majekdom2:
Good.. one of the men is talking to 30 an prolly sleeping with 29 of them except you. If you are lucky to get married to that "one" he may still continue talking and talking to 29 of them. Tell me, how can you get to know "30" men so well and be convinced one is the right one. He is the right one simply because he proposes first... right?

No mind dem...

Some ladies have dated dozens of men at d same time. None of dem proposed

Some ladies dated only one or two and got engaged.

U cant force a guy 2 propose. Just pray for luck, or become a baby mama

alignacademy:


Yes, the "expert" suggests that he doesn't recommend sleeping with everyone.

But I think he is assuming humans are objective robots that cannot get entangled EMOTIONALLY.

For instance, let's say while the lady is playing "rotational dating", she starts having feelings for Dayo.

But alas Bro Kunle is the one who steps up with The Ring.

You expect her to AUTOMATICALLY switch off all her feelings for Dayo?

This just goes to show that we should always do our own thinking, no matter what the "experts" say.

bless you bro...
many don't know cases of women cheating in marriages are mainly done with their ex boyfriends or colleagues at work...

maybe thet should learn to walk around without pants...so that men can have easy access and propose to any one that can dance over his D more...or better still you can open your single ladies factory where men can come for shopping.... olosho seeking for young oloshos because she is about to retire ;Dmaybe thet should learn to walk around without pants...so that men can have easy access and propose to any one that can dance over his D more...or better still you can open your single ladies factory where men can come for shopping.... olosho seeking for young oloshos because she is about to retire

The relationship expert wants to kill the little chances these oloshos have of getting married.

Married men should up their game too. If your wife brings a used pu$$1 to her matrimonial home, cheat on her endlessly. A woman​ with a dilapidated pu$$1 shouldn't enjoy exclusivity of her partner.

Quinn22:
The op make sense because I've seen some women who will be committed to just 1 guy for 4-7 years and at the end of it all, he would just dump her like a hot potato. Then she will now have to start from scratch again when her time is running out. So it make sense.

have not seen why guys sacrifice everything for a girl and the girl dumps him?

kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

you understood the point there.

Quinn22:
The op make sense because I've seen some women who will be committed to just 1 guy for 4-7 years and at the end of it all, he would just dump her like a hot potato. Then she will now have to start from scratch again when her time is running out. So it make sense.

Aii.... But are you also up to your guy multiple "dating" at the same time?

But a guy can marry at age 70 while for a woman it will be too late

loswhite:
have not seen why guys sacrifice everything for a girl and the girl dumps him?

Well, wen a bird learns flying without perching, the hunter also learns shooting without missing.. Let's see who wins this game

Quinn22:
But a guy can marry at age 70 while for a woman it will be too late

it's what you have allowed for yourself... the society you live in. Leave the shores of Nigeria and see things differently.

A man has the upper hand when it comes to cases like divorce and etcetera.... but for a woman....her case is different.

majekdom2:
have you not seen divorce cases after 6 months of marriage. Let's be reasonable here. There is no particular principle to getting married and staying married other than knowing your spouse an praying for God's grace.

alignacademy:


Yes, the "expert" suggests that he doesn't recommend sleeping with everyone.

But I think he is assuming humans are objective robots that cannot get entangled EMOTIONALLY.

For instance, let's say while the lady is playing "rotational dating", she starts having feelings for Dayo.

But alas Bro Kunle is the one who steps up with The Ring.

You expect her to AUTOMATICALLY switch off all her feelings for Dayo?

This just goes to show that we should always do our own thinking, no matter what the "experts" say.

This!!!

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

diseases ke?

didn't you read where she said rotational dating doesn't mean you should sleep with those involved?

Why not? It's a free world

nameo:


Aii.... But are you also up to your guy multiple "dating" at the same time?

You said it all

Quinn22:
A man has the upper hand when it comes to cases like divorce and etcetera.... but for a woman....her case is different.

a man does not have any upper hand. As I said, it's the society you have found yourself. In most developed countries, the woman gets better in the divorce case... it keeps the men in checks. Back to the argument, so why do you women complain your spouse is cheating. If you can agree to dating multiple partners then you should be fine with having juinor wives.

Teespice:


diseases ke?

didn't you read where she said rotational dating doesn't mean you should sleep with those involved?

are you currently sleeping with your partner/s... do you use condoms at all times?

the expert is on point, most ladies become exclusive and don't even keep male friends when they start dating, if a guy wants you to be exclusive, let him put a ring on it,simple, and like the expert said,it doesn't mean you have to start fuckin around, it means keeping your options open
sadly this generation of men don't know what loyalty means, and it's time women look out for their best interest as well, most guys don't bank with fidelity, infact they prefer access, like the expert rightly said,having your options open will limit emotional attachment and help avoid getting your time wasted (speaking from experience)
And lastly, once a lady is 23, never you date a guy for more than two years without him showing signs of taking it to the next level, a guy that is ready doesn't need a decade to consult his ancestors to know if you are the one or not, this is my own red pill

majekdom2:
are you currently sleeping with your partner/s... do you use condoms at all times?

what has my post got to do with your question?

Teespice:


diseases ke?

didn't you read where she said rotational dating doesn't mean you should sleep with those involved?

this principle can only work if you are perhaps a virgin. How will you and your husband feel when he finds out you were sleeping with someone else whilst you told him no sex till marriage? Conscience!!!

I laff in ibibio, the worst advice ever heard. And runs girls with several relationship, how kpomo market?

Teespice:


what has my post got to do with your question?

My point is how many relationships in Nigeri are "No sex" relationships.... even the ones in churches. Stop living in fantasies... 80 percent of guys will have sex whilst dating.

erico2k2:

Simple answer ues.if a man can propose to a certified prostitute then you guess is as good as mine .

Dont tell me it is u dat proposed 2 a gal who slept with 15 men just last nite

The topic is about dating multiple men to get a marriage proposal not dating multiple men after marriage.

A man is free to double date or triple date as much as he wants but after marriage, all those things goes bye bye.

majekdom2:
a man does not have any upper hand. As I said, it's the society you have found yourself. In most developed countries, the woman gets better in the divorce case... it keeps the men in checks. Back to the argument, so why do you women complain your spouse is cheating. If you can agree to dating multiple partners then you should be fine with having juinor wives.

Quinn22:
But a guy can marry at age 70 while for a woman it will be too late

you make it sound like a game. Life is risk love is risk. Committing to one person is risk before or after marriage. The best advice is not to love not to marry stay alone and be safe no risk

majekdom2:
this principle can only work if you are perhaps a virgin. How will you and your husband feel when he finds out you were sleeping with someone else whilst you told him no sex till marriage? Conscience!!!

kai.

how hard is it to understand?

how does my post relate with this epistle you typed or are you trying to be funny?

majekdom2:
My point is how many relationships in Nigeri are "No sex" relationships.... even the ones in churches. Stop living in fantasies... 80 percent of guys will have sex whilst dating.

are you among the 80 percent?

What makes the expert think the 'rotating' partners will not dig each other ?

Most importantly,What makes the expertt think I'd want to stop 'rotating' after marriage?

Welcome to the year of open relationships felas, the more the merrier!
Raise ya glasses to that!!

It's all based on logistics

loswhite:
you make it sound like a game. Life is risk love is risk. Committing to one person is risk before or after marriage. The best advice is not to love not to marry stay alone and be safe no risk

Men sef should date multiple girls

so dating multiple men for marriage proposal is now job application abi? crappy talk

Quinn22:
The topic is about dating multiple men to get a marriage proposal not dating multiple men after marriage.

A man is free to double date or triple date as much as he wants but after marriage, all those things goes bye bye.

What makes you think it must stop after marriage?
It ain't no crime, remember?