Fkforyou:
First of all, access your self to find out if you are not been insecure. If you are not, then let her know you are not comfortable with closeness with your friend and be serious about it, if she wants to get defensive, don't lose your head and engage her in the fight, just be calm, firm and straight forward like a boss, she is going to mellow down if she loves you and try to clear the air.

Also, make sure you are very level headed and try to hear her out.

But if otherwise she trys as much as possible to pick up a fight with you, just give your self a break from her and focus more on your self because it seems you are losing yourself in the relationship already. (Just 3 months and you are already losing yourself).

That's what I do, anytime I'm beginning to lose my self in a relationship, I step back a little and focus more on myself.

Like I earlier stated, I hope you are not being insecure because if you are, you might end up ruining the relationship. My advice, take a chill pill and just enjoy your relationship, just trust her and keep your emotions in check.

phpfx:
Please, I'm dating this girl since about January. she loves me and I like her too. but the problem is she seem to be giving much attention to my 'not too close friend' whom I feel they've developed feelings for each other. it makes me feel im standing in the chance of something great. I recently stumbled upon his inbox and was wowed with the kind of chat history they had. but I know they aren't dating yet.

im thinking of a break up now cus I'm not sure my emotions can stand their friendship and plus I get so jealous at every slight thing.
but the other me seems to say I might lose something great.

pls drop your candid opinion.

tobianthony:
Hold on ...how come no one asked what was the content of the chats he saw between them

What where they talking about specifically ?

phpfx:


you know the kinda chat people who have on each other have..

I miss you..

you are handsome..you are beautiful..

I owe you a kiss..

and so on..



I was weak..

phpfx:


bro seriously I owe you a crate of Heineken..

this makes a lot of sense to me

I just graduated waiting for service.. but working tho..

what kills me is her everyday calls..messages et al.
but never shows we dating in public

osenidvdg:
Many question for u! Are u sure u are not the girlfriend snatcher if she has being ur friends girlfriend before u met her. Are u sure the guy is ur friend that u can not let him see u in romatic play with ur girlfriend so as to know she is urs.Are u the secret lover type that make her doubt ur love to some one with more confidence

jfleece:
Is ur friend good looking and hot Pls stay away from him... Everybody is attracted to diamonds, do u always play the role of a good guy Pls spice up ur personality with a little ruggedness... Do u f. U. C. K her like there's no tomorrow If u do not start now... Do u whisper gibberish into her ears often? If u do not learn it... Women loves craziness and despise boredom, they crave for new adventure.... Make ur relationship work.. I wouldn't want u to lose dis war....

phpfx:

pls say something

Dasuks:


Brody not sure how old you are but i can imagine you're still a bit young. You should tackle things head on, both internally and externally.
First rule: Maintain your self. Your preservation first. What is at stake here is whether you trust the woman. If you do not think so, then cut off. Also monitor your buddy. Is he hiding it from you ? As a man you never trust another with women, money or power. Dangerous terrain.
Second: Grow some extra thick balls. There's so many shawties out there( not that you should be an active casanova, I mean if you can why not, but then again...). Do not let another human take away your peace. Confront her/them/ whatever u deem appropriate and smart. Gotta act like a boss to get boss results. You're a grown ass dude, take charge and relax your mind. There's more important things waiting for you in the future.

SenatorAiyzik:
OP all these advises and u are still here?? Go and practice any of them

phpfx:

lmaooo..

I know what to do now..just weighing options

phpfx:
Please, I'm dating this girl since about January. she loves me and I like her too. but the problem is she seem to be giving much attention to my 'not too close friend' whom I feel they've developed feelings for each other. it makes me feel im standing in the chance of something great. I recently stumbled upon his inbox and was wowed with the kind of chat history they had. but I know they aren't dating yet.

im thinking of a break up now cus I'm not sure my emotions can stand their friendship and plus I get so jealous at every slight thing.
but the other me seems to say I might lose something great.

pls drop your candid opinion.

EniHolar:
Just 3 months into a relationship and Jealousy is playing with you

Why not talk to her? Hear what she has to say. Don't be rough on her and don't confront her as if you're sure she's cheating on you. Talk like a gentle man boy you pretend to be.

More importantly... don't allow any girl cause enmity between you and your dude.

#MyPointOfView

pweetychyka:
I 'll advice u to confront her!

Ask her wats between she n ur friend! If she wants to pick up a fyt about it, bro pls break up wit her! Ur relationship wit her is still very fresh n it's beta now dan later!

Young03:
Thats 3+ months now

if u have not fuccked her up to 50tyms since u started dating him, then ur d cause of ur problems

Bro, keep fuccking her from now on till the day she will pass the punai to ur friend

best solution

Duru009:

Final solution!!!

phpfx:
Please, I'm dating this girl since about January. she loves me and I like her too. but the problem is she seem to be giving much attention to my 'not too close friend' whom I feel they've developed feelings for each other. it makes me feel im standing in the chance of something great. I recently stumbled upon his inbox and was wowed with the kind of chat history they had. but I know they aren't dating yet.

im thinking of a break up now cus I'm not sure my emotions can stand their friendship and plus I get so jealous at every slight thing.
but the other me seems to say I might lose something great.

pls drop your candid opinion.

DeeTus:
You need to lash her, so she could be yours forever.

gremutch:
Ask her for flirting tips so you'll practice with her female friends. M sure she'll love that

pweetychyka:
I 'll advice u to confront her!

Ask her wats between she n ur friend! If she wants to pick up a fyt about it, bro pls break up wit her! Ur relationship wit her is still very fresh n it's beta now dan later!