JustHere2Observ:


So sex equals whatever assistance he offered maybe on his own without her asking? Smh.
Guys are really shallow than what I thought, I used to think only a secondary school boy or illiterate will believe his reward for assisting someone he loves is sex.

jackpot:
you ejarculated in 30 seconds and that's why she left? Be sincere!

Glory12345:
Actually this is my first post on nairaland,I'm a comment reader and a post reader and I have observed how people do things here and I feel I should share my story,please don't criticise me or anything, I just need your help or advise,and please do read carefully to understand,and i am also sorry if i dont type this well,i'm not much of a writer.Thanks in advance

There's this guy I met at 3chub Ikeja,I actually went to ask if there was any standard rechargeable fan because i have been scammed alot by all these "fairly used" rechargeable fan,so i decided to buy a new one because they sell home appliances there,even though people say fairly used items are better which I chose to decline because this is 2016,and this buhari regime doesnt accomodate an extravagant spending.

I work in Lagos but I stay in mowe,and the electricity there isn't too good so that's why I'm getting the fan so even when the gen is off,i would have an alternative,so when I got to the store,the sales ambassadors offered me different brand rechargeable fan,but i later got a syinix rechargeable fan,because I was impressed with the number of months the warranty covers so I purchased it with my ATM card since I just came to inquire and not buy and I was cashless,I had to just use the POS *I'm only explaining all if these to give you a clearer understanding of the issue on floor*

After purchasing the fan,there was this guy that came to buy a gas cooker and we happened to meet and we both exchanged contacts with eachother and few months later we developed feelings and we had a relationship and we were doing the normal relationship vibe,until this week,he started acting up because I said no sex until marriage...he's a very nice person anyway,he helped me in so many ways(advices,financially,physically) but just because I said no sex until marriage,he's acting up already,although I have my reasons for abstaining until marriage anyway but my story is sad,and I don't know who to tell and I feel more comfortable telling people online because someone that knows me physically might not say the truth to me,because they don't want to hurt me,please I need matured comments even if it will hurt,just tell me

Although we aren't kids,but I'm just troubled because I love him a lot and I don't know what to do.

I'm a loner right now

Sweetpenis:




Haahahhahaha,dis is y they tear their pants...u don cop buh no wan make guy man chop..lols

falconey:
if you truly love him give it to him if you are not a virgin, in love you compromise, he did helping in the mentioned ways,now do the same for him.

if you don't, with time he will start a relationship with someone who can. BOYS GAT NEEDS

McBrooklyn:
Sister, it's better for a man to be stingy with his money nowadays because he hustled for it than for a woman to be denying you access to a hole she didn't drill by herself






All I'm trying to say is that you give your boyfriend punna make E chop bellefull so as to avoid narrating stories that touch later

PpS: There are a lot of active edible catering ladies out there . . . Act Wisely, Be Wise!!!

CrazyQuinn:
I really don't understand why girls will allow a guy to take care of your needs financially and emotionally

jabojafa:
he wudnt need to do dt why.... Becos he has prepared a special man for her. And u knw wot that man cnt be you becos Light n darkness cnt be together.

jabojafa:
you dnt knw wot a priceless jewel u jst lost by d brk up. She wz helping u to preserve ur soul frm destruction.

sapiosexual1:

Madam you can lie ehn!
This is your most recent topic,let alone post.
Nothing turns me off like dishonesty, makes me feel you just thought up this scenario out of the blues .

Macgabe:

Hahahahahahahah can't stop laughing bro. That's Naija girls for you. They want you to spend your entire savings on them and will say "..till marriage". If you refuse spending and tell them you are saving up till marriage, they say you are stingy and not nice. Hmmmm well for me, let's all wait until after marriage sha lol

Lol, no mind dem joor

Glory12345:
Actually this is my first post on nairaland,I'm a comment reader and a post reader and I have observed how people do things here and I feel I should share my story,please don't criticise me or anything, I just need your help or advise,and please do read carefully to understand,and i am also sorry if i dont type this well,i'm not much of a writer.Thanks in advance

There's this guy I met at 3chub Ikeja,I actually went to ask if there was any standard rechargeable fan because i have been scammed alot by all these "fairly used" rechargeable fan,so i decided to buy a new one because they sell home appliances there,even though people say fairly used items are better which I chose to decline because this is 2016,and this buhari regime doesnt accomodate an extravagant spending.

I work in Lagos but I stay in mowe,and the electricity there isn't too good so that's why I'm getting the fan so even when the gen is off,i would have an alternative,so when I got to the store,the sales ambassadors offered me different brand rechargeable fan,but i later got a syinix rechargeable fan,because I was impressed with the number of months the warranty covers so I purchased it with my ATM card since I just came to inquire and not buy and I was cashless,I had to just use the POS *I'm only explaining all if these to give you a clearer understanding of the issue on floor*

After purchasing the fan,there was this guy that came to buy a gas cooker and we happened to meet and we both exchanged contacts with eachother and few months later we developed feelings and we had a relationship and we were doing the normal relationship vibe,until this week,he started acting up because I said no sex until marriage...he's a very nice person anyway,he helped me in so many ways(advices,financially,physically) but just because I said no sex until marriage,he's acting up already,although I have my reasons for abstaining until marriage anyway but my story is sad,and I don't know who to tell and I feel more comfortable telling people online because someone that knows me physically might not say the truth to me,because they don't want to hurt me,please I need matured comments even if it will hurt,just tell me

Although we aren't kids,but I'm just troubled because I love him a lot and I don't know what to do.

I'm a loner right now

Oliviaarims:
If truly you've resolutely decided to abstain, the need to create this thread wouldn't have arisen. Your resolve isn't strong enough, you're having second thoughts and that's where you've begun to lose the battle.

Abstinence is good. Don't allow anyone tell you that because you're no longer a virgin, you must continue indulging in premarital sex.

stuffs4me:



Reminds me of my NYSC days in Ogun state. There was this girl living downstairs to my house, she was a student of Tai Solarin University. She was in a no sex till marriage with one dude like that. But mehn, I fvcck this girl like say tomorrow no dey. For nearly a year I was fvccking heavily. She even had aborrtiion sef. But she still kept the dude in a no sex till marriage.

Sometimes when I see this guy come around to see her I used to feel sorry for him sha.

blkmum700:



boss the taste from one of the breast not encouraging at all and the stupid girl won't stop trying to force it to my mouth,i have to run away from her ooo.i swear if i continue with that girl,i fit get mouth cancer.

Glory12345:
Actually this is my first post on nairaland,I'm a comment reader and a post reader and I have observed how people do things here and I feel I should share my story,please don't criticise me or anything, I just need your help or advise,and please do read carefully to understand,and i am also sorry if i dont type this well,i'm not much of a writer.Thanks in advance

There's this guy I met at 3chub Ikeja,I actually went to ask if there was any standard rechargeable fan because i have been scammed alot by all these "fairly used" rechargeable fan,so i decided to buy a new one because they sell home appliances there,even though people say fairly used items are better which I chose to decline because this is 2016,and this buhari regime doesnt accomodate an extravagant spending.

I work in Lagos but I stay in mowe,and the electricity there isn't too good so that's why I'm getting the fan so even when the gen is off,i would have an alternative,so when I got to the store,the sales ambassadors offered me different brand rechargeable fan,but i later got a syinix rechargeable fan,because I was impressed with the number of months the warranty covers so I purchased it with my ATM card since I just came to inquire and not buy and I was cashless,I had to just use the POS *I'm only explaining all if these to give you a clearer understanding of the issue on floor*

After purchasing the fan,there was this guy that came to buy a gas cooker and we happened to meet and we both exchanged contacts with eachother and few months later we developed feelings and we had a relationship and we were doing the normal relationship vibe,until this week,he started acting up because I said no sex until marriage...he's a very nice person anyway,he helped me in so many ways(advices,financially,physically) but just because I said no sex until marriage,he's acting up already,although I have my reasons for abstaining until marriage anyway but my story is sad,and I don't know who to tell and I feel more comfortable telling people online because someone that knows me physically might not say the truth to me,because they don't want to hurt me,please I need matured comments even if it will hurt,just tell me

Although we aren't kids,but I'm just troubled because I love him a lot and I don't know what to do.

I'm a loner right now

tommychow:


But she's allowed to collect his hard earned money without doubts?

Please, your boyfriends are not your fathers. The way a woman depends on her man financially is the same was a man depends on his woman physically.

A logical woman who really wants to abstain from sex won't go into a relationship knowing fully well her man just like majority of men would want to smash.

When did relationship become about only taking care of a woman's needs (financial, emotional, romantic)?

If no sex before marriage, then no relationships till it's time to court.

Glory12345:
Actually this is my first post on nairaland,I'm a comment reader and a post reader and I have observed how people do things here and I feel I should share my story,please don't criticise me or anything, I just need your help or advise,and please do read carefully to understand,and i am also sorry if i dont type this well,i'm not much of a writer.Thanks in advance

There's this guy I met at 3chub Ikeja,I actually went to ask if there was any standard rechargeable fan because i have been scammed alot by all these "fairly used" rechargeable fan,so i decided to buy a new one because they sell home appliances there,even though people say fairly used items are better which I chose to decline because this is 2016,and this buhari regime doesnt accomodate an extravagant spending.

I work in Lagos but I stay in mowe,and the electricity there isn't too good so that's why I'm getting the fan so even when the gen is off,i would have an alternative,so when I got to the store,the sales ambassadors offered me different brand rechargeable fan,but i later got a syinix rechargeable fan,because I was impressed with the number of months the warranty covers so I purchased it with my ATM card since I just came to inquire and not buy and I was cashless,I had to just use the POS *I'm only explaining all if these to give you a clearer understanding of the issue on floor*

After purchasing the fan,there was this guy that came to buy a gas cooker and we happened to meet and we both exchanged contacts with eachother and few months later we developed feelings and we had a relationship and we were doing the normal relationship vibe,until this week,he started acting up because I said no sex until marriage...he's a very nice person anyway,he helped me in so many ways(advices,financially,physically) but just because I said no sex until marriage,he's acting up already,although I have my reasons for abstaining until marriage anyway but my story is sad,and I don't know who to tell and I feel more comfortable telling people online because someone that knows me physically might not say the truth to me,because they don't want to hurt me,please I need matured comments even if it will hurt,just tell me

Although we aren't kids,but I'm just troubled because I love him a lot and I don't know what to do.

I'm a loner right now

lefulefu:

HAHA.........moral of this ur story is that girls only use the no sex b4 marriage thingy if they have no sexual attraction for d guy but cant do away with d guy cos of the frequent financial gifts they getting frm him.Dont be surprised if after marrying d guy she secretly calls ur line make u come kpansh her

Oliviaarims:


@the emboldened. That's the way to go. That's one thing I've come to realize and a personal decision I've made. The whole boyfriend/girlfriend kind of relationship is one big waste of time, detrimental especially to the girl. I've more or less had two relationships and I think I'm done with having anyone call me his girlfriend. When he's ready for business, we'll court and he's got to agree to a no-sex relationship. But until then, I'm just very fine being single.

All in the name of bf/gf, people date for almost a decade and then someone walks away...#shivers#. That's crazy!

Oliviaarims:


@the emboldened. That's the way to go. That's one thing I've come to realize and a personal decision I've made. The whole boyfriend/girlfriend kind of relationship is one big waste of time, detrimental especially to the girl. I've more or less had two relationships and I think I'm done with having anyone call me his girlfriend. When he's ready for business, we'll court and he's got to agree to a no-sex relationship. But until then, I'm just very fine being single.

All in the name of bf/gf, people date for almost a decade and then someone walks away...#shivers#. That's crazy!

tommychow:


We are on the same page I swear. I'm single and not a fan of futile relationships. Letting yourself be physically, emotionally, financially vulnerable to someone who won't be down with you till the end (or plans to be) makes little sense. We live in a selfish world so why give power over me to a random person simply because I "like" the person?

Occasionally, we do get to meet that rare someone that makes us want to commit and have all to ourselves...but it's out of selfishness and impatience. Timing is just as important as compatibility. You get?

lefulefu:

hmmm if u have this headstrong believe u might end up being a shiloh customer every december(god forbid).love and relationships is all about understanding and making compromises not handing out ultimatums.

Oliviaarims:


I'll attend Shiloh as often as I want yes, but it won't be for the reason you're thinking. That's not my portion!

stuffs4me:


Lol... You couldn't have been more correct bro. After I had finished NYSC and left for Kaduna, the girl wanted to visit me in Kaduna sef but I declined and she kept on disturbing me. These girls can be wicked o!