Some days ago i sought help concerning my gf who is a Social media freak.. Especially with posting slaying pics.

We actually got over the misunderstanding and tried to move on but it was after then that the unthinkable happened.. . She needed to move to a new apartment and therefore wanted me to suport her in raising some money...

She is aware i have some money in my account which was meant for something by next month but surprisingly she asked Me to help her from the money..

I tried giving her reasons why i shouldnt risk taking out money from the account but she refused to understand..

Recall that we stay in differnt states?? So i traveled to her state so as to explain things face to face but to my surprise she refused to see me though she earlier warned me not to try coming cos she would intentionally avoid seeing me but i took the risk just to see how mean she could get..

After waiting for hours and she didnt show up, i returned back to my state and yet i tried to fix things but this time she said things will go her way, and she mated out some rules to me...

These rules are evidently pointing out that she wants to start touring the state with her friends.. And believe me she will surely cheat..

We fell out on phone that sunday night and since then i have blocked her on my fb, whatsapp, and even deleted her number. She noticed it and sent me a text telling me that i was mean and heartless..

Since sunday she has been calling me but cos her number is barred on true caller i only see it as missed calls..

I really dont know if she wants us to make up or she is calling for the money..

The worst is we had an oath with the bible to stay fidel with each other and sincerely i think she had kept to the oath until now and like wise have i...

Pls what do i do cos i am not ready to touch the money meant for something serious and i cant continue with her based on the rules she gave then lastly we are on oath..

Rookie move.

Be firm on ur decision...besides that's ur money & not a joint account So u decide what's good for u & ur future...good luck

Things fallen apart- shinu anichebe

Chakpiii!!! Wooooo!!!

guys won't learn, keep taking oaths because of pussy!! pussy niggas everywhere...but on a more serous note op,i will advice u keep your money....my one cent

Bible oath koor, amadiohah oath ni.


No be politician wey de swear for court still de lie.

I beg move on wt ur life or suffer d consequences.

QueenSuccubus:




Be firm on ur decision...besides that's ur money & not a joint account So u decide what's good for u & ur future...good luck

God bless you for real...
Was thinking girls would speak in her favour...
God bless you again

kennygee:
Rookie move.

Since both of you are not cheating, you don't have anything to worry about.

If you still love her, you should try to work it out. It takes too tho.

If you know any man she respects, maybe an elder brother or an uncle or a pastor of hers. Someone she listens to, talk to them about the issue you're having.

Your gf isn't mature yet to handle financial matters and she's still bent on having her way, relationships don't work that way.

The fact that she can go to the extreme of letting you travel all the way to see her, yet she refused to answer ur call and let u travel back without seeing you is very scary.

She needs a lot of maturity.

Who still make oaths in this century sha?

Ewilonco:
guys won't learn, keep taking oaths because of pussy!! pussy niggas everywhere...but on a more serous note op,i will advice u keep your money....my one cent

Thanks

Whatever you do, no touch that money.


You travelled to another state to see her and she failed to show up... True true, some girls are mad.

You swear with bible abi?, na mad you dey go so, beta repent, now, now, ok, see, find out why she require to change her apartment, she can't be homeless while you are saving the money for something so important according to your explanation, accommodation is important too, if the change of apartment is as a result of a quit notice from the property owner, please help her secure shelter first, if not, you may be right to save your money, please note that homeless girls do anything to survive , yes, anything, so deal with today and leave tomorrow to take care of itself

enshi:
Some days ago i sought help concerning my gf who is a Social media freak.. Especially with posting slaying pics.

We actually got over the misunderstanding and tried to move on but it was after then that the unthinkable happened.. . She needed to move to a new apartment and therefore wanted me to suport her in raising some money...

She is aware i have some money in my account which was meant for something by next month but surprisingly she asked Me to help her from the money..

I tried giving her reasons why i shouldnt risk taking out money from the account but she refused to understand..

Recall that we stay in differnt states?? So i traveled to her state so as to explain things face to face but to my surprise she refused to see me though she earlier warned me not to try coming cos she would intentionally avoid seeing me but i took the risk just to see how mean she could get..

After waiting for hours and she didnt show up, i returned back to my state and yet i tried to fix things but this time she said things will go her way, and she mated out some rules to me...

These rules are evidently pointing out that she wants to start touring the state with her friends.. And believe me she will surely cheat..

We fell out on phone that sunday night and since then i have blocked her on my fb, whatsapp, and even deleted her number. She noticed it and sent me a text telling me that i was mean and heartless..

Since sunday she has been calling me but cos her number is barred on true caller i only see it as missed calls..

I really dont know if she wants us to make up or she is calling for the money..

The worst is we had an oath with the bible to stay fidel with each other and sincerely i think she had kept to the oath until now and like wise have i...

Pls what do i do cos i am not ready to touch the money meant for something serious and i cant continue with her based on the rules she gave then lastly we are on oath..

Lol, your story is sick but hot. IDK why I love obsessive people but I do. Anyway...

Don't give her the money. Why can't she live within her means? It's obvious she can't afford to be on her own but seems intent to turn beggar so she can stunt to her little friends & social media fans. If you give her the money, then you'll be feeding her entitlement issues. Let her turn tricks with other men & break a little sweat if she needs the money so badly. I have a feeling you've bent to her every whim before, hence she doesn't wanna let up now. Let her raise the funds on her own doing whatever & let her go, God will understand.

yomi007k:


Bible oath koor, amadiohah oath ni.


No be politician wey de swear for court still de lie.

I beg move on wt ur life or suffer d consequences.

I hold the bible to be Sacred besides i love(d) her more reason i did it

Then lastly it made me a better person... Brother i was more than a fvckboy Before that oath

My guy keep ur money ooo,if not for anything but because of the rule she gave to u and how she treated you when u visited her.
Don't allow people to treate you anyhow they like.

Bae's head needs resetting. Something must have twitched there.

kennygee:


Since both of you are not cheating, you don't have anything to worry about.

If you still love her, you should try to work it out. It takes too tho.

If you know any man she respects, maybe an elder brother or an uncle or a pastor of hers. Someone she listens to, talk to them about the issue you're having.

Your gf isn't mature yet to handle financial matters and she's still bent on having her way, relationships don't work that way.

The fact that she can go to the extreme of letting you travel all the way to see her, yet she refused to answer ur call and let u travel back without seeing you is very scary.

She needs a lot of maturity.

Who still make oaths in this century sha?

I think this advice would be my last resort... Will call someone maybe over the weekend

Aderola15:
Whatever you do, no touch that money.


You travelled to another state to see her and she failed to show up... True true, some girls are mad.

You can imagine

enshi:


I hold the bible to be Sacred besides i love(d) her more reason i did it

Then lastly it made me a better person... Brother i was more than a fvckboy Before that oath

So ur trying to tell me such oath cant be broken if need be?


Ur gf is young n doesn't seem ready for committment- she wana flex n see d world n dts dangerous. ..I suggest u be real wt ursef so dt u dnt get hurt.

enshi:
Some days ago i sought help concerning my gf who is a Social media freak.. Especially with posting slaying pics.

We actually got over the misunderstanding and tried to move on but it was after then that the unthinkable happened.. . She needed to move to a new apartment and therefore wanted me to suport her in raising some money...

She is aware i have some money in my account which was meant for something by next month but surprisingly she asked Me to help her from the money..

I tried giving her reasons why i shouldnt risk taking out money from the account but she refused to understand..

Recall that we stay in differnt states?? So i traveled to her state so as to explain things face to face but to my surprise she refused to see me though she earlier warned me not to try coming cos she would intentionally avoid seeing me but i took the risk just to see how mean she could get..

After waiting for hours and she didnt show up, i returned back to my state and yet i tried to fix things but this time she said things will go her way, and she mated out some rules to me...

These rules are evidently pointing out that she wants to start touring the state with her friends.. And believe me she will surely cheat..

We fell out on phone that sunday night and since then i have blocked her on my fb, whatsapp, and even deleted her number. She noticed it and sent me a text telling me that i was mean and heartless..

Since sunday she has been calling me but cos her number is barred on true caller i only see it as missed calls..

I really dont know if she wants us to make up or she is calling for the money..

The worst is we had an oath with the bible to stay fidel with each other and sincerely i think she had kept to the oath until now and like wise have i...

Pls what do i do cos i am not ready to touch the money meant for something serious and i cant continue with her based on the rules she gave then lastly we are on oath..

Are u serious? What kinda toxic relationship are u in? Abeg forget about oath, our politicians swear with d bible everyday. That ur gf is mean and heartless to refused seeing u. Stick to your guns and don't touch the money.

ZarZar:
Lol, your story is sick but hot. IDK why I love obsessive people but I do. Anyway...

Don't give her the money. Why can't she live within her means? It's obvious she can't afford to be on her own but seems intent to turn beggar so she can stunt to her little friends & social media fans. If you give her the money, then you'll be feeding her entitlement issues. Let her turn tricks with other men & break a little sweat if she needs the money so badly. I have a feeling you've bent to her every whim before, hence she doesn't wanna let up now. Let her raise the funds on her own doing whatever & let her go, God will understand.

you like obsessive pple... Hmmm

Bro shebi na only bible, dont worry God is merciful. you are too weak dude,see how u dey create thread ontop geh matter. though i've been there,i knw how it feels. you need to work on ur personality, "yes" na yes, "no" na no. alot of girls out there,wey go treat u right. if a geh bil me i wont gv her,but if she no sabi i dey spoil her. dont take oath with women again oh,thats too childlish.

Give The Money To Your Mumsie, She Will So Much Appreciate It..



My 1cent

[/color] Op, isnor everybody da Lyk reading long epistle na. summary pls

ZarZar:
Lol, your story is sick but hot. IDK why I love obsessive people but I do. Anyway...

Don't give her the money. Why can't she live within her means? It's obvious she can't afford to be on her own but seems intent to turn beggar so she can stunt to her little friends & social media fans. If you give her the money, then you'll be feeding her entitlement issues. Let her turn tricks with other men & break a little sweat if she needs the money so badly. I have a feeling you've bent to her every whim before, hence she doesn't wanna let up now. Let her raise the funds on her own doing whatever & let her go, God will understand.

She is a banker who Recently got transfered to a differnt state and puts up with a friends family... According to her, the family is becoming hostile therefore reason she wishes to find an accommodation..
But I told her to hang on a little longer...

Instead she applied for loan from her branch and was granted but the money aint still enough

SorftWerk:
you like obsessive pple... Hmmm

I'm the go all out type of person lol. If love is not all-consuming, feverish & sick, it just doesn't feel right. Real talk.

@Enshi You used Psalm for the oath?

**For the love of Mike** so people still dey do dis oath things? Lolz!


Don't ever think of giving her any money, You are not her spouse yet! the worst part of it, is that ,you have explained things to her, to the extent of coming over to see her!!! Mehn!! its a do biko!!


Move on with your life jare, and next time, don't ever think of engaging yourself in any useless oath.....abi na you sign her guarantor's form? imagine

Nma27:
Are u serious? What kinda toxic relationship are u in? Abeg forget about oath, our politicians swear with d bible everyday. That ur gf is mean and heartless to refused seeing u. Stick to your guns and don't touch the money.

I was just afraid you would see this... If i had my way wont have allowed you see it...

Thanks sexy... I wasnt expecting less from you.. What about what we talked about

ZarZar:


I'm the go all out type of person lol. If love is not all-consuming, feverish & sick, it just doesn't feel right. Real talk.

i hope you can handle it when it gets too much though...

Zita55:
**For the love of Mike** so people still dey do dis oath things? Lolz!


Don't ever think of giving her any money, You are not her spouse yet! the worst part of it, is that ,you have explained things to her, to the extent of coming over to see her!!! Mehn!! its a do biko!!


Move on with your life jare, and next time, don't ever think of engaging yourself in any useless oath.....abi na you sign her guarantor's form? imagine

na love

enshi:


She is a banker who Recently got transfered to a differnt state and puts up with a friends family... According to her, the family is becoming hostile therefore reason she wishes to find an accommodation..
But I told her to hang on a little longer...

Instead she applied for loan from her branch and was granted but the money aint still enough

OK. Doesn't she have parents? Better still, rent something smaller & cheaper, like those I face you, you face me type places. It's not by force to live large when you can't afford it. There are so many other options like staying in a commune while she saves for the deposit, lease & rent money.