Toks2008:


Were girl..na you be granma...I'm younger than your boyfriend and shey na you marry wife for me?

I can't even give you the mad gelz on nairaland sir,you will frustrate them


Happy Sunday,and don't stare at women booty in church

Toks2008:


I'm sure your first paragraph is not referring to my write up cos there was no place auditory was used rather I wrote about ladies being an emotional creatures..that is totally different from your twist.

Furthermore it has become a norm to believe that sexually appealing ladies generally are potential bad wives..abeg there are sweet sexy ladies out there that will make super excellent wives but the fact remains that if you marry a lady you are not sexually attracted to, you may likely not have marital fufillment except you just decide to live in marital illusion.

jojosweet:

misspicy:

Odun o

see as that mumu dollyjoy just spoil Toks FP thread,with her mad display
can't even log in now,with out one yeye mentions from deranged bush gelz
oku ko wo oja


How is you?

skarlett:
Toks whatever you call yourself, so this just made sense to you ba

You never cease to amaze me with your misogynist tendacies and double standards. So women should not look at the exterior but men should Because only men are moved by sight and women aren't

Pffft!
Piece of crap

darkenedrebel:


Who said so? The Omotola Jolades of this world are a living proof that you can get the complete package.

Toks2008:


Lmao!

Exactly my point dude..read your post again man..

Nice melons..your perfect ass..exactly my point..who dey talk about face lol?

fawaz050:
And when Those So called appealling sexual features are no Longer appealing Or becomes Saggy as a Result of Old age.....Then?Divorce your partner and look for another volumptous lady?


Oh,You are saying Olu and Joke Jacobs have been married for 29 years or so because joke Silva is still sexually Appealing.

According to her,the main reason why they held together for so Long is their ability to forgive and Overlook each other's Shortcomings not the crap you said there(in Ur Post)


Pounds Fufu

Ligxy:

You sounded really smart, but with this statement, I don't know. What gave you the impression that Omotola Jolades have a perfect marriage? Set your own goals when it comes to marriage, using some distant public figures as models is dangerous.

darkenedrebel:


I never said she had a perfect marriage, and I never used her marriage as a model.

I have met her in person twice and I can testify to her personableness and good character—which was why I said she was the complete package i.e has beauty, brains, character, and is very talented.

These are the qualities that what I want in my dream woman so there's nothing iffy in me using Omotola Jolade as benchmark when I'm wife-hunting.

Another reason I mentioned her (and not her marriage) was to support that part of OP's post that said: We always talk about behaviour as if you can't get your spec who will also have a fairly good nature...its all about tolerance

I was trying to let him know you indeed can get the total package, which was why I cited Omotola Jolade, and not her marriage.

Don't get it twisted.

misspicy:
Odun o
see as that mumu dollyjoy just spoil Toks FP thread,with her mad display can't even log in now,with out one yeye mentions from deranged bush gelz oku ko wo oja

How is you?

misspicy:


I can't even give you the mad gelz on nairaland sir,you will frustrate them


Happy Sunday,and don't stare at women booty in church

Teespice:
all I see here is double standards. I am not surprised though.

you tell men to go for that woman that is sexually appealing, she can be pardoned for her indiscretions. you seem to forget that sexiness will fade. what happens if she gives birth, will you then discard her because she's no longer appealing. for how long will you continue to forgive her indiscretions because she's sexy. na wa for this kain reasoning sha.

previous threads of yours always castigate women so I ain't surprised.

then for women, they cannot choose the fine, sexy dude because he might be a devil. instead they should go for a shrek who ticks the boxes. okay na.

your own again is to attack anybody with a contrary view.

I loves me a very fine brother. you need to stop dissing and shaming women for the choices they make. the last time I checked, they made and will make that choice with their eyes wide open.

Toks2008:
No romantic affair is perfect and it will take lots of tolerance to co-habit with anyone we choose to spend our marital life with but nevertheless, i have learned that while we tend to seek for good qualities in the opposite sex, in most cases we often realize that what it seems is not what it is but there is an important quality we need to see in a partner that will keep us endeared to that person long enough to form a great bonding.


FOR THE WOMAN:I have heard many ladies list the qualities they want in a man and i need not go into rhetorics of the various qualities sought after by women but im sorry to burst your bubbles that many marriages and romantic union are dead on arrival because many ladies tend to look for the wrong qualities in a man.

Lets cut the chase...there is nothing bad in wanting a cute,tall,dark/fair,rich guy and so on but I want you to know that you are an emotional creature and the type of man you should look for is the type that will reach out to your inner soul not by the money he gives you,not by the six packs he has,not by the way he blows your mind in bed but you need a man who is truly crazy about you.

Many ladies know the man who is truly crazy about them but they tend to complicate matters by longing for that guy they are crazy about...YES it is important to desire a man before allowing him into your life but you have no business with a man who does not truly desire you.If that tall,cute,sexy.sazzy rich guy treats you like pooh i bet he will look like a monster in your eyes but if that short fat and ugly struggling guy treats you like a queen,you will simply find yourself loving him in no time and he will look so cute in your eyes...That is the way a lady is wired but most of them are ignorant of this.


FOR THE MAN: Men tend to look for decent ladies,homely ladies,ladies who know how to cook,GOD fearing ladies.....but i have seen men who got married to very virtuous ladies but still end up looking out frantically for romance and i tend to wonder why this is so.

Yes it is very good to look for good wifely qualities in a woman we want to marry but believe it or not,there is really no bad or good woman but its about how you handle your affair..even a witch will use her power to protect a man that treats her well..FACT

I will not discourage men from seeking the so called wifely qualities in any lady they want to marry but the truth is that men are visual creatures and whatever pleases our eyes will most likely please our soul(FACT)

If you desire a lady with certain sexual features why settle for less in the name of inner beauty? so the most important quality to look for in a lady is for her to be sexually pleasing to your eyes because if you marry a woman who has every other good qualities but not sexually pleasing to you then you may spend the rest of your life in perpetual marital sexual bondage as you will always fantasize about another lady who has the sexual features you desire.

Hope this makes sense.

Wealthy15:
my dear you are wrong about the quality you gave men to look in the women they wants to get married to.I've seen men with the most sexiest and prettiest wives says they have no wives,the beauty of every woman starts from her hearts and purity that is been spiritually clean,and having an understanding, accommodating and a forgiving heart above all been ready to be submissive to her husband,because that is God's command for women.and not physical appearance,that should be the last quality and jara.

Toks2008:


See its a mystery..when a man sees a lady he desires and they stay long enough to form a bonding...the man will always look at her with admiration for many years to come irrespective of a change in her body features...but in the first instance it is important for a man to be with a lady that pleases his eyes ...

Many guys are married to ladies who don't appeal to them sexually and such a woman will always be a sexual turn off to him even if she has perfect inner qualities.

This is why I advice guys against chop and clean mouth syndrome cos many guys are with ladies they don't really desire cos they thought they can just have a taste of her and dump her.

escavros:
Nice write up, but you need to read the Bible or Quran.

Beauty is vain and like a flower will wither away with time but a good character is an everlasting treasure, which gets more valuable with time.

Dear men, please ignore the post on men, and go for the virtuous woman that will give you a longer and peaceful life here on earth, and also lead you to a greater chance of building a good relationship with God.

Toks2008:


So in your world you believe a man can not get such qualities in a lady who is also sexually pleasing to him shey? I hear you bro.

The problem with us is that we want a lady with excellent wifely quality and you can never get such.

There is a level of tolerance that comes with cohabiting with your spouse whether she is an orgre or a hottie.

Why I advised ladies to be with a man who is crazy about them is because the man must have seen her as an embodiment of what he wants and because the man is the captain of the ship, he will make her happy and even tolerate her excesses to a level.
Dont force yourself on a cute guy who is not really into you cos he might marry you out of pity and you will certainly regret it.

It is easier for a man to be with a lady who does not want him than for a lady to be with a man who does not want her.

This piece is deep and many guys who are mature and sensitive enough will catch the drift.

The bottom line is that there is a lady out there who will have the sexualfeaturothbeq desire in a woman as well as a good nature...LOOK FOR SUCH AND DONT SETTLE FOR LESS. Nice but I still think it should be balanced .they both should b attracted to each other,v been in a situation where I had liked a guys inner qualities n very much in love with me n I kept hoping that I will one day fall in love with him ,it just never happened n I had to let it go

Toks2008:


So in your world you believe a man can not get such qualities in a lady who is also sexually pleasing to him shey? I hear you bro.

The problem with us is that we want a lady with excellent wifely quality and you can never get such.

There is a level of tolerance that comes with cohabiting with your spouse whether she is an orgre or a hottie.

Why I advised ladies to be with a man who is crazy about them is because the man must have seen her as an embodiment of what he wants and because the man is the captain of the ship, he will make her happy and even tolerate her excesses to a level.
Dont force yourself on a cute guy who is not really into you cos he might marry you out of pity and you will certainly regret it.

It is easier for a man to be with a lady who does not want him than for a lady to be with a man who does not want her.

This piece is deep and many guys who are mature and sensitive enough will catch the drift.

The bottom line is that there is a lady out there who will have the sexualfeaturothbeq desire in a woman as well as a good nature...LOOK FOR SUCH AND DONT SETTLE FOR LESS. Nice but I still think it should be balanced .they both should b attracted to each other,v been in a situation where I had liked a man's inner qualities n he was very much in love with me i kept hoping that I will one day fall in love with him ,it just never happened n I had to let it go

Toks2008:


As long as you keep reading my write ups with a kindergarten mindset I guess you will always get it twisted and unfortunately I can't help you out on this so whatever rocks your boat.

Babzilla:
It is Sunday O madam

tunde82seidat:
. I disagree with u on this,even the Qur'an emphasizes d need for physical attraction in marriage