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Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Towncrier247: 5:10pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
General Superintendent of The Holy Spirit Mission Church (The Happy Family Chapel). Bishop Charles Ighile who together with his wife Rev. Caro Ighile head the church that has over sixty branches,through their syndicated marriage and relationship programme on television have touched many lives and restored thousands of relationships. In a recent interview, the couple spoke extensively on why many men sleep with their maids, why many marriages are daily crashing among other problems in relationships... [b]"Men sleep with their househelps when the couple are not on their guards. We are talking about God-fearing men here, who would not ordinarily sleep with their househelps, but somehow find themselves doing it. There is always a division of labour in the home. As the Bible puts it, the man is the head of the home and the woman is the helper. She is the keeper at home. Therefore, according to the Bible, everything about the domestic affairs is for the woman. From what God Himself told Haggai in the Bible when her househelp ran away, God asked her, “why are you running away from your mistress…Go and submit yourself to her.” Therefore, the househelp is under the woman. She submits to the woman. When a maid needs to buy things such as undies, body cream,make her hair or she has to report to the man when she is seeing her period, then there is going to be problem. When it is the man now asking the girl, ‘what’s wrong with you?’, why are you sad? Do you have tummy ache? Ok, come and see me in the room’ etc. There is fire on the mountain. There are certain boundaries that must be set in the home. When the woman fails to take charge of her responsibilities and passes them to the house help and the husband takes them up. She is setting up the husband for temptation."[/b] The pastors also insist that inappropriate dressing plays a major role in men having sex with their maids. According to them.. [b] "Appropriate must be enforced in the home. A man is enticed by what he sees, therefore, the woman must not allow the househelp to dress indecently in such a way that all her contours are revealed and everything is dangling around the house because the man may be tempted even when he didn’t plan it. So the couple must have rules in the house, as you cannot just come into the kitchen or sitting room with only your nighties on or tie a towel or wrapper around your waist moving around the house. Those are troubles for the man. He should not say, “oh, she is only 14, there is nothing she can do”. “No, she is a woman and the man seeing her unclothedness could be thrown off balance. Sometimes, the househelp themselves could be cunning. She wants to seduce the man. So, a man must be very careful. Then, the man must show his wife love all the time. The housegirl must not be allowed to see cracks in their marriage. The husband must not disrespect his wife anytime, especially in the presence of the girl, such as shouting on the wife and so on. Doing that will make the girl lose respect for the woman. These are just a few of the very many reasons men sleep with their househelps. If you as the man begins to find yourself attracted to the househelp, just send her away. If you are a man who wants to save your marriage and wants to honour your marriage and God, let your househelp go. I know that when a man begins to have feelings towards a woman, his defenses weaken, so the strength to even send her away is no where to be found. But struggle with your weakness to send her away. I have handled a case as that where the man has already slept with the househelp. Interestingly, the wife is by far more beautiful, but it’s not a matter of beauty now, it’s a matter of the more you live with somebody the more you see something that attracts you to the person which outsiders might not see."[/b] http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/09/even-women-that-cannot-cook-dont-like.html 46 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by cynthia123(f): 5:12pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Towncrier247: 5:13pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
READ THE FULL INTERVIEW WHERE THEY TALKED ABOUT MARRIED WOMEN & TEMPTATION TOO» http://www.newseveryhour.com/2016/09/even-women-that-cannot-cook-dont-like.html 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 5:24pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
can somebody just summarise it lemme come read it later lol 5 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by ladyF(f): 10:19pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count. It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again ![]() ![]() ![]() [size=5pt]Make I go continue my search for Skrill funds...freelancers, forexers, biko epp me. N390/$[/size] 108 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by mmb(m): 10:20pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Is it allowed in christianity? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by sukkot: 10:20pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
hmm wahala dey oooo |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by mhisbliss(f): 10:21pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
its a long story 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by martineinstein(m): 10:22pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
but some men are becoming something else.........it seems nigerian men are cursesd with sex 19 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Fataiwo(m): 10:22pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
That is what i call.. 'endtime-things' fataiwo was here anyway 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
hmmm. |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by bettercreature(m): 10:23pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
33bandit:Try to read it and i bet you will love it,everybody dislike househelp but sadly we can not survive without having them at home 3 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 10:25pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
but this is nonsense na 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by IMASTEX: 10:26pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by MrCork: 10:28pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Towncrier247: is the housemade name Ellacute45 from nairaland? ![]() |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by free2ryhme: 10:28pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
it is well with our home 2 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by orijintv(m): 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Mai Onithsa Brothers Dont Dull ![]() 20 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Mopolchi: 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
The house help is only helping out in the house. As simple as that. 1 Like |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by obaival(m): 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Becus maid made it |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Ajusshi: 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
ladyF:U no need Skrill fund again abi u don tire to dey screem?. No go seduce ur madam husband cos u want him to epp you get screwwed... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by macaranta(m): 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by mideycrowno: 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Haha nawa o |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by TooNoisy(f): 10:30pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Men should not sleep with their housemaids simple. No reason is good enough. A God fearing man should have some measure of self control and if he notices that he is being enticed by the girl, then he should send her away. Some of these girls are even underage and can do little to resist the man, both physically and emotionally. Some of these cases may be rape. On the other hand, married women should also watch the kind of maid they employ. I would not advice a woman employ a 19 year old maid if her husband is still in his thirties or forties. That is recipe for disaster. And even if you employ one, then she should have minimal contact with the husband. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by freemanbubble: 10:30pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
ok |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 10:33pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by nwakibe: 10:34pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
I don't need any house help in my home to avoid stories that touch. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 10:34pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
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Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Nobody: 10:35pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
Imagine. |
Re: Why Men Are Having Sex With Their Maids Nowadays-Bishop Charles & Caro Ighile by Josmila(m): 10:35pm On Sep 05, 2016 |
House help or no house help, a man that won't bleep other women besides his wife, won't. This is why some women would rather their female house helps look very unkempt and as such unattractive to their husbands 14 Likes |
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