| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by LordIsaac(m): 9:54pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:
Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success.
From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man.
Do you know what differentiates a man from a boy? If you don’t know this, you’re still a boy it doesn’t matter how old you are, real men know what to do, real men don’t feel ashamed to do things, real men don’t say “what will my friends think of me when I do these things for her” real men are doers, real men are pace setters, real men make boys envious and want to be like them, he thinks and weighs his actions, he foresees and makes plans for the future, he knows going down on one kneel to propose to the woman he loves is a sign of commitment and not a macho contest, he knows this is a must.
I accompanied a friend to go get an engagement ring, he wanted to plan a surprise engagement party for his soon to be fiancée, while we were getting the rings he said to me “Bella I don’t think I’d be able to go down on one knee to propose, I am a wolf, I lead a pack, I can’t go down on one kneel to propose”. I felt like a sledge hammer had hit me on the head, I must have turned bright red at the moment because I kept saying “You’re not serious, she’s the queen of the pack, even a wolf bows to his queen, he kept blabbing how he didn’t think he will be able to do it because the pack would be there.
Do you want to know the symbolism of going down on one knee to propose? That’s submission, that’s protection, that’s acceptance, that’s seeking, you go down on one knee, look up to her and she looks down on you, she sees all your flaws and accepts you for who you are and not what you are, in that moment you kneel you have given her the impression that she comes first before anyone, your back is there to bear her burdens, your shoulder is there for her to rest on, your knee is there to support her, when she looks down on you with love and sincerity her prayers for you are accepted in heaven. Going down on one knee represents, honor, respect, surrender, humility, etc.
Real men know what I mean, real men know what I’m talking about, it’s another Saturday and you’re screaming women are evil, women are deceitful, women are cunning, women are this, women are that but your mates are getting married because they know the right thing to do, keep saying you can’t go down on one knee to propose and your future partner will keep passing you by.
Isabella Ibeji
http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/12/why-every-man-must-bend-kneel-to-propose.html I only kneel to God. Your definition of "real men" are just female cronies that are condemned to dutifully adhere to the whims and caprices of the female gender. And, for the record, a man pays a price to get a woman, must satisfy her in bed to keep her, provides for the daily needs of everyone in the home, gets his hands dirty to keep his home safe, takes care of father and mother in laws....infact, he is doomed for perpetual slavery as long as he lives...to mention but a few. So, anytime you come across a man, kneel before him and like Sarah of old, call him LORD. Lords, don't kneel!!! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Coraje(m): 9:55pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
I hate when people refer to this real men do this or do that bullshit. 4c.k the real men and nobody should expect me to fit into his/her real men ideology. Though im not for or against kneeling down to propose.. Its a free world! Choose to do what you want but you should have reasonable reasons for doing so. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by ethankareem(m): 10:01pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
With all dis new generation girls wey der life don spoil finish na him person 1 kneel for, abeg make we hear 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Talk2Bella(f): 10:02pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
ethankareem:
With all dis new generation girls wey der life don spoil finish na him person 1 kneel for, abeg make we hear
Old generation boy Weldone  |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 10:04pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Ifakiland:
U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she ? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork. 
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by omolorlarh: 10:06pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Ifakiland:
U made it sound like a gal is doing me a favour or helping me by marrying me....fork dat, I'm actually d one helping her ministry....I culd stay till 35 before getting married...can she? U talked abt her changing her name, been loyal, giving birth and all d oda BS....which job beats providing for her and d kids we both gonna produce (cos she even needs my sperm to birth d baby, she's later gonna start calling my child) so madam bone dat level....I WON'T kneel to propose to a gal....God forbid bad tin....I'll sit...look her in d face and ask....den we kiss and continue eating after Wc we go ohm and fork. lol..no be only fork but spoon |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 10:06pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
I don't need to do any kneeling to a get a yes... just like there are so many attractive girls that are okay with sex before marriage... there are also so many decent and intelligent girls that are okay with marriage proposal without a man kneeling down... I don't need to kneel down. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 10:06pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:07pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Coraje:
I hate when people refer to this real men do this or do that bullshit. 4c.k the real men and nobody should expect me to fit into his/her real men ideology. Though im not for or against kneeling down to propose.. Its a free world! Choose to do what you want but you should have reasonable reasons for doing so. Thank you!!.... they keep shouting real men real men!.. I'm sure if we were to start the "real women" shii, non of them lazy hoes will meet up to expectations!! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Real men - this, Real men - that.
I for one, plan on proposing just after I nut, with her on her knees, fresh from sucking me off.
Now, how's that for a "real man". 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 10:11pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by topsam1(m): 10:24pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:
Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success.
From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man.
Do you know what differentiates a man from a boy? If you don’t know this, you’re still a boy it doesn’t matter how old you are, real men know what to do, real men don’t feel ashamed to do things, real men don’t say “what will my friends think of me when I do these things for her” real men are doers, real men are pace setters, real men make boys envious and want to be like them, he thinks and weighs his actions, he foresees and makes plans for the future, he knows going down on one kneel to propose to the woman he loves is a sign of commitment and not a macho contest, he knows this is a must.
I accompanied a friend to go get an engagement ring, he wanted to plan a surprise engagement party for his soon to be fiancée, while we were getting the rings he said to me “Bella I don’t think I’d be able to go down on one knee to propose, I am a wolf, I lead a pack, I can’t go down on one kneel to propose”. I felt like a sledge hammer had hit me on the head, I must have turned bright red at the moment because I kept saying “You’re not serious, she’s the queen of the pack, even a wolf bows to his queen, he kept blabbing how he didn’t think he will be able to do it because the pack would be there.
Do you want to know the symbolism of going down on one knee to propose? That’s submission, that’s protection, that’s acceptance, that’s seeking, you go down on one knee, look up to her and she looks down on you, she sees all your flaws and accepts you for who you are and not what you are, in that moment you kneel you have given her the impression that she comes first before anyone, your back is there to bear her burdens, your shoulder is there for her to rest on, your knee is there to support her, when she looks down on you with love and sincerity her prayers for you are accepted in heaven. Going down on one knee represents, honor, respect, surrender, humility, etc.
Real men know what I mean, real men know what I’m talking about, it’s another Saturday and you’re screaming women are evil, women are deceitful, women are cunning, women are this, women are that but your mates are getting married because they know the right thing to do, keep saying you can’t go down on one knee to propose and your future partner will keep passing you by.
Isabella Ibeji
http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/12/why-every-man-must-bend-kneel-to-propose.html Which leg person go come carry go up? Which one go kneel? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Valkyr: 10:26pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:
Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success.
From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man.
Do mothers teach daughters that 'Men CAN'T clean'. Even if men can't clean there are bots tthat now do that. U must not cook: that is d origin of restaurants & d like. I'm tired of you thinking that womb is still holy grail. U mustn't give birth Incubator dy or u think the child begotten from the incubator has no soul??. In fact I am tired. This is just another feminist manifesto. No b mothers dy write algorithm to keep the chain going? If you can't, go do transgender op. If you have further complaints call 0700GOD..
About special, what if a man is crippled must he kneel? Between the proposal and the kneeling which one dy special?? So if I propose to you without standing, ur old problem of just being girlfriend go pass away . New problem I didn't kneel. If I kneel to ask, you kneel to answer 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by FisifunKododada: 10:28pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:
Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success. Spare me. Most of you middle class women have house-help that do the cleaning and cooking. As far as giving birth - blame nature (or God). Men are expected to be faithful, meek, diligent, steadfast and make the home successful too -so what are you saying/complaining about? As far as being submissive - if a woman is willing to take on the role of the sole-provider there are many struggling Nigerian men that will gladly submit to her. Guys dey para economy hard if you no know. Talk2Bella:
From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, You make it sound like marriage is a burden for Nigerian women. If this is the case, why do Nigerian unmarried women make marriage their number 1 prayer point? They will go to pastor, imam and babalawo just so they can be 'blessed' with a rich husband. So what are you complaining about? If marriage is a burden then why put so much effort to get a husband? Talk2Bella:
they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man. When a man gets married he is totally responsible for his wife. Her security. Her feeding. Her clothing. Every financial need. What exactly is a woman giving up again? If a man tells you he doesn't wanna copy another man's style its not because he 'feels too big' its because he sees himself as unique. We are Africans. We have our own culture that is beautiful and unique. What is hard for you to understand there? Talk2Bella:
Do you know what differentiates a man from a boy? If you don’t know this, you’re still a boy it doesn’t matter how old you are, real men know what to do, real men don’t feel ashamed to do things, real men don’t say “what will my friends think of me when I do these things for her” real men are doers, real men are pace setters, real men make boys envious and want to be like them, he thinks and weighs his actions, he foresees and makes plans for the future, he knows going down on one kneel to propose to the woman he loves is a sign of commitment and not a macho contest, he knows this is a must. You are so full of it. Such a patronizing tone. Have you ever walked a day in a man's shoes? So how can you know what a man is let alone a REAL man? Focus a being a real woman and let men be men. All this nonsense because you want a self respecting African man to 'monkey' a white man. Talk2Bella:
I accompanied a friend to go get an engagement ring, he wanted to plan a surprise engagement party for his soon to be fiancée, while we were getting the rings he said to me “Bella I don’t think I’d be able to go down on one knee to propose, I am a wolf, I lead a pack, I can’t go down on one kneel to propose”. I felt like a sledge hammer had hit me on the head, I must have turned bright red at the moment because I kept saying “You’re not serious, she’s the queen of the pack, even a wolf bows to his queen, he kept blabbing how he didn’t think he will be able to do it because the pack would be there. While your friend's hesitation is correct and in line with African culture. He is still not self aware enough to articulate the reasons behind it. If he knew better he should have just said 'look, getting than on my knees to propose to a woman is against my culture.' Na by force? And if a woman turns him down for that reason, they he is way better off with a woman who understands and respect his culture. Talk2Bella:
Do you want to know the symbolism of going down on one knee to propose? That’s submission, that’s protection, that’s acceptance, that’s seeking, you go down on one knee, look up to her and she looks down on you, she sees all your flaws and accepts you for who you are and not what you are, in that moment you kneel you have given her the impression that she comes first before anyone, your back is there to bear her burdens, your shoulder is there for her to rest on, your knee is there to support her, when she looks down on you with love and sincerity her prayers for you are accepted in heaven. Going down on one knee represents, honor, respect, surrender, humility, etc. Instead of spending time learning about the symbolism of the rituals of white peoples' dating/marriage culture why don't you spend that time to study and understand the symbolism and significance of the rituals of African dating/marriage cultures? What is so special about white people that their symbolism becomes more important than your own? You make it sound like protection, acceptance, honor, respect, humility and all those qualities are absent in our own culture.It is because of people like you that white people refer to us a monkeys behind our backs - 'monkey see monkey do.' Talk2Bella:
Real men know what I mean, real men know what I’m talking about, it’s another Saturday and you’re screaming women are evil, women are deceitful, women are cunning, women are this, women are that but your mates are getting married because they know the right thing to do, keep saying you can’t go down on one knee to propose and your future partner will keep passing you by.
Isabella Ibeji Once again this woman (who has NEVER walked a day in the shoes of a man) is trying to teach us how to be real men. Also make up your mind. You suggested that marriage is a burden to women (because they have to give up 'so' much) and yet here you are saying marriage is the right thing to do. So the man is doing the right thing by marrying you so why are you complaining about giving up 'so' much? Finally, my fellow proud African men, if a woman says she will not marry you until you go down on one knee before her - thank your stars because she is not the one for you. Capt. Fisifun. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by FisifunKododada: 10:35pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
FortuneTeller:
This attitude is why women must learn to be independent. Both of you should enter the marriage favouring one another, but due to our Nigerian mentality, it is rarely true. Please realize your argument can never be valid in places like Iceland, Sweden and the US. When the men of those countries start copying African marriage culture then we will consider kneeling down to propose like them. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by naijaboiy: 10:39pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:
Too much are expected of women, we must clean, cook, give birth, change our names, be faithful, submissive, meek, diligent, steadfast, and make our homes a success.
From the day a woman is born these instructions are like a program installed in her brain, she’s been programmed to do these things without questions and abide by them, women give up so much to be in the marital race, they give up more than the men and one single thing a man should do to make a woman feel special, one thing he should do to show sign of commitment, one thing he should do to show he’s going to be her burden bearer for life, he feels too big to do it because he says he’s not a white man.
Do you know what differentiates a man from a boy? If you don’t know this, you’re still a boy it doesn’t matter how old you are, real men know what to do, real men don’t feel ashamed to do things, real men don’t say “what will my friends think of me when I do these things for her” real men are doers, real men are pace setters, real men make boys envious and want to be like them, he thinks and weighs his actions, he foresees and makes plans for the future, he knows going down on one kneel to propose to the woman he loves is a sign of commitment and not a macho contest, he knows this is a must.
I accompanied a friend to go get an engagement ring, he wanted to plan a surprise engagement party for his soon to be fiancée, while we were getting the rings he said to me “Bella I don’t think I’d be able to go down on one knee to propose, I am a wolf, I lead a pack, I can’t go down on one kneel to propose”. I felt like a sledge hammer had hit me on the head, I must have turned bright red at the moment because I kept saying “You’re not serious, she’s the queen of the pack, even a wolf bows to his queen, he kept blabbing how he didn’t think he will be able to do it because the pack would be there.
Do you want to know the symbolism of going down on one knee to propose? That’s submission, that’s protection, that’s acceptance, that’s seeking, you go down on one knee, look up to her and she looks down on you, she sees all your flaws and accepts you for who you are and not what you are, in that moment you kneel you have given her the impression that she comes first before anyone, your back is there to bear her burdens, your shoulder is there for her to rest on, your knee is there to support her, when she looks down on you with love and sincerity her prayers for you are accepted in heaven. Going down on one knee represents, honor, respect, surrender, humility, etc.
Real men know what I mean, real men know what I’m talking about, it’s another Saturday and you’re screaming women are evil, women are deceitful, women are cunning, women are this, women are that but your mates are getting married because they know the right thing to do, keep saying you can’t go down on one knee to propose and your future partner will keep passing you by.
Isabella Ibeji
http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/12/why-every-man-must-bend-kneel-to-propose.html Just look at the "problem" our girls are having today. While men are wondering how they'll make money so they can cater for their family after getting married, one girl is somewhere ranting and advocating for the right to be knelt to when being proposed to. Misplaced priorities! 
If I propose to my girlfriend with a diamond ring and I sit on my chair or stand. If she likes she should not accept, it simply means she's not ready to get married all because of one unnecessary bullshit.
This write up is just a truck load of crap! 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by adodofemi(m): 10:41pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Silly write up!....... I'm happily married to the most beautiful woman in the world. I never knelt down for her, I didn't propose like all these Kim Kardashian sisters would expect, we were friends and we just saw ourselves glued and that was all. I've never disrespected her and she has never looked me in the eye as a sign of disrespect. We are happy together, blessed with a set of twin boys, Eni&Teni. Abeg, no be by kneeling down to propose o. God's grace, determination to keep going on no matter what, maturity and love. These and some other ones make a happy marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Talk2Bella(f): 10:45pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
adodofemi:
Silly write up!....... I'm happily married to the most beautiful woman in the world. I never knelt down for her, I didn't propose like all these Kim Kardashian sisters would expect, we were friends and we just saw ourselves glued and that was all. I've never disrespected her and she has never looked me in the eye as a sign of disrespect. We are happy together, blessed with a set of twin boys, Eni&Teni. Abeg, no be by kneeling down to propose o. God's grace, determination to keep going on no matter what, maturity and love. These and some other ones make a happy marriage. You have never disrespected your wife but you come here to disrespect me by saying my write up is silly Thanks |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by fathomberry: 10:47pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Trash 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by bigcp(m): 10:50pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Raine80:
There is no must in a proposal..he asks in any way he feels that makes the moment poignant. It might be watching tv, having breakfast or maybe you are far away in a distant land. He has thought about making you his wife there are no rules and regulations about this. Insisting on one way of proposing is for fairytales....it's the thought not the method that's matters here. May God Bless u n ur entire Generations 4 this.... 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by samsam2019: 10:51pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Shower of sh1t 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by rafabenitez: 10:53pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Me kneel down to propose to a woman who stoops down to urinate NEVER will i,if she no accept d normal question wen im chattin wth her den woe to her cos she go old fr d papa house.FOR REFERENCE SAKE GO ASK ANTY LINDA IKEJI HOW SHE FEELS SEEING OTHERS WED YET AT HER AGE NOTHING FR HER,WISE WOMEN NO GET DAT TYM TO LOOK FR MAN WEY GO KNEEL DOWN,HUSBANDS ARE SCARCE. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Ifakiland(m): 11:05pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
omolorlarh:
lol..no be only fork but spoon
Yes ke...fork in d spoon position. |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 11:06pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Even if she's queen elisabeth, I WON'T!...imposicant!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 11:07pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:10pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 11:10pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:
You have never disrespected your wife but you come here to disrespect me by saying my write up is silly
Thanks Your write up is SILLY period! 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nosaghae(m): 11:19pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
If I catch myself do that rubbish 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez:
Everyone did lol... Didn't you se the post by that editor that says he feels the engagement was forced and rehearsed? I didn't. Link pls |
| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by JeffreyJamez(m): 11:25pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by Nobody: 11:28pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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| Re: Why Every Man Must Bend A Kneel To Propose. by RichThug(m): 11:29pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
Ifakiland:
No mind all dis chicken brain gals....after dem don read novel and watch dos mumu love film finish, dem go dey expect surprised proposal and goin down on one kneels with diamond (local gals dat don't even know d diff btw crystals and d real diamond). Future wife abeg ehn....if I no kneel down abeg say no u hear....so I can promote d side chick who will even remove d ring herself frm d box. Nigerian gals sef wan dey feel like queens....awon local biitches. Yous a Real MVP. ModafuCkn girls bin getting high and brainwashed on telemundo. Wtf do dey even bring to the table if not some deep, stinking, unapologetic puvvy and a few instagram likes. A n!gga gon hustle day and night just to provide for the fam and one lazy fat boddied cow will juz be expecting some real hustle hommie to come and kneel juz to help her life... Some body should help me with that lil wayne olosho pishure cos this op deserves it. 1 Like 1 Share |
