So you have gotten past the initial dating stage and are now in a “relationship.” This can be the best or worst part of your life depending on how you proceed. I am coming at this topic with a five year (and counting) relationship with many highs and lows. Learn from my mistakes and triumphs and do not fall into these common relationship mistakes.

1. Losing the romance in the relationship is one of the key reasons why relationships fail.

It is easy to become complacent and slack on making an effort for romance. The truth is, relationships are work. Not that you won’t have any fun along the way, but you need to remember it takes a focused effort to be romantic with your partner.

2. Trying to control our significant other.

Many of us either have control issues or things that the other person does that drive us crazy. Both of these scenarios can lead to us wanting to control or comment on every move the other person makes. Think about it though, would you like someone telling you what to do every waking minute? You are not this person’s parent. If he/she is a grown adult, treat them like one

3. Expecting perfection.

We are all human. We all make mistakes. Do not hold your significant other to some unrealistically high expectation. This is especially hard for those of us who hold unrealistically high expectations for ourselves, but that’s another topic altogether.

4. Avoiding confrontation.

Fighting is not the way most of us want to spend our time, so it can be tempting to just brush all of the problems under the rug. The flaw with that plan is that the problems collect and multiply. This will ultimately end up in an explosive argument, or a parting of ways with the other person baffled as to what went wrong. Communication is huge in any relationship and should not be avoided.

5. Fighting about everything.

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* Asking for too much in a relationship
* Being overly possessive
*Cold treatment

And lots more....


Nice write up op

Always thinkin there are perfect people out thr

Diddyydiva:
* Asking for too much in a relationship

* Being overly possessive

*Cold treatment


And lots more....



Nice write up op

Tanx, "Nice Additions u have der"

hyman9ja:

Tanx, "Nice Additions u have der"

you are welcome .

Diddyydiva:
you are welcome .

diva can i ask u 4 a favour?

Julietcutie:
comparing other relationships with yours is one big relationship mistake to avoid

Good one u have der...

SAINTSAMURAII:
diva can i ask u 4 a favour?

What's the favour saint

Diddyydiva:
What's the favour saint

ermm who are u supporting 4 the miss nairaland contest?

SAINTSAMURAII:
ermm who are u supporting 4 the miss nairaland contest?

no one.


Waiting for the guys edition

Diddyydiva:
no one.

Waiting for the guys edition

why dont u just support my candidate?