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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by holluphemydavid(m): 4:15pm On Jan 18, 2017
If I were u, I will not marry her, am tu big to be an option

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Oilwell(m): 4:15pm On Jan 18, 2017
AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?

Women you people can justify anything. Tufiakwa

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 18, 2017
shout out to that rebound Niggah....I don't give a Bleep though...

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Oilwell(m): 4:17pm On Jan 18, 2017
Catalin:
Don't marry any woman that use you as a spare boyfriend/second option. You will regret the marriage.

Correct girl

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jan 18, 2017
Babzilla:

Wetin Mavrodi do again?


ASK GOOGLE
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by chronique(m): 4:17pm On Jan 18, 2017
How do you guys date people in relationships that you know won't marry you? The lady has someone who wants to marry her and still chooses to date and most likely sleep with you. So many irresponsible cheats around. F*ck y'all and your irresponsible lifestyles.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by drotba(m): 4:18pm On Jan 18, 2017
kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...


I tell you.... "It is finished"!!!

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by AyodeleM1(m): 4:18pm On Jan 18, 2017
you are just her consolation prize
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by sammyalways: 4:18pm On Jan 18, 2017
kkash:
Wait oo, she said she has someone dat wants to marry her but still went ahead to date u, and u went ahead to date her knowing she has a man that wants to marry her......and no one sees anything wrong with this.....truely ' it is finished'...
how can i buy u a bottle of origin and l
agos finnest suya? u smart
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 4:18pm On Jan 18, 2017
It's a two way thing at OP

You might go into the marriage and be happy ever after.
And you might go into it and regret ever after

So follow your mind and pray about it very well

Try to get another girl as well and see if you still love her or not

Girls are too flexible seriously
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by almarthins(m): 4:19pm On Jan 18, 2017
Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help


Do you love her ?

No beat arround d bush o! Straight to d point
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by waley007(m): 4:19pm On Jan 18, 2017
Op,the real boyfriend might have known about u,making hin break up with her and since she sees u as her second option,she had to fall back on u...how will u even trust her in marriage ,for u to be bleeping someone who has a person she looks up to for marriage and yet do u even tink the other guy doesn't know about you too? Do u even know if u are the cause of their breakup now?

When she sees that u are not good enough for him also she will dump u,why don't you pretend u are not ready for her again,tell her you are not interested in marriage wit her again,do that for a month and see her reaction

Believe me she would go back to the first guy within 3 days...just try it
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Daytonbale: 4:21pm On Jan 18, 2017
i love her
almarthins:



Do you love her ?

No beat arround d bush o! Straight to d point
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Kingdolo(m): 4:21pm On Jan 18, 2017
Follow ur heart ,but tread wisely.In essence use ur head.
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by maduxs: 4:23pm On Jan 18, 2017
You are in a reserve team that's to say you are in feeders team and the top striker has been injured so you have been given the opportunity to feature in the first team match. If you impress the coach you will be given a permanent shirt, but if you don't, you will be returned to feeders team immediately the top striker is back from injury or you will be replaced with a better striker should the transfer window opens by January and u will equally be free to free transfer because by then your Contract must have been expired. What you think you have been playing before is training not the real match. Be at your best.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by paulo220(m): 4:23pm On Jan 18, 2017
op.. pls kindly reject her proposal, she might even fucking another person apart from both of u. she's not worthy for that,unless ur village ppl dey dance for ur head.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by phensbassey: 4:24pm On Jan 18, 2017
OneSentence:

a girl that agreed to marry another man and after such heavy commitment is still involved with another man so much so that he proposed to her meaning that from the story she was fuccking the two, u r here advising a man to even consider her? that she might make a good wife? pls have sense nah...
lol, from her Monicker, one could deduce that she's used to deceiving people..
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Richy4(m): 4:25pm On Jan 18, 2017
What the lady did was called opportunity cost in Economics.....She has forgone her true love...The happiness, joy and try to settle for less...

Everyone in life has done that once in a while....Take JAMB for a example....while filling out the form, you were given two choices

Ist choice....UniJOS<<<Economics

2ns choice ...UniLAG<<<Marketing...

If they refused to offer you admission in Unijos because of certain issues best known to them, and you still like Marketing as a course and Unilag as an institution, won't you give it a go...

You should not be confused in this...You either agree to settle down with her knowing fully well that you were her second choice or you tell her that your Ego was bruised and you can't play a second fiddle. that you like to be someone's first choice...Simple.....

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 18, 2017
Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help
If there is anything I would never be, it's a substitute.
My brother I'm sorry to say, but you are a substitute. Go figure.
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by pawesome(m): 4:30pm On Jan 18, 2017
Op,forget her..u causd dis frm d beginin makin urself a plan B..plan A didnt work n u re nw plan B..lata dis same guy wil cum bk wit al d swt mouth n she wil stil bounce u fr him..so op,abeg forget her.
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by skinflint(m): 4:31pm On Jan 18, 2017
She was blunt to tell you she can't marry you. That clearly shows you are a second option. Her coming back to declare her interest to be married to you is suspicious. Tell her you can't marry her anymore because she never respected your person when she revealed someone else already in the picture. Chai! Desperate girls no get shame oh.

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 18, 2017
There's NO hard n fast rule here! She might turn out to be a great wife or bad wife.
MARRIAGE NA LUCK!

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Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jan 18, 2017
LifeofAirforce1:
You be her second option

she don turn to you since the guy she truly loved ain't ready for commitment yet


but follow your heart sha.



This is just so on point
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jan 18, 2017
AgbenuAnna:
have you ever bought something and not like then after a while you just love it?


Your analogy is totally off point , even if it is true , what will stop her from falling out of love with him , at least she was initially in love with someone else
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Sunjos: 4:35pm On Jan 18, 2017
this post is helpful and I'm learning from it because I'm almost considering going into same relationship cuz I like this lady.
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Omooniya1: 4:36pm On Jan 18, 2017
if she is dating two people at same time... then put on ur thinking cap
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by samsam2019: 4:36pm On Jan 18, 2017
Youre just a backup plan to her





If u like u can marry her, it's nobody's business
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by melejo(m): 4:37pm On Jan 18, 2017
She didn't accept you before but has decided to accept. What's the problem now? Go and marry her joor let's come and chop recession rice
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by chiefoluigwe(m): 4:37pm On Jan 18, 2017
move on with your life and forget about her
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by hadura29(m): 4:39pm On Jan 18, 2017
Adeinfo:
if u want to be happy for the rest of your life, reject her on the basis of telling u point blank and also don't be any one option. Learn to show a high self esteem

One cold Heineken for you bro..
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by Eberex(m): 4:41pm On Jan 18, 2017
hmm Can i even date a girl knowing she already has a guy?
Re: She Said She Can't Marry Me, But Now, She Wants Me To Marry Her, Help by 9jatatafo(m): 4:43pm On Jan 18, 2017
Daytonbale:
I met a lady, approached her, she accepted me after some months. We have dated for 9 months now, but when i met her she told me that she has a man that wants to marry her, that she dated him for like 1year and 6 months. We love ourselves, every thing has been going well with two of us.

I asked her, "will you marry me?", she said "No" that some else is there to marry her. I said no issue about that. I forgot anything marriage with her, we only date , so we have been dating since then. I forget everything about marriage with her .

I was surprise when she told me that she has changed her mind, that she will marry me. What should I do ?
That the man is not Serious with her that she loves me.

Am confused cuz she told me point blank that she cant marry me .
Am financially ok, I'm confused. I need help

Please help

Bros make I nor lie to you. that girl took you as her spare tyre and don't be in rush to accept. I think she is not your wife. this kind of lady could cheat on you with that her unserious guy in the future. Look for your real wife. my 1 kobo advice.

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