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Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by placeofallure(f): 11:30am On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: I perfectly understand the position you're in now, nobody likes to be taken for granted. It appears you're being played by this lady and all but what if you give her a second chance if she's remorseful and willing to change? Some girls like to experiment, they have low self esteem and kinda need endorsement from the number of likes they get on pics they upload. Maybe she's just playing around, but let her know that her philandering is causing you a lot of heartache. I like it when two people are genuinely in love like you said you love her like no other. People here will be quick to advise you to dump her but have they ever been in love? You shouldn't be stupid in love, No! Call her to order, if she doesn't change, off she goes! 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by reiddecuti: 11:34am On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: CONGRATULATIONS, Waiting for a bottle of champaign to celebrate it. Pls, don't WAIL OHHHHH. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by JerryTemi(f): 11:35am On May 25, 2017 |
Terry God bless you Amen. Bros poster, before you started the relationship you saw that side of her as a bad thing and you have been talking to her about it and she is finding it hard to stop please my knees on the ground call her attention again and this time do it like a do or die affair for her to stop it because you love her and her dignity as a woman to be there. instead of her requesting porn from those strangers because they have been exchanging the porn stuff please why don't you seat her down,talk to her like your lover,sister again,give it a try again,check if there are places you are not doing wella in the relationship and step up your game. please forgive her,I no how a woman feels if someone she loves breaks her heart,please love her,guide her she will change. we ladies may love 10 but guy e get person we no fit trade for anything.nobody is without sin and weakness.biko sorry 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 11:36am On May 25, 2017 |
op ur girlfriend is a hoe and there's nothing you can do about it. she's not used to staying with one guy so ex her asap b4 u lose your mind. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 11:38am On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii:bia op,this girl is just your girlfriend, she is not your wife!! Or have you paid her bride price? Are you engaged? Or you have married her.if all this you have not done so,then you don't have the right.to get angry.as long u never marry am she is free to do what the Bleep she wants.if u want to tie her down marry her.biko |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Odaveboy(m): 11:38am On May 25, 2017 |
guy.... show her your red card...... bounce if you so like the kitty.... enjoy it for the main time but I can assure you.... you are not the only one hitting that kitty ire ooooo |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Omotayor123(f): 11:41am On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii:What exactly is she doing with porn videos. and to think she asks guys for it when she can easily download it. And you are cool with it whether you leave her or not is your decision just read between the lines... but I strongly advice you to stop sneaking on your girlfriend. stop checking her socials or conversation. No kill your self with heart attack. plus, doing that can destroy any beautiful relationship. What you don't know won't kill you. 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Sterope(f): 11:41am On May 25, 2017 |
How can a submissive woman be into stuffs like this? Why would a submiove women fail to listen to her lord? Not so submissive, I guess |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 11:48am On May 25, 2017 |
I don't think you need anyone to tell you she's lying, scheming and unfaithful. Stick with her at your own peril. By the way, why's she asking and receiving porn clips? If she wants to watch porn, can't she download/stream for free online? 3 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Ethevera(m): 11:50am On May 25, 2017 |
That lady is not really sincer.maybe you still need a prophet to clear you on that,pls dont be fool by what you ve like beauty and love.Remember the day you marry the wrong person is the day you crack the floor for your grave 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Abudu2000(m): 11:55am On May 25, 2017 |
Na only dating boiz understand |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by darkckUSA: 12:01pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: Love is blind brother but please shine your eyes. You have a good heart and that can be a weakness... She's not the one for you. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by darkckUSA: 12:03pm On May 25, 2017 |
Omotayor123: Written by a lady. Lol! |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by biggie73(m): 12:03pm On May 25, 2017 |
If I were you, I would not have given her a second chance. Talk less of fifth chances. Thank God, you are not me. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by 1miccza: 12:04pm On May 25, 2017 |
Bros she's manipulating you, no case here |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Damseldammie(f): 12:04pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: pls LET HER GO AWAY WITH HER FOWL CRY because she is a deceit. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by sleeveless: 12:07pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii: From wat u said i guess ur gf shud be btw age 19-21. She is not matured enough to understand fully wat relationship entails, u have to b patient with her, she needs time to learn. She may nt b cheating on u |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by ncoolsome(m): 12:11pm On May 25, 2017 |
[quote author=Padiimii post=56850307]Firstly, I have to admit I created a new account to get this much needed help. Ok, So I met my girlfriend sometime last year and just recently we celebrated our 1 year anniversary as lovers. Truth be told, she is an amazing personality; submissive, loving, caring, intelligent and hardworking. Infact, she's got a large portion of attributes that any man would want in a woman. When we first met, I noticed really that she has alot of online friends whom she usually chat with as close friends (or maybe lovers sha). I kept cool thinking it ll just pass when things get serious between us. During this period she told me how she got close with one of those online guys that she requests porn clips from him. Fortunately or unfortunately, I know this guy ( he is my friend gan sef), I just allowed the matter lay low and warned her never to ask him or any other guy for such things as it reduces the respect any person has for the lady and she promised not to. This is because I dont want anyone disrespecting and disregarding her whenever she s been introduced to family and friends. Alas! I caught my babe, requesting porn video from another of her online friends (I don't know this guy tho..) Once more. She assured me that she just did it coz she hasn't seen this guy before so its safe to ask him, Unlike the previous guy that they do see. After this occurrence, I ve caught her flirting with friends on facebook messenger to the extent that they refer to her as 'my love' some even call her 'my wife'. More saddening is that some of them are mutual friends and are guys I really know. She claims they are the ones disturbing her and she has no feelings for anyone of them except me ; Her First love. Fast Forward to present day, we started having a bigger issue now which is about to bring the relationship to halt. Four days back while we were chatting she asked if I know any guy answering so so name. I check my friends list and answered NO. That question kept pondering my heart so I decided to log into her facebook account. (I Later got to know her password after I helped her change password once). I came to understand that the guy she just asked about and herself had just been friends and as usual, she is showing this guy green light and flirting seriously with him (someone that she's yet to see o and just met for that matter).. I decided to break the relationship. But surprisingly she kept reaffirming me that there s nothing between her and the guy that its just facebook friendly chatting. PLEASE ladies and matured people in the house. Is it really possible that she actually mean what she is saying? do ladies still really behave this way after which they are in a relationship with someone they claim to love Or maybe I am the one overeacting here? EDAKUN EPP ME what's her name of facebook??wld like to be her friend... |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by skylane: 12:13pm On May 25, 2017 |
Some girls sef are very stupid,what will it gain u to flirt with other guys online who u gain nothing from(bizness/money) and wreck ur relationship? If I discover such with my girl,hmmmm and gone cos there's no assurance she won't meet with any and not hav sex dereby defiling my glory. N respect,the moment I get a girl flirting stops cos I knw if she does dat I won't like it,so bro u better give her last warning or u walk away,she shud go n eat dem,if she wants porn(which is not gud especially 4 women)there are websites |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 12:15pm On May 25, 2017 |
Any partner making you have doubts about the relationship isn't worth dating or marrying. Just quit the relationship abeg 2 Likes |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by vanvino(m): 12:21pm On May 25, 2017 |
Terryindeed:are you serious with this advice? What is the happiness in another guy disturbing my girl if not the worry that she may fall for it & dont talk about Trust cus Trust is an orchid beautiful but delicate. Requiring ideal evironment in order for it to thrive without those condition, it dies. Did u reap the guy post? 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by bossrillboss: 12:22pm On May 25, 2017 |
abeg make una no vex o,ao dem dey take create thread nd dm for nairaland.am new here. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Bahddo(m): 12:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
Why must it be guys sending her? Can't she download her own porn since she loves it that much? Guy if I were you, I'd move ahead. I've been in this kind of relationship before and it's not worth the headache. Even if you catch her riding a guy, she'd still tell you how it's nothing serious and you're the one she loves. But let her see you smile at another girl just once. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Mavor: 12:24pm On May 25, 2017 |
Padiimii:All these kind mumu OP sef. Rain dey fall beat them, dem still dey ask person if rain dey fall. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Hardewarlee(m): 12:25pm On May 25, 2017 |
God bless you my bro . I have been expecting this word for so long on this thread no one talked about it . Once again God bless you daewoorazer: |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 12:28pm On May 25, 2017 |
Op she is just having online fun. Its nothing serious . relax , she's still yours . Don't listen to guys here screaming breakup . that's all they are good @. Supporting breakups and mocking your relationship by the side . |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 12:33pm On May 25, 2017 |
Bro, don't be naive... You're giving her so much attention men, what da heck... She's used to the attention lifestyle, especially from online followers, it's an ego thing... She may not be cheating now but soon she would... I'll advise that you focus on your life, unfollow her on facebook, ask her to change her password, stop priving into her life or inbox.. (it's what women do, not guys). let her have her space... A woman would only. Find u desirable if of course you appear desirable. To other women too... Maybe u shud focus on that, ... Instead of tracking her like gps 1 Like |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 12:34pm On May 25, 2017 |
Nerul: Madam are you truly faithful because seriously you are talking trash.go to hell and remain there forever na your own go worse pass. Mumu. Judging a lady that is better than you. |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by project55: 12:36pm On May 25, 2017 |
Terryindeed: |
Re: Am I Foolishly In Love Or Just Over-reacting? by Nobody: 12:36pm On May 25, 2017 |
Nerul: Madam are you truly faithful because seriously you are talking trash.go to hell and remain there forever na your own go worse pass.judging a lady that is better than you. |
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