blueseacats:
Na that fat de vex me pass, none sense, bros I de vex for this fat matter wetting sef dem de carry fat go heaven? Naija girls go fat like say fat Na evidence of good living.

MrTour:
This is because when the women come abroad they lose some of their core values, culture, respect.

When you live with your wife abroad and you have a misunderstanding she doesn't call you "honey" rather she call you names like "oboy", "useless man" , its normal. If you get offended about it na you go suffer am.
Most naija guys rather marry the home based naija girls who unfortunately has been waxed well. These naija guys prefer to keep the girl in naija for the sake of losing their marriage to the influence of life abroad.

They rather send £500 every month to the girl and visit once in 6 months but little do they know the engine is being waxed in their absence

Orubebe01:
Just wondering why majority of them always rush back home to marry when there are handful of Nigerian ladies where they reside. Does it mean that none of them are wife material or what.

abbey621:
I don't know about any other country but the U.S is a demonic country that ends upsucking the life out of most men at the same time make women power hungry. Due to the feminist theory, the democrat controlled government tries really hard to over compensate for what they termed as injustice. From women's rights to gay rights,real men are no longer seen as a priority. To illustrate consider the rankings:

1. White Women
2. White Male
3. Asian and Hispanic females
4. Asian and Hispanic males
5. Black females
6. Black males.

The above illustrates the real problem black males face in the U.S. A country where shows like real housewives of L.A or Atlanta, Dr. Phil, Oprah and so on. Men are learning to accept their role as number 2 in the house while women are encouraged to take control. This to an African man is a taboo. Imagine not being able to rely on your wife to cook you a good meal or not being able to give your parents or siblings money without getting permission from your wife. Imagine not being able to have an argument with your wife without her calling the police and getting you kicked out of your own home. Our African brothers believe those women back home though they are not perfect are still respectful of the society and traditions to be humble. Of course this theory is not perfect as we have seen a lot of guys coming back home to marry women related to lucifer but as an African man the reward outweighs the risks!

Kassidy90:
The truth is that

macotrading72:
Most of my friends here in japan way go naija go merry vow they will never bring their naija wife to Japan reason because after one or two years here she will start making friends that will enlighten here on things she didn't know which to the guys will jeopardize their beautiful home.
So they marry them and leave them for naija, for Japan for example man and woman dey equal so most of us from naija no ready for that kind competition.

GloriaNinja:
I think because many Nigerian girls over there don't tolerate bullshit.

jackpiperr:
Black people have inferiority complex.A black male or black female's biggest dream in life is to marry white and have white friends and live in a white neighbourhood . That is a very big achievement and status symbol to a black immigrant. To send their kids to a white dominated University. A black immigrant may not desire to live in predominantly black neighbourhood or cities such as Flint Michigan or Jackson Mississippi. A black immigrant may rather desire to live in a predominantly white city such as Boise Idaho or Lexington,Kentucky instead of black dominated cities such as Detroit or Birmingham Alabama. A black immigrant may not desire to send their kids to black dominated schools . Most of the black leaders of the BlackLifeMatters have white boyfriends/girlfriends,aspire to live in white neighbourhood and go to white universities. Even Malcom X ,Bill Cosby ,Al Sharpton,and Martin Luther King jnr had secret white girlfriends and lived in White neighbourhoods.
A black may rather chose to condone and be friends with a white trash or white thug such as Eminem rather than with Lil wayne or Wacka flocka

peter1994:
In America: I think it has something to do with a believe that they are often spoilt by the Gender equality thing (won't be loyal)

In Europe esp. Italy, Poland, Spain and Germany, There is a believe that our ladies do all sorts of illicit Jobs including Asset Marketing / Commercial sex work (Ash)

Those in Asia Any Single lady wen get mind to go Chinko fit do anything o

Uniqueness01:
They don't get married to Nigerians abroad because they have GF or Fiancee in Nigeria hence they always come back to Nigeria to marry...

Hope I am correct

Nyceguy92:


Well said, sis..
I was looking for who will mention this most important reason..

Most Nigerian men overseas already have high school or university sweethearts or very close female acquaintances they admire.
They all keep in touch one way or another so it is easy for the men to "fall back" on them when the time comes to marry.

Besides, our culture and tradition is very rich and lovely and most of these men grew up in them before travelling abroad.
So they prefer those ladies who have not lost those cultural and traditional values through over-Westernisation.

However, Nigerian men who were born and grew up abroad do marry girls who share similar birth place and upbringing.
They think alike and have little knowledge of how we dey do things for Naija.

daretodiffer:
Your mother doesn't sound good at all

yomz1e:
Totally wrong argument, the people that run back home to get a wife are people who migrated abroad at a later stage in their lives. They are not use to the lifestyle and exposure of women abroad. They go back to village to pick a docile wife or ask their parents to do arrangie marriage. That being said, when the village woman now comes abroad, her eyes open and starts expressing her feminism , which now confuses the guy so he can't cope and cant beat the woman so the marriage collapse.
Also if you grew up abroad and you've never visited your country, it will be difficult to go back home to pick a wife cos of the culture difference , and what it all comes down to is love, respect, communication and no 3rd parties ( especially parents) there are good women here if you search well and don't go show urself.