mmb:
Is it allowed in christianity?

dont know but I know in Islam you can keep sèx slaves .

Is well

pippimp:


Just like a typical Nigerian. Making excuses for your lapses. How is it that it is everyone's fault but the man's? Also typical of pastors. Nigerian pastors as a matter of fact. I wonder why people listen to them?

And who should the people listen to, you?

cynthia123:
hearing this for the first time

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pippimp:


Just like a typical Nigerian. Making excuses for your lapses. How is it that it is everyone's fault but the man's? Also typical of pastors. Nigerian pastors as a matter of fact. I wonder why people listen to them?

it's only people who don't have sense that listen to them.

ladyF:
Am I the only one that feels this write-up is skewed towards men? I see a lot of excuses why men sleep with their house girls. So when they are having issues in the marriage, will the wife also have an excuse to sleep with the house boy when he exposes his 6 - packs? I'm completely lost. Anyway, it's my opinion and probably doesn't count.

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It is because the topic related to the female gender. Maids are female. The exact opposite will apply if the topic was about man servants, house boys, drivers, guards, etc. The husband, the man, would be extected to take charge and set the ground rules for contact and conduct. But you must accept that the woman is the CEO of the home and women are in the overall majority when it comes to close quarter domestics.

What I will advice is that couples can have maids up until the children no longer need home care then the man gets a butler to handle his domestics.

martineinstein:
but some men are becoming something else.........it seems nigerian men are cursesd with sex

not their fault,but conji

martineinstein:
but some men are becoming something else.........it seems nigerian men are cursesd with sex

I think it is a poor reaction to the new found feminist movement in our society these days. They still have this prehistoric macho mentality that views women as trophies, spoils of war, fit for pleasure and nothing more.

wickedworld:



So that means men like dirty and smelling girls to Bleep?

And they will come out to complain pussy smell when all they have been going after are smelly girl with body odour.

Not all men. Jst some....

TooNoisy:
Men should not sleep with their housemaids simple.

No reason is good enough. A God fearing man should have some measure of self control and if he notices that he is being enticed by the girl, then he should send her away. Some of these girls are even underage and can do little to resist the man, both physically and emotionally. Some of these cases may be rape.

On the other hand, married women should also watch the kind of maid they employ. I would not advice a woman employ a 19 year old maid if her husband is still in his thirties or forties. That is recipe for disaster. And even if you employ one, then she should have minimal contact with the husband.

why do couple ever need a maid in the first place. it is sheer laziness.

Drew0:



Stories that touch


Wait guy so u fit bang house help? Those dirty tins, wen they work morning till night wear nonsense clothes wen no brush mouth ?? Choi.

Hmmm....but you can allow such a dirty girl do your dishes, clothes and care for the chidren.?

ladyF:


Ermmm...and if the woman sleeps with the houseboy, who is to blame Sir?

The man. What is a male domestic for.

b0rn2fuck:
walahi, you go sweet for bed.

This guy sha! I have no words for you.

Kenneth205:



I'm doing well. hope u are good too?

Sure I am.

Have a lovely day!

mekonglobal:

The man ofcourse! The both share an equal responsibilities in protecting their union, but we both know that the case u stated is not as prevalent as that of men and their househelp.

And this is also because women take a lot more things for granted than men. Men are usually more objective when asessing threats.

mmb:
Is it allowed in christianity?

Don't misunderstand God's servant. No sin is allowed and no excuse can bail one out of punishment for sin in Christianity. What is saying is that there are certain temptation triggers that man should pay attention to and avoid. Housemaid is just one of those. Satan works on what man can see in a woman. This is the reason why he promotes seductive dresses among women today. This is the reason behind rape. If God should take away all men today and leave only women in this world, all the seductive dressing will automatically stop

namuguibe:
dont know but I know in Islam you can keep sèx slaves .

do we have slaves again? No, so you are wrong.. A maid is not a slave and any Muslim man who sleeps with his maid is committing fornication/adultery which is a sin with a punishment attached, so it's wrong to sleep with maids or any other woman aside your legally married wives in Islam

Zedoo:


Its quite obvious you never see something...
Sex is one of the most mysterious things on earth....the intrigues and turn-ons are so vast and unexplainable....
Some people luv that husky smelling gurl walking past and the thought of "dominating" her makes their manhood ache....
That's just the truth....
Its the same reason why niiggas bleep food/ware hawkers who trek the whole day without a bath on the streets....that intruiges some people..

Forget say all of us dey wear cloth dey appear sane...
If you see wetin dey intrigue some people you go know say man Na pure animal no difference.... Forget the porn idea of clean shaven sex, some niiggas prefer that place as unwashed as it can get.... That's why a full blooded man can start looking for 80yr old women to rape....
Some people dun tell me say if the babe dun pass 14 Dem no dey lash; lyk wtf does a 13 yr old know about hygiene? And besides she is underage plus probably on her way to/back frm Skool when the guy go swoop on am carry am enta house make Dem do dia crap....
Omo forget fine boy Wey everybody dey form

Most people flaunt fine cultured gurls because of societal expectation....deep down, they wana go to one farm in their village and bleep a gurl who has been working frm morning till evening without a break to bath........

Much less househelps Wey jst dey accessible....

Lol Na wa o bro.

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Hmmm....but you can allow such a dirty girl do your dishes, clothes and care for the chidren.?

Na mehn

Drew0:



Stories that touch


Wait guy so u fit bang house help? Those dirty tins, wen they work morning till night wear nonsense clothes wen no brush mouth ?? Choi.

Guy forget. house helps are humans. Besides no body dresses tattered in my house. Be u household or house help. I can't just keep a house help in my house. Not that I will sleep with her. I believe that the best way to avoid temptation is by staying away from temptation theater.

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And this is also because women take a lot more things for granted than men. Men are usually more objective when asessing threats.

The whole crux of the matter is that the home belongs to the woman, so if anything goes wrong? She should blame her self..

God bless you for that wonderful advice
Remain blessed

nortcentrallord:


Women don't fall for what they see so 6 packs don't work there. I know what am saying... I think the pastor is only helping families to avoid getting into that trap so we shouldn't look @ it as him protecting the "men". I beleive he concentrated on that because the rate @ which that happens is weigh more that the case of a woman sleeping with the house boy.

Oga don't deceive yourself. Women are moved by what they see too. I can't count how many times I UnCloth a man with my eyes. Imagine if he now makes a move. I'd likely fall into temptation. It's silly to assume that a woman cannot be sexually moved by what she sees. Just silly

mekonglobal:

The whole crux of the matter is that the home belongs to the woman, so if anything goes wrong? She should blame her self..

The home belongs to the woman? So she can kick out the man at will? If it doesn't belong to you then, what is ur place in the home? Onlooker, house boy?

VajanahDischaj:
some preachings are meant for couples during counselling. just for the sake of those wey no go understand, there are people out there who are ready to always twist the words of God's men.

Story, do you girls also listen to moral counsels - do not sleep around before Marriage ?

Una go finish una pu$$I then want men to stick with your tokunbo pu$$13$

TooNoisy:
Men should not sleep with their housemaids simple.

No reason is good enough. A God fearing man should have some measure of self control and if he notices that he is being enticed by the girl, then he should send her away. Some of these girls are even underage and can do little to resist the man, both physically and emotionally. Some of these cases may be rape.

On the other hand, married women should also watch the kind of maid they employ. I would not advice a woman employ a 19 year old maid if her husband is still in his thirties or forties. That is recipe for disaster. And even if you employ one, then she should have minimal contact with the husband.

shuo no be wetin pastor and hin wife talk bi diz bi lik say you no read am. Talk true

ladyF:

Sure I am.

Have a lovely day!

But to be honest, na house helps sweet pass, that their oiled ojonto will just be.... OMG, Try and see.

Beleive it or not,..dat man is sleeping wit his housemaid at home,..he talks abt it so that his wife will drop any suspicion she is havin.......

eitsei:
do we have slaves again? No, so you are wrong.. A maid is not a slave and any Muslim man who sleeps with his maid is committing fornication/adultery which is a sin with a punishment attached, so it's wrong to sleep with maids or any other woman aside your legally married wives in Islam

You Daesh brothers have slaves. Your Muslim brothers in Boko Haram have slaves. You Muslim brothers in the North also have slaves ..... shine your eye

Kiddominant:
But to be honest, na house helps sweet pass, that their oiled ojonto will just be.... OMG, Try and see.

true talk my broda ... I no wan talk my own but any time i remember back in the day, that calabar house girl and the hot and steamy nights

This is true but there is a dimension of demonic influence too..it is unthinkable for a man in his right senses to sleep with his house maid.. It is appalling and very degrading . Any man under such a strange influence should go for deliverance simple.