JustHere2Observ:


How did you know she was manipulative? Where you there? Are you the boyfriend in question? See how you just concluded on something you dont know about. Smh

yungEX:
lol he's been helping u financially, emotionally nd physically nd u can't allow him put only the tip.. Haba naw. on a more serious note I think u should stand by what you believe in!

stuffs4me:



smh for you too.. As if you don't know how manipulative most naija girls are.

JustHere2Observ:
If you are not ready to have sex with him, then dont. He should respect your decision not to have sex until marriage whether you are a virgin or not, so my advice if you dont want to dont do it.

CrazyQuinn:
yes, is that a bad thing?

Codeman01:

You are very gbasky jare, am very sure she have a mowe bus bf, Mr Biggs bf, MTN card bf..... Drogba dey your head and dem dey browse for ur head, you better allow him enter and scatter the place ASAP

falconey:


I vehemently peruse your notion and I didn't
see the part where the nigga has to benefit from the relationship. I'm certain before receiving the guy's support she never said I am a celibate till marriage. ladies don't want to compromise, always want to be at the receiving end.

abstinence is good if you never indulge in pre-marital sex. a man can easily believe a virgin celibacy than a non virgin. mostly guys believe, if I'm not hitting that someone else must be. few trust their babes thou.

lastly, she is having a second thought perhaps her needs is emerging or she feels she isn't equitable to the guy.

Trendishine:
then u can open ur smelling mouth and eat his money bah?, both financially and physically eh?...true true, dis yeye dey smell bad bad for where some naija jati jati girls dey...dem be like jedi jedi 4 bottle...

agesron:


Please, is it bad or wrong to help a lover financially? Physically? And emotionally? Haba, and how did u know that his not taking good care of his parent b4 spending on his girlfriend? She may not want to have sex with him for a reason best known to her,but I believe she love d guy not based on what he has done for her or what his doing for her. Thanks.

stuffs4me:



Reminds me of my NYSC days in Ogun state. There was this girl living downstairs to my house, she was a student of Tai Solarin University. She was in a no sex till marriage with one dude like that. But mehn, I fvcck this girl like say tomorrow no dey. For nearly a year I was fvccking heavily. She even had aborrtiion sef. But she still kept the dude in a no sex till marriage.

Sometimes when I see this guy come around to see her I used to feel sorry for him sha.

jaybillionaire:

Noticed u hardly get angry I like dt virtue, will u marry me

iwatch:
You know most nairaland ladies feel a guy trying to get their attention is probably one with bad intent. I get that vibes which isn't too far from why your initial reply was woven that way. I just had to laugh.

omolola15:


happney65 this is the realest nigga on here. I love his comment.

JustHere2Observ:


If your main reason for giving gifts to the woman you love is because you want sex, please get yourself a harlot. This is why I say it is hard to find an intelligent guy here, debate reasonably without been condescending mba

happney65:


Abi ohhh..I saw the dude's comment in the afternoon and i laughed..Yes ohh even just the tip..If she be Virgin now we still dey hear..Even Virgin sef we dey disvirgin them..not to talk of this one..I dont know why they think fuckinngg a guy is doing him a favour..I mean,if you dont wannna fuckkkk me dont date me..I am not here for sex alone,but common we gonna fuckkkk sonner or later..

Oluwalosheleyi:
STAND BY YOUR DECISION GIRL.even if this post is a super story cooked up by you,another girl can still gain from it.but lets just imagine its real,you cant get so attached to a guy,no one is irreplaceable,try to convince him to share your beliefs and if he doesn't change move on,maybe you were not meant to be,what if you marry him and he dies shortly afterwards? shiat happens sis,get ready to let go. I have a similar problem; most girls want to roll in the hay nowadays before marraige or they dont take you serious and I swore an oath to God to refrain from sex years ago and its been so tough but i've discovered i am stronger than i thought.

CrazyQuinn:
sorry I'm not ready but I really appreciate for asking tho

dairykidd:


Badt guy

Trendishine:
the points u raise in ur argument makes ur mental capacity questionable, n dis ur reply has even made perceptions about dat fact worse. did u read the comments u made dat invited the reply u gat? did u even read her story well at all? are u reading between d lines of d story or u are just used to spewing gibberish.? i dont have time 4 dis ur "show urself" on internet broadway...? and dnt talk about intelligence here, u hear,..pls.....u no reach..i am thru wif weighing u.
My question is, what else are u known for as a woman, other than collecting gifts? how many have u given? wld u say u are better dan a harlot? by wat measure?..n talking about "intelligent guys", d fact is dat intelligent guys are not seeing u,pls....u are condescending already...no offence.

Perfectionist11:





So I suppose you'll refuse help from people cuz they do not owe ye..the main purpose of relationships is to provide emotional support,and add value to the live of your partner..she said he provided financial aid not like he bought her cars,a house/sponsored her education..in an ideal world helping people financially even those you do not know shouldn't be a landslide achievement but an act of kindness & a display of humanity done willingly without any regret/expectation..but its a pity that we do not live in an ideal world.

Some people out there have rendered unimaginable help to females without expecting to pound em..they may not be many..but they exist.

Tobium1:
Supermarket boyfriend!

falconey:
if you truly love him give it to him if you are not a virgin, in love you compromise, he did helping in the mentioned ways,now do the same for him.

if you don't, with time he will start a relationship with someone who can. BOYS GAT NEEDS

Mustack:

Guy don't decide like that.. I have this girl that i love and i want her as my future inhabitant after i gave my sweet dick but what happen she left me broken into pieces. So girl if he cant wait let loose and run.

McBrooklyn:
Sister, it's better for a man to be stingy with his money nowadays because he hustled for it than for a woman to be denying you access to a hole she didn't drill by herself






All I'm trying to say is that you give your boyfriend punna make E chop bellefull so as to avoid narrating stories that touch later







PS: There are a lot of active edible catering ladies out there . . . Act Wisely, Be Wise!!!

rosalieene:

goodnight

Oliviaarims:
If truly you've resolutely decided to abstain, the need to create this thread wouldn't have arisen. Your resolve isn't strong enough, you're having second thoughts and that's where you've begun to lose the battle.

lilmax:
dump him and get a guy with the same thought, that's all