foolinlove:


So send a text, you don't need look her in the eye. She deserves to know you don't want her and don't truly love her.

She will get over it. She may report you. But with time it will get better for her. Don't keep her hanging on for something that won't happen.

Follow the format:
It's over.
I don't love you.
I will date other people.
Thank you.

Thanks but do u think it would work,cuz i dnt want her waitimg for me on my door step with bottle ready to break it on my head

IndecentStar:

Thanks but do u think it would work,cuz i dnt want her waitimg for me on my door step with bottle ready to break it on my head

If you don't love her you have to let her go. You want to date other people. Ask if she'd prefer you to cheat, because that's what you'll do.

IndecentStar:

Thanks but do u think it would work,cuz i dnt want her waitimg for me on my door step with bottle ready to break it on my head

jes tel ha man, u started it, end it, cos it wil be better to tel ha dan to treat ha badly. My opinion though

foolinlove:


If you don't love her you have to let her go. You want to date other people. Ask if she'd prefer you to cheat, because that's what you'll do.

Thanks ama do that nw and get back to u later,have missed her calls eight times already,i pray that wil work...plus u said u know me,if i may ask from where?

foolinlove:


If you don't love her you have to let her go. You want to date other people. Ask if she'd prefer you to cheat, because that's what you'll do.

dat wil b bad, y ask ha dat? U might make her neva trust a guy, jes tel ha straight u wanna brk up, i knw d reason ur breakin up is nt cos u want 2 hav mor grls bt cos ur tired of d r.ship, so better b sincere, she might feel bad bt its a risk worth takin, ur free and shes free

dukeprince50:
jes tel ha man, u started it, end it, cos it wil be better to tel ha dan to treat ha badly. My opinion though

Thanks, apreciate ur concern

IndecentStar:

Thanks, apreciate ur concern

jes helpin a broda, even though hes a IndecentStar. Lol

IndecentStar:

Thanks ama do that nw and get back to u later,have missed her calls eight times already,i pray that wil work...plus u said u know me,if i may ask from where?

It will work, but she will be hurt. But look on the positive - neither of you are trapped in this any more.

Be gentle, be kind. But be concise - it's over, I dint love you, we won't get back together, thank you.

She may be crazy when u tell her but it'll get better if you practise the no contact rule for her - look at my other post.

Let us know how it goes. God be with you.

I meant to say I know you scared.

dukeprince50:
dat wil b bad, y ask ha dat? U might make her neva trust a guy, jes tel ha straight u wanna brk up, i knw d reason ur breakin up is nt cos u want 2 hav mor grls bt cos ur tired of d r.ship, so better b sincere, she might feel bad bt its a risk worth takin, ur free and shes free

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Thanks man

dukeprince50:
dat wil b bad, y ask ha dat? U might make her neva trust a guy, jes tel ha straight u wanna brk up, i knw d reason ur breakin up is nt cos u want 2 hav mor grls bt cos ur tired of d r.ship, so better b sincere, she might feel bad bt its a risk worth takin, ur free and shes free

Exactly. You want to date others, so would she prefer you break up with her and be honest, or just cheat and treat her bad? She will not have trust issues because you actually beung honest - you telling her you want others BEFORE you actually do it. You get?

foolinlove:


It will work, but she will be hurt. But look on the positive - neither of you are trapped in this any more.

Be gentle, be kind. But be concise - it's over, I dint love you, we won't get back together, thank you.

She may be crazy when u tell her but it'll get better if you practise the no contact rule for her - look at my other post.

Let us know how it goes. God be with you.

I meant to say I know you scared.

d fact dat he's scared 2 tel ha mean he stil care abt her feelins, i knw a guy, afta havin sex wit a grl, he opened his door and ask d grl to get out, very disgraceful. Though its a revenge, bt he went 2 far

dukeprince50:
d fact dat he's scared 2 tel ha mean he stil care abt her feelins, i knw a guy, afta havin sex wit a grl, he opened his door and ask d grl to get out, very disgraceful. Though its a revenge, bt he went 2 far

You can care for someone but not love and date them. That's fine. But sometimes u have to be hurtful to be kind in the long run. So that she have a chance to get someone that truly love her.

And yes, is disgraceful behaviour you described. Slap-worthy.

foolinlove:


Exactly. You want to date others, so would she prefer you break up with her and be honest, or just cheat and treat her bad? She will not have trust issues because you actually beung honest - you telling her you want others BEFORE you actually do it. You get?

we men ar nt actually what grls think we her, d reason we brk up isnt because dere is anoda kittycat waitin outside, we can cheat, bt neva brk up cos of a cat, we brk up cos we tired of d r.ship. U get? U nt a man so dnt lectur me on wat i am.

dukeprince50:
we men ar nt actually what grls think we her, d reason we brk up isnt because dere is anoda kittycat waitin outside, we can cheat, bt neva brk up cos of a cat, we brk up cos we tired of d r.ship. U get? U nt a man so dnt lectur me on wat i am.

There are lots of reason to break up. Not always because of other girl. But u will get interested in other girl, if u stay in relationship that u tired of for too long.

That's my reasoning for using cheating as a reason. Say "I want to date other people." She will be grateful you broke up because that means she won't be cheated. That's all.

foolinlove:


There are lots of reason to break up. Not always because of other girl. But u will get interested in other girl, if u stay in relationship that u tired of for too long.

That's my reasoning for using cheating as a reason. Say "I want to date other people." She will be grateful you broke up because that means she won't be cheated. That's all.

ok i get it, even if i really dnt, i stil gerit. Lol. Takia and gudmorning

i have send the msg for over 30min now and to my suprice she didnt call me i think thats a good sign for nw ur guys rock.foolinlove.dukeprince50

IndecentStar:
i have send the msg for over 30min now and to my suprice she didnt call me i think thats a good sign for nw ur guys rock.foolinlove.dukeprince50

You're welcome - all the best. Now go read my thread on no contact rule. For u and for her.

IndecentStar:
i have send the msg for over 30min now and to my suprice she didnt call me i think thats a good sign for nw ur guys rock.foolinlove.dukeprince50

nice move, bt nothin is better than telling her eye to eye, since she didnt call back, who knws if she's tryin 2 commit suicide. Nxt tym go straight up and tel anyone u wanna brk up wit, jst believ dat d way u wil feel wen she brk up wil b d way she wil feel if u brk up... When u c ha nxt, try nt keep malis wit ha cos dats wat always apen wen ppl brk up, cal ha and smile wen u c her, even if its fake, u dnt knw d power of smilin, nt smirk o. Make it lyk notin apen, u wil be relievd, i broke up wit my first grl bt til 2day she stil com 2my hauz, cook 4me, nd ask me to walk wit ha. My secret is smile

dukeprince50:
nice move, bt nothin is better than telling her eye to eye, since she didnt call back, who knws if she's tryin 2 commit suicide. Nxt tym go straight up and tel anyone u wanna brk up wit, jst believ dat d way u wil feel wen she brk up wil b d way she wil feel if u brk up... When u c ha nxt, try nt keep malis wit ha cos dats wat always apen wen ppl brk up, cal ha and smile wen u c her, even if its fake, u dnt knw d power of smilin, nt smirk o. Make it lyk notin apen, u wil be relievd, i broke up wit my first grl bt til 2day she stil com 2my hauz, cook 4me, nd ask me to walk wit ha. My secret is smile

I don't recommend. This will just give her hope for future wit you together again. She is very emotional then best to cut off contact ao she can try to move on.

foolinlove:


I don't think you know whay that word means. Anyway, enjoy ur loveless life

lol

foolinlove:


I don't recommend. This will just give her hope for future wit you together again. She is very emotional then best to cut off contact ao she can try to move on.

hope, it depends on hu you are, i smile a lot, even when talkin to kids, so i'm knwn for dat, i draw ppl close wit it, so she knws who i am, well if he is nt pesin dat smile a lot, no need faking it, bt a smile once in a while can keep you off your problems.

foolinlove:


You're welcome - all the best. Now go read my thread on no contact rule. For u and for her.

Ok, will do just that

Experiencing similar issue recently. She just stopped calling me since may14 and her phone is always switched off even up till this moment. she only flashed my number twice last sunday hiding her number(no number) but i got to know through "True caller" application that she was the one and immediatly after flashing she switched off her phone again

we had no disagreement or whatsoever, but flashing me with a "no number" and switching off her phone afterwards is like she is teasing me.

Foolinlove ur advise is needed

kunlexze:
Experiencing similar issue recently. She just stopped calling me since may14 and her phone is always switched off even up till this moment. she only flashed my number twice last sunday hiding her number(no number) but i got to know through "True caller" application that she was the one and immediatly after flashing she switched off her phone again

we had no disagreement or whatsoever, but flashing me with a "no number" and switching off her phone afterwards is like she is teasing me.

Foolinlove ur advise is needed

Sounds like she is playing childish games. She'll turn her phone on to see the messages and missed calls etc but won't actually speak wit you.

My only advice can be to do the no contact rule wit her. Don't attempt to communicate with her, just wait, and she might contact you.

Unless she speaks to you you can have no idea whay she is thinking or doing.

If she calls you, talk to her and listen to her reasons. Let her know how you feel about this things. So you can get closure to this thing. Then it is back to no contact.

She sounds like an attention seeker to me.

If she had the ability to flash your phone, then she had 30 to send a text to explain herself. I personally think she has moved on but wants you to stroke her ego. I think you should move on too.

If you can't move on without closure, then give urself closure: send a text telling her you won't be chasing her anymore and it is over. Then move on.

Hope this helps.

foolinlove:


So you prefer to keep her hanging on to you "just in case"? Let her be with someone who is sure he loves her.

story. you probbly have done same to a guy.

louken:

story. you probbly have done same to a guy.

I haven't. I respect people.

foolinlove:


Sounds like she is playing childish games. She'll turn her phone on to see the messages and missed calls etc but won't actually speak wit you.

My only advice can be to do the no contact rule wit her. Don't attempt to communicate with her, just wait, and she might contact you.

Unless she speaks to you you can have no idea whay she is thinking or doing.

If she calls you, talk to her and listen to her reasons. Let her know how you feel about this things. So you can get closure to this thing. Then it is back to no contact.

She sounds like an attention seeker to me.

If she had the ability to flash your phone, then she had 30 to send a text to explain herself. I personally think she has moved on but wants you to stroke her ego. I think you should move on too.

If you can't move on without closure, then give urself closure: send a text telling her you won't be chasing her anymore and it is over. Then move on.

Hope this helps.

Thanks.

I'v deleted her messages, pics etc on my phone and i've moved on, i was just trying to make some assumptions on what might have led to that..

Thanks all the way.

kunlexze:

Thanks.

I'v deleted her messages, pics etc on my phone and i've moved on, i was just trying to make some assumptions on what might have led to that..

Thanks all the way.

You're welcome, good luck. God bless.

Oliviaarims:
Makes a whole lot of sense... Honestly, I would appreciate it if anyone intending to break up with me does so properly as would I to him...

People should learn to do things the proper way.

Lol... This makes sense it's not clumsy it's simpple but sensible

foolinlove:

I haven't. I respect people.

Good. You will keep meeting your kind. No one will do it to you

foolinlove:

I haven't. I respect people.

Good. You will keep meeting your kind. No one will do it to you

louken:

Good. You will keep meeting your kind. No one will do it to you

I hope never again :/