Sleeping with multiple men is the best way to encourage someone to propose, according to a relationship expert.

Women should date with multiple men in the same period if they wish to settle down, a leading relationship coach has advised.

Monogamy is the model that many women follow in the bid to settle down and get married. However, women who remain faithful while dating are doing it all wrong, according to one expert.



The relationship expert argues that dating one man at a time means a woman has closed down all her options early on, which can often make her prematurely commit to a man who may not be the best fit for her in the long run.

“If you’re a single woman who’s serious about finding ‘The One,’ the best way to do it is to make sure you’re dating several men at once,” claimed Sami Wunder, author of Your Feminine Roadmap To His Commitment.

According to Sami, no woman should be exclusive with any man until he has proposed and there is a ring on her finger.

“Trust me, this method works,” the expert claims.

“Dating one man at a time means we close down all our options early on, which can often make us prematurely commit to a man who may not be the best fit for us in the long run,” she added.

For this reason, Sami recommends a type of dating called “rotational dating.”

This encourages women to see more than one man at the same time.

Sami said: “When you do this, you’re less likely to get too attached to any one of them quickly. This keeps you emotionally objective, and in a position to choose more wisely.

“When women are dating more than one man at once, they also appear to have a high-value status is the eyes of men.

“They instinctively know that they can’t take her for granted, or they’ll lose her to a more deserving candidate,” Sami said.

How to rotational date

Keep it casual: Rotational dating doesn’t mean you have to sleep with everyone. It simply means continuing to see other men for harmless cinema and lunch dates, till one man from your rotation majorly steps up and asks you for your full commitment.

Keep the faith: “In my personal experience, I attracted my husband while rotational dating,” Sami said; “and in the experience of my clients, a man who really wants you will move mountains to be with you, and will not be deterred by the fact that he’s got some competition.

“In fact, this slight competition might actually fire his desire to step up and claim you even more aggressively.”

Don’t entertain guilt: Sami said, “Remember that you’re willing to stop dating other men when one of them gives you his full commitment. So, until then, you have nothing to feel guilty about.”

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

wait wait wait


They are coming right now


Cheaters that will type gibberish

Babamide:
This won't work in Africa. The reason behind it is competition. Logically, a man would want to do everything in his power to get the woman and show superiority among other male folks, hence he would propose marriage. But we Nigerian men would just tag the lady olosho.

but you get brain oo

Babamide:
This won't work in Africa. The reason behind it is competition. Logically, a man would want to do everything in his power to get the woman and show superiority among other male folks, hence he would propose marriage. But we Nigerian men would just tag the lady olosho.

engrMikemd:

pls read the article b4 u conclude sire

thesicilian:
What else do you want to read again there?

engrMikemd:

don't judge a book by it cover

thesicilian:
Maybe. But even I that read the whole article still didn't see anything good in it.

engrMikemd:

why not

Xaos:
Actually, there is something sensible in this. I've know women who dated and stayed faithful to their men for almost 2 years but only be heartbroken and dumped at the end of the line. And there are also those that dated for less than 6 months and got married. So I think the idea is to talk to your partner and get a clear picture of where the relationship is heading off to so as not to waste anyone's time.

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

babyfaceafrica:
you must not sleep with all of them,but you can collect money from them all..nice narrative

kimbra:
Where did you see money there on what I said?. Must you broke NL guys, always bring money into everything?.

babyfaceafrica:
always harsh..simple discourse.. You turn to something else.. Noted

kimbra:
Lol, I am sorry if my tone was harsh. You NL guys are fond of bashing women over trivial things. You needn't mention collecting money 'cause some ladies don't go into relationships with the sole purpose of milking their boyfriends.

kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

babyfaceafrica:
ok

Halfpenny:


Wow! You are like the only person who gets it. It's nothing to do with sex but rather socialising. This is an old school mentality. My mother and aunties used to say a beautiful woman should date (chat to ) 30 and chooses 1.

It's not about being a slut or a gold digger blah blah but about being a woman of value! Now they want us to grow old behind one boyfriend who will eat and use up your beauty and then tell you 2, 4, 6, years later that actually you're not his type or that he wants to be alone blah blah and now you're stuck dealing with low self-esteem and other issues. I recommend this approach to any smart woman.