Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success.


From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man.


Do you know what differentiates a man from a boy? If you don’t know this, you’re still a boy it doesn’t matter how old you are, real men know what to do, real men don’t feel ashamed to do things, real men don’t say “what will my friends think of me when I do these things for her” real men are doers, real men are pace setters, real men make boys envious and want to be like them, he thinks and weighs his actions, he foresees and makes plans for the future, he knows going down on one kneel to propose to the woman he loves is a sign of commitment and not a macho contest, he knows this is a must.


I accompanied a friend to go get an engagement ring, he wanted to plan a surprise engagement party for his soon to be fiancée, while we were getting the rings he said to me “Bella I don’t think I’d be able to go down on one knee to propose, I am a wolf, I lead a pack, I can’t go down on one kneel to propose”. I felt like a sledge hammer had hit me on the head, I must have turned bright red at the moment because I kept saying “You’re not serious, she’s the queen of the pack, even a wolf bows to his queen, he kept blabbing how he didn’t think he will be able to do it because the pack would be there.


Do you want to know the symbolism of going down on one knee to propose? That’s submission, that’s protection, that’s acceptance, that’s seeking, you go down on one knee, look up to her and she looks down on you, she sees all your flaws and accepts you for who you are and not what you are, in that moment you kneel you have given her the impression that she comes first before anyone, your back is there to bear her burdens, your shoulder is there for her to rest on, your knee is there to support her, when she looks down on you with love and sincerity her prayers for you are accepted in heaven. Going down on one knee represents, honor, respect, surrender, humility, etc.


Real men know what I mean, real men know what I’m talking about, it’s another Saturday and you’re screaming women are evil, women are deceitful, women are cunning, women are this, women are that but your mates are getting married because they know the right thing to do, keep saying you can’t go down on one knee to propose and your future partner will keep passing you by.



Isabella Ibeji


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/12/why-every-man-must-bend-kneel-to-propose.html

Your use of imagery is beautiful, I almost saw him proposing to me

makydebbie:
Your use of imagery is beautiful, I almost saw him proposing to me

very soon

make i hear word


you no do video? no mb

Meanwhile...

Warhawk:
Meanwhile...

A cup of Garri is still #80 at Mama Nkechi's shop

abeg collect one cup for me

judeefcc:
make i hear word


you no do video? no mb

lol... She no dey post all those relationship questions and answers again... Be lyyk Recession don affect am

Warhawk:
lol... She no dey post all those relationship questions and answers again... Be lyyk Recession don affect am

to upload video for YouTube no be beans

judeefcc:
to upload video for YouTube no be beans

lol

Ok ooo

judeefcc:
make i hear word


you no do video? no mb

I lazy gan, pimples no let my face hear word

Hmm. The only reason why I'd kneel to propose is simply because I don't want to hurt her fragile ego.

Warhawk:
lol... She no dey post all those relationship questions and answers again... Be lyyk Recession don affect am

my inbox full........

i'd start soon'

resting

Splinz:
Hmm. The only reason why I'd kneel to propose is simply so as not to hurt her fragile ego.

I know u know its the right thing to do

Talk2Bella:


I know u know its the right thing to do

Certainly makes you guys feel on top of the world, isn't it

U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork.

Ifakiland:
U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork.

Nkogheri 101

Who noticed how Ogbonna Nwakwo didn't pop the 'will you marry me?' question before Laura jumped to say 'Yes'?

judeefcc:
abeg collect one cup for me

I get sugar,lets drink togeda

ObioratheBully:



Kneeling for me, Is impossible..


Females exploit everything..


Once they see you can actually go down on your knees for them.. They start acting up..


Don't show any sign of weakness! Be warned!

ehen

Talk2Bella:


ehen

You this bella

ObioratheBully:



You this bella

what i do

Ifakiland:
U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork.

This attitude is why women must learn to be independent. Both of you should enter the marriage favouring one another, but due to our Nigerian mentality, it is rarely true. Please realize your argument can never be valid in places like Iceland, Sweden and the US.

FortuneTeller:


This attitude is why women must learn to be independent. Both of you should enter the marriage favouring one another, but due to our Nigerian mentality, it is rarely true. Please realize your argument can never be valid in places like Iceland, Sweden and the US.

his comment really made me laugh, in this present day and age he thinks marrying a woman is actually doing her a favor

OK

Talk2Bella:
Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success.


From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man.


Do you know what differentiates a man from a boy? If you don’t know this, you’re still a boy it doesn’t matter how old you are, real men know what to do, real men don’t feel ashamed to do things, real men don’t say “what will my friends think of me when I do these things for her” real men are doers, real men are pace setters, real men make boys envious and want to be like them, he thinks and weighs his actions, he foresees and makes plans for the future, he knows going down on one kneel to propose to the woman he loves is a sign of commitment and not a macho contest, he knows this is a must.


I accompanied a friend to go get an engagement ring, he wanted to plan a surprise engagement party for his soon to be fiancée, while we were getting the rings he said to me “Bella I don’t think I’d be able to go down on one knee to propose, I am a wolf, I lead a pack, I can’t go down on one kneel to propose”. I felt like a sledge hammer had hit me on the head, I must have turned bright red at the moment because I kept saying “You’re not serious, she’s the queen of the pack, even a wolf bows to his queen, he kept blabbing how he didn’t think he will be able to do it because the pack would be there.


Do you want to know the symbolism of going down on one knee to propose? That’s submission, that’s protection, that’s acceptance, that’s seeking, you go down on one knee, look up to her and she looks down on you, she sees all your flaws and accepts you for who you are and not what you are, in that moment you kneel you have given her the impression that she comes first before anyone, your back is there to bear her burdens, your shoulder is there for her to rest on, your knee is there to support her, when she looks down on you with love and sincerity her prayers for you are accepted in heaven. Going down on one knee represents, honor, respect, surrender, humility, etc.


Real men know what I mean, real men know what I’m talking about, it’s another Saturday and you’re screaming women are evil, women are deceitful, women are cunning, women are this, women are that but your mates are getting married because they know the right thing to do, keep saying you can’t go down on one knee to propose and your future partner will keep passing you by.



Isabella Ibeji


http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/12/why-every-man-must-bend-kneel-to-propose.html

You really took your time to write this gibberish, a load of tosh, can you tell me what you see as the duties of women in a matrimony? Or you rather believe a woman's gender is a reason why she shouldnt have responsibilities? How did you nurture a notion that a white man cooks and rather would have his wife do nothing because he knelt down when he proposed to her? Is that what the kneeling means to you? I will help your naivety:

1. The kneeling does mean he values her and would like to have her and would take care of her not that he wants to be her slave

2. What and how do you know about a real man when you are not one, a conjecture? A real man wants his wife to be happy but he also wants to be happy, he balances everything, he's a disciplinarian, he never forgets his family, they are his priority, but he gets furious when he's not appreciated for his effort, he's sensitive to the need of his family and loved by them.

3. Because men are getting married does not mean women are perfect, do you also remember that these people who get married are the ones who divorce? Why do they? It's pretty simple, it is because they did not experience before marriage what they experienced during marriage with the woman, he divorced her because she isn't what he wants as a wife, so to prove you wrong, he who knelt down to propose to her is also the one who sent her out. Ask yourself, what could have happened?

4. In conclusion, Talktobella, how do you perceive marriage? What do you think should be the priority of each of the couple? What do you think each of the couple must do to make sure there's no collapse? Ok, I have to let you know that marriage isn't just about the wife, not just about the hubby but about both of them. To the wife, it should be about her husband and if not, a real man will sense selfishness and that's the last thing he likes about his wife, he is not happy about it because he's seen the marriage to be about his wife but he's not feeling any concern from his wife about him. Marriage is about the husband and his wife, the man sets the pace (He cares about his wife) and the woman follows his footsteps (She appreciates his efforts and does what makes him happy too)... Talktobella, if you want to have a happy married life, be ready to make someone happy too because a happy home is built by sacrifices but not selfishness..

Tajbol4splend:



You really took your time to write this gibberish, a load of tosh, can you tell me what you see as the duties of women in a matrimony? Or you rather believe a woman's gender is a reason why she shouldnt have responsibilities? How did you nurture a notion that a white man cooks and rather would have his wife do nothing because he knelt down when he proposed to her? Is that what the kneeling means to you? I will help your naivety:

1. The kneeling does mean he values her and would like to have her and would take care of her not that he wants to be her slave

2. What and how do you know about a real man when you are not one, a conjecture? A real man wants his wife to be happy but he also wants to be happy, he balances everything, he's a disciplinarian, he never forgets his family, they are his priority, but he gets furious when he's not appreciated for his effort, he's sensitive to the need of his family and loved by them.

3. Because men are getting married does not mean women are perfect, do you also remember that these people who get married are the ones who divorce? Why do they? It's pretty simple, it is because they did not experience before marriage what they experienced during marriage with the woman, he divorced her because she isn't what he wants as a wife, so to prove you wrong, he who knelt down to propose to her is also the one who sent her out. Ask yourself, what could have happened?

4. In conclusion, Talktobella, how do you perceive marriage? What do you think should be the priority of each of the couple? What do you think each of the couple must do to make sure there's no collapse? Ok, I have to let you know that marriage isn't just about the wife, not just about the hubby but about both of them. To the wife, it should be about her husband and if not, a real man will sense selfishness and that's the last thing he likes about his wife, he is not happy about it because he's seen the marriage to be about his wife but he's not feeling any concern from his wife about him. Marriage is about the husband and his wife, the man sets the pace (He cares about his wife) and the woman follows his footsteps (She appreciates his efforts and does what makes him happy too)... Talktobella, if you want to have a happy married life, be ready to make someone happy too because a happy home is built by sacrifices but not selfishness..

and you took time to respond to my gibberish

weldone

Talk2Bella:


and you took time to respond to my gibberish

weldone

Excuse me, what if hes has one and a half leg?

bitchcrafts:
Excuse me, what if hes has one and a half leg?

Then he has one leg

this is what they call complete nonsense. not surprised hearing this crap from kardashian fans, so the man that goes out to take all sort of insults in the name of feeding the family does not deserve some kneeling by the woman? do you know what men go through out there in the course of their work? all these yeye TV watching girls of this generation really really irritate me. their only hope anyway are the plenty mofos and deluded young men of today who will thoughtlessly oblige them. and infact if a man will kneel to u, u hv no right to make it public-that is bragging and that is what this generation of silly girls are all about. no real man with sense up to a donkey's will kneel for anybody women inclusive, a real man respects everybody moreso his future wife but kneeling is a sign of undiluted stupidity. u better clear your head of the nonsense kayne west and his wife are putting in ur empty skulls