ZarZar:


Go ahead.

SorftWerk:
are you a member of the plurim group

SorftWerk:
are you a member of the plurim group

ZarZar:
Lol, your story is sick but hot. IDK why I love obsessive people but I do. Anyway...

Don't give her the money. Why can't she live within her means? It's obvious she can't afford to be on her own but seems intent to turn beggar so she can stunt to her little friends & social media fans. If you give her the money, then you'll be feeding her entitlement issues. Let her turn tricks with other men & break a little sweat if she needs the money so badly. I have a feeling you've bent to her every whim before, hence she doesn't wanna let up now. Let her raise the funds on her own doing whatever & let her go, God will understand.

BUTCHCASSIDY:




She is a memeber. Zarzar is a staunch member

Aderola15:


Izznor what you think :X

ZarZar:


I'm the go all out type of person lol. If love is not all-consuming, feverish & sick, it just doesn't feel right. Real talk.

Freewoman:
You swear with bible abi?, na mad you dey go so, beta repent, now, now, ok, see, find out why she require to change her apartment, she can't be homeless while you are saving the money for something so important according to your explanation, accommodation is important too, if the change of apartment is as a result of a quit notice from the property owner, please help her secure shelter first, if not, you may be right to save your money, please note that homeless girls do anything to survive , yes, anything, so deal with today and leave tomorrow to take care of itself



Wat an advice!!...sister well done ooo..

Seanjay:




i like that also, thats why i call me Ex every time and go to her house unannounced cause shes always on my mind but she doesnt like it and thats why she broke up with me, imagine she complaining that am calling her too much.. i don suffer all because of love..

BUTCHCASSIDY:




She is a memeber. Zarzar is a staunch member

ZarZar:


Never!

kennygee:


Since both of you are not cheating, you don't have anything to worry about.

If you still love her, you should try to work it out. It takes too tho.

If you know any man she respects, maybe an elder brother or an uncle or a pastor of hers. Someone she listens to, talk to them about the issue you're having.

Your gf isn't mature yet to handle financial matters and she's still bent on having her way, relationships don't work that way.

The fact that she can go to the extreme of letting you travel all the way to see her, yet she refused to answer ur call and let u travel back without seeing you is very scary.

She needs a lot of maturity.

Who still make oaths in this century sha?

SorftWerk:
how'd you know that bro?

ZarZar:


What? No, I roll solo. I don't do cliques. Why?

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Its a secret

enshi:
Some days ago i sought help concerning my gf who is a Social media freak.. Especially with posting slaying pics.

We actually got over the misunderstanding and tried to move on but it was after then that the unthinkable happened.. . She needed to move to a new apartment and therefore wanted me to suport her in raising some money...

She is aware i have some money in my account which was meant for something by next month but surprisingly she asked Me to help her from the money..

I tried giving her reasons why i shouldnt risk taking out money from the account but she refused to understand..

Recall that we stay in differnt states?? So i traveled to her state so as to explain things face to face but to my surprise she refused to see me though she earlier warned me not to try coming cos she would intentionally avoid seeing me but i took the risk just to see how mean she could get..

After waiting for hours and she didnt show up, i returned back to my state and yet i tried to fix things but this time she said things will go her way, and she mated out some rules to me...

These rules are evidently pointing out that she wants to start touring the state with her friends.. And believe me she will surely cheat..

We fell out on phone that sunday night and since then i have blocked her on my fb, whatsapp, and even deleted her number. She noticed it and sent me a text telling me that i was mean and heartless..

Since sunday she has been calling me but cos her number is barred on true caller i only see it as missed calls..

I really dont know if she wants us to make up or she is calling for the money..

The worst is we had an oath with the bible to stay fidel with each other and sincerely i think she had kept to the oath until now and like wise have i...

Pls what do i do cos i am not ready to touch the money meant for something serious and i cant continue with her based on the rules she gave then lastly we are on oath..

My nigga move ahead now that you have the time and energy to do so. You have seen the light already, don't be blinded by love.

Don't call anyone to try and talk to her, she won't change. She will only pretend to and worse things will happen again. She is manipulating you my man. She knows you love her so much, in fact the mere fact that you traveled inter state is a fact that you're deep down blinded by love and it has made you weak.

I'll advise you to start detaching yourself from her gradually. It's definitely gonna be hard but it's the best for you trust me.

I also won't be surprised if you dump my advise In the trash can where you think it belongs. But trust me brother you'll pick it back up.

Finally just know your girl has another nigga elsewhere, I can bet my balls on this. You're just her helper and the one she runs to when she needs help.

Save yourself from a bigger heartbreak. Only fools take the same advise twice.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Liar

SorftWerk:
youre part too I guess

SorftWerk:
youre part too I guess

ZarZar:


Lol, stop lying.

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Maybe

kennygee:
Rookie move.

kennygee:
Rookie move.

Freewoman:
You swear with bible abi?, na mad you dey go so, beta repent, now, now, ok, see, find out why she require to change her apartment, she can't be homeless while you are saving the money for something so important according to your explanation, accommodation is important too, if the change of apartment is as a result of a quit notice from the property owner, please help her secure shelter first, if not, you may be right to save your money, please note that homeless girls do anything to survive , yes, anything, so deal with today and leave tomorrow to take care of itself

SorftWerk:
lotta pple think you are...

BUTCHCASSIDY:

Whose lying

SorftWerk:
i see... Wow!

Aderola15:


Chisos

MummyYo and uncle Bra must hear this.