AbdelKabir:


Is this how u gonna continue? ALLAAH SAYS;

Oh ye who have claimed to believe, fear Allaah and say correct/good statements...

leave this guy abeg...

Assalamu alaikum,

Akhi pls read this guys comments you will understand why I am harsh with this aduwul lah.

Btw i enjoyed your post about how to treat ahlul bid'ah

Jazakallah Khair

Eno38151:


Ayyuhal ikhwa you have heard what this interloping heathen has said about Islam, it is time you drive this fool away from this post.

Idiot!

Islam must be opened up for criticism. Muslims must tolerate criticism. Good Muslims MUST step up and save their religion from emotional extremist who use online fora to recruit foot soldiers for terrorists.

I am a friend of Muslims who do not insult their wives, who train their children, who weigh their pockets before marrying 4 wives. We must understand that these emotionally unstable extremist breed children they cant train and they end up as terrorists.

Good muslims MUST join Sanusi is teaching Muslims tolerance and the need to understand that Boko is Not Haram.

As for this emotional tadpole, his place is not in Islam, he is a potential terrorist, a ticking time-bomb that needs to be arrested and rehabilitated.

Sick mind.

As-salaamu aleiki my sister in islam, I see no reason why you should divorce your husband because as a muslim, no one is promised 100% smooth life and this is part of those tests that would come our ways. Remember that getting married to as many as four wives by muslim is his religious obligation or are you trying to say that you can allow your husband to be having extra marital affairs rather than bringing her home provided his pocket supports it.
According to an authentic hadith, women are the majority inhabitants of hell fire not for a reason but jealousy like this is one of the many criteria and also remember that the most detested halal in the presence of Allah(swt) is divorce.
I hereby employ you to exercise patience because you never can tell what you may encounter in another man's house, probably a matrimonial house.

Eno38151:


I already told you who to talk to ooh,

Are you tired, Mr. Jihadist ? Muslims need to warn you to stop insulting women. Our women are Nigerians firstly before being Muslims. Any attempt to insult Nigerian women again under the guise of Islam will NOT be tolerated, not by me, not by good muslims and not even by Mohammed (SAW).

Peace Be Unto You.

Eno38151:


Ask them whether they are Muslims first or Nigerians 1st and they will tell you, foolish heathen!

You are truly a jihadists. If you are truly educated, you will know that Nigeria is a secular State as enshrined in the Nigerian constitution. Any attempt to subjugate our women with intention of marrying 4 of them when you can hardly feed, and abuse them due to your emotional instability will meet with the constitutional law. If you are a trainee jihadist, sign out of nairaland. This Nairaland was launched by a non-biased, non-religious gentleman who gives you an avenue to show case your religion to others yet you preach jihad-ism. This MUST end.

Today, will determine whether we will all watch you abuse our women, raise kids you cant train and insult others who try to protect our women from unstable minds like you.

Stop hiding under cover of Islam. Islam is a religion of Peace. You are in the wrong religion and you must be stopped from ruining Islam.

You are not a muslim, you are a terrorist in the making.

You MUST stop insulting Muslim women.

Eno38151:


Assalamu alaikum,

Akhi pls read this guys comments you will understand why I am harsh with this aduwul lah.

I actually read it, but as you can see, this "discussion" is not bringing any benefit, rather its dragging to say inappropriate things..... Be calm, calmness does not enter a thing except it rectifies it, the strong one is he who can restrain his anger, these are the teachings of rosoolullaah...

Btw i enjoyed your post about how to treat ahlul bid'ah

Jazakallah Khair

Wa ant fa jazakallaah khayra

AbdelKabir:


I actually read it, but as you can see, this "discussion" is not bringing any benefit, rather its dragging to say inappropriate things..... Be calm, calmness does not enter a thing except it rectifies it, the strong one is he who can restrain his anger, these are the teachings of rosoolullaah...



Wa ant fa jazakallaah khayra

Noted akhi, maassalam

Eno38151:


Noted akhi, maassalam

Baarakallaah feek

I must apologize to all good muslims, who understand the need for tolerance. And I want to admonish you Muslim women, to understand that not all men are sane, when they abuse you in the name of Allah, rise up and meet with the local Imam and let these sick minds who call themselves men be warned. If the Imams are biased, you should meet the local police and have these sick minds remanded in Prison.

I have wonderful Muslim friends that love and respect their wives. But if a Muslim man insults you in the name of Allah and his Messenger, Prophet Mohammed(SAW), seek counseling and have them reported to the authorities. Send me an email if you are threatened and I will make sure such sick minds go to jail. My email is on the signature.

And good Muslims should empower these women who are constantly abused by these sick minds, you good muslims should always admonish your fellow men to be good husbands and fathers.

Peace Unto You.

I am done here/

Bye for now.

Eno38151:

By the way "Eno" sounds like an efik name short for "Enobong". Are you efik?

AbdelKabir:


By the way "Eno" sounds like an efik name short for "Enobong". Are you efik?

Nah just a random online name,

انا فلّاته

AbdelKabir:


There is no proof Allaah hates divorce, the hadeeth you relied on is not reliable..so that part I had to cancel out...

Ok, so youre saying Allah loves divorce?

Frolic:
Ok, so youre saying Allah loves divorce?

What I understood from his statement is that the hadith isn't reliable. Hence, it cannot be used as evidence. I didn't get any more meaning to his statement.

snapscore:


What I understood from jis statement is that the hadith isn't reliable. Hence, it cannot be used as evidence. I didn't get any more meaning to his statement.

Oh, that one was talking booshit dear. The measures Allah has dictated to be followed in the Holy Qur'an, how stringent and time consuming they are, for someone who can reason implies Allah is not at full par with it. I mean, having to wait for 4 months to cool off or thereabout before divorce, having to appoint an arbitrator, the divorced woman having to go on an interim period etc point to the singular direction Allah doesn't like it if hate is too grand a qualifier.

daretodiffer:
I am not against polygamy....You would know if you opened your eyes widely and read carefully instead of pressing the quote button without a second thought. I hope you are not considering marriage or even polygamy anytime soon.

My big bad for inferring wrongly and you're welcome to call me names and see me as immature for marriage . Thank you and God bless!

sarahade:

My brother call it whatever you like but we know say woman sabi hold body how do i know this I'm a woman.
As for aja adugbo even a married woman can be ajaadugbo(loose) dear.
Its not better to be suffering and smiling dear .
Why can't men take being with one partner with good faith and be patient with her. Hypocrites!!!
Every woman deserve to be happy.

It's funny that there is a declaration of Islamic fidelity before one can speak. Nonetheless in order to speak it might be necessary to lie to defeat silence.

I think you misconstrue the intent of the OP. Islam probably created a voice for a wife within a polygamous union. The authorities, Islamic, contemplate a disagreement of a wife with a polygamous arrangement so one ought to explore the options given to the woman

sarahade:

It will go on as long as women keep listening to men instead of reading the quran.
Atleast we can read the quran ourselves now and we have seen how men have made their words the words of Allah.
And she cannot chill until our men start acting like father s.

I can't understand a damn thing from this post young lady. Can you pls drink coffee, calm down, then try to come again?

Billyonaire:


Islam must be opened up for criticism. Muslims must tolerate criticism. Good Muslims MUST step up and save their religion from emotional extremist who use online fora to recruit foot soldiers for terrorists.

I am a friend of Muslims who do not insult their wives, who train their children, who weigh their pockets before marrying 4 wives. We must understand that these emotionally unstable extremist breed children they cant train and they end up as terrorists.

Good muslims MUST join Sanusi is teaching Muslims tolerance and the need to understand that Boko is Not Haram.

As for this emotional tadpole, his place is not in Islam, he is a potential terrorist, a ticking time-bomb that needs to be arrested and rehabilitated.

Sick mind.

What authority defines a good Muslim?

Kay17:


What authority defines a good Muslim?

A good muslim is any human that believes in the teachings of Prophet Mohammed but allows his rational mind to evaluate the hostile dogma and ignore such volatility.

my post is not for dull people.

Frolic:
I can't understand a damn thing from this post young lady. Can you pls drink coffee, calm down, then try to come again?

Kay17:


It's funny that there is a declaration of Islamic fidelity before one can speak. Nonetheless in order to speak it might be necessary to lie to defeat silence.

I think you misconstrue the intent of the OP. Islam probably created a voice for a wife within a polygamous union. The authorities, Islamic, contemplate a disagreement of a wife with a polygamous arrangement so one ought to explore the options given to the woman

Please don't quote me

sarahade:
my post is not for dull people.

I am just getting aware of that. Thank u and God bless

Sissie:


A man can be just. He won't be able to love them equally, however, he can be just. Many men are, I do not know about your society.
@bolded that's just hilarious and untrue.

I do not know your society but there is a problem with the general accession about the mothers hating polygamy, I have met women who like polygamy and prefer it, not everyone wants to play wife every day and others who don't mind it, however, there are those who hate it. the problem isn't with polygamy but the people in it. just the same way we have terrible abusive monogamous homes.

You said what did Allah promise them and answered nothing, there is reward in a well-done polygamy you know. Do you think a man who married
a divorced woman with kids as a second wife and takes the kids won't be rewarded? or a widow?

What is being just if not to love us equally. And I know that a man that one woman cannot satisfy 100 will never satisfy him they will still have gfs because the problem is not with the woman but the man.

sarahade:


What is being just if not to love us equally. And I know that a man that one woman cannot satisfy 100 will never satisfy him they will still have gfs because the problem is not with the woman but the man.

don't be judgemental because d number of women is higher Dan dat of a man if every man should marry one wife Wat about d other women's. who is going to marry them?


Remember Allah knows what we don't know, he's our creator.

Billyonaire:


Religion is not the basis of marriage. Supremacy of religion above love is a disaster. If you have no love for your husband any longer, then by all means, pack your bag and move out. If Islam permits a man to marry 4 wives, then wives should be permitted to have 4 husbands.

Religion should not be an instrument of bias and inequality. Times have changed. Religion shouldnt be an instrument of Masculine control.

if men are allowed to have 4 wives, women should also be allowed to have 4 husband. this dumbo is so stupid I almost cried reading this crap.
really who did this to you? women having 4 husband who is the child ascribed to out of the four husbands. Allahul mustaan

drmuri:

if men are allowed to have 4 wives, women should also be allowed to have 4 husband. this dumbo is so stupid I almost cried reading this crap.
really who did this to you? women having 4 husband who is the child ascribed to out of the four husbands. Allahul mustaan

Why would you not cry ? You are too emotional to be called a real man. You want 4 wives when you can not even manage something as simple as emotion.

What baffles me is how these emotionally immature entities treat the women they call wives. Forcing them to wear black cloaks around the city like traditional masquerades while they move around with Arabian perfumes that smell deeper than native doctors Alabasta Oils.

Islam has so much been bastardized by these ignorant folks. One wonders if these fellows actually attended real Universities instead of sitting on mats with jumper trousers reciting mumbo jumbos and shaking their heads like village He-goats.

hhhahahahahahaah

drmuri:

if men are allowed to have 4 wives, women should also be allowed to have 4 husband. this dumbo is so stupid I almost cried reading this crap.
really who did this to you? women having 4 husband who is the child ascribed to out of the four husbands. Allahul mustaan

DNA test will be carried out.

And beside in polyandry men don't have problem with who owns the child

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