bro she only see u as her backup....she is aint loyal dating 2 guys at once.

OneSentence:

a girl that agreed to marry another man and after such heavy commitment is still involved with another man so much so that he proposed to her meaning that from the story she was fuccking the two, u r here advising a man to even consider her? that she might make a good wife? pls have sense nah...

May you receive sense. I know women who were in such situations and they loved their husband more because of the experience. Don't speak about things based on your thoughts, but speak from life experience.

FortuneTeller:


May you receive sense. I know women who were in such situations and they loved their husband more because of the experience. Don't speak about things based on your thoughts, but speak from life experience.

so if u take statistics from 1000 promiscuous Nigerian girls u believe u will get up to 100 that will change because of experience? trust? for something u cannot guarantee? something u will enter blindly with just th belief that she will change? men your trust level ehn...

ask God for guidance...

please move on with our life... it's obvious that she has you as a spare boyfriend... Now that her main boyfriend has "failed" her, she remembers you. lols

Mr man the only people who can give you sound advice in this thread are the men, don't listen to d ladies.


Don't be an option!

"place your two hands on your head, say fatherrrr, I refuse to be a backup folder"


Say that 3 times.

I don't know why some guys like being friend zoned, is it a curse?

She said NO to your proposal yet you are still dating her, buying her sharwama/suya underwears, playing mugu. Then what purpose/usefulness is attached to dating her aside sex? Dude, u be her spare tyre.

Accept her proposal na, she go use extra marital affairs finish your life. Nonsense!

Nigerian use

decatalyst:


Kai! Aunty, you go sabi beg wella ooo

walai. No mind am. See scope

who is marrying who here meanwhile where is seun he has a case to answer. My lecturer today been advising his student to visit nairaland frequently biko did he pay him for advertisement ni

Dont marry her. Her first option has disappointed her thats why. If you marry her, she might likely cheat on you with the same person. Be wise bro

If she is extra-ordinarily good in bed, I will advice you marry her

AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

see scope. Wonders shall never end

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

I know most will say, forget her, go for someone else. but for me, it's better to marry someone that has weighed her options and settled for you, she will value you more,knowing; she tried and it's not sooo easy out there. Therz no one way to live life.

Talking from experience.

kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

LMAO... it's truly finished

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

na olosho run b4 she infects u, she is free for all n nw hustling u for marriage

kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

Imagine the girl was having an open relationship with him n he saw nothing wrong with this. This girl will still cheat on him after marriage. That is a fact.

MAVRODI

You was her second choice ..but follow your heart

No marry her jare,just dey chop kpomo dey go.

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

The girl may end up being a good wife for you since ordinarily you liked her enough to want to marry you, and she liked you enough to stay with you all that while. Perhaps she has been conditioned into thinking about marriage in a certain way and she might be confused herself. Her apparent infidelity may not yet be a reason to cast her aside.

I'll leave you with this simple rule: never make permanent, life-altering decisions when you are in a state of confusion.

Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

The man refused to marry her her so she doesnt want to lose out.
NEVER NEVER be a backup quarterback for any girl.
The day U accept to be a second option, you will ALWAYS be her 2nd option in life

cjshooter:
MAVRODI

Wetin Mavrodi do again?

justscorchone:
No marry her jare,just dey chop kpomo dey go.

Ma nigga

When you were bleeding her, did u ask Nairalanders? Now marriage u re asking us.

Guy man, I know you don't want to marry her.

U be onuku? Cut her off
Cut it cut it cut it

keep fooling ur self.... until she give u HIV..
she dey fucck u dey fucck another nigga..
kontinue

kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

hmmmm,the same way I reason the matter thats double dating You knew She had a Man in Her life before and you went ahead with Her let's call a spade a spade sincerely speaking sebi na the one She told you about naim you know who knows if there are other Men She dating without your knowledge. Ladies of nowadays are too cunning & deceitful

thanks seun for pushing this post to front page

kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...

same tuts here, it is truly finished bro!

I was into that kind of relationship sometime last year.her abroad boyfriend was always calling.she has been hoping for years.I really wanted her as a wife.
But.Omoo.at a point I became tired of been a second option.I started searching for my own.I got.am getting married in few months.
The day I called her and broke up with her.she was like.what if he doesn't come back?.and I was like.don't worry he will come.