My dear Man don't divorce her, just man the frump up and set fracking boundaries.

lordreigneth:
Good morning nairalanders this is the second time this is happening my wife knows all my secrets and my password.
She knows all my social media password and bank account ATM etc
She even have the code to unlock my phone because of how close we are and we share the same room
She always stare at me and grab all my passwords and codes whenever am surfing the internet

In the midnight she will take my phone look at my whatsapp to see my chats with my girlfriends
So one day she transferred 5k out of my money using my bank Mobile App in the midnight while I was asleep
Immediately she deleted the credit alert SMS so that I won't know because then I was having 608k in my account.... Little did she know that I have an app on my phone that tells me where money is sent to
In the morning I asked her who transferred 5k from my account she denied it until I show her my bank statement from the app her name and account number was written there she begged me and I forgave her and she returned the money and promised never to do such again.

So yesterday I woke up in the midnight and discovered that someone transferred 10k again from my account but her name was not written there and her account number I woke her up from bed to show her she denied and I threatened to kill who ever is involved with Ayilala when I wake up in the morning she started crying and confessed that she is the one that she transferred it to her friend account number so that I would not know she begged me and was crying that she wanted to use the money to settle debt...
I felt sad but i didn't fight with her I only ask her why she didn't tell me she needed the money and the night before the incident was her birthday and I took her out..
She does take money from my purse on many occasions and am not happy about that am planning to divorce her because of this attitude pls unneeded advice from matured mind what can I do?

you wana divorce your wife cos shes taking money from you?? your such a selfish basterd.
Instead of finding the root cause of her action your talking thrash... so is shes broke and she starts begging other men for money, a corny corn head like yah wud still come here to lament.. ur b*tch *ss N*gga.

Your wife is in a financial mess
You need to sit her down and encourage her to confide in you.
She will soon start going outside to steal if you don't watch it.
Help her

sleeknick:
Cut her breast

seriously?
If he cuts it which one will he....

AuroraB:
Shut it already
Did you not read him giving it a thought or you are on a mission to show you shallow yet again?
Now, jump-off my space

your arrogancy and rude attitude won't get you anywhere. It shows you lack respect, even for your parents...

sleeknick:
it could help Unno

should i drop mine too?

Cutehector:
your arrogancy and rude attitude won't get you anywhere. It shows you lack respect, even for your parents...

Leave me be with my arrogance, rudeness and all, I don't have need to be in your good book . You earn respect. You don't demand it. I got none for you and your ilks

I find everything funny

If you have about 600k in your acct and your wife can go as far as stealing 5k, then you're plainly evil.

Oga,that money is too small for you to come out here to say that you wanna divorce her.Get her something to do,may be a business so she can start getting her own money.Oga I say it again that money is just too small for you to pick offense!

CaroLyner:
seriously?
If he cuts it which one will he....

Will he what?

Do not divorce her, i sense you do not respond to her finacial needs and thats why she is doing this. Sit her down and ask what her problem is i believe she will have alot to tell you and on your part be nice to her and change your passwrd if necessary but DIVORCE IS NOT THE ANSWER.

God blesssss you

tolulinks:
There's 608k in your account but your woman is in debt of 10k and you are asking for..... for what exactly? Something about you smirks stingy.

@op - u wanna divorce her because of 10k and 5k. How much du pay ur maid sef? How much is cab fare for ur numerous battalion girlfriends? U should be asking urself y ur WIFE doesnt have a cosy relationship with u and has to resort to petty thievery.

Next u'll be saying the poor lady is unappealing, hence ur legion of side chicks but how much is it to fix a nice weave on, or a spa session. Just thank God, she didnt take you to the cleaners. If for nothing, for putting her at risk of STDs and stop emphasizing its ur money, thats money that would have been better spent on ur kids.

Trust me, u most likely would have been doing way better but the way ur 608k is tripping u, probably getting in the way. Ur time could also be better spent developing urself than on girlfriends. Mchewww

God blesssss you

tolulinks:
There's 608k in your account but your woman is in debt of 10k and you are asking for..... for what exactly? Something about you smirks stingy.

@op - u wanna divorce her because of 10k and 5k. How much du pay ur maid sef? How much is cab fare for ur numerous battalion girlfriends? U should be asking urself y ur WIFE doesnt have a cosy relationship with u and has to resort to petty thievery.

Next u'll be saying the poor lady is unappealing, hence ur legion of side chicks but how much is it to fix a nice weave on, or a spa session. Just thank God, she didnt take you to the cleaners. If for nothing, for putting her at risk of STDs and stop emphasizing its ur money, thats money that would have been better spent on ur kids.

Trust me, u most likely would have been doing way better but the way ur 608k is tripping u, probably getting in the way of more blessings God has in store for u that ur character cannot handle. Ur time could also be better spent developing urself than on girlfriends. Mchewww

sleeknick:

Will he what?

How will she feed both her and the baby?

Divorce her na! U're even lucky sef, she is not so smart, some women will transfer more dan dat. If u truly had dat 608k, trust me I will transfer more dan dat 2 my acct. U think say divorce easy ba, wen u re-marry, u will come back, begging her 2 transfer all d money 2 her acct. Nonsense! Divorce oshhhiii!

CaroLyner:
How will she feed both her and the baby?

They will eat eba

...But your money is her money.

...But why didn't she simply ask you instead of transferring to her friend's account to erase trace to herself?

...But have you been known to be cheerfully stingy? Sometimes, the best way to get money from stingy husbands is to downrightly take! Don't turn your wife to a taker dude...be a cheerful giver.

All in all , there's something definitely not right about your little madam. Maybe she was testing waters with the small cash with the intent to upgrade. It is well.

F

Guy this matter is simple, its just 10,000. The truth is that, I do not have a separate account from my wife, she is not working yet, she holds the ATM, and I have the check book. That is how we roll

lordreigneth:
Good morning nairalanders this is the second time this is happening my wife knows all my secrets and my password.
She knows all my social media password and bank account ATM etc
She even have the code to unlock my phone because of how close we are and we share the same room
She always stare at me and grab all my passwords and codes whenever am surfing the internet

In the midnight she will take my phone look at my whatsapp to see my chats with my girlfriends
So one day she transferred 5k out of my money using my bank Mobile App in the midnight while I was asleep
Immediately she deleted the credit alert SMS so that I won't know because then I was having 608k in my account.... Little did she know that I have an app on my phone that tells me where money is sent to
In the morning I asked her who transferred 5k from my account she denied it until I show her my bank statement from the app her name and account number was written there she begged me and I forgave her and she returned the money and promised never to do such again.

So yesterday I woke up in the midnight and discovered that someone transferred 10k again from my account but her name was not written there and her account number I woke her up from bed to show her she denied and I threatened to kill who ever is involved with Ayilala when I wake up in the morning she started crying and confessed that she is the one that she transferred it to her friend account number so that I would not know she begged me and was crying that she wanted to use the money to settle debt...
I felt sad but i didn't fight with her I only ask her why she didn't tell me she needed the money and the night before the incident was her birthday and I took her out..
She does take money from my purse on many occasions and am not happy about that am planning to divorce her because of this attitude pls unneeded advice from matured mind what can I do?

. I am so glad you even confessed about having girlfriends outside your marriage which is wrong, work on that. Is she working and do you give her enough money, I disagree with people telling you that you are stingy, you might be but that doesn't justify her actions, you need to sit her down, she should learn to trust you, she needs to tell you before she will buy this and that to know if you can afford it. I don't appreciate her transferring money from your phone, its a bad thing, its a trait and if you didn't know, she would continue and would withdraw all your money. Her attitude has to be checked and also, show her more love and attention, it will be fine.

sleeknick:

They will eat eba

saw your thread.where my own at?

Well that's your punishment for having girlfriends when you are married ode .

CaroLyner:
saw your thread.where my own at?

It's on the way

sleeknick:

It's on the way

Okay laah

CC Bellong

Just N15K and you are worried? A night out with one of your many girlfriends must cost more than that except you deal with cheap a** love peddlers.

Good hotels cost no less than N10k, A plate of Nkwobi is N4k, Crankberry drink N1k per pack, Her transport is estimated at N2- 3k, man, that is about N15k or more per conji session per girlfriend.

This event could occur as much as four times a month.

I should be pissed at you, honestly because you and I know that this is probably done at the expense of satisfying statutory obligations accorded to you in Marriage.

I am not saying she should continually steal your money but if you execute the above activities with you girlfriends you can as well lavish on her or get robbed at will.

ABEngine:
Just N15K and you are worried? A night out with one of your many girlfriends must cost more than that except you deal with cheap a** love peddlers.

Good hotels cost no less than N10k, A plate of Nkwobi is N4k, Crankberry drink N1k per pack, Her transport is estimated at N2- 3k, man, that is about N15k or more per conji session per girlfriend.

This event could occur as much as four times a month.

I should be pissed at you, honestly because you and I know that this is probably done at the expense of satisfying statutory obligations accorded to you in Marriage.

I am not saying she should continually steal your money but if you execute the above activities with you girlfriends you can as well lavish on her or get robbed at will.

Could this be experience speaking ?

pocohantas:

Could this be experience speaking ?

Lets just say I'm privy to certain information.

Op, that you have 608k in your account and your wife is stealing 5k and 10k from you speaks volume of the kind of husband you are. You even threatened to divorce her, pls be fast about it stingy man.

Well, you have girlfriends. A little [/s]stealing[s] taking shouldn't hurt you.

How did you end up with a thief as wife or are you the stingy type?