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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by hardbody: 6:30pm On Jun 14, 2016
skywalker240:
she said MANAGING ABI?



Punish heer i say........grin

Nothing wrong with managing me or thinking you are, but if I ever hear that you are managing me, i will relieve you of that responsibility and you will never have to manage me again, EVER

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by skywalker240(m): 6:38pm On Jun 14, 2016
hardbody:


Nothing wrong with managing me or thinking you are, but if I ever hear that you are managing me, i will relieve you of that responsibility and you will never have to manage me again, EVER
True talk....cool
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Chybeno(f): 6:55pm On Jun 14, 2016
Hmmmmmm because she loves u abi i dnt blame u
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Oyiboman69: 7:06pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.




I want to like your post but knowing you are a lady,made me to conclude that you're being judgemental.



I wan
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by AuroraB(f): 7:33pm On Jun 14, 2016
UIA04:

If all you said is the truth
I'm sorry to say but


YOU ARE A BIG FOOL

i if you marry such a lady you'll live your life spending on her and her family.

That girl must be lazy and shameless.


Do you really earn that much,a wise woman would take that money save and start a business of hers. What if you guys break up. She'll be left high and dry. I bet she already has a back up plan for her lazy lifestyle if you guys break up. But you aren't aware of it.

A girl like that can't depend on one guy, because of oju kokoro.


I laugh in spiritual powers. You even give her family and she's just a girlfriend.

If I was you younger sister I'll curse you.


Please wise up teach her to catch fish or you will marry a liability and suffer all your life.
Please, don't discourage this philanthropist angry grin

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by pinkycute(f): 7:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
Nobody knows the kind of hurtful Or terrible words you said to her anyway!


alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by SexyStrawberry(f): 8:16pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mukhcech(m): 8:35pm On Jun 14, 2016
SexyStrawberry:


Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that

shocked shocked shocked So it was through nairaland you were even able to meet a Guy. Anyways Goodluck sha. The bolded tho!! shows you have got something to loose/protect.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 8:41pm On Jun 14, 2016
Oyiboman69:





I want to like your post but knowing you are a lady,made me to conclude that you're being judgemental.



I wan

Judgemental? No honey! Am stating the obvious. For God sake they were having a fight and just like someone said, all is fair in war. He started the insult first and she retaliated out of anger; why is he now crying wolf? Remember the op didn't tell us the hurtful things he said to her.
If anyone is being judgemental here, is the guys that are supporting his decision based on his own side of the story which of course if you read through it with an open mind you will realise what a jerk the op is (apologies for the word). The girl understands that it was a fight which they both lost their temper and said hurtful things to each other, so she apologised. why can't the op see it that way too and let it go if he wants to take her back; rather he held onto her words and came to nl to form boss. Do you think the girl would have come to beg if she held onto his own words;

Who knows, he probably said worse things than just managing her. lipsrsealed

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by queencalipso(f): 8:43pm On Jun 14, 2016
SexyStrawberry:


Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that
Thanks swthrt; most of these guys can be very annoying at times.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by aprilwise(m): 9:27pm On Jun 14, 2016
Lemme just drop it as it is hot in my mind. From abundant of the heart the mouth speaketh. U will be held responsible for the words u said. Anger or no anger mind the words that goes out of ur mouth. Op it's in ur hands.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by aprilwise(m): 9:29pm On Jun 14, 2016
[quote author=queencalipso post=46577547]

Judgemental? No honey! Am stating the obvious. For God sake they were having a fight and just like someone said, all is fair in war. He started the insult first and she retaliated out of anger; why is he now crying wolf? Remember the op didn't tell us the hurtful things he said to her.
If anyone is being judgemental here, is the guys that are supporting his decision based on his own side of the story which of course if you read through it with an open mind you will realise what a jerk the op is (apologies for the word). The girl understands that it was a fight which they both lost their temper and said hurtful things to each other, so she apologised. why can't the op see it that way too and let it go if he wants to take her back; rather he held onto her words and came to nl to form boss. Do you think the girl would have come to beg if she held onto his own words;

Who knows, he probably said worse things than just managing her. lipsrsealed



Newton third law of motion in every action the reaction is equal nd opposite.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by PaulkillermanAg(m): 9:43pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
you are a very big fool for not knowing this since..... women are only sex objects, meant to be forked and thrown out the windows when u done.... All u pusssy niggaz keep on deceiving yourselves and keep on learning the hard way ...

Instead of me to spend my money on a girl for nothing, I'll rather burn it to Ashes..... If I'm not paying you to fork your asss, then go for yourself ...

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by omonnakoda: 9:53pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
Did you grow up on kerosene cooked food?

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Taryur3(m): 9:53pm On Jun 14, 2016
Lwkmd....breaking up everywhere...the thunder wey go fire this present government still dey gather force.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by StealthyMe(m): 9:54pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

But surely, you do know that when people get annoyed, that's when they say the truest of things, and whatever has been harboured in them all along.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by holluphemydavid(m): 9:54pm On Jun 14, 2016
Shoroniyen
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by 4stylz: 9:56pm On Jun 14, 2016
Rukkydelta:

Just as it's natural for you to defend your fellow man

Trash, are you competing with guys?
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Sahaboi(m): 9:56pm On Jun 14, 2016
hope C Ronaldo ve score for Portugal 2nyt?
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Raylight2(m): 9:58pm On Jun 14, 2016
Cadamlk:
Can you tell a man that you are managing him?Many men dont find that statement funny.
no man will find it funny. except he doesn't know his worth.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by busyfishing(m): 9:58pm On Jun 14, 2016
UIA04:

If all you said is the truth
I'm sorry to say but


YOU ARE A BIG FOOL

i if you marry such a lady you'll live your life spending on her and her family.

That girl must be lazy and shameless.


Do you really earn that much,a wise woman would take that money save and start a business of hers. What if you guys break up. She'll be left high and dry. I bet she already has a back up plan for her lazy lifestyle if you guys break up. But you aren't aware of it.

A girl like that can't depend on one guy, because of oju kokoro.


I laugh in spiritual powers. You even give her family and she's just a girlfriend.

If I was you younger sister I'll curse you.


Please wise up teach her to catch fish or you will marry a liability and suffer all your life.
you dont new to call him a fool please.insulting people is to easy for folks these days
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by busyfishing(m): 9:59pm On Jun 14, 2016
UIA04:

If all you said is the truth
I'm sorry to say but


YOU ARE A BIG FOOL

i if you marry such a lady you'll live your life spending on her and her family.

That girl must be lazy and shameless.


Do you really earn that much,a wise woman would take that money save and start a business of hers. What if you guys break up. She'll be left high and dry. I bet she already has a back up plan for her lazy lifestyle if you guys break up. But you aren't aware of it.

A girl like that can't depend on one guy, because of oju kokoro.


I laugh in spiritual powers. You even give her family and she's just a girlfriend.

If I was you younger sister I'll curse you.


Please wise up teach her to catch fish or you will marry a liability and suffer all your life.
you dont need to call him a fool please.insulting people is to easy for folks these days
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by VictorRomanov: 10:01pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

For what cause? I am guessing cause of his money....
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by 4stylz: 10:03pm On Jun 14, 2016
SexyStrawberry:


Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that

But the yeye guy chop u?

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by UIA04(f): 10:04pm On Jun 14, 2016
busyfishing:
you dont new to call him a fool please.insulting people is to easy for folks these days
Read the second line of my post then think deeply
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by chudez0147(m): 10:05pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
hmmmmmm! Just that small thing. My ex told me that she would sleep with all the men that come her way. She later came back to beg. I ran for my dear life. Girls sha!

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by HaneefahRN(f): 10:08pm On Jun 14, 2016
And so undecided. You didn't tell us if you said worse to her.

Go and announce on NTA, at the end of the day you accepted her back, continue managing yourselves.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by chiwetel(f): 10:09pm On Jun 14, 2016
it's actually very normal for people to exchange hurtful words during an argument.. buh then people let out a lot while at it,its like lifting up a burden and most times its the blunt truth we slip out..

you must have said something really hurtful that push her to say hers and get even,either ways don't exonerate urself.u guys can always makeup na,its healthy to argue in a relationship tho.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:

You are here now forming boss.
hahahaha gringrin asin.....

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mastermind1759(m): 10:11pm On Jun 14, 2016
Dnt av chills 4 dos babes who r ingrate n materialistic..hw mny girls spend on deir bf b4 marriage n afta.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
Personally,I won't accept her back again..........The Love You Have For Her Isn't There If You Can't Spend On Her Anymore....Just Let Her Go
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.
. see ....stop this, what is the meaning of this nonsense

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