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Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Mophasa:You just need to know how to ignore women. Being nice to them always don't lead you anywhere. Obviously, she's dating another dude who probably has performed much better on bed than you. Though she'll try to return to you later on in the course of her relationship with the other guy but before then, it will be too late! Women are like remote control. You press on the one you like and then play hard to get sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 8:22pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
MarieSucre: 1. Fornication was translated from the word Porneia which is defined as: The Greek term porneia (πορνεία), meaning "illicit sexual intercourse", was translated as "fornication" in the 1611 King James Version of the bible and has also been translated as whoredom, sexual immorality or simply immorality. Am sure you know the new testament was translated from the Greek version of the scriptures. 2.. Read Leviticus 18 to know illicit sexual intercourse 3. After reading Leviticus 18, you should be able to answer this yourself. Fornication is not the same as Pre-Marital Sex...... |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 8:25pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
MarieSucre: you are just ignorantly going on rampage. I never said God endorsed fornication but you don't know what fornication is as you seem to be blabbing all about. God forbids fornication but it's not what you are jumping upandan for ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by freecocoa(f): 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
MarieSucre:I wasn't looking for any sort of cleaning or anything per se. I guess I just wanted to be me, I was cool with the person I was with, I wasn't religious, my body was banging, blah blah. I just didn't want to have sex, so I told my partner, and I didn't. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by chrisco555(m): 9:10pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
I don't know why some people chose to waist our time on this platform. Why do you ask questions that already have an answer. She said she doesn't want sex again...... is simply either you accept or you refuse. If you accept she stays.....if you refused she goes. So make your choice. But of you need sex then go and marry her period. So don't ask us this kind answered question again. Good luck 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by kpolli(m): 9:54pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
Mophasa: Sorry dude, your girl has met someone else.... It's the NYSC effect 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 11:49pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
dyydxx: What verse by the way? And this all proves that. IMMORAL ILLCIT SEX or PORNOEIA is permitted by God? |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 11:51pm On Feb 27, 2017 |
freecocoa: Your partner agreed to this? |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Babacele: 12:07am On Feb 28, 2017 |
pocohantas:haaa pocohantas! inside gutter where broken bottles ,iron and dangerous things dey! haa |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 7:06am On Feb 28, 2017 |
MarieSucre: Read the whole Leveticus 18... Read everything.. Your mentality is so twisted that you can't even see what is staring you in the face. Pre-marital sex is not the same as Immoral/illicit Sex/Fornication which is forbidden by God. Pre-marital Sex is not the same as illicit sex. That's your problem. The day you understand that the better. Stop quoting bible you don't know. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by jerryice(m): 7:32am On Feb 28, 2017 |
2sa2: exactly ...girls nowadays bring up great epic stories dah touch when they find another temporary sugar.#Mbok 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by rosalieene(f): 7:36am On Feb 28, 2017 |
carmag:hehehehe.......badt guy ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by freecocoa(f): 8:09am On Feb 28, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Why wouldn't he agree? Did he even have any right not to agree? Ofcourse he agreed, after asking why and making sure that's what I wanted. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 11:30am On Feb 28, 2017 |
freecocoa:What a wuss @your partner. So he couldn't pin you face down on the bed and... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by freecocoa(f): 1:05pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
BoboYekini:I don't know what you take a woman to be. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Nobody: 1:39pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
freecocoa:Go jor. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by pocohantas(f): 1:54pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
Babacele:Why are you calling me about? I owe you? ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by Babacele: 2:37pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
pocohantas:no mind d guy. he won't try it ever again. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by freecocoa(f): 2:57pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
BoboYekini:Mschew. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 3:42pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
dyydxx: Pls read Deutronomy Chapter 22, verse 13 - 21. I guess, she wasn't punished for pre-marital sex. Heheheheh kwantinue!! Wonder what church you attend? |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 3:45pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
freecocoa: Hmmnn amd he is a red-blooded Nigerian man?? Well, I am happy for you. That he understands his partner(you) and respects your decision, on what you would like to do with your body. Salute! |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by freecocoa(f): 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
MarieSucre:Lol, he sure is Nigerian. My darling sister, one thing I know for a fact, is that, no one can impose such things on me. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 8:04pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
MarieSucre: This is a cultural law of the jewish people at that particular time, it's not the fundamental biblical 10 commandments or any other fundamental biblical law on sexual immorality. Even to this day, different people have different cultural attitudes towards sex, what is permitted and what is not permitted according to culture, not according to God. Bible says you have made the word of God of none effect by your human traditions(customs) Mark 7:13. If I read out all the torah(Jewish custom) laws for you, you can't keep 1/100 of them as they were those days. I wonder how they carry test to find out if a girl is a virgin ![]() To the point am making. This is a cultural attitude on Virginity and not God's Law on fornication which was and still is my case. Fornication as is translated anywhere in the bible does not mean or imply pre-marital sex... You are just too incorrigible to see this because of decades of wrong teaching, grooming and training that has given you this erroneous mindset. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 9:01pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
dyydxx: Bros this your excuse don dey tie wrapper. So let me get this straight, you're holding unto the definition when I have given a clear cut scenario of a girl being stoned to death for PREMARITAL SEX(which you said is allowed by the way). If we are not to follow any Old Testament law aside the ten commandments, then I guess I can be a lesbian nah. Or what's the point of submitting to your husband since the law is specifically based on the Adam and Eve story. Or Why even have the old testament at all. Let's just rip it out and concentrate on the New Testamnent only?! Huh! And your point that since we can't practice all of the Torah, we should then what? We should then what? Endorse it! Well we might as well steal, kill, rape and lie. After all (rolls eye) we can't practice all of it so instead of condemning it, let us use english, like you're doing to twist it around. Mr Pick-and-Choose Christianity how market? The scripture is clear here. Finally I asked this question before but you never answered me. I really do need an honest answer because iit is confusing. One What is the difference between Illicit and Immoral sex and Fornication? Two I have given you a clear instance from the bible that premarital sex is forbidden. You need to give me a clear instance from the bible where it is allowed. Shikena. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 9:54pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
MarieSucre: Open your eyes and ears and understand. it's not hard. Just drop your pre-conceived notions and come with an open mind. MarieSucre: Check through all my former posts. I said fornication isn't pre-marital sex. I have defined it almost uncountable times now, so go back, read slowly and check it. Now to your point, you cited a Jewish custom for stoning a woman adjudged not to be a virgin and I said that's a cultural law, not a biblical law as regards fornication or biblical law on pre-marital sex. In explicit terms let me tell you, God did not command that they stone her..it was the Jewish(Man-made) tradition at that time based on their culture on how they organised their society and not on any law of God mandating that. This is very clear in the reading of the texts. MarieSucre: Lesbianism is fornication and is forbidden as was explained in Lev 18. There is difference between Old testament Laws, Cultural laws of the Jewish people(what you would call constitution)and then New testament Laws. MarieSucre:Old testament is meant to guide you to the true christ as it was a shadow of the spiritual reality to come MarieSucre: Are you a jew? even the present day Israelites in Modern Israel today don't practice them anymore, except ultra-orthodox Jews which are very few in number. MarieSucre: ll these things you quoted are forbidden by all laws including old testament, New testament and Human Government Laws made to organise societies MarieSucre: Who are you? what is your identity? Are you a jew or a christian or a secular lady or of any other religious affliation MarieSucre: I am sick and tired of repeating myself uncountable times MarieSucre: there is no difference it's the same. Two MarieSucre: what you cited was a jewish custom that stones women who are adjudged according to them not to be virgins. That's not God's law. it was old testament tradition to automatically marry any lady you had pre-marital sex with to ''cover her shame'' as it was put. I'm too tired this night to find you the scriptures maybe tomorow |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 11:42pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
^^^ As an addendum. look closely at deut 22:13-21... The guy lies about his wife not being a virgin, he gets whipped. The wife is found not to be a virgin, she is killed by stoning. Just from a logical standpoint, does that look to you like Just or Righteous Law. Would Almighty God in his righteousness and wisdom and Justice for all sanction that kind of judgement. Does this not tell you this is man made ![]() ![]() Look at lev 20:20....Law of Moses talks about stoning both the adulterer and the adulteress ..at least there is fairness here both are sanctioned for the sin of adultery Look at how Jesus dealt with the woman they said was caught in the very act of adultery. the pharisees said according to the law of Moses she should be stoned. Jesus said if you haven't sin cast the first stone. we all know the story. Jesus said go and sin no more but saved her from being killed by stoning. Bible doesn't say anything about the man she was committing the adultery with. she sha cannot be sleeping with herself. what does all these tell you? |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 11:46pm On Feb 28, 2017 |
dyydxx: Listen, your excuse that Israel no longer practices so we should not, does not make sense. God's words do not change just because people no longer follow. If they no longer follow God's word, they sin and will go to hell. No if's or but's or maybe's. Simple. That excuse holds no water. 2)How do we differentiate between God's commandments for us and Jewish cultural? Secondly the verse you're looking for to justify the man marrying a woman who he had premarital sex with to cover her shame is Deutronomy chapter 22 verse 22 - 29. (The same Deutronomy you dismissed as Jewish cultural law. Tooor Finally, we are talking about premarital sex aka fornication here not Adultery, pls stop shifting the goal post. Jesus himself said "I have not come to abolish the law to the fulfill". He won that case by appealing to the immorality of the Pharisees. I will not lean on my understanding to reinterpret the bible. I will let the scriptures speak for themselves. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 12:07am On Mar 01, 2017 |
MarieSucre: I'm not a Jew and am not bound by the Torah. If you don't understand that then we will just be going round in circles. Your maturity will reach there one day just be diligent and walk according to the light of God that you know. God will enlighten you more at the right time. MarieSucre: what is God's word? and what is this thing about sin and going to hell ![]() MarieSucre: oh very simple, Love is the fulfilling of the Law and it's the epitome of God's commandments. Jewish cultural is the Law of Moses MarieSucre:oh really ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 12:13am On Mar 01, 2017 |
MarieSucre: Miss for the umpteenth time Pre-marital sex isn't fornication...My God when will this sink in ![]() I'm not shifting any goal post. I just said all that so you can see the nature and the spirit of the father God. In any case, even the deut case you are carrying on your head ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by MarieSucre(f): 12:21am On Mar 01, 2017 |
dyydxx: Fornication is generally consensual sexual intercourse between two people not married to each other. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fornication Premarital sex is sexual activity practiced by people who are unmarried. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premarital_sex And the difference is?? The last point, I don't anything. Pls point it out to me already. Its clear you did not read the verse I posted. It had nothing to do with wives. It was the verse you said YOURSELF in the last 2 comments to be specific that the man would be required to marry the woman who he had premarital sex with. I looked for the specific verse that you used to defend your stance and I am now showing you that by your earlier logic , it is under JEWISH CULTURAL LAW. |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by dyydxx: 12:27am On Mar 01, 2017 |
MarieSucre: Miss, Fornication not according to wikipedia but according to Porneia which was the greek text the translators of the 1611 King James Version of the bible you now quote means illicit or immoral Sex or Sexual Immorality. Porneia isn't translated Pre-marital Sex... it is Sexual immorality.... I don tire o ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by olutsen: 10:24am On Mar 01, 2017 |
Guy, it's hard to believe but the best advise u could ever get are from those telling you she don upgrade for another guy, what she said is an excuse for a way out. If u don't believe me, enter bus go cross river unannounced and hang around for 3 days, u would cry back home seeing it about a new guy not faith thing. One of my early ex jilted me for a guy after I have been a good innocent guy, no sex thing bla bla bla for years which she proposed and I keyed in. Distance came and na so she waka with d guy leaving me for him with d usual I still love u line but... Anyway, to cut long story short, after some years looking for me, we finally met and she confessed d guy exed her when he travelled out despite promising her abroad things, to break up sha, he said he wants to turn to a father abroad, in US for that matter. Once again, na excuse to be free from u and be free to fly with anther man. |
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