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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Corussa: 10:16pm On Jun 14, 2016
Hope she fimds Comfort in all the lies She told
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by 4stylz: 10:19pm On Jun 14, 2016
SexyStrawberry:


Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that

But the yeye guy chop u
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Frankdamaxx(m): 10:20pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.


Until you marry a Lady all the money you spend on her na Sara.

She may not have meant it, people say things in arguments to hurt the most.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by kunletoks(m): 10:22pm On Jun 14, 2016
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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mrakin(m): 10:22pm On Jun 14, 2016
Some ladies here are thinking seriously on how to snatch this OP. They are pretending to support the girlfriend of the OP. Watch out.

Back to business, courtship is a period of time you need to use to study your fiance. You also need to develop yourself and prepare for family life. Learn to be humble, clearly define your role, and correct her with love. If you are not compatible, walk away,, don't finish your life lines ooo.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mecussey(m): 10:23pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.


The fact is, mind what you say both to ur boss, ur subbordinate, ur guy, ur mother, ur father and everybody. What came out of ur mouth cant be withdrawn and the bible even warned about it, just get the message, it does not matter where it came from.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by amokeme(f): 10:23pm On Jun 14, 2016
Looool @ "This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point"
Some girls will not stop embarrassing us. I wonder who was providing for her before she started dating the OP, if you have decidedto be a burden on your man, please learn to control your tongue.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by yomalex(m): 10:23pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:

I don't know what to do.
Make yourself scarce

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by bluecircle470: 10:24pm On Jun 14, 2016
[quote author=queencalipso post=46558226]But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.[/quote
]


Pls lady u dnt av anything gud saying?
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by back2sender: 10:25pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
That is how Ladies are, naa thier mouth dey kill dem. Even d one when i marry put for house did the same before i marry am. Please manage the babe as you can but no kill yaself over her
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mikolo80: 10:25pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
you know you are managing someone and nobody else is buying your market and you know you will beg last last. Why write cheques your mouth can't cash.don't say what you cannot back up. He is the one managing her not the other way round. Once a respectful girl comes along she's toast
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Bimpe29: 10:26pm On Jun 14, 2016
Then I can objectively argue that your love for her is conditional and inadequate. After all you reported that she has come begging for forgiveness of her flaws, then what else do you want?
Ask those delighted daddies and mummies celebrating wedding anniversaries, and you will be flabbergasted of their unpleasant matrimonial moments.
Remember you're too different bodies and souls hoping to live d rest of your lives together, so conflicts and fighs are bound to happen. For every happily married couples there is possibility of such an experience of yours, but what makes it positive is a principle and mind set of effective conflicts resolution.
In conclusion, to err is human, but to forgive is divine.
Love is meant to be unconditional and absolute.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by abisolaarshow(f): 10:26pm On Jun 14, 2016
I said this before,
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mikolo80: 10:27pm On Jun 14, 2016
back2sender:

That is how Ladies are, naa thier mouth dey kill dem. Even d one when i marry put for house did the same before i marry am. Please manage the babe as you can but no kill yaself over her
no be everybody wan manage wife put for House.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by samuelson06(m): 10:28pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:

Due to time constraints, I don't want to go into details here but she was the one that caused the argument and breakup. check out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2984049/girl-always-interferes-bestfriend-relatonship. after I confronted her on the issue for the like the hundredth time. she frustrated me up to the point that she was like pushing me to beat her. why wouldn't I insult her?

Then leave her completely. Don't waste your time and hers' doing nothing. But then, forgive her completely whether you keep or let her go.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by abisolaarshow(f): 10:29pm On Jun 14, 2016
I said that once before, we broke up due to these words and I don't regret it for a single day.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jun 14, 2016
Like serious
Mediator97:
LIKE SERIOUSLY?
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by amokeme(f): 10:31pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
her only crime was letting him spend on her. I'm sure if that was not there, he won't open this thread. He is permitted to feel like a "boss"

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by NICSEGS: 10:32pm On Jun 14, 2016
Dont always rush to blame guys for everything. Some of you ladies are demons and the same guys you use your tongue to destroy is the same guy who has helped you out of bondage, so why kill with your tongues? Now, you dont know d story, you are already insulting the guy in solidarity for the other girl. Am sure you are worse than the other girl yourself.
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mikolo80: 10:33pm On Jun 14, 2016
kunletoks:

Mine still said something like this to me on Friday.
and you're still with her. You are a brave man.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Temptee101(m): 10:33pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.
Guy ur case worse pass Op own o. Something tells me u are under a spell, seek help now before we hear story that touches the heart

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by JustHere2Observ(f): 10:34pm On Jun 14, 2016
One reason I dont allow guys spend their money me. They spend few kobos and they start thinking they are your savior.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by lawdbreezy: 10:36pm On Jun 14, 2016
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Did you forget the part where he said he provided all her needs from 2014 they started dating up to that point. And yet she had the min to say she was managing him. WHO DOES THAT!! THIS IS AMAZING!!

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Noela12(f): 10:37pm On Jun 14, 2016
eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Sanchase: 10:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
Ok she is just managing you while she await the coming of her ideal man, after you probably spent money for plots of land on her head.

But wat names did you call her, seems ur name calling didn't carry enough weight that's why it bothers you cheesy

Next time use your mouth better and be the first to apologise.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Temptee101(m): 10:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
One reason I dont allow guys spend their money me. They spend few kobos and they start thinking they are your savior.
You must be related to Lair Mohammad or suffering from his syndrome
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.
undecided
Childish and immature post.
Go ahead don't stop there why not also tell em to have a side boo too?
If you can't accept her back genuinely then let her go or else you would be nothing short of a user and that's bad for you.
Sticks and stones , our words don't harm you.

We are women words are the only ammunition we have got, and a real man knows this.

1. Never try to win an argument with your girl she will only look for something to say to hurt you but at the end of the day she don't mean it.
2. Don't hold what we say against us, we are flawed that way.

So while you are here feeling all macho you failed to realize and appreciate the fact that she is an open soul, who just says stuff when she is angry? That means you have a loyal lady by your side and you don't appreciate it?
Trust me there are girls who really are managing their men and the poor guys have no clue, because these girls can pretend, and would never say it in anger to his face.

Now those type of girls you don't need in your life.

Instead you have e simple lass who just blurts stuff out due to emotions ,

You don't know what you have and I pray you don't loose it
angry

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by absoluteSuccess: 10:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
SuperSuave:
I stopped prioritizing and taking girls serious since I got out of secondary school. dreams and ambition first others follow

you won't get married to any of those.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by tall2ce(m): 10:39pm On Jun 14, 2016
queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.
wot a response
spot on
But words said when you are angry are pure truth.
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by sukkot: 10:43pm On Jun 14, 2016
hardbody:


Nothing wrong with managing me or thinking you are, but if I ever hear that you are managing me, i will relieve you of that responsibility and you will never have to manage me again, EVER
bros long time. leave small change for ya boys make we manage am
Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by slap1(m): 10:43pm On Jun 14, 2016
Dejideji1:


Well I'm not surprised, it's only natural for you to defend your fellow woman. Even if she commits more grievous offenses you would still defend her. I don't expect any guy on this thread to take your comments serious anyway.

Actually she has a point. It's not about defending her fellow woman; it's about a balance of reasoning. Could you tell us the words you said to her? They might be worse than "managing you".

We say very hurtful things in anger; don't act all innocent like you didn't mean the ones you said and she meant hers. No. Be a man and tell you dislike that particular expression, even if said in anger. She may not use it again, unless she's being playful.

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