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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by blont(m): 12:43pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
pocohantas:all he meant was that; d girl is already fucking else where and distance is the cause, he also meant girls are prone to distance and cannot keep their kpekus for long, and lastly that he is married. so op should nt put his hope on that pussy again. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 12:44pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
JustinSlayer69:wow! Bro u understand this relationship thingy pass me sef... I carry weight for u brother ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by safarigirl(f): 12:45pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Mophasa:LOL....so after she collected your 10k for transport, she suddenly realized she's born again ko? Please, tell her to return your money to prove she's truly born again. Girls will just be practicing advance fee fraud and using God to cover it 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by AuroraB(f): 12:46pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Bia,did she return the money ![]() I guess not ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by LordAdam16: 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
pocohantas: Oya ooo. You were quick to write off the OP. Read. Mophasa: My own ish isn't the sex in a relationship thing. It's how she went about it that's the issue, when she knows the guy is really into her. There are people in no-sex relationship who get married, as there are people in sex-or-no-deal relationship who get married. She has thrown the OP under a bus. And it sucks big time. But well, sh*t happens. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by phenase(m): 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Guy go to Calabar Period 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Pylony(m): 12:47pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
If you really love her that much, put a ring on her finger at the alter, period. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by blont(m): 12:51pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
safarigirl:yes, i like it when safarigirl talk like this. she does nt take side with jesus women. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by pocohantas(f): 12:54pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
LordAdam16:Is it sex that binds a relationship? You make it seem like you can't spend on someone you are not having sex with, sounds like you're paying for the sex. People make up all sorts to paint another in a bad light, but if this story is true, her break-up pattern is wrong. I feel she knows OP better and there's more to this story. I am surprised guys are not saying their usual 'let's hear the other side of the story'. When I said I don't do sex in my relationships, not because I am religious or traditional but I like to explore other aspects of a relationship. His friends told him that it's scam. Same way they're telling OP it's a scam now. She doesn't want sex anymore, they can see and talk it over. I am sure she'll come around. A lady can't keep on fucking every guy she dates to prove she is real...then same guy would turn around to judge her? That's hypocritical. Does fucking OP guarantee he would marry her? NO. It's her choice then to choose who Bleep. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by ibolomo(m): 12:56pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Mophasa: if you really want to know if she just wants to break up with you or she has seen the light, Travel to Cross Rivers, take a ring and propose to her. promise to take an oath of celibacy with her. Her response will let you know whether she has a new boo or she is born-again 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by blont(m): 12:57pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
LordAdam16:lol, you remind me of my ex when u use the word shit happens. same shit she told me when leaving me, but all d same, am strong n fucking over it. shitz really happen. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MONITZ: 12:57pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
pryme: Nice post from u, I guess she just got tired fucking the guy's dick and wants to move on because to me that excuse is just to flimsy Another guy might still be by the corner urging her to quit so that he can move in. Women re so irrational and very few of them know Wat they really want..... She might still eventually go back to the op by the time she discovers that the grass is obviously not greener on the other side of the divide....It is even funnier that she all of all sudden realizes the need to be born again after collecting ur 10k for T. P... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 1:02pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
freecocoa:Duh. From the get go na. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by LordAdam16: 1:02pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
pocohantas: It's not money that binds relationships, but relationships where none of the partners spend on the other is non-existent in Nigeria. Oh and you can explore other aspects of a relationship while having sex too. The OP called the girl his Fiancee (it's in the thread title, just caught that). Also the girl blew up the one chance to actually see and talk it over by calling for a breakup straight up. We'd definitely have to hear from her to know the full picture, but the comments are based on the information currently available. There have been repeated calls for the OP to reason with her. So only a few people are condemning her outright. But from the narrative, this reeks like the classic "excuse" when one party is tired of the relationship. -Lord 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by pocohantas(f): 1:02pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
LordAdam16:That sex-relationship comment wasn't really directed at the OP but posters who are very aggrieved that a sister is hoarding the t*** ![]() It goes beyond OP telling her they won't Bleep, because she knows it's a lie, based on how they have been. He has to make some kind of commitment, since she is going religious...he should put a ring on it, simple! |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by freecocoa(f): 1:04pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
BoboYekini:Like a girl can't decide not to have sex no more? Don't be silly jor. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by rosalieene(f): 1:07pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by joey150(m): 1:07pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
rosalieene: There ain't an iota of sarcasm in that comment. If you were indeed trying to sound sarcastic, never try it again..you are obviously very poor at it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Ifymma(f): 1:08pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
I don't think she really loves you, but if she does; it means there is someone she just met now and may be the person wants marriage and she loves that person more than she loves you, so for that she has to give you this excuse thinking that you cannot do without sex. If you really loves her, try talking to her to let her know that you are with what she said, but if she persists, telling you that there is no how the relationship can continue wihtout sex, then please let her go, there is somebody in line. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by rosalieene(f): 1:08pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
joey150:gerrout abeg! don't quote me again. I have better things doing than replying you. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by vislabraye(m): 1:08pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by pocohantas(f): 1:09pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
LordAdam16:I prefer to explore it without sex, pays in this judgemental patriarchal society. ![]() She is his fiancee, he should make her his wife. Maybe she is trying to make him marry her faster. He should go meet her, I definitely won't travel down from Calabar to go meet him in the North because I wanna break up. If he needs me to explain, he would have to come down to me. If she is tired, life goes on. People get tired of the other everyday, it's not a must they stay together. She was nice enough to give an excuse, what of the ones that leave you hanging? Or those ones that keep stringing you along? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by james6381(m): 1:10pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
The girl love u but she has given her life to Christ. so guy, if u love her and want to marry her, just accept and respect her on her decision. if u knw u truly love her. But u don't go ahead with your worldly and unrepented life. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by LordAdam16: 1:11pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
pocohantas: Now I'm getting lost and def going into ghost mode. What happens to the option of break up when the OP does not keep to his words? She's breaking up because of sex, not because the guy ain't serious. Unless this is a sick ploy to get the guy to fix a wedding date (it backfires most times, because then d guy can treat her like sh*t in the marriage and use the "u rushed me into this" excuse). Anyway, I'm done with this issue. I've heard enough to know the girl is being insincere with this break up. I've not heard enough to say that the guy is holding on solely for sex. Really? Breakups are hard and all that, but sex is f*king cheap and overrated too. The OP clearly already knows what line of action to take. -Lord 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 1:11pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
freecocoa:Of course she can. It's your prerogative. But expect to be second(third/fourth) choice for that interlude. Op, I like to think of women as cars. Na as your money reach your ride go tight. If your maintenance/security isn't right, the experience will break down or she gon get stolen. You don't see my Corolla telling me how hard not to drive her. Still, I have fond memories of all my cars and I don't take a break down personally. On to the next. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by joey150(m): 1:12pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
rosalieene: Typical example of arrogant and egotistic people. They dont own up to their mistakes..quick to lash out at others. Lack the basics sense of reasoning. I dont know you..infact I'll hate to know somebody like you. But you have some real attitude problem and obviously grammatical problems too ![]() ![]() Let that better thing you have to do be learning proper use of English expressions as well as behaving polite.. So obviously dont reply me. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 1:14pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
THIS POST/ TOPIC MADE MY DAY.... HAHAHAHA... Calabar guys r so endowed down stairs. She has gotten the real deal... lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by blont(m): 1:14pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Does fucking OP guarantee he would marry her? NO. It's her choice then to choose who Bleep. [ what d Bleep? this fucking Bleep thing is getting bleeped up i swear down. sweet heart no offence, pls what other area do u like xploring in a relationship? one might be thinking masturbation if nt open, well i shouldnt be the judge. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Sierusvirus(m): 1:14pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
ZarZar:You just hit the nail on the head. Nice one 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 1:18pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Mophasa: Oh i gat it, fornication is not the only sin but it's the only sin that have a caution sign 'flee away'. why because with just one stone ,fornication can kill three birds which include, abortion, infection and finally death. You never met her a virgin will not warrant u to condemn her.Move on!!! |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by pocohantas(f): 1:19pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
blont:Masturbation is an area to explore in a relationship? I will be masturbating together with my guy, does this make sense to you? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by jahsson(m): 1:19pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Vikky014: Hi.. I'm a virgin.. Can we be friends...? ![]() 1 Like |
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