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Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:07pm On May 01, 2017 |
solasoulmusic:sha learn not to pray amiss.I don talk my own |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:08pm On May 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:Learn to mind your business |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by jerrywill(m): 12:09pm On May 01, 2017 |
According one guy so... I pay your dowry, fulfill the needful, do traditional, go to church for pastor to pray/bless the union and wait for one anniversery to make it big Or do everything one day 3 Likes |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:09pm On May 01, 2017 |
Gaddafithe2nd: Awww thanks. But then Larry Burkett is my mentor. Plus Tim LaHaye so... |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:10pm On May 01, 2017 |
igedeboy:hmmm.. ur moniker.. |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:12pm On May 01, 2017 |
Precial419:when a marriage fails it's the woman If it's a big wedding it's the woman If it's a small wedding it's the woman If a woman has all girls and no boy its the woman If she has delayed conception it's the woman If she has mother in-law issues its the woman If she's beaten it's her fault If her husband cheats it's her fault Women hennn.they don turn igba ikole for marriage blamed for everything 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:13pm On May 01, 2017 |
solasoulmusic:on a public forum? Shut up and grow up clown I guess nairaland is your bedroom |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 12:13pm On May 01, 2017 |
Joavid:Have promised myself not to buy any asoebi till I will leave this mother earth. WTF is asoebi, is like imposing things on people, something they never budgeted for. I just pray I marry a wife that won't like party like me. 2 Likes |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by AlphaT1(m): 12:14pm On May 01, 2017 |
Lunagirl: My dear most guys want to really cut their cloths according to their sizes bt the ladies most times don't help matters. I personally wanted to do only dowry payment and then Sunday blessing in d church, bt d lady wouldn't accept that. 3 Likes |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:15pm On May 01, 2017 |
Precial419: |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Acidosis(m): 12:15pm On May 01, 2017 |
This thread is an eye opener, it will go a long way in saving a life, a home. For those planning to secure loans from friends and families, please have a rethink. It is not worth it. Invite only a few persons, it will save you a lot of stress, money and time. Set your own standard and don't allow yourself be moved or shaped by Instagram slay pictures and glamorous video. Some of those weddings were sponsored by the same people that ruined the destiny of this nation. Trying to be like a man that stashed over N13billion in Ikoyi with your 100k or 200k salary is tantamount to stupid!ty. Even if the couples are real and rich enough to afford all that glamour, they only constitute less than 0.5% of the actual number of people who get married on a daily basis. Set your own standard and priorities and stick with it. Do not jeopardize your finance and your future because of 200 Facebook likes and 300 Instagram likes. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by mysticgal(f): 12:16pm On May 01, 2017 |
Gaddafithe2nd:Dude,I may agree with you but guys are never serious, even if they are, they've got multiple women servicing their kongos .so why would I want to waste my time with such a person |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:16pm On May 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: My dear charity begins at home in your case e kpele For the rest of Nigeria can you see why we cannot progress because women who absolutely Have nothing to do with their time will come and make stupid comments maybe even a curse or two and then insult you when you ignore and you want to be dangotes mummy ? Or is that a fact Honestly for the last time Rain dey fall abeg |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Rukkydelta(f): 12:17pm On May 01, 2017 |
It's not a must to do Bridal shower Engagement party Pre wedding photo shoot shouldn't cos that much, it depends on the couple But you can take pic with your phone 2 Likes |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by mysticgal(f): 12:18pm On May 01, 2017 |
Acidosis:A person who borrows to wed doesn't have sense,I as a woman would even use such man as a puppet . Who knows he would borrow for his burial. 2 Likes |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:19pm On May 01, 2017 |
Acidosis:exactly my point These slay people on instagram are cousins of people like ibb,friends children of deziani,children of soludo etc They have what to fall back on after wedding, while those copying them will be paying debts after wedding 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by LARRYKING1(m): 12:20pm On May 01, 2017 |
These and lots more are what we get when we make the worldly life our priority. Some guys too don't date simple and easy going girls, but the extremely beautiful, heavily dressed and super hot girls unknown to some that the maintenance cost of such girls is very high talk more of the wedding ceremony. My opinion though! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Acidosis(m): 12:20pm On May 01, 2017 |
mysticgal: lmao |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by mysticgal(f): 12:21pm On May 01, 2017 |
Acidosis:I am serious oh 1 Like |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:21pm On May 01, 2017 |
mysticgal:exactly. It's like borrowing to pay a bigger debt I'm not against big weddings. If you can afford it fine but living to impress is stupidity because the people you're slaying for will not send you after the wedding |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:23pm On May 01, 2017 |
Raine80: Your words are always wise and don't always seem coming from a lady. Abeg no vex say I dey reason like this. Its hard to imagine a lady can call out & expose ladies like this. And call a spade, a spade Hahaha. As long as its not in Bella naija. Its not marriage for ladies. I fear that a lot of women on this forum would begin to dislike you. Well sha..... 1 Like |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 01, 2017 |
LARRYKING1: Maintenance cost of Olosho you mean? 1 Like |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:26pm On May 01, 2017 |
LARRYKING1:gbam.but you men are moved by what you see.you see glossy girl figure 8,pretty face,cute hair and you Will be running after her while leaving the one that has no painted nails or Brazilian hair.she only weaved didi shuku with her cut and sew skirt and blouse .what do you expect? Don't you know you'll be buying Peruvian hair for her and Italian necklace for the rest of your life as well as paying for aso ebi cloth to avoid insults from her and her family Such girls will never let you save lai lai If you don't continue spending on her excesses, she'll run to the next highest bidder because she knows men are rushing to have her 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by eyinjuege: 12:28pm On May 01, 2017 |
So its the ladies that are stopping the men from getting married again? Let us tell ourselves the truth, its not compulsory you marry a woman who is not on the same page as you are. Stop writing as though you are being forced by the woman into the union. Is it compulsory you use a photographer of 200K? Even the bride price, and bridal items. The men need to talk to themselves because I've never heard of a bride price been paid to the females in the family of the bride. It goes to the head of the family, possibly extended family who is usually a man. All those drinks, and yam, and all sorts you bring for bridal sturvs please ask the men in the family to change their traditions. We all know the power lies with the men to change their family traditions. Men need to talk to themselves, and the earlier you start taking responsibility the better. Op, you can start with the men in your family, and ask them to stop collecting bride price for your sisters and aunties in the family. You can do only the registry wedding if you want, just do something if you're interested in making your union official. I know women who did only registry wedding with their husbands, and that has been enough for them. I know some who did traditional after 16 years of been legally married, with 3 kids, and a lot of pepper. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by mysticgal(f): 12:29pm On May 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: And they go still chop your food? 1 Like |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:30pm On May 01, 2017 |
solasoulmusic:if rain dey fall nko? You don't know what your mates do when rain falls? They take bucket outside. Woman grow brains |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:30pm On May 01, 2017 |
mysticgal:before nko.bad Belle too will come |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:31pm On May 01, 2017 |
eyinjuege:take 5 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by Nobody: 12:32pm On May 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: I dey city sorry but wil love to one day sha make I know as my mates dey no be by force madam to engage person as Rain dey fall I ain't here for you... you wrote an epistle you would have never written to your own sister so forgive me if I blank you on that how many paragraphs of a negative view on what I said and your belle no bitter 1 Like |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by mysticgal(f): 12:32pm On May 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:I tire oh |
Re: Wedding!! The Ladies Are Holding The Guys Back by dangotesmummy: 12:34pm On May 01, 2017 |
cruchenuti:if you don't continue giving into their demands they'll start sleeping with the next highest bidder who's ready to spend on their indulgences. Such women won't encourage you to save or plan the future with you.it's always about my hair my shoes I want to go to Dubai I want to wear Prada gown, I want this I want that |
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