TheSlyone2:
This discussion is over flogged. Yet the FAQ keep recurring on cyber space.

Well,

1. I wouldn't link virginity to lack opportunity. Why?
As a man, even without a substantial relationship, he could engage in sexual activities with a total stranger, I guess that's why we have commercial sex workers. You don't need to fall in love to get laid.

As a lady, if the intention to have sex grow stronger, she can always cultivate the habit of meeting all manner of guys. I mean fuckboys are all over, meeting them shouldn't be an issue.

2. Unwanted pregnancy or STD isn't an issue. Why?

With the advent Condoms and contraceptive pills, I don't see how a guy/girl wouldn't have sex if that's top of her priority list.

3. Fear of God.
To me having sex with the right person whether in or outside a marriage is justified. Take for instance, after meeting your right match, things got tensed during the relationship and sexual relations were inevitable due to their love for each other. Eventually, they got married and live a happy life after.

All your point are flawed

Virginity is relative. It is totally a choice not dependent on any factor.

makydebbie:

That's fornication and its a sin. It can't be justified. Self control is key. When the bible talks about things like stealing, killing, you'll see things like avoid temptation. But when its talking about pre marital sex, its says flee .

What I'm saying is, the bible knows what you stated up there that's why you should completely avoid things that will make you fornicate.

TheSlyone2:

Well said dee,

Goodmorning

makydebbie:
Good morning, hope you slept well?

TheSlyone2:

Very well.

I love how you took your time to clarify things up there.

Thumbs up

makydebbie:
Thank you

makydebbie:

That's fornication and its a sin. It can't be justified. Self control is key. When the bible talks about things like stealing, killing, you'll see things like avoid temptation. But when its talking about pre marital sex, its says flee .

What I'm saying is, the bible knows what you stated up there that's why you should completely avoid things that will make you fornicate.

firstking01:
Hmmm, no wonder ghana has too many prophets...I know one samuel tutu, he's a major prophet...he's visited my church like twice in ph...you should know him??

makydebbie:
Lol I'm just hearing his name for the first time.

firstking01:
That man can preach and prophesy sha...you now in nigeria??

makydebbie:
Lol there are lotta fakes here tho, one has to be careful. I'm not in nigeria yet.

firstking01:
Thought you in nigeria pending what you told me the last time on whatsapp...and btw, is that your sis or friend on your dp cos that absolutely ain't you??

makydebbie:
Lol I'm not, what makes you so sure that ain't me?

Cos its only few people that has seen my full pic.

firstking01:
And you think i'm not one of them?, or ain't you deborah again??

makydebbie:
Lol, iffa hear

I hardly upload my pic on watsapp sef

firstking01:
You unconciously uploaded your full pix once on whatsapp, forgotten?

makydebbie:
I uploaded my full pic on watsapp for the first time last week and it didn't stay long on my profile.

firstking01:
You did that when i used to have your first whatsapp no.....

nursennenny:
If only ppl will learn that virginity is by choice
*Do I have sexual urge like others? -of course I do,even more than most ppl but my dear ,there is something called self discipline.
*Did you just mention lack of opportunity? Dude like seriously? Anyway am sure you re joking.I get more opportunities than you can think of ,so don't go there.
*unwanted pregnancy or STI's? No no no,am a nurse and can easily handle those.so this point is off.
* Fear of God-good point tho,what is sacred should be kept sacred.
Finally am 21 and proudly a virgin.I keep male friends,I party,I have fun(sex isn't the only fun).
Am not gay ,in a relationship I offer my prayers,advice,teaching,treatment among other things and not Sex.