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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 10:07am On Aug 14, 2016
misspicy:

lipsrsealed
I see Ur machine guns are already blazing since day never break grin
this kind dawn attack sef grin grin grin
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 10:07am On Aug 14, 2016
Odunharry:

Me is good.. Didn't know you have sharp mouth, Chineke.
I'm sure u use to bully the gals in ur class back then


Happy Sunday and a splendid week ahead
Bully is an understatement,but I gave my life to christ now,if not all these unwanted elements will not have the nerve na gringrin



same dear wink
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by TheAlchemist: 10:10am On Aug 14, 2016
tunde82seidat:
. I disagree with u on this,even the Qur'an emphasizes d need for physical attraction in marriage

Inner beauty first before physical beauty! Value the power of intangibles then you would understand the deeper mystery called LOVE!
Physical beauty fades with time, after a while it is propped up by facial make-ups, mascaras, foundations etc... it always amuses me when i see ladies at our car park already late to work, yet furiously applying make-ups!

A society that values "what we see attributes" more than "what we dont see" is walking on a time bomb!
A society that is driven more by sensual desire will more easily spiral into moral decadency!

If you can plot a curve between physical beauty and inner beauty, you would see while physical beauty would have a declining curve, inner beauty never declines but keeps rising upward.

Valuing inner beauty more than outward appearance brings more blessings to a family!

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 10:16am On Aug 14, 2016
Babzilla:
I see Ur machine guns are already blazing since day never break grin this kind dawn attack sef grin grin grin
Sorry sir embarassed
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 10:16am On Aug 14, 2016
You need to understand what he is saying. Men are more moved by sight and men are logical but women are more moved by care and women are emotional. You try date dt Richard, a very handsome guy with 6 packs, fair/dark, broad shoulders, Cute to the call and having but you have no place in his heart, you will end up hating him and end up loving that short guy Okwudili Ombuka with short arms and not so much of Yam legs grin grin grin cheesy tho but loves you to the call and even cares massively. Lol just create a mental pics of both in ur heart and decide. So u'l see that the Op his right. Plus make a research of how many girls av fallen for the Richards and how many times their hearts have been broken.
skarlett:
Toks whatever you call yourself, so this just made sense to you ba undecided

You never cease to amaze me with your misogynist tendacies and double standards. So women should not look at the exterior but men should Because only men are moved by sight and women aren't

Pffft!
Piece of crap undecided

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by chiwetel(f): 10:27am On Aug 14, 2016
people should learn to understand that a partner is that significant other,that complements every aspect of their lives.He/she is that other half that makes you whole.it's indeed foolish to yearn and truly want one thing but for some lame reason opt for something else that doesn't satisfy your quest.let's start to choose wiselycheesy
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 10:41am On Aug 14, 2016
Toks2008:


Lol..let me clear the air on something...

An outwardly beautiful lady is not about booty but it depends on the preferences of an individual.

Look at the pics below and you will see that all these ladies are outwardly beautiful..some guys prefer orobo to hour glass curve and though a B E A or T is my preference cos i don't dig a big booty as long as she has a good waistline with no protruding belly and of course an averagely full bust line...but I have an older brother that will not take a second glance at any of my taste except the L.

So my point is that a guy must know what he wants and must be patient enough to go for that.

There is no man that will overlook repetitive crazy act of a lady cos she is pleasing to his eyes nevertheless I believe there is a lady out there who will be pleasing to your eyes and will also have a fairly good nature you can tolerate...
[b]Do you know that I actually understand your post and what you are passing across?

@bolded,same applies to a lady smiley

You see the times have changed,the age of grooming girls for husband house is gradually been modified,these days,we are also grooming men for "wife house",because,
1)the economy is different now.
2)some roles are switched now.
3)We know better now. etc.


So if you say,a man should be satisfied with his spouse's physical appearance/moral,social attributes to avoid stories that touch and tickles the bum bum, YOU HAVE A VALID POINT.
But it's a broad subject,therefore you are not allowed to base MARRIAGE on that factor,because the human mind especially the male homosapien is unsatifiable,(there are better looking women out there),
That said,
This hypothesis of yours does not hold water, judging from what we see everyday in the society eg men will go for other women whether their wives are physically appealing to them or not.
So physical satisfaction can be considered when choosing a life partner,but other more relevant factors should top that list.
And I will say,a man should go for that woman who completes him even if she does not physically meet his requirements as long as other important factors are crossed. (eg,you want a B.E.A.T type of woman,as long as she possess other things that can sustain your marriage,why not,but if you meet a woman who does not fall in that physical appearance category and has every other factors you require/you meet a woman that has this physical attribute but she doesn't have some other neccesary factors,will you make do or continue searching)

A woman should also go for that man,who is physically appealing to her as long as he possesses other characteristics she finds appealing. (I like good looking/neat guys,if I meet a not so good looking guy,but he is neat and everything I want in a man,I will go ahead with the marriage,that will not make me cheat on him because he didn't create himself)


That said,What is good for the GOOSE is good for the GANDER smiley


merci[/b]

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 10:47am On Aug 14, 2016
skarlett:
Toks whatever you call yourself, so this just made sense to you ba undecided

You never cease to amaze me with your misogynist tendacies and double standards. So women should not look at the exterior but men should Because only men are moved by sight and women aren't

Pffft!
Piece of crap undecided



if no be say i dey try toast you ehn!.. grin grin grin grin i for give you better run down for this your response.
did you not understand what you just read??

but for real...

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 10:51am On Aug 14, 2016
chiwetel:
people should learn to understand that a partner is that significant other,that complements every aspect of their lives.He/she is that other half that makes you whole.it's indeed foolish to yearn and truly want one thing but for some lame reason opt for something else that doesn't satisfy your quest.let's start to choose wiselycheesy

well... in all my wisdom, i choose you.. oya talk ya own! grin grin
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 10:54am On Aug 14, 2016
misspicy:

Bully is an understatement,but I gave my life to christ now,if not all these unwanted elements will not have the nerve na gringrin



same dear wink

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:02am On Aug 14, 2016
misspicy:

[b]Do you know that I actually understand your post and what you are passing across?

@bolded,same applies to a lady smiley

You see the times have changed,the age of grooming girls for husband house is gradually been modified,these days,we are also grooming men for "wife house",because,
1)the economy is different now.
2)some roles are switched now.
3)We know better now. etc.


So if you say,a man should be satisfied with his spouse's physical appearance/moral,social attributes to avoid stories that touch and tickles the bum bum, YOU HAVE A VALID POINT.
But it's a broad subject,therefore you are not allowed to base MARRIAGE on that factor,because the human mind especially the male homosapien is unsatifiable,(there are better looking women out there),
That said,
This hypothesis of yours does not hold water, judging from what we see everyday in the society eg men will go for other women whether their wives are physically appealing to them or not.
So physical satisfaction can be considered when choosing a life partner,but other more relevant factors should top that list.
And I will say,a man should go for that woman who completes him even if she does not physically meet his requirements as long as other important factors are crossed. (eg,you want a B.E.A.T type of woman,as long as she possess other things that can sustain your marriage,why not,but if you meet a woman who does not fall in that physical appearance category and has every other factors you require/you meet a woman that has this physical attribute but she doesn't have some other neccesary factors,will you make do or continue searching)

A woman should also go for that man,who is physically appealing to her as long as he possesses other characteristics she finds appealing. (I like good looking/neat guys,if I meet a not so good looking guy,but he is neat and everything I want in a man,I will go ahead with the marriage,that will not make me cheat on him because he didn't create himself)


That said,What is good for the GOOSE is good for the GANDER smiley


merci[/b]

OK let's assume a guy is wooing you and he is so into you but not physically good enough for you and there is one guy you are tripping for who does not even take a second look at you abeg will you woo him?

The African culture of a lady waiting to be wooed has made it difficult for your theory to hold water.

If you woo a guy, he may take you for granted and if you show him green light n he looks the other way will you force it?

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:12am On Aug 14, 2016
HateU2:
I wonder when we will be free from all yanmyanma stuffs like this undecided. So, as a lady, I should go for a guy because he loves me and I don't have choice in choosing the physical things I love undecided while guys should go for excaly what they like.


Im tired of all this!!!!

Can you just read your comments again please?

Go for a man as if you have the monopoly of choice..sometimes ladies forget their place as a conservative specie.

A lady sees a hot guy that fits her ideal mate physically yet she waits and hopes but if that never happens she sulks in silence.

It is an unfortunate situation I agree but when I read comments such as yours I just smh.

Yes by chance a lady can see a man who matches her choice physically and in attributes but you are an endangered specie in the cruel world of man so you deserve a man who truly wants you in his life and if you get a hot dude who truly wants you ..Kudos! but you must never sacrifice a man who truly wants you for your physical spec who just wants you for any other reason asides true affection which often backfires in no time.

As I wrote, a man asking your hand for marriage does not mean he truly wants you cos guys marry for various reasons.

A man by default would settle for a visually satisfying lady and this is my point.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 11:13am On Aug 14, 2016
Qualer:



if no be say i dey try toast you ehn!.. grin grin grin grin i for give you better run down for this your response.
did you not understand what you just read??

but for real...

If nor be say I dey follow you ehn!.. grin grin grin grin. I for nor reply your mention grin

Did you not understand what I wrote??

But for real...

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Toks2008(m): 11:18am On Aug 14, 2016
Teespice:


I don't read your threads with a kindergarten mindset. I am responsible for my thoughts. how you choose to interprete it is totally up to you.

Counter my points with valid arguments and not calling my points twisted.

while we are it stop clutching at straws. both genders will do the opposite of what you have written and the heavens will not fall.


Refer to my last 2 posts on this page to understand my point more clearly but as I wrote..whatever rocks your boat.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by charlsecy(m): 12:26pm On Aug 14, 2016
Toks2008:
.......even a witch will use her power to protect a man that treats her well..FACT
Not when the coven demands his head for sacrifice!

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by chiwetel(f): 12:58pm On Aug 14, 2016
Qualer:


well... in all my wisdom, i choose you.. oya talk ya own! grin grin
Lol...had any reason to do that?
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 12:58pm On Aug 14, 2016
Toks2008:


[s]Can you just read your comments again please?

Go for a man as if you have the monopoly of choice..sometimes ladies forget their place as a conservative specie.

A lady sees a hot guy that fits her ideal mate physically yet she waits and hopes but if that never happens she sulks in silence.

It is an unfortunate situation I agree but when I read comments such as yours I just smh.

Yes by chance a lady can see a man who matches her choice physically and in attributes but you are an endangered specie in the cruel world of man so you deserve a man who truly wants you in his life and if you get a hot dude who truly wants you ..Kudos! but you must never sacrifice a man who truly wants you for your physical spec who just wants you for any other reason asides true affection which often backfires in no time.

As I wrote, a man asking your hand for marriage does not mean he truly wants you cos guys marry for various reasons.

A man by default would settle for a visually satisfying lady and this is my point.[/s]
let's hear word jare
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by remiotega: 2:20pm On Aug 14, 2016
I don't know where u guys get this "guys are visual creatures and ladies are bla bla bla " poo from.
Hey!
I'm a lady !
I get attracted to the way a guy looks and smells FIRST!!
Then we now start checking wat he has inside...
Please give ursef brain and thank me later!

That's why so many guys (especially in Nigeria) won't take personal hygiene seriously ,dress anyhow and smell like poo because they believe ladies don't look at all that so long as they are caring ,rich or romantic!
IFA hear.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by paulostika: 2:32pm On Aug 14, 2016
Well as for dat of women I agree wit u but I don't agree wit u concerning men. D reason y there are so many issues in marriages today is because many pple get married wrongly. Men and women look at d outward appearance. Ladies b aware of this: Any man who gets married to a lady because of d sexual features he sees will not stop at u. He will still continue to go after oda women after marriage. When u feels ur worn out after about 2 to 3 kids he will lookout for anoda. Any man who does dat is looking at d sexual part of marriage. Wot matters most is character but most pple shy away from it. D woman is married cos d guy is rich, d man I married cos d girl is sexy. Wot happens wen d wealth is not der anymore. Wot happens wen d sexy look is not there anymore. There is notin beta dan getting married to a man or woman who fears God. Forget about sexy look, its d mindset dat makes u think 1 is sexier dan d oda. At d end u'll discover dat sex wit lady a is d same wit sex with lady b. Character matters o! Pls don't b a victim. All ladies are beautiful all ladies are sexy. Its beta to hear frm some1 wit experience.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by RuggedArab: 2:37pm On Aug 14, 2016
HateU2:
I wonder when we will be free from all yanmyanma stuffs like this undecided. So, as a lady, I should go for a guy because he loves me and I don't have choice in choosing the physical things I love undecided while guys should go for excaly what they like.


Im tired of all this!!!!

Break your head Na.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Aug 14, 2016
RuggedArab:


Break your head Na.
angry sad angry
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Barigaboy(m): 3:11pm On Aug 14, 2016
Thanks man u nailed it. I told a lady yesterday that I wouldn't lie. D first thing that would attract me to u is your beauty n she said that was wrong that it should be her behaviour n I replied her that despite d fact that we were living close since 97. I don't know her character until she started developing some attractive look n stature n that was y I was close enough to study her. My people what's the essence of studying someone that doesn't look attractive enough to u. If m attracted to a babe n I c some wrong attitude abt her. I will try to correct her. If she isn't correctable I will dump her before marriage set in. Cos I don't know y I shud keep on dating d pretty babe who can slap anyone at anytime n even do wicked things n she hardly talk. Her beauty is all people see telling me m lucky n me I no say she be wahala. Breaking someone head is her hobby n na only me fit cope. Some don't look at d beauty all they imagine is getting inbetween her leg finish which is risky.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Odunharry(m): 4:06pm On Aug 14, 2016
misspicy:

Bully is an understatement,but I gave my life to christ now,if not all these unwanted elements will not have the nerve na gringrin



same dear wink
Speechless... Pre wedding pix cancelled. lipsrsealed tongue
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by phronesischris: 5:29pm On Aug 14, 2016
but you know that the physical faculties attract u before we talk about the content... if you agree say aiii
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by ifeomaekol(f): 9:17pm On Aug 14, 2016
darkenedrebel:


And I have gone through your profile 9.9 seconds ago, and lo and behold, I saw a face with pouted, lush lips that I wouldn't mind straining 34 facial muscles and 112 postural muscles in kissing it.

Thank you.
you are good with words.-------nice.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 14, 2016
ifeomaekol:
you are good with words.-------nice.

Just nice? Of all the adjectives in the English Language? I feel so underappreciated mennn grin
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by RuggedArab: 9:29pm On Aug 14, 2016
HateU2:
angry sad angry

Cool face.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by ifeomaekol(f): 10:05pm On Aug 14, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Just nice? Of all the adjectives in the English Language? I feel so underappreciated mennn grin

ok you are verrrrrrrry good. Honestly you are.
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by mikolo80: 11:08pm On Aug 14, 2016
skarlett:
Toks whatever you call yourself, so this just made sense to you ba undecided

You never cease to amaze me with your misogynist tendacies and double standards. So women should not look at the exterior but men should Because only men are moved by sight and women aren't

Pffft!
Piece of crap undecided

women aren't
women look at size of pocket and packaging
Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by June24th: 12:00am On Aug 15, 2016
skarlett:
Toks whatever you call yourself, so this just made sense to you ba undecided

You never cease to amaze me with your misogynist tendacies and double standards. So women should not look at the exterior but men should Because only men are moved by sight and women aren't

Pffft!
Piece of crap undecided

Good shot @skarlett..
I used to like Toks posts until recently.. Maybe he jst prefers writing things that ppl want to hear and leaving the real truth behind.. As per being a misogynist, na him own concern be dat.. What is good for d goose is also good for the gander ooo.. I dnt like biased and one-sided posts like this..
I'm out..

Cc: Toks2008

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Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by Qualer: 12:05am On Aug 15, 2016
skarlett:


If nor be say I dey follow you ehn!.. grin grin grin grin. I for nor reply your mention grin

Did you not understand what I wrote??

But for real...

Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by misspicy(f): 7:42am On Aug 15, 2016
Odunharry:
Speechless... Pre wedding pix cancelled. lipsrsealed tongue
Please don't do this to me cry cry

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