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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 10:07am On Aug 14, 2016 |
misspicy:I see Ur machine guns are already blazing since day never break this kind dawn attack sef |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 10:07am On Aug 14, 2016 |
Odunharry:Bully is an understatement,but I gave my life to christ now,if not all these unwanted elements will not have the nerve na same dear |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by TheAlchemist: 10:10am On Aug 14, 2016 |
tunde82seidat: Inner beauty first before physical beauty! Value the power of intangibles then you would understand the deeper mystery called LOVE! Physical beauty fades with time, after a while it is propped up by facial make-ups, mascaras, foundations etc... it always amuses me when i see ladies at our car park already late to work, yet furiously applying make-ups! A society that values "what we see attributes" more than "what we dont see" is walking on a time bomb! A society that is driven more by sensual desire will more easily spiral into moral decadency! If you can plot a curve between physical beauty and inner beauty, you would see while physical beauty would have a declining curve, inner beauty never declines but keeps rising upward. Valuing inner beauty more than outward appearance brings more blessings to a family! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 10:16am On Aug 14, 2016 |
Babzilla:Sorry sir |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 10:16am On Aug 14, 2016 |
You need to understand what he is saying. Men are more moved by sight and men are logical but women are more moved by care and women are emotional. You try date dt Richard, a very handsome guy with 6 packs, fair/dark, broad shoulders, Cute to the call and having but you have no place in his heart, you will end up hating him and end up loving that short guy Okwudili Ombuka with short arms and not so much of Yam legs tho but loves you to the call and even cares massively. Lol just create a mental pics of both in ur heart and decide. So u'l see that the Op his right. Plus make a research of how many girls av fallen for the Richards and how many times their hearts have been broken. skarlett: 1 Like |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by chiwetel(f): 10:27am On Aug 14, 2016 |
people should learn to understand that a partner is that significant other,that complements every aspect of their lives.He/she is that other half that makes you whole.it's indeed foolish to yearn and truly want one thing but for some lame reason opt for something else that doesn't satisfy your quest.let's start to choose wisely |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 10:41am On Aug 14, 2016 |
Toks2008:[b]Do you know that I actually understand your post and what you are passing across? @bolded,same applies to a lady You see the times have changed,the age of grooming girls for husband house is gradually been modified,these days,we are also grooming men for "wife house",because, 1)the economy is different now. 2)some roles are switched now. 3)We know better now. etc. So if you say,a man should be satisfied with his spouse's physical appearance/moral,social attributes to avoid stories that touch and tickles the bum bum, YOU HAVE A VALID POINT. But it's a broad subject,therefore you are not allowed to base MARRIAGE on that factor,because the human mind especially the male homosapien is unsatifiable,(there are better looking women out there), That said, This hypothesis of yours does not hold water, judging from what we see everyday in the society eg men will go for other women whether their wives are physically appealing to them or not. So physical satisfaction can be considered when choosing a life partner,but other more relevant factors should top that list. And I will say,a man should go for that woman who completes him even if she does not physically meet his requirements as long as other important factors are crossed. (eg,you want a B.E.A.T type of woman,as long as she possess other things that can sustain your marriage,why not,but if you meet a woman who does not fall in that physical appearance category and has every other factors you require/you meet a woman that has this physical attribute but she doesn't have some other neccesary factors,will you make do or continue searching) A woman should also go for that man,who is physically appealing to her as long as he possesses other characteristics she finds appealing. (I like good looking/neat guys,if I meet a not so good looking guy,but he is neat and everything I want in a man,I will go ahead with the marriage,that will not make me cheat on him because he didn't create himself) That said,What is good for the GOOSE is good for the GANDER merci[/b] 1 Like |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 10:47am On Aug 14, 2016 |
skarlett: if no be say i dey try toast you ehn!.. i for give you better run down for this your response. did you not understand what you just read?? but for real...
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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 10:51am On Aug 14, 2016 |
chiwetel: well... in all my wisdom, i choose you.. oya talk ya own! |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 10:54am On Aug 14, 2016 |
misspicy: 1 Like
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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:02am On Aug 14, 2016 |
misspicy: OK let's assume a guy is wooing you and he is so into you but not physically good enough for you and there is one guy you are tripping for who does not even take a second look at you abeg will you woo him? The African culture of a lady waiting to be wooed has made it difficult for your theory to hold water. If you woo a guy, he may take you for granted and if you show him green light n he looks the other way will you force it? 1 Like |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:12am On Aug 14, 2016 |
HateU2: Can you just read your comments again please? Go for a man as if you have the monopoly of choice..sometimes ladies forget their place as a conservative specie. A lady sees a hot guy that fits her ideal mate physically yet she waits and hopes but if that never happens she sulks in silence. It is an unfortunate situation I agree but when I read comments such as yours I just smh. Yes by chance a lady can see a man who matches her choice physically and in attributes but you are an endangered specie in the cruel world of man so you deserve a man who truly wants you in his life and if you get a hot dude who truly wants you ..Kudos! but you must never sacrifice a man who truly wants you for your physical spec who just wants you for any other reason asides true affection which often backfires in no time. As I wrote, a man asking your hand for marriage does not mean he truly wants you cos guys marry for various reasons. A man by default would settle for a visually satisfying lady and this is my point. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 11:13am On Aug 14, 2016 |
Qualer: If nor be say I dey follow you ehn!.. . I for nor reply your mention Did you not understand what I wrote?? But for real... 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:18am On Aug 14, 2016 |
Teespice: Refer to my last 2 posts on this page to understand my point more clearly but as I wrote..whatever rocks your boat. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by charlsecy(m): 12:26pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Toks2008:Not when the coven demands his head for sacrifice! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by chiwetel(f): 12:58pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Qualer:Lol...had any reason to do that? |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 12:58pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Toks2008:let's hear word jare |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by remiotega: 2:20pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
I don't know where u guys get this "guys are visual creatures and ladies are bla bla bla " poo from. Hey! I'm a lady ! I get attracted to the way a guy looks and smells FIRST!! Then we now start checking wat he has inside... Please give ursef brain and thank me later! That's why so many guys (especially in Nigeria) won't take personal hygiene seriously ,dress anyhow and smell like poo because they believe ladies don't look at all that so long as they are caring ,rich or romantic! IFA hear. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by paulostika: 2:32pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Well as for dat of women I agree wit u but I don't agree wit u concerning men. D reason y there are so many issues in marriages today is because many pple get married wrongly. Men and women look at d outward appearance. Ladies b aware of this: Any man who gets married to a lady because of d sexual features he sees will not stop at u. He will still continue to go after oda women after marriage. When u feels ur worn out after about 2 to 3 kids he will lookout for anoda. Any man who does dat is looking at d sexual part of marriage. Wot matters most is character but most pple shy away from it. D woman is married cos d guy is rich, d man I married cos d girl is sexy. Wot happens wen d wealth is not der anymore. Wot happens wen d sexy look is not there anymore. There is notin beta dan getting married to a man or woman who fears God. Forget about sexy look, its d mindset dat makes u think 1 is sexier dan d oda. At d end u'll discover dat sex wit lady a is d same wit sex with lady b. Character matters o! Pls don't b a victim. All ladies are beautiful all ladies are sexy. Its beta to hear frm some1 wit experience. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by RuggedArab: 2:37pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
HateU2: Break your head Na. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
RuggedArab: |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Barigaboy(m): 3:11pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Thanks man u nailed it. I told a lady yesterday that I wouldn't lie. D first thing that would attract me to u is your beauty n she said that was wrong that it should be her behaviour n I replied her that despite d fact that we were living close since 97. I don't know her character until she started developing some attractive look n stature n that was y I was close enough to study her. My people what's the essence of studying someone that doesn't look attractive enough to u. If m attracted to a babe n I c some wrong attitude abt her. I will try to correct her. If she isn't correctable I will dump her before marriage set in. Cos I don't know y I shud keep on dating d pretty babe who can slap anyone at anytime n even do wicked things n she hardly talk. Her beauty is all people see telling me m lucky n me I no say she be wahala. Breaking someone head is her hobby n na only me fit cope. Some don't look at d beauty all they imagine is getting inbetween her leg finish which is risky. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Odunharry(m): 4:06pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
misspicy:Speechless... Pre wedding pix cancelled. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by phronesischris: 5:29pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
but you know that the physical faculties attract u before we talk about the content... if you agree say aiii |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by ifeomaekol(f): 9:17pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:you are good with words.-------nice. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
ifeomaekol: Just nice? Of all the adjectives in the English Language? I feel so underappreciated mennn |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by RuggedArab: 9:29pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
HateU2: Cool face. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by ifeomaekol(f): 10:05pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
darkenedrebel:ok you are verrrrrrrry good. Honestly you are. |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by mikolo80: 11:08pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
skarlett:women aren't women look at size of pocket and packaging |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by June24th: 12:00am On Aug 15, 2016 |
skarlett:Good shot @skarlett.. I used to like Toks posts until recently.. Maybe he jst prefers writing things that ppl want to hear and leaving the real truth behind.. As per being a misogynist, na him own concern be dat.. What is good for d goose is also good for the gander ooo.. I dnt like biased and one-sided posts like this.. I'm out.. Cc: Toks2008 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 12:05am On Aug 15, 2016 |
skarlett:
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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 7:42am On Aug 15, 2016 |
Odunharry:Please don't do this to me |
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