babyfaceafrica:
dry.....its better to marry an humble gal than a proud one....just because a country is liberal does not give a woman the right to misbehave....Nigerian ladies at home are more well-behaved than thosed abroad,....fact!!!

pippimp:


The average Nigerian cannot survive with a confident self assured woman. Where a woman can buy her own house, car, and anything she wants. That is what a normal society provides and what you are not used to in Nigeria.

waltinnovers:
Majority of Nigerian girls or ladies over there are runs babe, they fvck to live, and they don't hid it and these guys know very well what they are doing, so if they finally one to marry, the will come back here even though the ones here do fvck, it be seen as a local fvck still have some respect internationally but international fvcker don't have any more respect. They are it is finished as Jesus said.
Ka Chineke mesieee okwu
Saalam

DICKtator:
They travel abroad, start growing wings and are no longer submissive.

If the guy does anyhow they call police

When they divorce him ,they get all his stuffs

They become overexposed and carefree
They lose the African woman identity Fela spoke about

Not all though, some are just cool and virtuous.
And some of those that marry from Nigeria,they prefer leaving their wives in Nigeria so they don't have stories that touches to share!!!
Not all though,there are always exceptions to every case.

Ugosample:


Don't get my point wrong....
What you listed up there are good values.

I'm talking of the extreme cases......
Like feeling you have the right to treat your wife as shit (many men from Nigeria have no problems with this, we both know that)

Deliberate misbehaviour (We know we are all human and we make mistake, but doing things anyhow, because you feel your wife can not do shot is 19th cemtury thinking)

And the list goes on.

He/She who does not value family should not get married )

Welcomme:
Is better one marries a white lady abroad than our sisters over there ..

Orubebe01:
Just wondering why majority of them always rush back home to marry when there are handful of Nigerian ladies where they reside. Does it mean that none of them are wife material or what.

babyfaceafrica:
that's a lie...change the type of men you move with!!!....I like confident ladies,but dislike proud ones

DICKtator:
They travel abroad, start growing wings and are no longer submissive.

If the guy does anyhow they call police

When they divorce him ,they get all his stuffs

They become overexposed and carefree
They lose the African woman identity Fela spoke about

Not all though, some are just cool and virtuous.
And some of those that marry from Nigeria,they prefer leaving their wives in Nigeria so they don't have stories that touches to share!!!
Not all though,there are always exceptions to every case.

FvckeDyoBiTch:
The Nigerians in Maryland are nothing to write home about.

Loud mouthed, foul mouthed, Use feminism to hide their stupidity_ and above all they are not appealing...They are as fake as Lai Mohammed...if not faker

Orubebe01:
Just wondering why majority of them always rush back home to marry when there are handful of Nigerian ladies where they reside. Does it mean that none of them are wife material or what.

abbey621:


Agree! What I believe causes instances of such abuse in Nigeria is the fact that women go into marriage thinking the men are the sole providers and fully contented to be a liability. It is human nature to become frustrated at one point or the other. This is why I partially agree with some principles of feminism as long as it is done in moderation.

lefulefu:
op many of these guys u talking about have serious girlfriends or fiancees back in nigeria so u dont expect them to get married to a total stranger.

lefulefu:
op many of these guys u talking about have serious girlfriends or fiancees back in nigeria so u dont expect them to get married to a total stranger.

raumdeuter:
Most people I know married ladies tat are abroad

prettythicksme:
They dont take shits!

chachanga:
Boys will date, wine&dine even impregnate these ladies but still run back here for good old "home-loving" when marriage issues arises.

Apart from insane "family pressures" from home, it seems most, are, at heart still just akpu & ewedu boys when the chips are down .
Bone the Brooklyn swags & the Cockney accent; our sociocultural source-points did do a few numbers on us in setting some future marital expectations &sgendas for us also.

The situation gets further worsened when the said ladies too don't seem to realize that some changes do occur, but only trans-generationally and not instantaneously. So as for ur expecting Naija guys to fit the bill of your newfound, "enlightened" or "postmodern man concept, U go jonze tire!

Not many are comfortable with the extreme liberalism, feminism and women's rights practised and available to our sistahs naturalised abroad but they'll date & screw u just d same, only to dump u later or marry home-based Chichi, Enoh or Bola behind ur back!

Hence, You either get ready to search till you find that ur one-in-a-million guy OR you adjust your expectations and start learning to cook more than Chinese Noodles because if u do marry an Ewedu boy or his Akpu counterpart, my dear, you will cook.
And stop praying for your Mother-in-law to die. (the old woman probably attends MFM Church &she's got a few "Back2Sender" prayer-bullets for you too, in case u decide to be a assassin).
I may be wrong but the fault goes both ways.

Girls: Don't nurse "unnecessary" expectations just because dat guy dey folow u do UK Masters.
Boys: Stop screwwing and "partying-hard" with those ladies if you know you'll use it to judge them later!