Pieromania:
Bro sori to tel u this,bt u are on a long thing.I see that marriage breaking anytime soon......why on earth wil a man pay his wife salary,what is the rationale behind such absurdity is what i can't fathom out?A STUDENT for that matter,u pay all bills,pay her fees and yet pay her salary.Very soon she wil start cheating on u,if not already started it.
Sori bro,ur case is different

Dyt:
I add money too
And I think one out of 3 women do that or most have done it


The only thing I condemn is her being rude to you
But then how did you approach her

There's always a man involved when a woman goes crazy

skypeme:


She isn't cheating on me and my marriage would break IJN

HARDDON:
Ehmmmm op, how did u arrive @ that 17.2%?

Any mathematical formular applied?

Pieromania:
I am nt wishing u breakup bro,just telling u that failure to resolve this her insatiable thirst wil definitely lead to the marriage crashing,i knw what i am saying.U aren't earning that much and yet ur wife cannot be satisfied with the little u have,mehn,u need serious prayerv and counselling.u may think am spewing threats or trash,bt i am a man speaking with experience.

skypeme:


30,100 / 175,000 x 100% = 17.2%
I add 2.5% increment to my wifes salary every Dec

skypeme:


My marriage will not crash IJN, I repeat that you bro

skypeme:


30,100 / 175,000 x 100% = 17.2%
I add 2.5% increment to my wifes salary every Dec

lilmax:
divorce is the only way right now, trust me

emilyone:

Divorce kwa? On top wetin naa

kimbra:
Why are some of the guys on this thread making a mountain out of a molehill?.

Most men whose wives are stay at home mothers get monthly stipends which is for their upkeep. Some women inflate prices of things to their husbands as a means to add more money to their wallets, for some men they find out and don't care cos they understand the rationale behind it. As for her rude attitude it's bad and is what should bother you most. Not her inflation of hospital bills. Would you let N11,200 cost you your marriage?.

Zoharariel:
Cut her monthly salary from 17.2% to 5% for the rest of the year. And that is because of your baby, otherwise I would have suggested you cut it to 0% and chase her out with a broomstick around 2AM in the middle of the night.

Women of nowadays are brain-dead ingrates.

skypeme:


30,100 / 175,000 x 100% = 17.2%
I add 2.5% increment to my wifes salary every Dec

Does she know what you earn? You guys probably didn't talk about the financial aspect of marriage during courtship. It's ideal your partner knows your financial ability...projections etc. That way you both work as a team. Finance/Financial compatibility is a very important aspect of marriage...

She is still in school. Probably young and yet to learn how to be frugal. She is a married student, people expect her level to change. How would she do that with 17.2%, when she hasn't learnt that life is beyond material things? It's also possible, her people have needs and she wants to help out, without begging you directly.

Your choice of words dey somehow @ "penalise and reset her brain to default" She is your wife bro_ not student. Don't penalise her, I believe there are ways to settle issues without penalising ones spouse with something that's your conjugal duty... but that's me. Call her and talk to her calmly/firmly, enquire what she uses/used the money for. Make her realise the importance of honesty and trust in marriage. Bless heavens you both love each other _makes change easier.

sasko:


Is it possible to love someone you don't trust


it's dishonest to forge or inflate prices in order to drain your hubby

If your husband can't trust you who would then trust you
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MummyIMadeIt:
Am not married yet, but from all i have learnt from being from a good home is that communication is always the key to solving most situations in a marriage..

i hope your wife is the geniune type, though she may have her own reasons of inflating the amount by almost x2 the normal, which is inappropraite; what you need do is win her trust that she can rely on you without going the extra mile.

Sucess bro in ur marriage, but meanwhile you can help connecticut a broda oo to such oppurtunity. tha nks

pcguru1:


Wife inflates price, and yet husband must win her trust, am confused do some women ever take responsibility for anything ?