So, two of them were hard on each other.

Truthfuly, your sister bleaches her skin that is why it look severe

Uramzi:
It's better for a man to be stingy with his money
because he hustled for it...than for a woman to deny
you a hole that she didn't even drill.
Bro I'm most sorry buh yhur sis is kinda wrong! How does it sound in your ear disallowing yhur hubby intercourse? If en begin cheat nko? Wetin yhu go yarn if yhu catch am? If dey say make dey dey fu**k b4 marriage to know if sex dey bellefull dia man dem go say no, I'm a Virgin! Oya nunu! Get well o. God bless yhur Union! Over to d brothers...Is the man still breathing??

Exactly the reason why we mess everything up in this country. Prayers will not solve this one the solution is right in front of her. Tell her to go back and apologise to the man and prepare herself, give the man his rightful demand else the man should start adultery. Denying your "husband" sex is a great sin before God"

CFCman:

The comment you quoted was absolutely stupid. I'm astounded to how a rationale human being could post such balderdash on a public forum.

lol. The things we see on NL

Josphine4good:
I hate men I don't think I will get married to one

I hope you can look every male member of ur family(that includes ur dad) in the eye and tell 'em that¿

andyanders:



Must it be by force? Do you know that with your legal wife, you can be charged for rape?Only animals with no brain rape. If she is having health issues, must she not say No? So she cannot say No for an answer for sex when she is not ready for that?

Must a man have his way for sex at anytime even if she is married to him?Too bad for people like you.

make i hear word. he paid for it, he spent money for wedding, you know why? to get a helper, a Bleep-mate, or is there something else a man benefits from a woman? . even your bible which created the institution said its the property of the man. 2 have become 1. stop promoting nonsense. sexual urge is a pain and as living being we all want comfort.

although the man is an ewu malu