Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,622 members, 7,979,104 topics. Date: Friday, 18 October 2024 at 08:26 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? (48853 Views)
Drunk Man Sexually Harassed By A Lady. But See How Nigerias Are Reacting Online / Am I OK To Cut This Friendship Off Or Am I Over-reacting? *serious Answers Only* / Hey Folks! Is This Father Saying The Truth Or Is He Just Over Reacting? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply) (Go Down)
Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Padiimii: 1:14am On May 25, 2017 |
Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting. PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME 44 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by stambouli: 1:36am On May 25, 2017 |
Bro ,you don't need help on this one. It should be a straightforward easy decision to make.let her be a goner . she's obviously manipulating you and you are also acting naive. Man up bro 306 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 1:38am On May 25, 2017 |
My guy, let me be clear with you on this one your babe is not straight with you since day one. Na you long the whole thing because immediately you got to know she's chatting with lots of nigga online , na then you suppose don take am personal and ask her to stop or you go bounce. If she's into you, she would gradually cut them off and you would know. But instead you kept cooling like thermocool AC . The porn clips and you still lay low again! Who does that? And na your friend she dey ask for porn clips , she fit dey send to him sef make you no know. If i were you, the relationship won't make it up to 6mo, you know why because when your babe dey ask another nigga for porn clip she's a or an OLOSHO. When she see say you be baba cool she continues to chat with her online fuckmate and kept requesting for diiccck and god knows what more. That guy she asked if you know lately, if you check well she fit don bang that guy and asking just to see if she can cover her track. That babe just dey use you cool off after she don go warm up elsewhere. I always make my woman know when am uncomfortable with her online presence, she can't just be chatting and chatting endlessly and i go keep cool NEVER! I know her phone lock code but i always avoid checking her stuff instead i tell her what I don't want. Chikena 187 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Theyveedo(m): 1:39am On May 25, 2017 |
OP sleep dey my eye oooo Make day break first 28 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Padiimii: 1:53am On May 25, 2017 |
fuckerstard: TRUE im the thermocool guy but this babe was really pure when I met her that was the reason why I could not even be suspecting the whole olosho thing. And you know, the kind of accolades that society has given those kind of ladies. That was what really got me confused man. She was all crying that she loved me and making me feel bad I broke her heart. 10 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by yinkeys(m): 1:59am On May 25, 2017 |
3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Padiimii: 2:10am On May 25, 2017 |
stambouli:Thanks so much for helping out a brother. . Im naive actually because I dont do "player" thing and wont even become a close friend with a lady if I won't be dating her (as in; I have my boundaries so to say). I dont want someone making me feel I ve used and dumped her (as they quickly say) or I ve broken her heart. Although this s not my first relationship but I really love her like none.. Things are getting clearer now. Thanks again boss 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Padiimii: 2:13am On May 25, 2017 |
yinkeys:HMMM.... just checked your pic. would you DM me 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by yinkeys(m): 2:14am On May 25, 2017 |
The writing is on the wall, don't let love for her blind you. Either you choose to catch fun with her and nothing else attached OR you forget about her. 8 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by stambouli: 2:14am On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii:you should be less concerned about what people say.your peace of mind and sanity is the most important 28 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by yinkeys(m): 2:15am On May 25, 2017 |
good luck |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Terryindeed: 3:03am On May 25, 2017 |
Una wicked o, una just dey suggests breakup breakup every and everytime, you said it that's she's a good girl except this Fbk stuff, bro from Man to Man, every girl likes attention especially from someone they don't know, she enjoy the attention and making them like her the more is to play their games. Would you be happy if no guy toast your babe? Cmon chill jor. Have it at the back of your mind that she's yours, and your sef stop going through her Fbk unless you wan kill yourself. The best way to get over it is to discipline yourself. The most important is the kpekus n her loyalty to you. My papa say na when woman dey your house na that time she b your own, when she lives, na another person own. 60 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by casted81: 3:10am On May 25, 2017 |
op wat are u waiting for.. fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeee without even looking back. d way DAT gal go take brk ur hrt eh... it'll take d whole church of God with help from the police force to calm u down. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Lewaluv(f): 4:21am On May 25, 2017 |
You must be a fool. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by dingbang(m): 5:43am On May 25, 2017 |
Lewaluv easy.. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by dingbang(m): 5:44am On May 25, 2017 |
I know its difficult for you to bone the babe since she is giving you free fvck.. You gotta man up and dismiss whatever you have with that girl.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nerul(f): 5:49am On May 25, 2017 |
Op, warrayu stee waiting for? I mean why the hell would you stay with that kinda unfaithful someone? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by firstking01(m): 5:49am On May 25, 2017 |
I don't understand why nairalanders would always create another handle whenever they wanna seek help in their relationships...well, just break up with her for your own good...that's all i gotta say to you. 4 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by africandictator(m): 6:22am On May 25, 2017 |
in young m.a's voice if that is your chick then why she texting me, why she keep calling my phone speaking sexually, you call her stephanie I call her headphanie! I am sure some of those niggas! must have told her when you tired of your man! give me a call!.... 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by OLAJADON: 6:36am On May 25, 2017 |
she want to eat her cake and have it back. she want a stable boyfriend and won't stop flirting around, it start from somewhere now she is doing it online who knows who she will try it with when you guys marry maybe you boss at work and she will tell you the only relationship between them is work. no matter the advice we give you here, if you decide to go on with her thinking she will change it your life. my Yoruba people use to say this, nkan ti eyan ole gba ni olowo, talika loma tin ko I.e behaviour that someone cannot accept when rich it is from when poor he will start avoiding such act 10 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by R3B3L(m): 6:55am On May 25, 2017 |
Terryindeed:Wat level of stupidity.... 59 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Abortions: 6:57am On May 25, 2017 |
OP lemme tell u the spanking truth.....u are a perfect definition of a thermocool,a big thermocool....The sight of u alone fit make hot pure turn ice block....I just told u the truth 5 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Abortions: 7:00am On May 25, 2017 |
R3B3L:That Guy's stupidity has reached tertiary level 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by ednut1(m): 7:01am On May 25, 2017 |
Its crystal clear na u knw wat to do. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by daewoorazer(m): 7:09am On May 25, 2017 |
You my friend, you see, here in d zanga, we dont chase such chicks away, we just take our mind off them, continue d pretence of love and continue fvkcing them till God knows wen. Now do d above while u search for a loyal chick thank me later. #zanga 114 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Oyindidi(f): 7:15am On May 25, 2017 |
A long one |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by smardray(m): 7:23am On May 25, 2017 |
Op iffa discover u lay low for one more time... I will take it on myself to personally get rid of u... Get the hell outta that movie u call a relationship.. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Abortions: 7:26am On May 25, 2017 |
Nerul:Nerul wassup naw??hope u have taken ur breakfast??...if u haven't com lemme giv u breakfast am interested in breakfasting u this morning.. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Abortions: 7:28am On May 25, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Long Wat Oyindi nwamLong D?..jst curious!! |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Oyindidi(f): 7:32am On May 25, 2017 |
Abortions:Abortion, you greet me this morning? |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Abortions: 7:38am On May 25, 2017 |
Oyindidi:sorry ma'am I 4got my manners...Gudmornin! |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Oyindidi(f): 7:40am On May 25, 2017 |
Abortions:Morning, how was your night? I'm listening |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply)
Five Signs She Has A Crush On You / Girl Begged Her Boyfriend Money And Got This Mean Response / Missing Teens Ran From Home After Impregnating 13-year-old ─ Police (Pictured)
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 53 |