My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

LIKE SERIOUSLY?

But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

I stopped prioritizing and taking girls serious since I got out of secondary school. dreams and ambition first others follow

still trying to figure how this is news

@queencalipso words are like eggs dropped from a height once released, i guess you know the outcome. The power of life and death belongs to the tongue, hence,watch what you say tnx and remain blessed.

I hate dat word 'am just managing you'. fvck hu d hell r u? you be managing director?

*In one direction voice* The story of my life.................

yes! you tushed her up, spent on her. so? somethings should be personal.

Who still spend money on gf dis days probably don't hav any ambition or goal in life.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Due to time constraints, I don't want to go into details here but she was the one that caused the argument and breakup. check out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2984049/girl-always-interferes-bestfriend-relatonship. after I confronted her on the issue for the like the hundredth time. she frustrated me up to the point that she was like pushing me to beat her. why wouldn't I insult her?

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Well I'm not surprised, it's only natural for you to defend your fellow woman. Even if she commits more grievous offenses you will still defend her. I don't expect any guy on this thread to take your comments serious anyway.

nnamdiokere45:
I hate dat word 'am just managing you'. fvck hu d hell r u? you be managing director?

don't feel bad she said...the truth is that everything about life is management..don't let that bother u bro.

anyicash:
don't feel bad she said...the truth is that everything about life is management..don't let that bother u bro.

k

she said MANAGING ABI?


Punish heer i say........

skywalker240:
she said MANAGING ABI?


Punish heer i say........

Lol

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Can you tell a man that you are managing him?Many men dont find that statement funny.

Dejideji1:


Well I'm not surprised, it's only natural for you to defend your fellow woman. Even if she commits more grievous offenses you would still defend her. I don't expect any guy on this thread to take your comments serious anyway.

Just as it's natural for you to defend your fellow man

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

She's the one on ur profile I guess? She's ugly tho.. #NoOffence

NoBrake:


She's the one on ur profile I guess? She's ugly tho.. #NoOffence

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

alexistaiwo:

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

taah....na ur gf...na she!

NoBrake:

taah....na ur gf...na she!

what's with the childish attitude? I said she ain't my gf. take it or leave it.

alexistaiwo:

what's with the childish attitude? I said she ain't my gf. take it or leave it.

Lol, ugly galfrnd u gat and u r so obsessed with her Chai! I pity ur life

NoBrake:


Lol, ugly galfrnd u gat and u r so obsessed with her Chai! I pity ur life

I don't have time for this. Am too mature to indulge in nonproductive talk like this. go hit on someone else

You are right abt the " No matter how much you spend on a girl she will still say you havent done anything" I think they think because they give us Sex they are doing us a favour. Thats why i dont know the difference between them and prostitutes. The money you spend on them have expiry date. They wont spend their money to buy you a little gift all is to collect and give sex. Your own money is our money, theirs is my money. All the money na on top cloth, makeup and weave-on. Shameless species.

Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

are you just getting this into your head Everyone knows spending on a girl you havnt married is very stupid....... All those upcoming PUA's, can you see Here's an example.. Never spend on a lady.

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti is mi o.

If all you said is the truth
I'm sorry to say but


YOU ARE A BIG FOOL

i if you marry such a lady you'll live your life spending on her and her family.

That girl must be lazy and shameless.


Do you really earn that much,a wise woman would take that money save and start a business of hers. What if you guys break up. She'll be left high and dry. I bet she already has a back up plan for her lazy lifestyle if you guys break up. But you aren't aware of it.

A girl like that can't depend on one guy, because of oju kokoro.


I laugh in spiritual powers. You even give her family and she's just a girlfriend.

If I was you younger sister I'll curse you.


Please wise up teach her to catch fish or you will marry a liability and suffer all your life.

Whe you quarrel with your spouse, never hit below the belt! Don't say things to spite them...or to inflict pain.

Learn to express yourself concerning the burning issue on ground. We tend to say spiteful things that are irredeemable and that we can't take back.
Imagine a couple fighting over a minute issue and the next thing the girl or boy now refers to how a bad sex partner the other is.
After the fight, you can't take back those words, even though you didn't mean it that way.

Dejideji1:


Well I'm not surprised, it's only natural for you to defend your fellow woman. Even if she commits more grievous offenses you would still defend her. I don't expect any guy on this thread to take your comments serious anyway.

Hey honey! I didn't ask you or any1 else to take me serious that's entirely your choice and am cool with it. My point is in an argument pple could say anything out of anger that doesn't necessary mean that they meant their words. His about what he said to her?

UIA04:

If all you said is the truth
I'm sorry to say but


YOU ARE A BIG FOOL

i if you marry such a lady you'll live your life spending on her and her family.

That girl must be lazy and shameless.


Do you really earn that much,a wise woman would take that money save and start a business of hers. What if you guys break up. She'll be left high and dry. I bet she already has a back up plan for her lazy lifestyle if you guys break up. But you aren't aware of it.

A girl like that can't depend on one guy, because of oju kokoro.


I laugh in spiritual powers. You even give her family and she's just a girlfriend.

If I was you younger sister I'll curse you.


Please wise up teach her to catch fish or you will marry a liability and suffer all your life.

Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Ndo 'o'

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

would u take back a guy wholly if he told u he was managing u? No matter what u said to him? In fact u can't take him back if he just told u, u were an ugly bitch. Gals should stop playing the victim when the truth's obvious. U can't tell s0me0ne u claim to love, u're just managing the pers0n. U inadvertently c0mpared the pers0n to a thing which is equivalent to nothing.