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Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by pornstar(m): 7:29am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:Thanks but do u think it would work,cuz i dnt want her waitimg for me on my door step with bottle ready to break it on my head |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 7:31am On Jun 27, 2016 |
IndecentStar: If you don't love her you have to let her go. You want to date other people. Ask if she'd prefer you to cheat, because that's what you'll do. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 7:32am On Jun 27, 2016 |
IndecentStar:jes tel ha man, u started it, end it, cos it wil be better to tel ha dan to treat ha badly. My opinion though 1 Like |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by pornstar(m): 7:35am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:Thanks ama do that nw and get back to u later,have missed her calls eight times already,i pray that wil work...plus u said u know me,if i may ask from where? |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 7:36am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:dat wil b bad, y ask ha dat? U might make her neva trust a guy, jes tel ha straight u wanna brk up, i knw d reason ur breakin up is nt cos u want 2 hav mor grls bt cos ur tired of d r.ship, so better b sincere, she might feel bad bt its a risk worth takin, ur free and shes free |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by pornstar(m): 7:37am On Jun 27, 2016 |
dukeprince50:Thanks, apreciate ur concern |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 7:39am On Jun 27, 2016 |
IndecentStar:jes helpin a broda, even though hes a IndecentStar. Lol |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 7:39am On Jun 27, 2016 |
IndecentStar: It will work, but she will be hurt. But look on the positive - neither of you are trapped in this any more. Be gentle, be kind. But be concise - it's over, I dint love you, we won't get back together, thank you. She may be crazy when u tell her but it'll get better if you practise the no contact rule for her - look at my other post. Let us know how it goes. God be with you. I meant to say I know you scared. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by pornstar(m): 7:40am On Jun 27, 2016 |
dukeprince50:. Thanks man |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 7:41am On Jun 27, 2016 |
dukeprince50: Exactly. You want to date others, so would she prefer you break up with her and be honest, or just cheat and treat her bad? She will not have trust issues because you actually beung honest - you telling her you want others BEFORE you actually do it. You get? |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 7:44am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:d fact dat he's scared 2 tel ha mean he stil care abt her feelins, i knw a guy, afta havin sex wit a grl, he opened his door and ask d grl to get out, very disgraceful. Though its a revenge, bt he went 2 far |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 7:46am On Jun 27, 2016 |
dukeprince50: You can care for someone but not love and date them. That's fine. But sometimes u have to be hurtful to be kind in the long run. So that she have a chance to get someone that truly love her. And yes, is disgraceful behaviour you described. Slap-worthy. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 7:48am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:we men ar nt actually what grls think we her, d reason we brk up isnt because dere is anoda kittycat waitin outside, we can cheat, bt neva brk up cos of a cat, we brk up cos we tired of d r.ship. U get? U nt a man so dnt lectur me on wat i am. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 7:52am On Jun 27, 2016 |
dukeprince50: There are lots of reason to break up. Not always because of other girl. But u will get interested in other girl, if u stay in relationship that u tired of for too long. That's my reasoning for using cheating as a reason. Say "I want to date other people." She will be grateful you broke up because that means she won't be cheated. That's all. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 7:59am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:ok i get it, even if i really dnt, i stil gerit. Lol. Takia and gudmorning |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by pornstar(m): 8:11am On Jun 27, 2016 |
i have send the msg for over 30min now and to my suprice she didnt call me i think thats a good sign for nw ur guys rock.foolinlove.dukeprince50 1 Like |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 8:12am On Jun 27, 2016 |
IndecentStar: You're welcome - all the best. Now go read my thread on no contact rule. For u and for her. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 8:20am On Jun 27, 2016 |
IndecentStar:nice move, bt nothin is better than telling her eye to eye, since she didnt call back, who knws if she's tryin 2 commit suicide. Nxt tym go straight up and tel anyone u wanna brk up wit, jst believ dat d way u wil feel wen she brk up wil b d way she wil feel if u brk up... When u c ha nxt, try nt keep malis wit ha cos dats wat always apen wen ppl brk up, cal ha and smile wen u c her, even if its fake, u dnt knw d power of smilin, nt smirk o. Make it lyk notin apen, u wil be relievd, i broke up wit my first grl bt til 2day she stil com 2my hauz, cook 4me, nd ask me to walk wit ha. My secret is smile |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 8:23am On Jun 27, 2016 |
dukeprince50: I don't recommend. This will just give her hope for future wit you together again. She is very emotional then best to cut off contact ao she can try to move on. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by falconey(m): 8:26am On Jun 27, 2016 |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by dukeprince50: 8:33am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:hope, it depends on hu you are, i smile a lot, even when talkin to kids, so i'm knwn for dat, i draw ppl close wit it, so she knws who i am, well if he is nt pesin dat smile a lot, no need faking it, bt a smile once in a while can keep you off your problems. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by pornstar(m): 8:56am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:Ok, will do just that |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by kunlexze(m): 9:00am On Jun 27, 2016 |
Experiencing similar issue recently. She just stopped calling me since may14 and her phone is always switched off even up till this moment. she only flashed my number twice last sunday hiding her number(no number) but i got to know through "True caller" application that she was the one and immediatly after flashing she switched off her phone again we had no disagreement or whatsoever, but flashing me with a "no number" and switching off her phone afterwards is like she is teasing me. Foolinlove ur advise is needed |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 9:12am On Jun 27, 2016 |
kunlexze: Sounds like she is playing childish games. She'll turn her phone on to see the messages and missed calls etc but won't actually speak wit you. My only advice can be to do the no contact rule wit her. Don't attempt to communicate with her, just wait, and she might contact you. Unless she speaks to you you can have no idea whay she is thinking or doing. If she calls you, talk to her and listen to her reasons. Let her know how you feel about this things. So you can get closure to this thing. Then it is back to no contact. She sounds like an attention seeker to me. If she had the ability to flash your phone, then she had 30 to send a text to explain herself. I personally think she has moved on but wants you to stroke her ego. I think you should move on too. If you can't move on without closure, then give urself closure: send a text telling her you won't be chasing her anymore and it is over. Then move on. Hope this helps. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by louken(m): 9:14am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:story. you probbly have done same to a guy. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 9:16am On Jun 27, 2016 |
louken: I haven't. I respect people. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by kunlexze(m): 10:15am On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove: Thanks. I'v deleted her messages, pics etc on my phone and i've moved on, i was just trying to make some assumptions on what might have led to that.. Thanks all the way. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 10:17am On Jun 27, 2016 |
kunlexze: You're welcome, good luck. God bless. |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by Puresolutions: 10:38am On Jun 27, 2016 |
Oliviaarims: Lol... This makes sense it's not clumsy it's simpple but sensible |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by louken(m): 3:07pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:Good. You will keep meeting your kind. No one will do it to you |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by louken(m): 3:07pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
foolinlove:Good. You will keep meeting your kind. No one will do it to you |
Re: HOW TO: Break Up With A Person by foolinlove(f): 4:26pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
louken: I hope never again :/ |
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