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Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:33am On Apr 18, 2017 |
ab11baddo: Lol..ok |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:35am On Apr 18, 2017 |
henryhemon: lies u read on net!.. |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ugosample(m): 12:36am On Apr 18, 2017 |
AreaFada2: It depends really..... There are many intra tribal marriages that hit the rock too, especially Yoruba to Yoruba marriage. The bottom line is that a couple that is not ready to put in the work and compromise will lose his or her marriage, regardless of which tribe or race the person marries from. And it's worse in Nigeria tho because of black man reasoning 6 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by henryhemon(m): 12:37am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Suit yourself. 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ugosample(m): 12:38am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Na wa.... I am talking based on what I saw na it was not all of my neighbours back then doing side job, that is why I said some Na you sabi sha What you believe changes nothing |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 12:39am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Honestly, any man that cannot make his family understand that he has the right to marry anyone he loves and has chosen to marry is still immature and not ready for marriage. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Kellibae(f): 12:41am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Ugosample: Yea bye!. |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by jiinxed: 12:49am On Apr 18, 2017 |
afroxyz: No one cares about your marriage, it does not change the status quo in any way. 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Critically: 1:02am On Apr 18, 2017 |
AreaFada2:biased |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Hannysmilez(f): 1:12am On Apr 18, 2017 |
12inches1:You think African mothers want to hear that one. After they 'carried you for nine months'. 5 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Critically: 1:18am On Apr 18, 2017 |
12inches1:you nailed it 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Hannysmilez(f): 1:21am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Personally,I wouldn't marry anyone my fam don't consent to. Its hard but I love them like that. I also wouldn't marry a man if his fam members don't like me. It isnor by force. I cannot come and die. I don't believe in 'coping' or 'managing','one day,they will change'. Thirdly,we're Africans;when you marry someone(esp as a lady),you marry his family and culture and traditions too. For this reason,I think it is best if you marry into a culture you totally understand and appreciate. So they won't pull a 'dazz how we do in our place' on you. 9 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Critically: 1:24am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Hannysmilez:and you survived by their power? Any mother that plays this card is not grateful to God. The fist step to independence is de-mystifying and de-deifying parents.(I hope my english is correct) 1 Like |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by vigasimple(m): 1:34am On Apr 18, 2017 |
1Rebel: This, unfortunately was what the then Saudana of Sokoto Sir. Ahmadu Bello said about the Igbo' s way back in the 60's . BTW that video is still on the youtube. In terms of tribal problem in this country, we all have make some not too good contributions. 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by tealaw(m): 2:42am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Igbos are always after everythg scatter, scatter. 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by NaijaBinaryKing: 2:52am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Fresia01:Follow your heart dear, as long as you are sure of his love for you. I am Yoruba, but married to an Akwaibom woman. I have never for one day regretted getting married to her. 9 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Ndipe(m): 3:25am On Apr 18, 2017 |
To each his/her own. |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by fratermathy(m): 3:27am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Your use of language is quite appalling for someone with high tribalistic standards! Even tribalistic men want women who can teach their children how to communicate well, offline or online. I suggest you leave this issue of marriage and work on yourself for a while. It may do you some good. @thread: I'm a proud Urhobo man and in a relationship with an Igbo lady. She and her family are totally devoid of these tribalistic bunkum I'm seeing on this thread! I guess upbringing and exposure matters a lot. So many people have never left their villages and enclaves. They are blinded by tribalism and propaganda against other tribes without realising that the things they complain of are common to all humans, across ethnic barriers! Tell me of an Urhobo cheater and I'll tell you thrice of Yoruba/Igbo/Hausa cheaters! Point being that cheaters and bad spouses exist everywhere. In this modern society, we should be concerned with love, understanding, homely virtues and every other thing that makes a good spouse. Your ethnic group/family won't be the ones in the house with you. You alone can tell what's best for you. 19 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Revolva(m): 4:37am On Apr 18, 2017 |
1Rebel: shame on you........ 6 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by 9ja4show: 5:21am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Any educated Nigerian still thinking of what tribe not to marry and to marry should kindly return his certificate back to his school and apologize to his/her family for wasting their resources they spent in school 9 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by jessica042: 5:34am On Apr 18, 2017 |
If you get a good wife/husband, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. hmmmm...dats deep and so true 3 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by omolayomi06: 5:48am On Apr 18, 2017 |
1Rebel:I know this common with you IBO's, you will never allow your daughters marry from another tribe most especially Yoruba's but you will come to yoruba girls with your Ogun owo to marry them.... I don't blame you any way na because of some stupid Yoruba girls that can do anything because of money,.. 3 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 5:57am On Apr 18, 2017 |
dumo1: Naaaaaaaa. This is not the days of Romeo and Juliet bro. These days, Romeo is hustling more than usual. He gat little time for a DOA r/shp 3 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 6:01am On Apr 18, 2017 |
omolayomi06: He has successfully drawn you to the mud. Don't go any further. Wash yourself and go home in peace. God bless you 5 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Nobody: 6:07am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by ElsonMorali: 6:39am On Apr 18, 2017 |
1Rebel: Lolest. They asked all animals with horns to queue up, snail is also showing face. I wonder who the unfortunate female who would marry you will be. Please send my heartfelt condolences to her already. Just imagine marrying your daughter to a man, and after a year or so, She has to start looking for another husband because the one She married is stuck in a jail in Malaysia awaiting the hangman's noose. Abegi comot hia. Maybe that's why your women are so eager to have their kids' genes mixed with some other "dirty oily cowardly genes". 12 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by 989900: 6:41am On Apr 18, 2017 |
I have dated women from different tribes, countries, races, and of different colours, the qualities I want in a woman remain constant irrespective of where they come from. When someone gets you, your communication becomes more fluid than your own kin of same tongue. How many people of same tribe -- hell, even cousins get divorced in less than 3 years of marriage, or live through the hell they label, 'marriage'? When our kinsmen behave badly, we tend to gloss over it or even accept it or make excuses for them, but when people of other 'genre' do same, we wail "impale him, impale him". I refuse to allow my folks transfer their xenophobia borne out of myopia to me. Same folks that will gladly approve you of marrying from another race entirely (probably much older, uglier, no morals, background unknown) when there are material benefits involved. I pray y'all grow up and see the grand 'stoopidity' of subjectivity and prejudice. 10 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by ElsonMorali: 6:43am On Apr 18, 2017 |
1Rebel: Is there a female in this world who will marry this fool? Unless of course you are talking of marrying Arabian camels That's bestiality. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by codemaniacs: 6:45am On Apr 18, 2017 |
k 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by nkwuocha: 6:48am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Well, it depends. Not all tribes I can marry from.One of which is the Yoruba tribe. They don't value marriage and cheats alot. 4 Likes |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by Makz: 6:48am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Fresia01: Igbo kwenu! One Nigeria pls |
Re: The Dilemma Of Inter-tribal Marriage by ElsonMorali: 6:49am On Apr 18, 2017 |
Kellibae: Oh Yeah, is that why we have so much baby factories in the Southeast? Or are you a product of one? Have you forgotten so quickly what your dilector said about you guys being 99% ashy? Better get your facts right and ask around for who your dad is. 3 Likes |
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