I feel like hugging and crying with you. I understand how you feel....like you are in this journey alone...like you are being punished or something. Just stay strong and hold on, dear. It's ok to break down but don't give up. I wish I could make the pain disappear, I wish I could ease your financial burden so you can seek a second opinion from a different renowned Gyno. But all I can do now, is to tell you that you are not alone. Very soon, you will forget all these pains.

phelgmatic:
Mamas I want to die. let God just take my life because I don't know what I'm living for. All my life I have experienced pain and disappointments.

My people, all will be well. Sometimes, I and most mamas here get depressed and sad but we pull through and continue this journey. You guys ,phelgmatic and Omoyeni3601 will pull through too. Each time we are put down, we shall rise up and trudge on till we reach the promised land.

Like Oleayo22 who is now pregnant suggested, if we can let's try and lighten the financial burdens on our dh. If they complain about finances and we can get money from relatives, our salary or contributions; let's get permission from them and do so. I am not supporting them not giving us money for TTC o but sometimes let's help ourselves. At the end, they will be the ones joining us to enjoy bfp.
And my dear Phelgmatic... You can't die. You will be healthy and fruitful to the glory of God. If you can, read Cetona's diary here on Nairaland diary section. That young lady is going through a lot too in terms of serious illness and almost constant pains. She is a student not TTC but her story is truly encouraging.

Frankdoho mama, thanks for calling me. Thanks too for helping to keep the thread active.

mommatriplets, I used to temp before. That's how I confirmed that I really ovulate because my temperature would increase after ovulation. Only that the stress in doing it consistently is much. It needs dedication.

Hmmmmm TTC can be so draining, the emotional roller-coaster, the thought of you being left out, the feeling of being unable to trully express your self to people close to you, how bout d fact dt u can't even buy PT from close by pharmacies?? It's really a world people who don't experience it would not understand, if d fruit of d womb is d God's reward why den are we still in d waiting room?
All my mum nd sisters call to tell me now is "don't worry God will do ur own oooo"
"Come let's go see one massager"
"Make we go do womb setting"
It is 4days to my 2years anniversary
God where are u?
Is dis d original plan u had for me?
Am I not ur creation?
Lord have mercy
Hmmmm I av so many questions but I pray God's will b done

@phlegmatic, I read ur post and I didn't know when the tears flowed, pls whatever be the case, don't wish urself death anymore. If I start writing down what am passing through, this page go full.

Sometimes I ask myself, where is God in all these ? I believe he is busy moulding our babies he is not a partial God.

Pls comfort urself he will come through for us all.
@legendsmother, It will soon be over.

blessedmumi:


Yes I do...

@loisemm and other tempers
OK pls whats ur avg temps like..i googled and the whites are posting 92deg f thereabouts, while mine has been 98 deg region, its my ovu window i just started, wondering if am doing anything wrong.

has yours been very accurate at pinpointing ovulation?..the spike was it upto 1 degree?, an,ally or mouth

Omoyeni3601:
I just want to rant , dh keeps insulting and always
vents his anger on me , if I take any drugs just for my well being , he will laugh , and tell me it can't work , I have prayed and fasts , but am not seeing his hands in my life , he told me he can't give me money for anything again , that nothing will work , even if I keep taking them , I do not achieve ovulation , I am tired and I feels dh already has a kid outside , I am really weak and av been crying .

omoyeni3601 you brought me out of ghostmood i had to open a new id. dont be tired lemme tell you a true story . married to hubby for 5 years but been together since 2005 got pregnant in 2006 4 hubby removed it. since then couldnt get pregnant, was tortured emotionally by mother inlaw. tried all sort cus i wasnt ovulating, moreover husby sperm was watery,sleeping ard infecting me wit staph.etc, mind u lehub refused treating self claiming nothing was wrong but with me. i was only seein my AF for a day i tried all i mean all.watin i no drink. any way hubby left me and moved on, i was a shadow of myself, wanted to commit suciede and just go cus the shame was much. i met someone dis year May cus i wanted to just be happy, until i saw the BITTER LEAVE THERAPHY i said ok lemme try it i took it for 4days o pere , starting frm day 1 of AF , walahi talahi i ovulated oo, i met new guy even joking i was ovulating, na so we do am o. like joke two weeks after i was cramping, no period,heavy breast ,i was like hmm bitter leave don extend my period o. 3days after i bought PT strip. i saw only 1 line i was like thank God before i finish the words 2nd line came a faint one oo. dat was in August, till i did it a week after my missed period it came out 2 strong line, watin i dey find over 10 years a man in his 50s got me jacked up in less dan two months. why dont u try it. rem i wasnt even bleeding well but i achieved ovulation. biko try am first, dont even tell hubby anytin again. just pray. it is well with us all.

Demilade , thank you, I am just tired why I am not ovulating , its just tiring

imagine ordinary bitter leave that i see everwhere, can make one ovulate with a good Egg, hmmm God after using all chinese products, ijaw,uhrobo massagers ,spendin thousands of naira, na bitter leave way dey grow for my compound.

mommatriplets ,each woman's body is unique. When I was temping, I used Celsius (C) instead of Fahrenheit (F) . My average temp was around 35C. After ovulation, it would shoot up to 36C or 37C. It was more often 36C so it was just one percent increase but it was consistent. So I knew I ovulated. Sure method I must say.
Most often, before my period, my temperature will drop to 34C /33/32C. I used this to prepare my mind and buy pad for AF. Once I saw the temp dip around when my period was due, I would stop deceiving myself

You have to temp consistently for a few months to get the hang of how your own body works as regards temping. And changing environments can also affect temp values. Mine changed when I moved house. All the best. You are tempting me to resume temping ooo

Omoyeni3601:
Demilade , thank you, I am just tired why I am not ovulating , its just tiring

forget ,just try it first lets see if u achive ovulation wit it, dont be tired of tryin new things, the person who wrote abt it said for 10days but me i took mine for 4 days cus my friend said bitterleave makes one loose weight. and me i was trying to add my weight back thats why i had to stop at day 4. big glass cup o with a pinch of salt.

came across this video,
quite interesting, simplifies the whole fertilization process, felt a surge of hope when i saw that single brave s,perm fertilize n burrow deep inside the ovum. am using it to build my faith .

#mentalimage #team2017


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZp3viCdF6o

It is well
it is well
it is well in the name of Jesus it is well with your soul today.
yes it is well with our soul, because if you know the kind of Mighty God, Lion if tribe of Judea we serve, you will dry your tears and appreciate him.
It was like a dream when I saw those two red line, HE honored a sinner like me,

Yes my dear he will honour you too.... you will carry your bundle joy soon, just that HIS timing is different from ours..

my dear @legendsmother,@omoyeni3601,@ phelgmatic, please don't loose hope, hold HIM by words. Remember Daniel n prince of Persia
Remember Esther and Mordecai
Remember Job.

don't ever give up, keep pushing until you push ur door of fruitfulness open.

you all are in my prayers..
baby dust to all

love you n baby dust to you all.

DonaTee, orney, Omoyeni3601, frankdoho, Oleayo22, momoftheyear16, Loisemm, fertilewomb, prettmum and other mamas, thank you all for your encouraging words. God bless you all and grant you your heart desires. Amen. If I didn't die as a child going on admission almost every month, having surgery and even stopped breathing once but came back to life, then I believe God has a big plan for me. The pain woke me up. I'll take the pain killers and antibiotics I took last night which helped it to stop. After work today, I will go a new hospital and book for tests to be carried out again. I will start saving for the number of gynapharm tabs I have to take. Don't want to disturb hubby on this. By December 31st, 2016, pregnancy or not, I will be free from PID for life. Amen.

He was bruised for my iniquities, He was injured for my transgressions..... by His stripes, I AM HEALED!

I AM HEALED OF EVERY INFIRMITY IN MY BODY IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!!!

Oluwa mi modupe Oluwa mi modupe Oluwa mi modupe Modupe Modupe Modupe
Chineke na Imela Chineke na Imela Chineke na Imela Imela Imela Imela
O Lord My God I thank You O Lord My God I thank You O Lord My God I thank You I thank You, I thank you, I thank you.
Thank U Jesus, thank you Lord! because i know that it shall end in praise for me and to all worried mamas here. Amen.
#iconfess#
#I'mteamapril2017supernaturalbirthforme#
#mytripletFAITHALLPAT# amen!

phelgmatic:
DonaTee, orney, Omoyeni3601, frankdoho, Oleayo22, momoftheyear16, Loisemm, fertilewomb, prettmum and other mamas, thank you all for your encouraging words. God bless you all and grant you your heart desires. Amen. If I didn't die as a child going on admission almost every month, having surgery and even stopped breathing once but came back to life, then I believe God has a big plan for me. The pain woke me up. I'll take the pain killers and antibiotics I took last night which helped it to stop. After work today, I will go a new hospital and book for tests to be carried out again. I will start saving for the number of gynapharm tabs I have to take. Don't want to disturb hubby on this. By December 31st, 2016, pregnancy or not, I will be free from PID for life. Amen.

He was bruised for my iniquities, He was injured for my transgressions..... by His stripes, I AM HEALED!

I AM HEALED OF EVERY INFIRMITY IN MY BODY IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!!!

u r wc ma, y dont u try mama Sugah's therapy for infection, it was posted some days ago

He was bruised for my iniquities, He was injured for my transgressions..... by His stripes, I AM HEALED!

I AM HEALED OF EVERY INFIRMITY IN MY BODY IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!!! [/quote]

that's the spirit girl !

DonaTee:


its well with u. May d light of God illuminate ur life. Thnk God for ur period. U no spend money d period come. U wont spend money n ur baby will stick.
U av to kip assuring ur husband. Dey feel it too.

Dr Jesus is on ur case. No medical charges involved.


Some pple r looking for primolut n to induce period.

Af means time to try again on a cleansed fresh womb. Its well with u.
Try day time kpekus add lap dance if possible

Daytime kpekus? Which be lap dance kwa? I no know that one o. Explain plz.

Thanks for the encouragement,God bless you real good.

Babydust

curvilicious:



Daytime kpekus? Which be lap dance kwa? I no know that one o. Explain plz.

Thanks for the encouragement,God bless you real good.

Babydust

lap dance is jus a naughty n seductive dance. I wee stop hia.
im not a spoilt mummy. I copy frm dictionary thankyu dony mention

Daytime kpekus.....self explanatory

Baby dust to u

phelgmatic:
DonaTee, orney, Omoyeni3601, frankdoho, Oleayo22, momoftheyear16, Loisemm, fertilewomb, prettmum and other mamas, thank you all for your encouraging words. God bless you all and grant you your heart desires. Amen. If I didn't die as a child going on admission almost every month, having surgery and even stopped breathing once but came back to life, then I believe God has a big plan for me. The pain woke me up. I'll take the pain killers and antibiotics I took last night which helped it to stop. After work today, I will go a new hospital and book for tests to be carried out again. I will start saving for the number of gynapharm tabs I have to take. Don't want to disturb hubby on this. By December 31st, 2016, pregnancy or not, I will be free from PID for life. Amen.

He was bruised for my iniquities, He was injured for my transgressions..... by His stripes, I AM HEALED!

I AM HEALED OF EVERY INFIRMITY IN MY BODY IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!!!

Amen! God has heard. Pls treat alongside ur dh. Eat more of fruits n veggies n proteins. After d treatment, u shld look into immune boosting supplements. BUT I DONT KNW IF DEY INTERFER WITH TTC

legendsmother:
Hmmmmm TTC can be so draining, the emotional roller-coaster, the thought of you being left out, the feeling of being unable to trully express your self to people close to you, how bout d fact dt u can't even buy PT from close by pharmacies?? It's really a world people who don't experience it would not understand, if d fruit of d womb is d God's reward why den are we still in d waiting room?
All my mum nd sisters call to tell me now is "don't worry God will do ur own oooo"
"Come let's go see one massager"
"Make we go do womb setting"
It is 4days to my 2years anniversary
God where are u?
Is dis d original plan u had for me?
Am I not ur creation?
Lord have mercy
Hmmmm I av so many questions but I pray God's will b done

Hummmmm, I know exactly how you feel it is disheartening and pose so many unanswerable questions. Sometimes I just sit and say I wish I didn't even marry gan, but I encourage myself with this: the race is not for the swift neither the battle for the strong time and chance happeneth to them all.

It shall be well with us all

Hi
Just joined d group. I had TTC for 5yrs. Had a miscarriage 4yrs ago and a myomectomy after, since then Hsg result shows that the two tubes are blocked. I has trying several means to unblock but no result yet. I did hydrotubation recently and pray it will yeild positive result soon. Pls any similar experience?

legendsmother:
Hmmmmm TTC can be so draining, the emotional roller-coaster, the thought of you being left out, the feeling of being unable to trully express your self to people close to you, how bout d fact dt u can't even buy PT from close by pharmacies?? It's really a world people who don't experience it would not understand, if d fruit of d womb is d God's reward why den are we still in d waiting room?
All my mum nd sisters call to tell me now is "don't worry God will do ur own oooo"
"Come let's go see one massager"
"Make we go do womb setting"
It is 4days to my 2years anniversary
God where are u?
Is dis d original plan u had for me?
Am I not ur creation?
Lord have mercy
Hmmmm I av so many questions but I pray God's will b done

my sister! Na so 1 big nyash aunty accost me for village say wetin I dey wait for more kids.
I ask am which kids? She say siblings for my son.
I tell am..... Ha aunty his siblings dey room dey sleep. She jump say she no hear. I tell am u mean u no hear I born twin girls.
she follow me frm down climb steps to my room, my door open. She look bed empty.
she asked were d twins. I look her for eye.....can't u see dem on d bed?

she felt like disappearing. I didn't notice wen she left.

few days ago na dh friends wife accost dh gor supermarket. Say how far? Dat even d oda day "they were discussing it"
dh came home fuming. His friends n deir wives don dey discuss am. That he ll warn dem.

Instead of pple to pray n fast for u, dey spend more time gossiping n trying to decipher y u never get belle.
Its soooo twisted


pls encourage ur sef. Try ur best n b happy. God will do it. 1 day u ll look back n dey ll only b memories

Good morning mamas, sorry i have been MIA.... it wasn't intentional. Work happened, i just got a job so that has kept me away but thank God its something that keeps my mind busy and more relaxed from stressing on ttc.

How have everybody been? Logged in to see so many rant, my sisters it is well. It might not happen when we want it the most but for sure, i know he makes everything beautiful in his time.

By june my marriage will bè 3yrs and i have been bothered but all that change when i heard of a family friend whom i was her maid of honor, loosing her baby before her edd date.


It was very painful because it was their first after ttc for 6yrs. How hard can that be? i can imagine what they are going through now cos up untill now i still can't get them on phone. Both husband and wife's phone is switched off.


So lets take a breather sometimes, when it feels like our world is crashing down. Like i always say 'if its not safe yet for me to have it, lord keep it till it is safe no matter how long it is taking''.


Relax my sisters and fret not, for the vision is for an appointed time. Though it tarries, it shall come to pass if we faint not. One thing i know MY GOD ALWAYS MAKE THINGS BEAUTIFUL IN HIS TIME.


Peace be still.

Adorablewifey:
.
.... ... heard of a family friend whom i was her maid of honor, losing her baby before her edd date.


It was very painful because it was their first after ttc for 6yrs. How hard can that be? i can imagine what they are going through now cos up untill now i still can't get them on phone. Both husband and wife's phone is switched off.

....


MY GOD ALWAYS MAKE THINGS BEAUTIFUL IN HIS TIME

U got me in tears there...
May God comfort them and replenish their loss.

It's not easy but ppl have it worse than some of us here. Indeed, he makes all things (perfect) in His own time (which we pray is now). Amen.

@Ripvanwink, thanks for sharing the video. It shows that we are all wonderfully and carefully made by God.
My darling e-sisters, if we can survive the fertilization journey, there is no problem or difficulty that is too hard for God to resolve for us.
Let's still trust God and believe our babies are coming because he will definitely answer our heart desires according to his riches in glory.

phelgmatic:
Mamas I want to die. let God just take my life because I don't know what I'm living for. All my life I have experienced pain and disappointments. I was sickly as a child. Even in adulthood, the same thing. I have never enjoyed hundred percent good health. It's always one issue or the other. How tired my husband must be. Will I blame him if he leaves me for another woman? Since I woke up, I have been having pain in my pelvic region. Managed to go to work and took flagyl. Now the pain is intense. The same pain I always have and PID is diagnosed. My ovulation window o. I have prayed and prayed. Now money kept for something else has to be used to treat me again. I have told God, let me stay without children, no problem but keep this pain and illnesses far from me. I'm not only trying to conceive, I have other health issues as well, breathing, eyes, leg. Only me! Yet I'm thankful but I can't take this pain anymore. Very sharp pain as if someone is using a knife to cut me. It comes and goes. Lemme die and rest. So that my husband and family can rest too. My husband can marry another woman and have kids. Lemme just die

Oh! Don't do this plz
It is difficult very difficult but I assure you by the grace of God it will all I mean everything will end in praise. If you die who go born and take care of the bundle of joy wey God dey take him time create for you ehn? Who? Take it easy dearie

Sometimes I sit-down prepare with all the garnishing my testimony of how I struggled and struggled till I finally got pregnant. I stand in front of my dressing mirror carry cloth for hand as baby and gisting with myself. Sometimes I wear big dress stuff it as pregnancy do all the pregnancy stunts alone and finally breakdown in tears asking when I will stop acting and start living it in reality.

Recently I met a man of God he stays in Lagos, I'm based in Benin who placed me on prayers after the third day I dreamt that me and dh killed a bird that was coming to harm us by the side of our house. When I woke up the next morning I saw a dead bird by our bedroom window.
I still dey pray sha o, make d bird no just die make i testify follow cos I have been adjusting and readjusting my testimony till e go fully come be complete one

One more thing when I start having kids na 1year, 1yr difference. All the time I wait I go use am dey born anyhow e no cocine me at all. I go born full my house I go born like 10 children

[quote author=phelgmatic post=50210424]DonaTee, orney, Omoyeni3601, frankdoho, Oleayo22, momoftheyear16, Loisemm, fertilewomb, prettmum and other mamas, thank you all for your encouraging words. God bless you all and grant you your heart desires. Amen. If I didn't die as a child going on admission almost every month, having surgery and even stopped breathing once but came back to life, then I believe God has a big plan for me. The pain woke me up. I'll take the pain killers and antibiotics I took last night which helped it to stop. After work today, I will go a new hospital and book for tests to be carried out again. I will start saving for the number of gynapharm tabs I have to take. Don't want to disturb hubby on this. By December 31st, 2016, pregnancy or not, I will be free from PID for life. Amen.

He was bruised for my iniquities, He was injured for my transgressions..... by His stripes, I AM HEALED!

I AM HEALED OF EVERY INFIRMITY IN MY BODY IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!!! [/quote That's my girl...cheer up eradicate PID...my doctor says PID is most common fertily

phelgmatic:
DonaTee, orney, Omoyeni3601, frankdoho, Oleayo22, momoftheyear16, Loisemm, fertilewomb, prettmum and other mamas, thank you all for your encouraging words. God bless you all and grant you your heart desires. Amen. If I didn't die as a child going on admission almost every month, having surgery and even stopped breathing once but came back to life, then I believe God has a big plan for me. The pain woke me up. I'll take the pain killers and antibiotics I took last night which helped it to stop. After work today, I will go a new hospital and book for tests to be carried out again. I will start saving for the number of gynapharm tabs I have to take. Don't want to disturb hubby on this. By December 31st, 2016, pregnancy or not, I will be free from PID for life. Amen.

He was bruised for my iniquities, He was injured for my transgressions..... by His stripes, I AM HEALED!

I AM HEALED OF EVERY INFIRMITY IN MY BODY IN JESUS NAME. AMEN!!!

That's my girl ....PID is very Easy to treat is only ur Dh will cooperate with u...it is infection that cause it n once u deal with infection, PID is gone... as mama other HV said,start mama Sugah antibiotic therapy u n Dh ..(2).from day 15 of the antibiotics, u start the Gynapharm (u hv to take at least 3 to 4 packs of Gynapharm) Dh will not take Gynapharm pls...(3) Take 1 ball of lime into a cup of water n drink first thing in the morning to make ur body more alkaline (4)jik ur pant ,put in hot water ,dry under sun... also pour hot water into ur toilet often(5) Take much fruit n vegetables, avoid sugar....I started this in August n by October my scan didn't show PID again.. severe waist n pelvic pains is gone too..U are next online for a mira

[quote author=phelgmatic post=50199091]

Madam, it's well. Don't give devil opportunity, what makes you a virtuous and victorious woman is all these you a passing through, there is no champion without a challenge. One day all these Egyptians you're seeing today you will see no more. Always encourage yourself that no matter what happen in your life that you must conquer. Yes sometimes we felt like leaving this world but that does not make a difference because you cannot leave with your story pole will always remember your story. So my sis before thinking of giving up, first think of changing this story so that you will leave a good story of your life behind.

Am encouraging you to be strong as for me I have told the devil and his cohorts that I will not leave this world without having my children because the more it's tormenting me the more my prayer points change from single to twins, now triplets. I must become a testimony for pple.

#powerofbarrennesswillneverovercomeus#

@phelgmatic, Omoyeni3601, legendsmother, other mamas here have said it all. we shall all live to carry our children weda the devil likes it or not cos we serve a mighty God.
Let us keep praying to him
Let us keep worshiping him
Keep giving him our praises
for i kw that one day everything will turn around for our good.

I keep praying to God to not just give me BFP, but let me be alive with my children and see them from when they start crawling-standing-walking-running and it will not stop there oooooooo because i will celebrate their graduation from primary - secondary-university with them and also help bath their own children too that is if oyibo never bring stress free bathing machine for new born babies.
what am i saying? i am saying i will not stop at carrying my own children alone but also their children children so help me God, Amen.
My Prayer point is to be pregnant and carry to term alive, deliver my babies alive and all of us including their dad will live verrrrrrrrrrrryyyy long ooo.
And that have always been my prayers for us all here cos i don't like it when we will announce today and the next week we are back here again ttcing that is the devil way of playing and causing trouble in our life.
Some of the reasons why so of us are really upset is because the year is coming to an end it it seems as if we have wasted a whole year without getting that which the Lord has promised that he will do for us. Let also remember that he is the God of last minute miracle and nothing is to difficult for him to do.
Please let us just believe that he will do it for us
Let us have that faith that he will do it
Let us not allow the devil to take away our happiness by the things we see around us bikonu.
Our Redeemer lives for that we can face tomorrow.
cheer up all and have it at the back of your mind that you are not alone
we are one big family
even if your family and friend don't understand what you are passing through, we your e-family are always here for you any day, any time.

curvilicious:


One more thing when I start having kids na 1year, 1yr difference. All the time I wait I go use am dey born anyhow e no cocine me at all. I go born full my house I go born like 10 children

see mouth...
10 indeed


I will also do the little or no spacing stuff. Where the time again? But make the first child(ren) begin dey come first sha. Cos mind fit change