Is sex d hub off relationship? Did u ask her if not having sex can make her change her mind? Bros, she has met another guy n maybe u r a sex addict n she wants to use dat as a yardstick to break up with.

Before any further talk,tell her to send the 10k back.lolz


Op,do reassure her that you are not after her body,that you mean serious business with her.

Another Corper is doing it on your behalf, save this she will come back on her kneels after NYSC.

Plus sorry about the 10k.

Seriously laughing at some posts saying she found Jesus or something, abeg who is deceiving who? My guy ur babe don see another guy and its better u walk away with some dignity, some ladies out there doesn't know what dey want.... Please bro let her be, sometimes God remove some people from our lives for our own good..

She is with another guy

kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.

Are u for real? Another judgemental soul spotted!

1990- Ashawo



2009- Prostitute



2011- Ashana



2014- Olosho



2016- Side Chick




2017- SlayQueen/Pepper Dem Gang


Congratulations y'all!!!

That's serious. I smell something fishy either from both sides.

greatnaija01:
bros na you get your mouth o... i talked about moral virtues and about JESUS. so if it pains you so much simply DIE and go n make your case over there. Hypocrite or not.... we all answer to God. OUR PARENTS WHO TAUGHT US MORAL VALUES THEMSELVES WEREN'T PERFECT. so stop attacking the messenger and look carefully at my first comment... it will help you.

Lol. Bros, you get time for that mofo!

falconey:
Was her spiritual life in kirikiri when you both were having coitus_?. This is how they lose husband for bizzare reasons.

Call her,if you can go to calabar better,tell her its fine by you no sex( if of course you can live with that), if she persist she can't continue dude let her go.

Lose which husband?
How many guys would a young lady f<ck before she meets this husband? Can you advise your daughter to keep f<cking every guy she dates because she dey find husband?

It's still you guys that will ask body count tomorrow, then multiply any answer you get by 4. Husband indeed...

Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander

Born again my testicles! Since November y'all haven't shagged, you send her 10k for her to come over so y'all can shag. She calls you afterward and says she's now born again I laugh! mbok, she's found another guy thats been shagging her all this while and now she prefers him to you. She doesn't know how to tell you the truth so she's come up with the born again thingy. Ogbeni, that's a cheap lie. Take the little pride you have left and move on. We all know the sort of things that girls do during NYSC

Guy ,if you truly love her and u are sure she loves you ,the only way u can convince her is to make ur relationship official
Do court marriage and make it official/meet her pple and do introduction give her these options ,if she still insists that she wants to break up,then let her be,she doesn't want to be with you.
if pre marital sex is disturbing her,then the option of making ur relationship official shld be good news to her.

The girl is seriously fucking someone else in calabar. So it is after she collected your 10k finish before she knows she can't come again or not interested.
To me if she want to proof her innocence, and to show she has really born again. Make she return the 10k and any other things u gave to because if she is still holding your money it is a sin. Ladies believe they are wise. They think having pre marital sex is the only sin. Collecting money from a guy u are not married to is also a sin.
My guy forget the lady if you want to have a happy home. The distance between you have make her to be fucking another guy. Do not allow any lady to mislead you on this tread because they will be supporting the girl.
Am married and I can tell you that if the lady really love you and if she doesn't like sex. There are many reasonable ways she can talk and advice you about it.
Avoid marrying a lady u have seen for a long time because of distance. Very risky or else u will blame yourself later and it will be too late to turn back.

2sa2:
She has another boyfriend, this is just her way of breaking up with you. Girls never value faithful guys.

bros your head dey their jor. She probably must av gotten another guy ,so she hard to find an excuse.

SorftWerk:
i didn't finish ur story bro before I read her yeye mind and knew what she indirectly meant. Thing is, someone else is fucking the shit outta her pussy over there, and I think she loves the person MORE than she loves you, hence she feels sleeping with u means cheating on the other guy that currently owns her pkomo, what u should do is this, just act like you are happy with the decision she's made, act happily and tell her you are cool with it if she's leaving, wish her good luck and DONT say you love her... You will see how women act when confused


It hurts me to tell u this bro.. You are a mugu maga side Nigga now, take heart!

This is an interesting perspective.

*in rihanna's voice* Werk, werk, werk, werk, werk, werk!!!

And I kinda agree to it. Because if she truly wants to stop having sex because of spiritual reasons, she'll first try to convince the guy to forgo sex before asking for a break up when the guy refuses. According to the narration, she jumped the gun.

Mk the OP start dey reason all him bckup chicks, diz e present relationship don get heavy comma.

-Lord

She's done with you, just giving you unnecessary excuse.... Move on

Mophasa:


Am sure you are one of those people that don't read before commenting.
Am 30 and I didn't come here to be insulted and called names. I only needed a genuine advice and suggestions.
From the post I didn't state where she said she got born again and my concern is not because of the sex but because I intended to marry her and I have sacrificed so much for the relationship.
I know you are a kid so you won't understand.
I wonder why people like you will just come into someone's thread and instead of making meaningful contributions will start forming judges and saints.

If you quote me or try to judge or insult me again you will never find any solutions to any of your life's troubles!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

e-diot dey fear my quote ode. bro, you're actually 30, buh you're the MOST IMMATURE 30 years old i've encountered in 11 years. You talk about sacrifice, like she's been having it rosy with you all the while. You BASICALLY opened this thread cos you feel bitter about the reason for her breakup.... NO SEX. if truly you love this gurl like you CLAIM to do, why not love her still till marriage. You've tasted the puna already and you know she's GOOD. So it's not a matter of ''i need to know how compatible we are sexually''

ogbeni, you can't lie to all Nairalanders cos we know that you know the truth, just that you don't know that we know that you know the truth. ( make i confuse yoour small pikin brain small)

Is sex d hub of d relationship? Did u ask her if not having sex can make her change her mind? Bros, she has met another guy n maybe u r a sex addict n she wants to use dat as a yardstick to break up with. If u say no sex henceforth till marriage, she will still bring another reason y she wants to break up with u till breaks up with u. Women r jst confused set if humans cos dey dnt knw wat dey want.

2sa2:
She has another boyfriend, this is just her way of breaking up with you. Girls never value faithful guys.

2 bottles of Alomo for you
Na just useless excuse

1. Go to Calabar
2. Talk to her very well letting her know ur true intention
3.If she truly love as u claim she would listen to your offer
4.If she doesn't listen or accept your offer move On bro
5.if (3) keep her happy at all time and if (4) do not speak to her no more...Have a fabulous day

I hav been dia befr...buh since u plan on marryn her,let go of d sex tingy n let it b til u get married oda wise,let her go.....OP,in hw many months tym do u plan on getin maried to her? Nt years o

firstking01:
Simple issue, if sincerely she doesn't want sex in the relationship but she's willing to stay until you both get married then i think it's cool as far as she's honest enough not to go bleep another guy, but if she's using sex as a yardstick to why she's breaking free from the relationship then let her go, kponkwem.

I think ur on point! If she loves him like she claimed...she will give him a chance...but cutting off a relationship on sex issues after d guy sent u 10k for tfare smells fishy to me naaaaaa! Y not talk with him first n determine if d guy can stay without sex! Girls keep shooting emselves in d ass....
One girl tried that poo with me..n guess what? I caught her using a candle to satisfy herself....just asked her if d candle has been baptised for holy penetration! I walked d fvck outta d relationship!

kennygee:
She just got born again and has decided she's not about that fornicating life anymore.

She can't force you to be in the same spiritual level as she is and it won't be fair for her to remain in the relationship denying you sex if you are not ready to come on board the Christian relationship.

Move on with your life to another female who is about the fornicating life.

It sure pays to know Jesus.

This is pure rubbish. Fornication doesn't mean or include pre-marital sex. there is no Law against pre-marital sex....besides even if they were, pre-marital sex won't stop you from getting to heaven....if it were so, all people before Christ would surely be in hell now.

The lady is just confused and her supposed spirituality will destroy her life has it leads her to so called 'spiritual' men that will now show her how spiritual the world really is...such a pity

LordAdam16:


This is an interesting perspective.

*in rihanna's voice* Werk, werk, werk, werk, werk, werk!!!

And I kinda agree to it. Because if she truly wants to stop having sex because of spiritual reasons, she'll first try to convince the guy to forgo sex before asking for a break up when the guy refuses. According to the narration, she jumped the gun.

Mk the OP start dey reason all him bckup chicks, diz e present relationship don get heavy comma.

-Lord

Exactly!
She didn't table the no sex idea first, na break up she go straight. Someone else is shining the Congo jare

Look at how pained guys are that a sister doesn't want to keep on donating her toto
I said it that most Nigerian guys are just looking for babes to keep on fucking. Relationship to them is a f<cking spree...Withdraw sex and watch the animalistic traits in them come to play. This are the same people that ask what a lady brings to the table aside sex.
One even talk of losing husband. Has he married all the ones he f<cked??

Ladies should learn from threads like this.
For an average Nigerian guy, sex equals love.

This is it!!!!

2sa2:
She has another boyfriend, this is just her way of breaking up with you. Girls never value faithful guys.

Laburos:
Another Corper is doing it on your behalf, save this she will come back on her kneels after NYSC.

Plus sorry about the 10k.

lol money wey she don use flex another guy. Op sorry o

Mophasa:
Please guys I need your advice and suggestions please.
There is this girl I have been dating for over a year now, I love her so much and intend to marry her soon. I think she loves me too.

She's currently doing her Nysc in cross river while I am in the north. We haven't seen each other since last November though we always chatting and talking on phone like everyday. We have been so cool over the past few weeks and we arranged for her to come see me this week, Thursday to be precise. I even sent her 10k for transportation.

Now after we talked last night and she agreed to come on Thursday, she called me early this morning around 6am only to tell me there was a problem, when I asked her what it was, she told me despite the fact she loves me so much and wants to be with me, she's breaking up with me because she doesn't want to be having sex anymore, that she's not okay with her spiritual life.

I was devastated and all my efforts to try talk sense into her has been in futility! Now the problem am having is that this girl happens to be the only woman in my life, for over a year we, ve been together I have not cheated on her despite the distance. I love her so much and I have always wanted to end up with her. I always did everything possible to make her happy and I, ve never hurt her before.

Please guys I don't want to lose her, what do I do.


From a heartbroken Nairalander

bros when a lady wants 2 break up with u, any excuse goes.some could lie with God and even their mother.I was once with a lady who told me I could finger her but I couldn't have sex with her cos sex is a sin.guy what's d difference?it isn't that ur "girl" doesn't want sex anymore,she just doesn't want it with u.u better move on cos she's bad news if not u will get something worse

Oga, forget she is seeing some else. EOD

SorftWerk:
i didn't finish ur story bro before I read her yeye mind and knew what she indirectly meant. Thing is, someone else is fucking the shit outta her pussy over there, and I think she loves the person MORE than she loves you, hence she feels sleeping with u means cheating on the other guy that currently owns her pkomo, what u should do is this, just act like you are happy with the decision she's made, act happily and tell her you are cool with it if she's leaving, wish her good luck and DONT say you love her... You will see how women act when confused


It hurts me to tell u this bro.. You are a mugu maga side Nigga now, take heart!

Sapience! May you stream of knowledge never run dry. Can I get an "amen"