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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by jayzblack(m): 1:28am On Jun 15, 2016

Infact i can't distinquise between ur galfriend and a LovePeddler...Period

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by danlamiturawa(m): 1:33am On Jun 15, 2016

It is their mature. Even a wife can still say such . But sha, it's still good you we spend for ladies with caution!

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Spain007(m): 1:35am On Jun 15, 2016

Guy u need DELIVERANCE

eiBADAn:

Yes I love her and I think she does too. I am thinking of setting up a restaurant for her before I leave for a course in London later this year. She's from an average family and I believe I may be helping some souls. My father taught us to always help people whenever we can. In fact, she gets free treatment from our family hospital. I'm a bad guy too but I stopped been one early his year before we met February through my close friend. She refused to date my friend but chose to date me. Note, my friends parents too are also buoyant so is he too. She cleans, cooks, washes whenever she can. These are some reasons I'm finding it hard to let go. I jut have to start hiding anything that has to do with money because 200k finishes in 3 days on rubbish. I'm just confused

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Psoul(m): 1:59am On Jun 15, 2016

With due respect, all I can say is that you have not really got what it takes to keep a woman in the house especially as a wife.

1st you guys were having issue and each want to get the other hurt verbally. U said yours and she responded and u got angry.

Secondly, my brother majority of women will deny u ve ever spent a dime on them when they are so angry with u even the one u married. So this should not be an issue. If you are matured to keep a woman, this wouldn't even move a hair on your body.

Also learn to do good without expecting dat person to always come bowing for u every day, that's how to overcome the pain of one denying good u did to him.

Finally, learn not to argue wt your woman. Let them do d talking and u d listening if you are fortunate to have received the grace of bn patient in listening to their irritating words, else just walk away and come back when the cost is clear and calm. This will earn u more respect.

I did not see anything wrong wt that girl, not all women can easily apologise. U may think she did dat cos of money or help u offers to her. No, she did cos she loves u. Do you think guys better dan u have not approached her and she turned them down cos of you? Love her or let her go if you won't love her. Thanks

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by dukeo(m): 2:00am On Jun 15, 2016

SuperSuave:
I stopped prioritizing and taking girls serious since I got out of secondary school. dreams and ambition first others follow

Baba na your way be the way forward

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by skipz: 2:10am On Jun 15, 2016

STFUareyouG0d:
still trying to figure how this is news

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by LordRegalia: 2:20am On Jun 15, 2016

eiBADAn:

Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Your thread says "You stopped caring for her...." and here you are saying you don't know what to do / how to dump her without hassles. For someone who says he stopped caring, dumping should about be the easiest thing to do.

From all your descriptions of this girl on your thread, do you really need someone to tell you that she's not the type you need in your life?

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 2:28am On Jun 15, 2016

Invest in a b*itch @ ur own perl!...caveat emptor!!!

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by iamkingzlee(m): 3:12am On Jun 15, 2016

bqlekan:
*In one direction voice* The story of my life.................

yes! you tushed her up, spent on her. so? somethings should be personal.

My thoughts exactly.

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by iamkingzlee(m): 3:16am On Jun 15, 2016

eiBADAn:

Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Who con ask you all these ones undecided

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by mb2015: 3:31am On Jun 15, 2016

Chrisrare:
Who still spend money on gf dis days probably don't hav any ambition or goal in life.

Absolutely
One bottle for you man
right on point
you killed it

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Situation001(m): 3:35am On Jun 15, 2016

alexistaiwo:

Due to time constraints, I don't want to go into details here but she was the one that caused the argument and breakup. check out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2984049/girl-always-interferes-bestfriend-relatonship. after I confronted her on the issue for the like the hundredth time. she frustrated me up to the point that she was like pushing me to beat her. why wouldn't I insult her?

AND WHAT THE HECK ARE THEY DISCUSSING ON PHONE FOR OVER 35 MINUTES !!!

ON TOP TO SETTLE MATTER

GUY 4GET I'M BEGINNING TO SUSPECT SOMETHING FISHY HAPPENING BETWEEN THE DUO.. WHICH HAS EVEN LED HER TO SAY SHE'S MANAGING YOU..

REMEMBER IT'S A MATTER OF BOYFRIEND BEATING GIRLFRIEND SHE'S INTERFERING..

REMEMBER The guy myt be just fed up with her own girl and picked interest in urs which she's already falling for..

GUYS MY TWO CENT..

BE WISE !!!!!!

NO WOMAN IS WORTH DYING FOR

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by kweenmolly: 3:44am On Jun 15, 2016

bakynes:
You are right abt the " No matter how much you spend on a girl she will still say you havent done anything" I think they think because they give us Sex they are doing us a favour. Thats why i dont know the difference between them and prostitutes. The money you spend on them have expiry date. They wont spend their money to buy you a little gift all is to collect and give sex. Your own money is our money, theirs is my money. All the money na on top cloth, makeup and weave-on. Shameless species.

LOL remember you have a mother and sisters

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Nobody: 3:58am On Jun 15, 2016

SuperSuave:
I stopped prioritizing and taking girls serious since I got out of secondary school. dreams and ambition first others follow

Ur head is there jare. God bless u plenty

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by DedeNkem: 4:01am On Jun 15, 2016

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

Why would you take care of her financially? Is she your wife? Doesn't she have a job?

Some Nigerian men are pure id*iots!! They use money to get a woman and also use money to keep her from leaving them! And they usually stupidly claim they're in love!

The girl was right that she was managing you because she's in the relationship for the money. You're not her type and she managing as long as the money keeps flowing. She doesn't f*ucking love your dumb as*s a bit. You're too dumb to realize that money can't buy you real love!

It's funny to see a mugu come here to advise people against falling mugu! Isn't that ironic?

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Pavarottii(m): 4:06am On Jun 15, 2016

eiBADAn:

Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

Guy leave that girl fast and go 4 someone that Is in ur level. I can bet my life she is just a gold digger and she Is definately cheating on u.

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Pavarottii(m): 4:10am On Jun 15, 2016

SexyStrawberry:

Don't mind these yeye guys forming boss Upandan, na girls dey cause am sha, some girls say if a guy raises his hand on them, that will be d end of the relationship, as for me, I will never insult, but once he opens his mouth to insult me over an argument, relationship ti over be that o! make I see werrin wan carry me go back, the insultive guy I met here on Nairaland can testify to that

So if ur bf insults you? U will end the relationship?

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Pavarottii(m): 4:13am On Jun 15, 2016

AuroraB:
Please, don't discourage this philanthropist

That guy needs to be flogged like 20 strokes of d Cain daily. Till he gets sense. That girl is just a gold digger playing on his soft heart and wealth and I can bet that she is fucking one rugged guy somewhere and giving him money.
He should run with this heels touching his head.

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by ziego(m): 4:18am On Jun 15, 2016

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Most a times ladies forget easily how good u have been to them, have been with this girl for 2years now. One day we had a little argument just because some bought her soro (china android ) she had the got to tell me to list all the things I have done for her since two years. This was a girl I do pay her lesson fees, give her cheques and cash via bank wire, bought cloths for, shoes, I was listing them and she was saying yes yes like it will stop on the way may be she will win. But the one that shocked her was her monthly subscription for 2years which amount to about 57, 000

That was when she shot up.

I was patient enough to list those things

Three good times I traveled from calabar to Lagos just to see her which cost me not less than 30k each.

Little things that matters so much they forget

Why do ladies forget the care of a man so easily

A man Will single handedly train a girl in Skul she pay him back with break up.

Its very very bad

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Jett01: 4:24am On Jun 15, 2016

U boys that your girlfriends have humbled with different styles on d bed that you can boldly spend all your life earning on her,you need JESUS CHRIST as your LORD and personal savour.So knee down where you put your right hand on your chest and lift your hand up like Peter,then repeat after me LORD JESUS,I confess that am a sinner,I know that you died and rose again for justification,have mercy on me and forgive me my sins then mention them .......... coward

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by kelechi17(m): 4:33am On Jun 15, 2016

NoBrake:

She's the one on ur profile I guess? She's ugly tho.. #NoOffence

d dude dey deny em babe

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Burgerlomo: 4:54am On Jun 15, 2016

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

Hmmm noted

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Burgerlomo: 4:55am On Jun 15, 2016

SuperSuave:
I stopped prioritizing and taking girls serious since I got out of secondary school. dreams and ambition first others follow

Correct dude

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Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by kuntash: 4:56am On Jun 15, 2016

alexistaiwo:

Due to time constraints, I don't want to go into details here but she was the one that caused the argument and breakup. check out this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2984049/girl-always-interferes-bestfriend-relatonship. after I confronted her on the issue for the like the hundredth time. she frustrated me up to the point that she was like pushing me to beat her. why wouldn't I insult her?

I wonder how you would handle your marriage life bro ,this one you are narrating your relationship on internet ...

I would advise you marry who you love, and spare all these telemundo , there are so many things you overlook in a union of man and wife ... the earlier you learn this the better ..

2yrs expenses , if you love her, you might not remember all what you did for her ....

It could be difficult to bear the rants from some girls though ....but let your love guide you with wisdom ... and most importantly , complain less !

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by wroskian(m): 4:57am On Jun 15, 2016

eiBADAn:

Sorry about your situation Bro, you have a serious decision to make.
Btw, could I send you my cv?, I could be of benefit to you and your family business.

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by lamex34(m): 4:59am On Jun 15, 2016

conferm talk

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by abdoolorunwa(m): 5:00am On Jun 15, 2016

I WANT TO PUNCH U IN THE FACE RIGHT NOW.
BUT FIRST I WILL SAY Y.
IF A WOMAN LIVED WITH A MAN UNTIL HE WAS ABLE TO HAVE THE THOUGHTS OF BUILDING HIS OWN HOUSE-IT IS THEIR HOUSE.
IF U ARE ABLE TO KEEP A HIGH SPIRIT AT WORK AND U R ALWAYS POSITIVE, SHARP, INTELLIGENT ETC. SHE'S BEING THERE SUPPORTING U-SHE SHARES UR JOB.
IF U BRING FOOD, SHE COOKS IT-U BOTH PROVIDED.
IF U PREGNANT HER SHE CARRIES THE BABY AND EVENTUALLY GIVES BIRTH-ITS UR CHILD. PER ADVENTURE SHE DIES IN THE PROCESS-U KILLED HER.
NOW WHERE DID U SAY UR BAE WENT WRONG AGAIN?
OH BECAUSE SHE SAID SHE'S BEING 'MANAGING U' EHEN IS IT NOT TRUE, EVERY WOMAN IS MANAGING HER MAN CONSIDERING THE FACT THAT SHE LEFT ALL HER SUITORS TO SETTLE WITH U PLUS IF A WOMAN DOESN'T SHOW PRIDE WHAT ELSE WOULD.
MY FRIEND SWALLOW UR PRIDE AND TAKE HER BACK WITHOUT DOUBT. SHE'S EVEN STRONG ENOUGH TO CONFRONT U TO TAKE HER BACK. THATS AN IDEAL WOMAN. SUFFICE IT TO SAY THAT "NA SO WOMEN BE"
IF UR TYPE DESIST FROM ABUSING WOMEN, MAYBE WE WOULD HAVE A BETTER SOCIETY.
NOW I CAN PUNCH UR FACE.
PLS LIKE IF U FEEL ME. SHARE IF U THINK AM ON POINT

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by HIV1: 5:17am On Jun 15, 2016

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

Run away, you're in bondage.

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by hmuhammad(m): 5:21am On Jun 15, 2016

alexistaiwo:

she is not the one on my dp. the girl on my dp is my friend who loves nairaland but she refuses to open her own account so she uses my account to comment sometimes. besides she is beautiful (beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder)

if she is not ur girlfriend, then ur side chick. I hope u aint cheating on ur girl

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by Krismart(m): 5:26am On Jun 15, 2016

When it seems things are getting better in your life, the devil gives you a girlfriend.
~Robert Mugabe

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by manyus(m): 5:27am On Jun 15, 2016

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

My friend that's how ladies/women are generally.Try and forgive her because I bet you any woman can say that during augument.Wait till you get married,your wife will say more.

Re: Ladies. Watch Your Tongue. I Stopped Caring For Her After She Said This by olaasiwaju: 5:31am On Jun 15, 2016

Ok sir, everybody get he's own way to treat ladies, because they don't deserve arguement with,that how to show a real capable MAN, let keep praying to Allah subhanahu wa Ta' ala to show us our right partner.

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