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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Twogreatnations: 8:41am On Jun 17, 2016 |
enkaydewdrop: This woman na real case study @ Enkay, abeg no vex chook hand inside your hoohaa ooo. Pele dear, you are almost there. Soon your precious one will be in your arms by God's grace. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by airforcewife(f): 8:45am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Morning lovely Mama's, hope you are all doing great! I'm so sad to hear the losses, Maamas, May the almighty console and bless you with the ones that are here to stay. So sorry, u'll all carry your Lo's sooner than you expect ![]() A very Big Congratulations to all Mamas that have offloaded, May the Almighty bless your Lo's abundantly Ameeeen. ![]() Happy belated birthday to all Maamas that had their birthdays and anniversaries.. Heartbroken, I feel you. I can imagine your state of mind. May God make this the last ever.. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Amhappy(f): 8:47am On Jun 17, 2016 |
@enkaydewdrop Lol sorry for all the troubles. LO is just taking his/her time kikikikikikikiki. It will soon be over. I'm having the constant pooing too. Last night I had frequent painless contraction for like 3hrs. I think say the thing don reach. DH & I have told baby that next week is the appointed time ooo. From Monday I will increase pineapple intake maybe half ripe this time around as longer throat will not let me choose unripe pineapple over riped ones. @brokenheart So sorry dear. Men can be very annoying. He go do away match and was yawning rubbish. It's clear he's just scoping the girl. However what our men don't know is that girls are longer smiling. You can get trapped in the process and destroy your life. That's why the bible says that the sin of sexual immorality is the sin against ones body. I hope his remorse will lead to repentance. Watch and pray,also try to heal for your sanity. I had similar experience when I had a surgery during ttc days,was away for one month with my parents. My DH that claim he doesn't have enough money to fully pay for my surgery was having reserve for azonto. I was mad when I found out and wanted to report him to our church group leader. Well after much pleading,he reported himself for counseling and since then I won't lie the changes is unbelievable. 10 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tchiwinnie: 8:52am On Jun 17, 2016 |
@zimunachimdi, u don't need to apply anything if u did plastibel ie the ring type. Wear diaper normally, bathe him normally, it ll fall out on its own. I have two sons and that is what I did. NOTHING. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by babythug(f): 8:56am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Iyabetajos: Good heavens! What sheer carelessness is this! Feel like cursing out at the person but i will do what's most just. I will leave the person in the hands of the Almighty God. It is well! 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anak123: 8:58am On Jun 17, 2016 |
@ mitchy, tnk u.. He's bin running temp, clingy(on my chest right now)v had only like 2hrs sleep. ![]() Eigmaticme,,, so sorry ma'am , may the good Lord comfor n give double. Hugs.. enkaydewdop , mitchy..... Hmmmm vigilante is real ooo. Me that like sleep wella, can't rem the last time I had 5hrs sleep straight.... Day time ;I go to shop, early momo; food must ready(hubby carries food to work, me sef like food wella) DS will bath, suckle,,wanna play,....thank God my mom is still around... I for hear am pass like this. And to think a lady that had triplets in jan came to my shop this week looking fresh, Omo I bow for am o, she said she almost craze for the matter! U would never guess she had triplets!! May we all reap the fruits of our labour ooo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 8:59am On Jun 17, 2016 |
thorpido: Thanks alot sir. funny enough, I've always had access to his phone dats y i could even easily look through that night. I just never saw any suspicious stuff all dis while neither had he given me reason to doubt him. we talked last night & he said i wasnt sexxually welcomin like I used to b in d early months of marriage, dat i complain when he asks me to take a particular position or do his 'fetish', dat am always on my phone (browsing/chatting) even in d middle of d night, dat i got slack in d way i appear at home when hes back from work & i got used to stayin nuude indoors wich he doesnt like. He also said he felt inadequate at not bein able to make me cuum after lots of forreplay etc & he duznt evn no wen I actually com. ( i guess I need help in dis area, I enjoy sexx but I find it hard to climmax truly) & i was like.. why didnt u say anytin! Is marriage not for communication? He reiterated his promise not to do it again to wich i told him im not sure he wont yet he kept at it but am stil so broken.. i told him i was givin him a last chance, dat if he does it again, i'm leaving him. He's such a good man in all respects dat i just wonder how dis loop hole came by 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 9:00am On Jun 17, 2016 |
@ brokenheart , it is well with u......only u knows n unstd how u feel.everybody has an imaginary action plan on how to handle a cheating partner when caught but until it eventually happen, no one knows what how they will finally handle it. U unstd ur dh more than anyone here n u knw him better.....if he is the type dat wen u easily forgive him just because he apologised he still go back to do d same thing then i will advise u consider other option. Am not saying u shldnt forgive ur hubby or drive him out totally but some cheating partner knows there wife is not ready to lose her home so she forgives dem at d 1st apology n she even makes more effort to keep them n this makes them do it again n apologies again n she forgives again. My dear in as much as u wnt to forgive him,dont gv him on d plata of gold but also operate with wisdom. As for d so called girl.....just ignore her n pretend u never know she existed.trust me u will be her only goal n project in life cos she will always visit ur fb page just to look @ u and get angry d more. Nb All my advice are still from my imaginary action plan if i catch my dh cheating n i don't knw if i will be able to do it or not or even do worse. 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:04am On Jun 17, 2016 |
enkaydewdrop: Hohohohoho, buhahaha. I think you should go to hospital so they'll know how many cm dilated you're. Is well my sister. Vigilantee you'll soon be, is just a matter of time. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:05am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Teegali: amen, thank u. I was like probably because am now fat cos he used to say he wished I'll go almost back, not exactly to d stature i was when we got married. He's never been like dis or probably was just very good at hiding it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by missmalachi: 9:07am On Jun 17, 2016 |
heartbroken:Sorry love........this too sha pass........may God help our men cos this days d single babes only pay attention to men with wedding band. If he is nt a cheat.....he will change for good n if he is one,he will only tighten d loopholes dat will make him get caught. Since u hv forgiven him,u will hv to open ur heart to relate with him d way u do b4 now so dat things will b normal. One love 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:09am On Jun 17, 2016 |
cherrymum1: You just made me laugh @ d ' c thief'. Thanks a lot. Hugs back 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:17am On Jun 17, 2016 |
GenyEbere:thank u lots. Amen 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 17, 2016 |
uwani:thanks alot. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:28am On Jun 17, 2016 |
BritneyStacy:hmmmm.. i believe that not all men cheat & thought my husband was among d few good eggs. He was d one who told me he didnt tel her he's married that he told her he's in a relationship.. thanks alot, i have already blocked her & working at my emotions. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:37am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Liftedhands: smiles, thanks mum Ekene. Amen, I'm really tryin to b strong o.. When I was discussing with my hubby & called her a strange woman, he was like.. it's only a woman that has captured a mans heart dat is such dat he has no feelings wotsoever 4 her. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:50am On Jun 17, 2016 |
hajarahbadmus: amen dear, thanks. So sorry for openin d wound, i had no1 to talk to & d pain was eating me up. Hows your healing process going? Hmmm, I pray he doesn't cheat again because dat wil b d end of d marriage- I can't live a miserable life & ive told him so if he truly values me in his life, he wil train his 3rd leg to behave. i stil love him that's why he's gettin anoda chance but i won't let love blind me again, my eagle eyes are on him sha & ive decided to have other things occupying my mind & not making him d center of my world anymore. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:52am On Jun 17, 2016 |
mubzay: Thanks alot, amen. Hugs back 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Akorkor(f): 9:52am On Jun 17, 2016 |
To all mama that have given birth to their precious ones i say a big congratulationssssss And to the one that loss in one way or the other, dont worry God will double your joy in jesus name. You are all in our prayers. Okay, My friday rant... I have serious cattarh, though always have cattarh before pregnant and no drug has been working for me... Thought they say second trimester is sweet? Couldnt keep anything down yesterday and this morning too na serious headache and i had to pour water on my hair because since i was 6 weeks i no dey for mood to make hair at all... Mama, abeg, na so he dey do somebori... I am 13 weeks plus. Also, i have been taking Ginger tea, i hope is okay? Dont read and pass mama, please answer my bolded phrase. #TeamDecember for supernatural delivery |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:54am On Jun 17, 2016 |
airforcewife: Amen o, thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jina24(f): 9:57am On Jun 17, 2016 |
enkaydewdrop:I say make I find your trouble small. Kikikikikikik ![]() 13 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by thorpido(m): 10:00am On Jun 17, 2016 |
heartbroken:He wanted to cheat and that's why he did it.I don't like when people give excuses on why they did it especially when they make it appear like it's the fault of the partner. He could have communicated with you.Simply tell you what he likes or what he wants changed.Try and work on the areas he spoke about too most especially being on the phone when in bed with your husband. It's a good thing you've forgiven him.Unburden your heart too.Work with him so both of you are not distant. May God keep your home together. 17 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BellaElla(f): 10:01am On Jun 17, 2016 |
heartbroken: First of all I have to commend you for having the mind to share this, I am so sorry for what you feel Secondly and most importantly, you have to understand that cheating is a choice, he chose to do it. please don't feel like any of it was your fault. IT IS NOT. whether you added weight, or were not as sexy as you were before, do not let him talk you into feeling that your looks or behaviour justifies his actions. REFUSE TO TAKE BLAME. if you start accepting that you had a part to play in his indiscretions, you will never be able to stop blaming your self. Forgive him if you can, but please do not take part in the blame game. men have cheated on their wives with married women, girls with body odour, house helps, prostitutes, does it mean that they were better than their wives? what of those that sleep with their friends wives that have had 4 children, is their v.j tighter than their wives own? One thing men do is to try and make you take part of the blame for their bad actions. don't fall for it. you can apply discreetly corrections as per their complaints but don't go and turn into who you are not. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by feddy27: 10:11am On Jun 17, 2016 |
babylove01: Teamie, good to hear from you and thank God you are ok. I will update asap. are you a 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th....time mom? Are you team pink or blue? |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by babylove01: 10:15am On Jun 17, 2016 |
1st time mom and I haven't checked but hope to check soon [color=#006600][/color] feddy27: 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Anak123: 10:34am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Iyabetajos: OMG!!! This is too painful... May God continue to comfort you. You will carry ur children's children in Jesus name. And to think that this same thing happened to my son, my mom noticed it on time.... It was in the middle of the night, ma so she start to find nurse up n down hospital, went to second floor, could u imagine the nurse there refused to follow her, dat they will query the nurse that was supposed to b attending to us, n dat one don go sleep, it took 30min for us to get her to come do it right. All tru my stay there I could not sleep. Too much negligence abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:46am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Amhappy:exactly! D spiritual soul tie is d problem. As in ehhn, my hubby too was cutting baby list saying som things are nt impt & me too was agreein because i know his income.. now, he's buyin them o.. he's doin anytin to appease me. how did u finally get over it? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by hajarahbadmus(f): 11:09am On Jun 17, 2016 |
@ heartbroken I stopped checking his phone for my sanity..just like urs, he doesn't hide anything from me..but I went I step further by reporting him to his parents...I was hurt,and betrayed. mine was worse because all the times I observed, I bottled it up nd avoided confortations. Was talking to him about it indirectly and he wl come out sober nd all... The last one that broke the camels back was on my birthday and I told his parents I was done..i had packed my stuffs see when he realised that no be play.. I kept to myself for a long time..nd I found peace.. He now does everything to please me.. im trying to trust him but it's not working..maybe overtime sha I don't let what he does bother me anymore..rather I an beginning to chanel the energy to my self development.. Just sit and think of what will work for you.. Don't believe it will not happen again.. It might happen but he will never let u know.. Men are bound to stray. .it doesn't mean he loves u less.. Develop a tough skin and don't forget to use CONSTRUCTIVE SILENCE.. Men are never comfortable when you are quiet cos he doesn't know what is coming next Deal with wisdom and pray and everything will fall in your favour by God's grace.. It is well @enkaydewdrop pele..it will soon be over.. Please go for long walks so the baby's head can drop into the pelvis faster..dint sit in one place o! May God make it easy.. 8 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jesusbaby1(f): 11:13am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Blessedmum:I experienced it the last three days and it was really horrible... had to take paracetamol at some point and had lots of warm bath...it helped relief me a little... my lo was virtually playing around my vj.... and lower tummy causing me pains and discomfort plus back pains...atimes I hv to spank my tummy a little like baby behave na... but am fine now....so the pain will ease up... |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 11:28am On Jun 17, 2016 |
melly245: Pls visit the hospital and get checked to be sure all is well. Dont be scared if the nurses or doc will laugh at you. Reduced baby movement might be an early sign of baby in distress. Not trying to make you scared but dont take anything for granted. Check, check and double check has always been my mantra in this pregnancy. The nurses don know me finish 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Amhappy(f): 11:32am On Jun 17, 2016 |
heartbroken: I can't really say but time took care of it. Just like in ur case he was remorseful. He uninstalled watsapp,stopped all form of communication etc. I was also very busy at that time working Sunday to Sunday. I won't lie ooo,I turned detective overnight. My first thought of forgiveness was after he went for counseling in the church (I never knew he did until he shared his thoughts with me,apologizing and all that).Then he went further to willingly turn himself in for ttc tests at the hospital. Over time it died a natural death. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Towerofgrace: 11:35am On Jun 17, 2016 |
Hello mamas in the house. I found this and just had to share with you guys especially June mamas, don't worry ur Los are already here hail and hearty. Happy bumping to remaining mamas, and fertility blessings to us ATC mamas 18 Likes
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